Babies preconditioned to like formula milk?

[Guest guest]

Dear list members

One of our members has posted material in favor of babies getting

conditioned to health/ill-health in whole life, in womb itself.

 

New age babies appear to like processed food too early in life. here is

a case reported:

http://health.ayurveda/message/7909

[Guest guest]

Hello ---

Also to consider ---- as adults we have forgotten that wee, little ones are

fully present souls in a human body. They FEEL and react to everything in their

environment. When mother and/or father experience anything, but especially

significant change (ie., mother returning to work) the little one experiences it

as well. UNFORTUNATELY, babies are not able to process with the neocortex brain

and talk about it. They still experience it, react, and adjust, and the

neocortex of the brain IS developing around his or her experience.

 

In addition to the phsycial aspect of adjusting to formula at six months, baby

is also adjusting to mother's abence, including absence of her breast as safety

and nurturing. Baby will experience, without condolence or acknowledgement of

feelings, that mother is gone. Every baby will react differently. My own

daughter, at age six months, refused to make eye contact with me when I returned

home after a three week absence -- resulting in her weaning. She giggled, cooed,

and reached for her twelve year old brother. I had so regretted the decision to

be gone and was totally miserable for the entire time. I had driven 1800 miles

like a lunactic to see her and I was crushed that she would have nothing to do

with me. She would only acknowledge her brother -- when I got my face in hers

she would turn away from me and look for him and gabber and laugh with delight.

She was obviously pissed. Five years later during my intense training in

prenatal and birth therapy

(www.castellinotraining.com) she and I healed this break in our

attachment/relationship. What could have become a " funny family story " was

actually a profoundly significant wounding and an opportunity for healing.

 

The way in which a baby reacts to a situation will be a response that began in

response to the circumstances of conception and the soul's journey, then the

earliest experience of attachment to the uterine wall, then the attachment after

birth (always disrupted in modern birth), and in this case, likely, the

experience of first feedings --- was formula given during this sensitive period?

It's all cummulative. Emotional issues, like addictions to food begin in the

primal period. Choosing formula and baby food over the mother's breast --->

choose food and substances over human connection.

 

It may feel like the " bad news " , but the " good news " is that we can heal it if

we are conscious of it. We women no longer have to carry and hold guilt -- we

can transform it and our relationship with our babies. Babies will communicate

very directly and clearly when we are willing to observe and listen, and let

them have their opinion of the situations. They are very forgiving when they

know we are heart-felt in our apology -- and their brain forms NEW connections

around that experience.

 

Janel Martin-Miranda

www.InfantParentHealing.com

www.BabyKeeper.com/blogspot.com

www.ItstheBabysBirth.com -- coming soon

www.SafeBabyResolution.com

 

 

 

 

[Guest guest]

Hello ---

 

Also to consider ---- as adults we have forgotten that wee, little ones are

fully present souls in a human body. They FEEL and react to everything in their

environment. When mother and/or father experience anything, but especially

significant change (ie., mother returning to work) the little one experiences it

as well. UNFORTUNATELY, babies are not able to process with the neocortex brain

and talk about it. They still experience it, react, and adjust, and the

neocortex of the brain IS developing around his or her experience.

 

In addition to the phsycial aspect of adjusting to formula at six months, baby

is also adjusting to mother's abence, including absence of her breast as safety

and nurturing. Baby will experience, without condolence or acknowledgement of

feelings, that mother is gone. Every baby will react differently. My own

daughter, at age six months, refused to make eye contact with me when I returned

home after a three week absence -- resulting in her weaning. She giggled, cooed,

and reached for her twelve year old brother. I had so regretted the decision to

be gone and was totally miserable for the entire time. I had driven 1800 miles

like a lunactic to see her and I was crushed that she would have nothing to do

with me. She would only acknowledge her brother -- when I got my face in hers

she would turn away from me and look for him and gabber and laugh with delight.

She was obviously pissed. Five years later during my intense training in

prenatal and birth therapy

(www.castellinotraining.com) she and I healed this break in our

attachment/relationship. What could have become a " funny family story " was

actually a profoundly significant wounding and an opportunity for healing.

 

The way in which a baby reacts to a situation will be a response that began in

response to the circumstances of conception and the soul's journey, then the

earliest experience of attachment to the uterine wall, then the attachment after

birth (always disrupted in modern birth), and in this case, likely, the

experience of first feedings --- was formula given during this sensitive period?

It's all cummulative. Emotional issues, like addictions to food begin in the

primal period. Choosing formula and baby food over the mother's breast --->

choose food and substances over human connection.

 

It may feel like the " bad news " , but the " good news " is that we can heal it if

we are conscious of it. We women no longer have to carry and hold guilt -- we

can transform it and our relationship with our babies. Babies will communicate

very directly and clearly when we are willing to observe and listen, and let

them have their opinion of the situations. They are very forgiving when they

know we are heart-felt in our apology -- and their brain forms NEW connections

around that experience.

 

Janel Martin-Miranda

www.InfantParentHealing.com

www.BabyKeeper.com/blogspot.com

www.ItstheBabysBirth.com -- coming soon

www.SafeBabyResolution.com