Healing I lost my Boston

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Greetings, I lost my Boston terrier about 1 year ago, what a shock.

Things have been slow to better, it has been rought since the little

guy left us. We miss him. My thoughts are with you.

 

, " Debi C "

<dcole6 wrote:

>

> Hello, I'm new to the group but have to add my thoughs.

>

> I just lost my 14 year old Jack Russell female last Aug. We had

> gotten her another JRT to be her companion after we had lost her

pal

> two summers before.

>

> Abbott, the 'new' little man, was inconsolable. Even as she,

Race,

> began her illness he started chewing on his feet and acting very

> depressed. A friend of mine who's an Animal communicator called

me

> and said that he was afraid that when she died, we'd get rid of

him.

> Of course, that was the furtherest thing from or minds. We later

got

> him a new companion in a younger female JRT, and he's now king of

the

> hill. We still miss Race. He patrols her grave in the back yard,

> but now we have Bridgette to love.

>

> Please, sit down with your other dog and explain that Brownie went

to

> heaven (or whatever your beliefs are) and that you love him like

> Browning and he's safe and secure with you. He knows he was

second

> dog, and is probably very concerned about what happened to

Browning,

> what will happen to him and thatyou love him enough. Then include

> him in your grief. He will understand much better if you let him

know

> whats going on.

>

> They are, after all, little heartbeats at our feet.

>

> Huggz and much healing thoughts heading your way.

> Debi, Abbott, and Bridgette (the new Jrt girl on the block)

>

> , renaumoon@ wrote:

> >

> >

> > In a message dated 3/2/2007 9:56:22 PM Eastern Standard Time,

> > venus2578@ writes:

> >

> > the house seems so

> > lonely now even with our other dog. Brownie just had his own

> strong

> > personality and he always clicked with me most.

> >

> >

> > This is just a suggestion/observation. Connect with your other

dog

> to help

> > work through your grief. Believe it or not your other dog is

> feeling the lose

> > too. There will of course never be another Brownie but your

other

> dog is no

> > doubt grieving too. You can help each other with loving

support,

> affection and

> > attention.

> >

> > Back in July, my daughter lost her beloved cat Zeus after. She

also

> has

> > another cat Jerry. Zeus was her favorite and she does miss him

> terribly. Jerry

> > started acting differently once Zeus was gone. My daughter had

Zeus

> cremated and

> > created a little shrine to him. (I assisted by buying the

> purrrfect urn and

> > a small glass display case plus made her a charm bracelet). She

of

> course

> > found a picture she loves of him and framed that to put with

the

> shrine. Jerry

> > has been know to do thing with the photo (paw at it

occasionally

> and knock it

> > over I think). She recently moved so had to pack Zeus up for

the

> move. Jerry

> > apparently got rather upset when she packed Zeus.

> >

> > So, give the love to your other dog. No, it will never be the

same

> as

> > Brownie but it can be equally as rewarding.

> >

> > Blessings to your weekend all.

> > ReNau

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In a message dated 3/8/2007 8:48:35 AM Eastern Standard Time,

reikimarge13905 writes:

 

Greetings, I lost my Boston terrier about 1 year ago, what a shock.

Things have been slow to better, it has been rought since the little

guy left us. We miss him. My thoughts are with you.

 

thank you, I recently got brownie's ashes back and it was very hard, but that

night i had a dream of him and got to pet him and hug and kiss him again, and

he was very happy. It made me feel alot better, it's like he knew I was upset

and wanted to let me know he's happy and okay now.

cherie

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Loss is such a roller coaster ride and my heart is with you. Rose Quartz is for

grief specifically over loss. It helps to ease the pain and allows you to keep

focused on life while dealing with the death. Worn or held, it works immediately

and can be used as often as you wish. Lovelight to you all. -sela

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venus2578

Saturday, March 10, 2007 12:11 PM

Re: [CrystalHW] Healing I lost my Boston

 

 

 

In a message dated 3/8/2007 8:48:35 AM Eastern Standard Time,

reikimarge13905 writes:

 

Greetings, I lost my Boston terrier about 1 year ago, what a shock.

Things have been slow to better, it has been rought since the little

guy left us. We miss him. My thoughts are with you.

 

thank you, I recently got brownie's ashes back and it was very hard, but that

night i had a dream of him and got to pet him and hug and kiss him again, and

he was very happy. It made me feel alot better, it's like he knew I was upset

and wanted to let me know he's happy and okay now.

cherie

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In a message dated 3/11/2007 11:49:47 AM Eastern Daylight Time, sela

writes:

 

 

 

 

Loss is such a roller coaster ride and my heart is with you. Rose Quartz is

for grief specifically over loss. It helps to ease the pain and allows you to

keep focused on life while dealing with the death. Worn or held, it works

immediately and can be used as often as you wish. Lovelight to you all. -sela

-

 

 

 

 

thankyou that is one I plan on getting, now that I have a little money:)

cherie

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