healing for daughter and grandaughter.. autumn 27 and autumn marie 4

[Guest guest]

autumn marie((((4 years young)))) is my grand daughter.. her mom. my

daughter reenlisted into the us army.. she believed it was the only

way to get out of an abusive marriage..

she soon realized getting up at 4 sending autumn marie off to daycare

for 18 hours

((((big autumn. her mom..was doing the late shifts.. shes military

police)))) aday was really hard on autumn marie.. so i flew out and

brought autumn marie home.. in the mean while big autumn unit has

gotten called up for duty to do a one year tour in iraq.. she leaves

late may..

big autumn came to visit autumn marie for 21 days here my home..

((((they were separated for 5plus months)))) i can not tell you the

joy autumn marie has felt for those 21 days.. she missed her mom

sooooo much.. big autumn decided she needed to spend more time with

autumn marie. and autumn marie didn't want mom to leave.. it was

very teary.. very..i can not express the emotions everyone was

having...

they are back in colorado springs fort carson now.. big autumn will

deploy after may 20th.. the army will not give the exact date.. due

to it being a war...

i am going to fly out to them on may 14th.. i will stay with my

daughter.. keeping my granddaughter with mom as long as possible...

then i will drive my daughters car with autumn marie back to

pittsburgh.. 1400 miles

 

heres were the healing and prayers are needed..

my granddaughter is going to be a mess when the separation happens

again..

she will cry the trip home.. my heart is aching for this all.

 

please keep my daughter on the list Autumn Lynn (((27 years young)))

as she does her tour in iraq..end of may 08- end of may 09

her beautiful daughter needs her...

they need to be united back together when she is done with her tour..

she needs protection..she needs to come home mind body soul complete..

it is so hard for me to even write this...

i need to stay strong...

thank you all so much..

judith

love to you all and all you love

[Guest guest]

Judith, I've added you, your daughter, and your granddaughter to my healing and

prayer lists. By all means, put on your brave face for Autumn Marie if you have

to, but remember to be honest with yourself about your emotions at the same

time. Denying your emotions will only cause more stress and potential health

problems for you, and that won't be good for anyone. Plus, you don't want

Autumn Marie to think that Grandma's a robot who doesn't care. Surround her

with all the love you can, maybe take videos for Autumn Lynn while she's away,

so that she still feels included and can see what you two are up to. Have

Autumn Marie write letters or draw pictures for her Mom. I've got a lot of

family members who have served in the armed forces, and a lot of friends who are

currently serving, and they all say the same thing ... they miss the little

things while they're away. Whether it's the sound of a child's laugh, or the

first autumn leaf that falls in the yard at home.

 

Do what you can to make Aumtumn Marie feel that Mom's not that far away and

still loves her soooooo very much, and also to make Autumn Lynn feel like she's

not totally missing out on a year of her daughter's life. But most of all, know

that there are a lot of folks who understand what you're going through Judith,

and that you're not alone.

 

Blessed Be,

Jennifer

 

 

" Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we

are powerful beyond measure. " ~ Marianne Williamson ~

 

 

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