Guest guest Posted July 15, 2007 Report Share Posted July 15, 2007 Hello everyone.. I just wanted to thank all the woman who so caring and supportively emailed me when I joined this group and wanted to let them know that as of last Wednesday I have officially moved out, and am living for the first time in over 35 years in an abusive stress free enviornment!!! I am letting myself absorb the peace but have to admit I still feel strange about it and a bit scared. I know that alot of strength will be needed in the days ahead with all the legalities but I am heading in the right direction.. Your words and comfort and support here helped me gather the strength I needed to finally say " NO MORE " and I appreciate it so much.. Thank you all again.. Lainey Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 16, 2007 Report Share Posted July 16, 2007 Lainey! You're awesome! You shine! Give yourself a big hug from me.....and allow yourself time to discover your beauty. Some days will feel like a cans of worms, for sure. Other days will be joyful, peaceful, easy. You've got everything you need right where you are. Forces seen and unseen gather to support you day in and day out. Doing just a little bit everyday to move ever closer to your heart's goals is all that is ever asked of you (of me, too). I'm proud of you. I'm happy for you. And I'll continue to hold you in thought and in prayer. Namaste, Cathleen Springer , " Lainey " <Lainey513 wrote: > > Hello everyone.. > I just wanted to thank all the woman who so caring and supportively > emailed me when I joined this group and wanted to let them know that as > of last Wednesday I have officially moved out, and am living for the > first time in over 35 years in an abusive stress free enviornment!!! > I am letting myself absorb the peace but have to admit I still feel > strange about it and a bit scared. I know that alot of strength will be > needed in the days ahead with all the legalities but I am heading in > the right direction.. Your words and comfort and support here helped me > gather the strength I needed to finally say " NO MORE " and I appreciate > it so much.. > Thank you all again.. > Lainey > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 16, 2007 Report Share Posted July 16, 2007 This is the best news I have heard all day! Actually, the best I've heard all week! Lainey I am so proud that you had the strength to choose your own best interests over your fears. God Bless You. Please keep us updated and if you need to vent, we are here for you. Health & Happiness To You, ~Leese _____ On Behalf Of Lainey Sunday, July 15, 2007 12:01 AM A quick update and a thank you Hello everyone.. I just wanted to thank all the woman who so caring and supportively emailed me when I joined this group and wanted to let them know that as of last Wednesday I have officially moved out, and am living for the first time in over 35 years in an abusive stress free enviornment!!! I am letting myself absorb the peace but have to admit I still feel strange about it and a bit scared. I know that alot of strength will be needed in the days ahead with all the legalities but I am heading in the right direction.. Your words and comfort and support here helped me gather the strength I needed to finally say " NO MORE " and I appreciate it so much.. Thank you all again.. Lainey Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 16, 2007 Report Share Posted July 16, 2007 Best wishes to you, Lainey, for a successful life. I'm sure it must feel strange right now, but it will pass. Hold true to your path. Toni On 7/15/07, Lainey <Lainey513 wrote: > > Hello everyone.. > I just wanted to thank all the woman who so caring and supportively > emailed me when I joined this group and wanted to let them know that as > of last Wednesday I have officially moved out, and am living for the > first time in over 35 years in an abusive stress free enviornment!!! > I am letting myself absorb the peace but have to admit I still feel > strange about it and a bit scared. I know that alot of strength will be > needed in the days ahead with all the legalities but I am heading in > the right direction.. Your words and comfort and support here helped me > gather the strength I needed to finally say " NO MORE " and I appreciate > it so much.. > Thank you all again.. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 16, 2007 Report Share Posted July 16, 2007 Wow, Lainey, I am so darn proud of you! I am standing up, applauding you. Can you feel it? :-) Absorb that peace, and revel in the start of a new journey. You will be so much better off. If you're strong enough to leave, you are strong enough to manage the rest. It had to take a major amount of strength to move out so never doubt that you can do it. Way to go! Cindy , " Lainey " <Lainey513 wrote: > > Hello everyone.. > I just wanted to thank all the woman who so caring and supportively > emailed me when I joined this group and wanted to let them know that as > of last Wednesday I have officially moved out, and am living for the > first time in over 35 years in an abusive stress free enviornment!!! > I am letting myself absorb the peace but have to admit I still feel > strange about it and a bit scared. I know that alot of strength will be > needed in the days ahead with all the legalities but I am heading in > the right direction.. Your words and comfort and support here helped me > gather the strength I needed to finally say " NO MORE " and I appreciate > it so much.. > Thank you all again.. > Lainey > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 16, 2007 Report Share Posted July 16, 2007 Hi Cindy.. thank you so much.. you are one of my super woman : ) and I thank you for all the encouragement thru your emails. I go thru moments of strength and then turn around and find myself in hours of weakness and doubt but hopefully that will reverse itself and the moments of hope will get longer and stronger.. thank you again for caring Lainey , " kiaradaze " <ckirchhoff wrote: > > Wow, Lainey, I am so darn proud of you! I am standing up, applauding > you. Can you feel it? :-) > > Absorb that peace, and revel in the start of a new journey. You will be > so much better off. If you're strong enough to leave, you are strong > enough to manage the rest. It had to take a major amount of strength > to move out so never doubt that you can do it. > > Way to go! > Cindy > > , " Lainey " <Lainey513@> wrote: > > > > Hello everyone.. > > I just wanted to thank all the woman who so caring and supportively > > emailed me when I joined this group and wanted to let them know that as > > of last Wednesday I have officially moved out, and am living for the > > first time in over 35 years in an abusive stress free enviornment!!! > > I am letting myself absorb the peace but have to admit I still feel > > strange about it and a bit scared. I know that alot of strength will be > > needed in the days ahead with all the legalities but I am heading in > > the right direction.. Your words and comfort and support here helped me > > gather the strength I needed to finally say " NO MORE " and I appreciate > > it so much.. > > Thank you all again.. > > Lainey > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 16, 2007 Report Share Posted July 16, 2007 Another one of my power strength ladies!! thank you so much Cathleen for all your care and support and encouragement.. your words bring strength and a calmness and for that I am grateful for the time you take time and the concern.,. you speak such truth in all emails I read from you and always get exactly the way I am feeling.. alittle like a can of worms today and its good to know that is normal.. thank you again for all your encouragement.. Lainey , " cathleensp " <cathleen wrote: > > Lainey! You're awesome! You shine! Give yourself a big hug from me.....and allow > yourself time to discover your beauty. Some days will feel like a cans of worms, for sure. > Other days will be joyful, peaceful, easy. > > You've got everything you need right where you are. Forces seen and unseen gather to > support you day in and day out. Doing just a little bit everyday to move ever closer to > your heart's goals is all that is ever asked of you (of me, too). > > I'm proud of you. I'm happy for you. And I'll continue to hold you in thought and in > prayer. > > Namaste, > Cathleen Springer > > > > > , " Lainey " <Lainey513@> wrote: > > > > Hello everyone.. > > I just wanted to thank all the woman who so caring and supportively > > emailed me when I joined this group and wanted to let them know that as > > of last Wednesday I have officially moved out, and am living for the > > first time in over 35 years in an abusive stress free enviornment!!! > > I am letting myself absorb the peace but have to admit I still feel > > strange about it and a bit scared. I know that alot of strength will be > > needed in the days ahead with all the legalities but I am heading in > > the right direction.. Your words and comfort and support here helped me > > gather the strength I needed to finally say " NO MORE " and I appreciate > > it so much.. > > Thank you all again.. > > Lainey > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 16, 2007 Report Share Posted July 16, 2007 Thank you Toni for your wishes and encouragement. I so appreciate it.. Lainey , " Toni Roberts " <TRobertsLMT wrote: > > Best wishes to you, Lainey, for a successful life. I'm sure it must feel > strange right now, but it will pass. Hold true to your path. > > Toni > > On 7/15/07, Lainey <Lainey513 wrote: > > > > Hello everyone.. > > I just wanted to thank all the woman who so caring and supportively > > emailed me when I joined this group and wanted to let them know that as > > of last Wednesday I have officially moved out, and am living for the > > first time in over 35 years in an abusive stress free enviornment!!! > > I am letting myself absorb the peace but have to admit I still feel > > strange about it and a bit scared. I know that alot of strength will be > > needed in the days ahead with all the legalities but I am heading in > > the right direction.. Your words and comfort and support here helped me > > gather the strength I needed to finally say " NO MORE " and I appreciate > > it so much.. > > Thank you all again.. > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 16, 2007 Report Share Posted July 16, 2007 , " LISA " <merekitten wrote: > > This is the best news I have heard all day! Actually, the best I've heard > all week! > > Lainey I am so proud that you had the strength to choose your own best > interests over your fears. > > God Bless You. Please keep us updated and if you need to vent, we are here > for you. > > Health & Happiness To You, > ~Leese > > _____ > > > On Behalf Of Lainey > Sunday, July 15, 2007 12:01 AM > > A quick update and a thank you > > > > Hello everyone.. > I just wanted to thank all the woman who so caring and supportively > emailed me when I joined this group and wanted to let them know that as > of last Wednesday I have officially moved out, and am living for the > first time in over 35 years in an abusive stress free enviornment!!! > I am letting myself absorb the peace but have to admit I still feel > strange about it and a bit scared. I know that alot of strength will be > needed in the days ahead with all the legalities but I am heading in > the right direction.. Your words and comfort and support here helped me > gather the strength I needed to finally say " NO MORE " and I appreciate > it so much.. > Thank you all again.. > Lainey > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 16, 2007 Report Share Posted July 16, 2007 Thank you so very much Leese, you have made my day.. thank you for making me feel important. You are so sweet and I am so grateful to you and the other ladies on this group whose GENUINE care shine thru these emails you have so unselfishly took your time and sent and have become part of my strength givers,. and thank you also for your continuing encouragement by letting me know you guys will be there went i need to scream..which i am sure will come too.. thank you once again for your care and encouragement Lainey , " LISA " <merekitten wrote: > > This is the best news I have heard all day! Actually, the best I've heard > all week! > > Lainey I am so proud that you had the strength to choose your own best > interests over your fears. > > God Bless You. Please keep us updated and if you need to vent, we are here > for you. > > Health & Happiness To You, > ~Leese > > _____ > > > On Behalf Of Lainey > Sunday, July 15, 2007 12:01 AM > > A quick update and a thank you > > > > Hello everyone.. > I just wanted to thank all the woman who so caring and supportively > emailed me when I joined this group and wanted to let them know that as > of last Wednesday I have officially moved out, and am living for the > first time in over 35 years in an abusive stress free enviornment!!! > I am letting myself absorb the peace but have to admit I still feel > strange about it and a bit scared. I know that alot of strength will be > needed in the days ahead with all the legalities but I am heading in > the right direction.. Your words and comfort and support here helped me > gather the strength I needed to finally say " NO MORE " and I appreciate > it so much.. > Thank you all again.. > Lainey > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 16, 2007 Report Share Posted July 16, 2007 Hi Everyone~ I am very new to this forum but I wanted to say how very nice it is to see the emotional and spiritual support for everyone here. I think Lainey will grow and flurish in her new journey especially with the help of many like you. I am glad to be here and good luck to you Lainey. Have a great day! Elisa cathleensp <cathleen Sunday, July 15, 2007 7:48:09 PM Re: A quick update and a thank you Lainey! You're awesome! You shine! Give yourself a big hug from me.....and allow yourself time to discover your beauty. Some days will feel like a cans of worms, for sure. Other days will be joyful, peaceful, easy. You've got everything you need right where you are. Forces seen and unseen gather to support you day in and day out. Doing just a little bit everyday to move ever closer to your heart's goals is all that is ever asked of you (of me, too). I'm proud of you. I'm happy for you. And I'll continue to hold you in thought and in prayer. Namaste, Cathleen Springer , " Lainey " <Lainey513@. ..> wrote: > > Hello everyone.. > I just wanted to thank all the woman who so caring and supportively > emailed me when I joined this group and wanted to let them know that as > of last Wednesday I have officially moved out, and am living for the > first time in over 35 years in an abusive stress free enviornment! !! > I am letting myself absorb the peace but have to admit I still feel > strange about it and a bit scared. I know that alot of strength will be > needed in the days ahead with all the legalities but I am heading in > the right direction.. Your words and comfort and support here helped me > gather the strength I needed to finally say " NO MORE " and I appreciate > it so much.. > Thank you all again.. > Lainey > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 16, 2007 Report Share Posted July 16, 2007 WOW! Your courage is an inspiration. Congratulations Lainey! Michelle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 17, 2007 Report Share Posted July 17, 2007 Congratulations to you! I'm very proud when I hear anyone say that they will take " no more " from an abuser! Stay strong, keep positive! , " Lainey " <Lainey513 wrote: > > Hello everyone.. > I just wanted to thank all the woman who so caring and supportively > emailed me when I joined this group and wanted to let them know that as > of last Wednesday I have officially moved out, and am living for the > first time in over 35 years in an abusive stress free enviornment!!! > I am letting myself absorb the peace but have to admit I still feel > strange about it and a bit scared. I know that alot of strength will be > needed in the days ahead with all the legalities but I am heading in > the right direction.. Your words and comfort and support here helped me > gather the strength I needed to finally say " NO MORE " and I appreciate > it so much.. > Thank you all again.. > Lainey > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 17, 2007 Report Share Posted July 17, 2007 thank you Margaret..its good to be where you can say no more.. a long time coming,,thanks for the positive thoughts Lainey , " Margaret " <margibel711 wrote: > > Congratulations to you! I'm very proud when I hear anyone say that > they will take " no more " from an abuser! > Stay strong, keep positive! > , " Lainey " <Lainey513@> > wrote: > > > > Hello everyone.. > > I just wanted to thank all the woman who so caring and > supportively > > emailed me when I joined this group and wanted to let them know > that as > > of last Wednesday I have officially moved out, and am living for > the > > first time in over 35 years in an abusive stress free > enviornment!!! > > I am letting myself absorb the peace but have to admit I still > feel > > strange about it and a bit scared. I know that alot of strength > will be > > needed in the days ahead with all the legalities but I am heading > in > > the right direction.. Your words and comfort and support here > helped me > > gather the strength I needed to finally say " NO MORE " and I > appreciate > > it so much.. > > Thank you all again.. > > Lainey > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 17, 2007 Report Share Posted July 17, 2007 thank you Michelle..the last thing I feel is couragous but thanks for the wonderful thought.. and the Congrats : ) Lainey , " Michelle " <michelle wrote: > > WOW! Your courage is an inspiration. Congratulations Lainey! > > Michelle > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 17, 2007 Report Share Posted July 17, 2007 -Thank you so much Elisa, the people on this group are amazingly caring and supportive.. welcome to the group. I am fairly new myself and found wonderful supportive strength from some special ladies here.. Lainey -- In , Elisa <stageivplusisus wrote: > > Hi Everyone~ > > I am very new to this forum but I wanted to say how very nice it is to see the emotional and spiritual support for everyone here. > > I think Lainey will grow and flurish in her new journey especially with the help of many like you. I am glad to be here and good luck to you Lainey. > > Have a great day! > > Elisa > > > > > > cathleensp <cathleen > > Sunday, July 15, 2007 7:48:09 PM > Re: A quick update and a thank you > > Lainey! You're awesome! You shine! Give yourself a big hug from me.....and allow > yourself time to discover your beauty. Some days will feel like a cans of worms, for sure. > Other days will be joyful, peaceful, easy. > > You've got everything you need right where you are. Forces seen and unseen gather to > support you day in and day out. Doing just a little bit everyday to move ever closer to > your heart's goals is all that is ever asked of you (of me, too). > > I'm proud of you. I'm happy for you. And I'll continue to hold you in thought and in > prayer. > > Namaste, > Cathleen Springer > > , " Lainey " <Lainey513@ ..> wrote: > > > > Hello everyone.. > > I just wanted to thank all the woman who so caring and supportively > > emailed me when I joined this group and wanted to let them know that as > > of last Wednesday I have officially moved out, and am living for the > > first time in over 35 years in an abusive stress free enviornment! !! > > I am letting myself absorb the peace but have to admit I still feel > > strange about it and a bit scared. I know that alot of strength will be > > needed in the days ahead with all the legalities but I am heading in > > the right direction.. Your words and comfort and support here helped me > > gather the strength I needed to finally say " NO MORE " and I appreciate > > it so much.. > > Thank you all again.. > > Lainey > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 17, 2007 Report Share Posted July 17, 2007 You are most welcome. I am sure your choices have not been easy, but from what I am reading here, you are making the right ones. You deserve healthy relationships. ~Toni On 7/16/07, Lainey <Lainey513 wrote: > > Thank you Toni for your wishes and encouragement. > I so appreciate it.. > Lainey > > --- In <%40>, > " Toni Roberts " > <TRobertsLMT wrote: > > > > Best wishes to you, Lainey, for a successful life. I'm sure it > must feel > > strange right now, but it will pass. Hold true to your path. > > > > Toni > > > > On 7/15/07, Lainey <Lainey513 wrote: > > > > > > Hello everyone.. > > > I just wanted to thank all the woman who so caring and > supportively > > > emailed me when I joined this group and wanted to let them know > that as > > > of last Wednesday I have officially moved out, and am living for > the > > > first time in over 35 years in an abusive stress free > enviornment!!! > > > I am letting myself absorb the peace but have to admit I still > feel > > > strange about it and a bit scared. I know that alot of strength > will be > > > needed in the days ahead with all the legalities but I am heading > in > > > the right direction.. Your words and comfort and support here > helped me > > > gather the strength I needed to finally say " NO MORE " and I > appreciate > > > it so much.. > > > Thank you all again.. > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 17, 2007 Report Share Posted July 17, 2007 Awww - thanks, Lainey, for that sweet comment. It's just like you to make me feel good when you are going through such change. I can't wait to see what all you become and what you accomplish now that you can find your own, true self. I hope to continue to hear about what's happening. It's very encouraging, and I bet you would be a shining example for others, too. Those moments of weakness and doubt will continue to fall away. Notice them lightly, then let them move on, and focus more on the times when you feel that great sense of hope and strength. I'm still so excited and thrilled for you! You go after this new life big time, okay? :-) Take care, Cindy Cindy Kirchhoff, life coach http://livinginrhyme.com Reclaim your power and passion , " Lainey " <Lainey513 wrote: > > Hi Cindy.. > thank you so much.. you are one of my super woman : ) and I thank you > for all the encouragement thru your emails. I go thru moments of > strength and then turn around and find myself in hours of weakness > and doubt but hopefully that will reverse itself and the moments of > hope will get longer and stronger.. > thank you again for caring > Lainey Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 17, 2007 Report Share Posted July 17, 2007 Welcome, Elisa! I agree; it is so amazing to see the warmth and caring and support that pours out in this forum. I love it! There's nothing better than human beings supporting other human beings. This, truly, can create the world of our dreams. I know Lainey will flourish; you can tell it from the *sound* of her posts. I wish the same to you, too, Elisa, and for all of us. Cindy Cindy Kirchhoff, life coach http://livinginrhyme.com Reclaim your power and passion , Elisa <stageivplusisus wrote: > I am very new to this forum but I wanted to say how very nice it is to see the emotional and spiritual support for everyone here. > > I think Lainey will grow and flurish in her new journey especially with the help of many like you. I am glad to be here and good luck to you Lainey. > > Have a great day! > > Elisa Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 18, 2007 Report Share Posted July 18, 2007 It is my pleasure to send you love and support. It's like helping an angel (you) get her wings! Peace, ~L Health & Happiness To You, ~Leese _____ On Behalf Of Lainey Monday, July 16, 2007 8:49 AM Re: A quick update and a thank you Thank you so very much Leese, you have made my day.. thank you for making me feel important. You are so sweet and I am so grateful to you and the other ladies on this group whose GENUINE care shine thru these emails you have so unselfishly took your time and sent and have become part of my strength givers,. and thank you also for your continuing encouragement by letting me know you guys will be there went i need to scream..which i am sure will come too.. thank you once again for your care and encouragement Lainey @ <%40> , " LISA " <merekitten wrote: > > This is the best news I have heard all day! Actually, the best I've heard > all week! > > Lainey I am so proud that you had the strength to choose your own best > interests over your fears. > > God Bless You. Please keep us updated and if you need to vent, we are here > for you. > > Health & Happiness To You, > ~Leese > > _____ > > @ <%40> > [@ <%40> ] On Behalf Of Lainey > Sunday, July 15, 2007 12:01 AM > @ <%40> > A quick update and a thank you > > > > Hello everyone.. > I just wanted to thank all the woman who so caring and supportively > emailed me when I joined this group and wanted to let them know that as > of last Wednesday I have officially moved out, and am living for the > first time in over 35 years in an abusive stress free enviornment!!! > I am letting myself absorb the peace but have to admit I still feel > strange about it and a bit scared. I know that alot of strength will be > needed in the days ahead with all the legalities but I am heading in > the right direction.. Your words and comfort and support here helped me > gather the strength I needed to finally say " NO MORE " and I appreciate > it so much.. > Thank you all again.. > Lainey > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 18, 2007 Report Share Posted July 18, 2007 Lainey, I envision you unpeeling the layers of his vision of you to reveal the Lainey that you used to be before you met him. THAT Lainey can continue where she left off and be the person she was meant to be. Health & Happiness To You, ~Leese _____ On Behalf Of Lainey Monday, July 16, 2007 8:36 AM Re: A quick update and a thank you Hi Cindy.. thank you so much.. you are one of my super woman : ) and I thank you for all the encouragement thru your emails. I go thru moments of strength and then turn around and find myself in hours of weakness and doubt but hopefully that will reverse itself and the moments of hope will get longer and stronger.. thank you again for caring Lainey @ <%40> , " kiaradaze " <ckirchhoff wrote: > > Wow, Lainey, I am so darn proud of you! I am standing up, applauding > you. Can you feel it? :-) > > Absorb that peace, and revel in the start of a new journey. You will be > so much better off. If you're strong enough to leave, you are strong > enough to manage the rest. It had to take a major amount of strength > to move out so never doubt that you can do it. > > Way to go! > Cindy > > @ <%40> , " Lainey " <Lainey513@> wrote: > > > > Hello everyone.. > > I just wanted to thank all the woman who so caring and supportively > > emailed me when I joined this group and wanted to let them know that as > > of last Wednesday I have officially moved out, and am living for the > > first time in over 35 years in an abusive stress free enviornment!!! > > I am letting myself absorb the peace but have to admit I still feel > > strange about it and a bit scared. I know that alot of strength will be > > needed in the days ahead with all the legalities but I am heading in > > the right direction.. Your words and comfort and support here helped me > > gather the strength I needed to finally say " NO MORE " and I appreciate > > it so much.. > > Thank you all again.. > > Lainey > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 21, 2007 Report Share Posted July 21, 2007 Hi Toni.. I know at least with me change has never been easy for me, yet I also know that if i can make it thru the strange feeling the change usually turns out well.. unfortunately I have avoided change for a long time and things feel very strange.. thank you for your encouraging words though I really appreciate it.. Lainey , " Toni Roberts " <TRobertsLMT wrote: > > You are most welcome. I am sure your choices have not been easy, but from > what I am reading here, you are making the right ones. You deserve healthy > relationships. ~Toni > > On 7/16/07, Lainey <Lainey513 wrote: > > > > Thank you Toni for your wishes and encouragement. > > I so appreciate it.. > > Lainey > > > > <% 40>, > > " Toni Roberts " > > <TRobertsLMT@> wrote: > > > > > > Best wishes to you, Lainey, for a successful life. I'm sure it > > must feel > > > strange right now, but it will pass. Hold true to your path. > > > > > > Toni > > > > > > On 7/15/07, Lainey <Lainey513@> wrote: > > > > > > > > Hello everyone.. > > > > I just wanted to thank all the woman who so caring and > > supportively > > > > emailed me when I joined this group and wanted to let them know > > that as > > > > of last Wednesday I have officially moved out, and am living for > > the > > > > first time in over 35 years in an abusive stress free > > enviornment!!! > > > > I am letting myself absorb the peace but have to admit I still > > feel > > > > strange about it and a bit scared. I know that alot of strength > > will be > > > > needed in the days ahead with all the legalities but I am heading > > in > > > > the right direction.. Your words and comfort and support here > > helped me > > > > gather the strength I needed to finally say " NO MORE " and I > > appreciate > > > > it so much.. > > > > Thank you all again.. > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 21, 2007 Report Share Posted July 21, 2007 No thanks needed Cindy.. I truly feel what I said.. a bit of a difficult spot right now.. but as they say this too shall pass.. I just need to find alittle strength right now.. I think to myself alot how much easier this transition would have been had it made it when I wasnt dealing with any health issues which sometimes make everything harder..but that was then and this is now and now is to be dealt with.. Thank you again for being the speical caring supportive person you are : ) Lainey , " kiaradaze " <ckirchhoff wrote: > > Awww - thanks, Lainey, for that sweet comment. It's just like you to make > me feel good when you are going through such change. I can't wait to > see what all you become and what you accomplish now that you can find > your own, true self. I hope to continue to hear about what's happening. > It's very encouraging, and I bet you would be a shining example for > others, too. > > Those moments of weakness and doubt will continue to fall away. Notice > them lightly, then let them move on, and focus more on the times when > you feel that great sense of hope and strength. > > I'm still so excited and thrilled for you! You go after this new life big > time, okay? :-) > > Take care, > Cindy > > Cindy Kirchhoff, life coach > http://livinginrhyme.com > Reclaim your power and passion > > , " Lainey " <Lainey513@> wrote: > > > > Hi Cindy.. > > thank you so much.. you are one of my super woman : ) and I thank you > > for all the encouragement thru your emails. I go thru moments of > > strength and then turn around and find myself in hours of weakness > > and doubt but hopefully that will reverse itself and the moments of > > hope will get longer and stronger.. > > thank you again for caring > > Lainey > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 21, 2007 Report Share Posted July 21, 2007 Oh thank you Leese, your words are so uplifting.. exactly what I need right now.. I was speaking to my daughter the other day and she said to me what I was saying was so lacking in self esteem and negativeness which has to be from years of believeing what I was hearing..I thought to myself he finally succeeded but then thought just for a while..and I am grateful that she is pointing that out to me.. sometimes it goes by unaware.. I am not sure yet, how to combat those feelings and that they are a part of me now but hopefully in time things will change little by little just like your idea of " peeling the layers " the few times when he left, my daughter always told me I " blossomed " so between the times of fear and doubt and having my whole enviornment changed I am trying to figure out how to encourage bloom once again.. thank you for caring and being so supportive Leese, I so appreciate it.. Health and Happiness to you also.. Lainey , " LISA " <merekitten wrote: > > Lainey, > > I envision you unpeeling the layers of his vision of you to reveal the > Lainey that you used to be before you met him. > > THAT Lainey can continue where she left off and be the person she was meant > to be. > > > > Health & Happiness To You, > ~Leese > > _____ > > > On Behalf Of Lainey > Monday, July 16, 2007 8:36 AM > > Re: A quick update and a thank you > > > > Hi Cindy.. > thank you so much.. you are one of my super woman : ) and I thank you > for all the encouragement thru your emails. I go thru moments of > strength and then turn around and find myself in hours of weakness > and doubt but hopefully that will reverse itself and the moments of > hope will get longer and stronger.. > thank you again for caring > Lainey > > @ <% 40> > , " kiaradaze " > <ckirchhoff@> wrote: > > > > Wow, Lainey, I am so darn proud of you! I am standing up, applauding > > you. Can you feel it? :-) > > > > Absorb that peace, and revel in the start of a new journey. You > will be > > so much better off. If you're strong enough to leave, you are strong > > enough to manage the rest. It had to take a major amount of strength > > to move out so never doubt that you can do it. > > > > Way to go! > > Cindy > > > > @ <% 40> > , " Lainey " <Lainey513@> > wrote: > > > > > > Hello everyone.. > > > I just wanted to thank all the woman who so caring and > supportively > > > emailed me when I joined this group and wanted to let them know > that as > > > of last Wednesday I have officially moved out, and am living for > the > > > first time in over 35 years in an abusive stress free > enviornment!!! > > > I am letting myself absorb the peace but have to admit I still > feel > > > strange about it and a bit scared. I know that alot of strength > will be > > > needed in the days ahead with all the legalities but I am heading > in > > > the right direction.. Your words and comfort and support here > helped me > > > gather the strength I needed to finally say " NO MORE " and I > appreciate > > > it so much.. > > > Thank you all again.. > > > Lainey > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 23, 2007 Report Share Posted July 23, 2007 Lainey, I am glad to hear that my words are helpful to you. I like the way your daughter described you as blossoming. I then imagined that a flower could not blossom if it was constantly being placed in the middle of a footpath! The difference between those other times is that He left. This time, You are the one who left so I imagine you will really begin to become stronger quicker since you are in control this time. A good idea for you now would be to find an interest and take a class in that topic so you will meet like-minded people and hopefully form a bond with a good role-model type friend. Health & Happiness To You, ~Leese _____ On Behalf Of Lainey Saturday, July 21, 2007 9:35 AM Re: A quick update and a thank you Oh thank you Leese, your words are so uplifting.. exactly what I need right now.. I was speaking to my daughter the other day and she said to me what I was saying was so lacking in self esteem and negativeness which has to be from years of believeing what I was hearing..I thought to myself he finally succeeded but then thought just for a while..and I am grateful that she is pointing that out to me.. sometimes it goes by unaware.. I am not sure yet, how to combat those feelings and that they are a part of me now but hopefully in time things will change little by little just like your idea of " peeling the layers " the few times when he left, my daughter always told me I " blossomed " so between the times of fear and doubt and having my whole enviornment changed I am trying to figure out how to encourage bloom once again.. thank you for caring and being so supportive Leese, I so appreciate it.. Health and Happiness to you also.. Lainey @ <%40> , " LISA " <merekitten wrote: > > Lainey, > > I envision you unpeeling the layers of his vision of you to reveal the > Lainey that you used to be before you met him. > > THAT Lainey can continue where she left off and be the person she was meant > to be. > > > > Health & Happiness To You, > ~Leese > > _____ > > @ <%40> > [@ <%40> ] On Behalf Of Lainey > Monday, July 16, 2007 8:36 AM > @ <%40> > Re: A quick update and a thank you > > > > Hi Cindy.. > thank you so much.. you are one of my super woman : ) and I thank you > for all the encouragement thru your emails. I go thru moments of > strength and then turn around and find myself in hours of weakness > and doubt but hopefully that will reverse itself and the moments of > hope will get longer and stronger.. > thank you again for caring > Lainey > > @ <% 40> > , " kiaradaze " > <ckirchhoff@> wrote: > > > > Wow, Lainey, I am so darn proud of you! I am standing up, applauding > > you. Can you feel it? :-) > > > > Absorb that peace, and revel in the start of a new journey. You > will be > > so much better off. If you're strong enough to leave, you are strong > > enough to manage the rest. It had to take a major amount of strength > > to move out so never doubt that you can do it. > > > > Way to go! > > Cindy > > > > @ <% 40> > , " Lainey " <Lainey513@> > wrote: > > > > > > Hello everyone.. > > > I just wanted to thank all the woman who so caring and > supportively > > > emailed me when I joined this group and wanted to let them know > that as > > > of last Wednesday I have officially moved out, and am living for > the > > > first time in over 35 years in an abusive stress free > enviornment!!! > > > I am letting myself absorb the peace but have to admit I still > feel > > > strange about it and a bit scared. I know that alot of strength > will be > > > needed in the days ahead with all the legalities but I am heading > in > > > the right direction.. Your words and comfort and support here > helped me > > > gather the strength I needed to finally say " NO MORE " and I > appreciate > > > it so much.. > > > Thank you all again.. > > > Lainey > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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