Guest guest Posted May 3, 2007 Report Share Posted May 3, 2007 I went back to the acupuncturist again, and I told her my husband thought I was pregnant. She felt my belly and being I really didn't have any symptoms, she didn't think so, but said something isn't right. She sent me to the regular OB/GYN in her building to make sure and put my husband at ease. So I went there yesterday, and I am pregnant, not that I planned it, but at least there is no serious problem. This doctor seemed nice enough, but she is mainstream and only delivers at hospitals. She said they have a midwife on staff, but didn't really elaborate and kind of rushed me out the door before I could ask the questions I wanted to. It is also a pretty long drive. The midwife the next closest I used with my last one, she was ok, but I would like to do better. She is really vaccine pushy and last time she kept bringing up my age and risks. She made it clear at the slightest sign of problems, she would rush me to the ER of the hospital she deals with, which is the opposite direction of my home, and quite far. I have tried googling for midwives, but am coming up empty. So was hoping maybe someone on this list could recommend one or another site to search. I'm pretty sure not all of them are on those data bases, especially the ones that I would be interested in. I am in Central PA. Thanks for any help. Melanie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 3, 2007 Report Share Posted May 3, 2007 Hi Melanie, I am a student midwife in VA. You are right most midwives are not available on the Internet and many are still practicing illegally. I do not know how many on this list would be into this subject so if you would like to write me off list we can work to find a midwife for you. There area you live is in a great ammout of legal pressure for midwives. So many are rather overly cautious about their care right now. I have a close friend who lives around there and she was saddly turned away by her midwife after they found out she would be having a breech birth it was just to dangerous for the midwife. Lucky for her she knew some midwives out here so she came here to have her baby at a friends house. Beautiful birth. I have lots of information and websites to look at that are good resources for finding a midwife. I have a questionnaire hand out for families that address questions they will want to ask their care providers to help them in choosing who would be best for them. Careful of non-freestanding birth centers or midwives who work for the hospitals. They are bound by that protocol and the hospital rules so it will be more difficult to get the care you want if you are not looking to go the main stream route. A few websites to look at are organizations that advocate the midwifery model of care. For the safety of the midwives who are not " in the system " I do not want to drop any names but again contact me off list and we can talk. Blessings Sam samsteffens Organizations Advocating the Midwifery Model of Care and/or Natural Family Living AIMS Association for Improvements in the Maternity Services http://www.aims.org.uk/ ALACE Associate of Labor Assistants & Childbirth Educators http://alace.org/ API Attachment Parenting International http://www.attachmentparenting.org/ APPAH Association for Pre- & Perinatal Psychology and Health http://www.birthpsychology.com/ ATLC Alliance for Transforming the Lives of Children http://www.atlc.org/ ATTACH Association for Treatment and Training in the Attachment of Children http://www.attach.org/lynnwetterberg.htm Awakened Woman http://www.awakenedwoman.com Bioneers http://www.bioneers.org/ Birth Love www.birthlove.com Birth Partners www.birthpartners.com Birth Psychology www.birthpsychology.com Birth Works http://www.birthworks.org/ Birthing Project USA http://www.birthingprojectusa.com/ Birthing the Future www.birthingthefuture.com Birthwise Midwifery www.birthwisemidwifery.org Boston WomenÕs Health Book Collective http://www.ourbodiesourselves.org/ The Compleat Mother http://www.compleatmother.com/ CFM Citizens for Midwifery http://www.cfmidwifery.org/ CIMS The Coalition for Improving Maternity Services http://www.motherfriendly.org/ Connection Parenting http://www.connectionparenting.com/ Cord Clamping www.cordclamping.com Dear Mamma www.dearmamma.com The Doctor Within www.thedoctorwithin.com Melanie <jermelkramer wrote: I went back to the acupuncturist again, and I told her my husband thought I was pregnant. She felt my belly and being I really didn't have any symptoms, she didn't think so, but said something isn't right. She sent me to the regular OB/GYN in her building to make sure and put my husband at ease. So I went there yesterday, and I am pregnant, not that I planned it, but at least there is no serious problem. This doctor seemed nice enough, but she is mainstream and only delivers at hospitals. She said they have a midwife on staff, but didn't really elaborate and kind of rushed me out the door before I could ask the questions I wanted to. It is also a pretty long drive. The midwife the next closest I used with my last one, she was ok, but I would like to do better. She is really vaccine pushy and last time she kept bringing up my age and risks. She made it clear at the slightest sign of problems, she would rush me to the ER of the hospital she deals with, which is the opposite direction of my home, and quite far. I have tried googling for midwives, but am coming up empty. So was hoping maybe someone on this list could recommend one or another site to search. I'm pretty sure not all of them are on those data bases, especially the ones that I would be interested in. I am in Central PA. Thanks for any help. Melanie Ahhh...imagining that irresistible " new car " smell? Check outnew cars at Autos. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 3, 2007 Report Share Posted May 3, 2007 Melanie, Geat news I just spoke with a midwife friend who I assist and she gave me the info of a midwife that serves around you, her name is Liz. She might be a bit far for you but she knows the midwifery community there, so she could most likely be able to direct you to a great provider. You can mention that Sam, one of Marguirite's assistant recommended you to her. She serves Jersey and sw PA you might even be able to meet with her to talk. If you have troubles let me know and I can look into some other resources. Many warm blessings Sam Liz Soskin, CPM 13 Lookout Lane Washingtons Crossing, PA 18977 215-493-1760 home 207-756-9991 cell midwifeliz www.lotusmoonmidwifery.com Melanie <jermelkramer wrote: I went back to the acupuncturist again, and I told her my husband thought I was pregnant. She felt my belly and being I really didn't have any symptoms, she didn't think so, but said something isn't right. She sent me to the regular OB/GYN in her building to make sure and put my husband at ease. So I went there yesterday, and I am pregnant, not that I planned it, but at least there is no serious problem. This doctor seemed nice enough, but she is mainstream and only delivers at hospitals. She said they have a midwife on staff, but didn't really elaborate and kind of rushed me out the door before I could ask the questions I wanted to. It is also a pretty long drive. The midwife the next closest I used with my last one, she was ok, but I would like to do better. She is really vaccine pushy and last time she kept bringing up my age and risks. She made it clear at the slightest sign of problems, she would rush me to the ER of the hospital she deals with, which is the opposite direction of my home, and quite far. I have tried googling for midwives, but am coming up empty. So was hoping maybe someone on this list could recommend one or another site to search. I'm pretty sure not all of them are on those data bases, especially the ones that I would be interested in. I am in Central PA. Thanks for any help. Melanie Ahhh...imagining that irresistible " new car " smell? Check outnew cars at Autos. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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