Guest guest Posted February 19, 2008 Report Share Posted February 19, 2008 At 08:48 AM 2/19/2008, you wrote: Put (OT) behind the subject, as it is falling somewhat out of the purview of the group..... It's like that saying goes: feed a man a fish, feed him for a day - teach a man to fish, feed him for life. People often seem to think throwing money at the problem will solve it. I've noticed money gets spent quickly, especially if you haven't had any for a while *grin* But, what happens when the money runs out? Clearly, it's a complex issue in many ways, but the system in place doesn't seem to be working very well. and, I don't think the alternative is simply to throw more money into the pot. I agree, the foster care system doesn't work very well - have had many foster kids. Adopted 7 kids, some of mixed race. The thing is, what is the alternative for kids who can no longer, for a number of reasons (some pretty awful) be at home? Lynn >In my area (southern MO.) there are generations that have been on welfare. Was quite a shock when we moved here 25 years ago< same here, but more southeast/central MO...generational poverty. each generation seems to get worse. drop outs, etc. always money for cigarettes and alcohol... WIC feeds the little ones (though the adults manage to eat their stuff, frequently) and the garbage they buy. convenience foods! garbage we can't afford on our hard worked for money...and wouldn't buy/waste on, as it is... easy come, easy go... so many in our school system, having dealt with it, with foster kids, I'd never let my son set foot inside! the system seems bent on keeping them in *the system*...keep the masses ignorant...also keeps them in office, unlike someone who'd suggest they get off the dole and work...it's no longer a hand up, but a hand out...and a hand out, is destructive. a hand up, helps you get back on your feet, and out on your own. Theresa Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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