Guest guest Posted September 21, 2008 Report Share Posted September 21, 2008 I have a siter that has said she has sezuires. I never seen her have one in 39 years. She takes alot of meds and is a hyper condreact. But I am not around her much! She loves to be sick. She said she had 6 sez. in one night but did not go to hospital. The next day did and of course they took her and shes in the hospital. First she change her nuerologist alot. Make me think she is looking for onw who will say she does. My real brother that was adopted out has seziures and actually has since a young child. But I have heard that it was because when he was young he had trama and was beaten really bad. Can sezuires be from trama and from a bad beating and can they be caused by to much medication? I do not like feeling that I do not care about it as shes always sick and if I give her attention I will get those wake up calls and tell me about her illneses!!! I have 2 other blood brothers they do not have sezuires. Oh yeah my sister does actually have bad migranes. I have them but learn to drink alot of water. Do not get over tired if I can help it. Try not to over heat. I feel as I control them. I hate medications anyway. My sister takes anything the Dr. gives her. Can anyone please tell me any kind of anything about sezuires and what you think about this situation. I feel that she might die one day and I never beleived her and Even if I try to beleive her I can not deal with the meds and all about her medical problems. I feel like I am cold! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 21, 2008 Report Share Posted September 21, 2008 Everyone has a different seizure threshhold. It can be triggered by different things for different people. It sounds like she is in dire need of love and attention. Her soul is hungry. She may really be having seizures, but with proper testing they would be able to tell. Certain medications and combinations can spur a seizure. Brain trauma, old scarring from blows to the head etc.. can also definitely cause seizures. Good luck to you. You may be exactly the health and healing that your sister needs. Perhaps get counselled by the right person about what you should and shouldn't do. Enabling her behaviors will not meet her root need either. So I would use it as an opportunity to grow yourself. In wisdom for knowing how to meet her needs appropriately. It will solve your issues of feeling guilt to find out the right and wrong way to handle her. Good luck to you. And to your sister. --- On Sat, 9/20/08, itsabouttime66 <itsabouttime66 wrote: itsabouttime66 <itsabouttime66 Sezuires is a sezuiere and the cause Date: Saturday, September 20, 2008, 11:59 PM I have a siter that has said she has sezuires. I never seen her have one in 39 years. She takes alot of meds and is a hyper condreact. But I am not around her much! She loves to be sick. She said she had 6 sez. in one night but did not go to hospital. The next day did and of course they took her and shes in the hospital. First she change her nuerologist alot. Make me think she is looking for onw who will say she does. My real brother that was adopted out has seziures and actually has since a young child. But I have heard that it was because when he was young he had trama and was beaten really bad. Can sezuires be from trama and from a bad beating and can they be caused by to much medication? I do not like feeling that I do not care about it as shes always sick and if I give her attention I will get those wake up calls and tell me about her illneses!!! I have 2 other blood brothers they do not have sezuires. Oh yeah my sister does actually have bad migranes. I have them but learn to drink alot of water. Do not get over tired if I can help it. Try not to over heat. I feel as I control them. I hate medications anyway. My sister takes anything the Dr. gives her. Can anyone please tell me any kind of anything about sezuires and what you think about this situation. I feel that she might die one day and I never beleived her and Even if I try to beleive her I can not deal with the meds and all about her medical problems. I feel like I am cold! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 21, 2008 Report Share Posted September 21, 2008 , kristen cook <kristen.cook wrote: > > Everyone has a different seizure threshhold. It can be triggered by different things for different people. It sounds like she is in dire need of love and attention. Her soul is hungry. She may really be having seizures, but with proper testing they would be able to tell. Certain medications and combinations can spur a seizure. Brain trauma, old scarring from blows to the head etc.. can also definitely cause seizures. > Good luck to you. You may be exactly the health and healing that your sister needs. Perhaps get counselled by the right person about what you should and shouldn't do. Enabling her behaviors will not meet her root need either. So I would use it as an opportunity to grow yourself. In wisdom for knowing how to meet her needs appropriately. It will solve your issues of feeling guilt to find out the right and wrong way to handle her. Good luck to you. And to your sister. > I beleive you are right!! I just get bold and state things in a nice way for them to think about. My husband and kids have no tolerance. I did final after a couple years ago start talking to her. I tried to talk to her about the line!!! I know her soul is so very sad!!! She goes to a counselor. She does not either see to help her self out or she is not able to? I do not know. She some of both. I just try to be patient! At times I do not know what is true or what is not. About a month ago she went to hospital for a so called heart attack. Our mother died of one at 28. She was kept for about 2 days I want to talk to her so did my husband. Even stopped for flowers. I heard that there was no problem. None! Then a couple of weeks ago her in the background talking to my niece saying my bad heart. Well thats why I need information about sezuires. I can not condone her bad or let her run over me!! I lived alot of the same life. She can not be trusted. I do not know how to help. If I inviote heer over. If I let her read the local grocery store adds to me front to back without stopping. How much more attention or what can I do!!! I am very busy. Her son would make trouble if I try to talk to him. He would repeat it if I ask. The daughter whom lives at home goes along with it!! The other daughter is just getting back from Iraq and she runs from it and denighs . Her husband feeds to a point. I worry It maybe true. I told her daughter well that means she may not drive. She said nothing and I ask her did you hear me ? Are you there? She said then yeah she does not drive much!! I just want to run. I take no meds. And I try to tell her the meds are killing her. She literally looks and acts at least 15 or more years older than her age. She will call and tell me something. Then her daughter will say a day later mom said you never called her back. I said yes! I talked to her!Whats wrong?????????????????????? > --- On Sat, 9/20/08, itsabouttime66 <itsabouttime66 wrote: > > itsabouttime66 <itsabouttime66 > Sezuires is a sezuiere and the cause > > Saturday, September 20, 2008, 11:59 PM I have a siter that has said she has sezuires. I never seen her have > one in 39 years. She takes alot of meds and is a hyper condreact. But > I am not around her much! She loves to be sick. She said she had 6 > sez. in one night but did not go to hospital. The next day did and of > course they took her and shes in the hospital. First she change her > nuerologist alot. Make me think she is looking for onw who will say > she does. My real brother that was adopted out has seziures and > actually has since a young child. But I have heard that it was > because when he was young he had trama and was beaten really bad. Can > sezuires be from trama and from a bad beating and can they be caused > by to much medication? I do not like feeling that I do not care about > it as shes always sick and if I give her attention I will get those > wake up calls and tell me about her illneses!!! I have 2 other blood > brothers they do not have sezuires. Oh yeah my sister does actually > have bad migranes. I have them but learn to drink alot of water. Do > not get over tired if I can help it. Try not to over heat. I feel as > I control them. I hate medications anyway. My sister takes anything > the Dr. gives her. Can anyone please tell me any kind of anything > about sezuires and what you think about this situation. I feel that > she might die one day and I never beleived her and Even if I try to > beleive her I can not deal with the meds and all about her medical > problems. I feel like I am cold! > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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