Guest guest Posted December 9, 2005 Report Share Posted December 9, 2005 My friend, who is a chiropractic assistant, called me the other day telling me she has a friend who has a relative who is terminally ill with cancer and has only a very short time to live. Unfortunately, to make matters worse, the lady with cancer is allergic to all the pain meds the docs have given her (they make her even MORE ill and feel even worse). The family then asked my friend if she knew of anything, outside of the realm of conventional options, that they could do to help their loved one. They aren't looking for a miracle cure or anything like that. They are just looking for any kind of ways that she can be made more comfortable in her last days - even if its emotionally comfortable - and hopefully some way she can be made physically more comfortable - whether it be through aromatherapy, or gentle touch, or reiki, or ... Does anyone have any experience with this type of thing? I have a report a gal I knew back in Denver did about using EO's and Aromatherapy for comfort in a hospice situation, but I wanted to put it out here too as I know over the years some folks here have mentioned they've worked with terminally ill folks and/or knew about hospice care. *Smile* Chris (list mom) http://www.alittleolfactory.com Preview The New Site ~ A Work In Progress! http://www.alittleolfactory.com/main2.htm Think left and think right and think low and think high. Oh, the thinks you can think up if only you try! - Dr Seuss Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 9, 2005 Report Share Posted December 9, 2005 Chris, my heart goes out to your friend's loved one. Unfortunately, I've had too much experience with terminal cancer, the most recent being with my brother-in-law a year ago at this time. I also lost both of my parents to cancer and was with them at the time of their deaths. My mom hated the morphine. While others I've been with have indeed used meds for pain, there were other things that were extremely helpful. Touch, especially reiki is wonderful, but the approach that we had the best results with was Hypnotherapy. Surgical proceedures are actually conducted without anesthesia, thanks to hypnotherapy. So, you can be assured that it's a great help for pain. Here's a site with some good info. Hope it helps. http://www.sanctuaryhypno.com/fight-cancer-treatment.asp Michelle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 9, 2005 Report Share Posted December 9, 2005 One of my best friends son is dying of prostate cancer. He was dx. late in the disease process. His symtoms were vague. He's only 41, with young kids. His brother died 5 years ago of sleep apena. He had been drinking and never woke up. He didn't know he had sleep apnea. My friends husband had a heart attack in October. He's doing ok. And he's on borrowed time too. Sometimes, I have to wonder. I talk to my friend everyday. The morphine isn't doing the trick. They're going to put in a pump so he can recieve a higher dosage. Julia Graber Girl By Julia Julia Graber Cregger Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 10, 2005 Report Share Posted December 10, 2005 At 05:26 PM 12/9/2005, you wrote: >Does anyone have any experience with this type of thing? I have a report >a gal I knew back in Denver did about using EO's and Aromatherapy for >comfort in a hospice situation, but I wanted to put it out here too as I >know over the years some folks here have mentioned they've worked with >terminally ill folks and/or knew about hospice care. I have used Frankincense extensively in Hospice and in similar situations. It is NOT a pain reliever...but seems to help with the agitation that can come with the last days. It brought peace to both the patient and to their family. also, check the agora case studies.... seems to me Lori Mitchell put a couple of case studies that are appropriate here... and I am thinking she used frankincense and atlas cedarwood. Celebrating 10 years online. Supplying pure Essential Oils, Aromatherapy Accessories, Information and more! Visit us at: <http://www.naturesgift.com> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 10, 2005 Report Share Posted December 10, 2005 Chris, MY heart goes out to your friend. I would like to share with you what we might recommend at our center. I have a sign on my door that reads " cancer is just a word- I give it no power " . Emotionally, reading and thinking about the phrase takes away some of the fear. Anxiety increases pain levels so I would try to aim for oils that will give emotional comfort. I usually like working with transitional oils, such as Frankincense & Myrrh;lovely jasmines & lavenders ..or try a favorite scent of hers; specifically, oils that will soothe the mind and heart as well as sedate. When someone is transitioning, comfort is what is called for. There is no fighting anymore. It is so sad that pain medication is not an option for her. I can tell you from experience that there are no oils that will take away this type of pain. Reiki can help; touch therapy may not-depends on the individual. Hope this helps. Namaste, Debbi Blue Moon Herbals Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 10, 2005 Report Share Posted December 10, 2005 If they truly want help, find a TCM doctor. TaMara Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 10, 2005 Report Share Posted December 10, 2005 TaMara wrote: > If they truly want help, find a TCM doctor. > > TaMara TCM Doctor? Neysa Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 10, 2005 Report Share Posted December 10, 2005 Hi Chris, I am wondering about reflexology or shiatsu? I know they have down research on reflexology with cancer patients...don't have the article handy. :)Paula Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 11, 2005 Report Share Posted December 11, 2005 Hi Chris, I was at a women's spirituality day recently and took a workshop from a gal that plays the harp. She does volunteer work with terminally ill people. She is a Certified Music Thanatologist. I don't know if you can look that up in your phone book or your friend can, but it would be worth a shot. I spoke with this woman about the possibilities of using aromatherapy at the same time with the music. She said it sounded promising. The work she does is to take a patient/client " away from their pain " through the music. She said having live music made the difference and playing tunes that they do NOT know so that they can focus on the tune and not any memories that may be associated with a particular song is what helps and the vibrations as well. Anyway, I thought it was very cool and thought I'd mention it as an option. Email me privately if you'd like her name and number. She may know of an association or something for other states. Sincerely, Margaret > >My friend, who is a chiropractic assistant, called me the other day >telling me she has a friend who has a relative who is terminally ill >with cancer and has only a very short time to live. Unfortunately, to >make matters worse, the lady with cancer is allergic to all the pain >meds the docs have given her (they make her even MORE ill and feel even >worse). > >The family then asked my friend if she knew of anything, outside of the >realm of conventional options, that they could do to help their loved >one. They aren't looking for a miracle cure or anything like that. They >are just looking for any kind of ways that she can be made more >comfortable in her last days - even if its emotionally comfortable - and >hopefully some way she can be made physically more comfortable - whether >it be through aromatherapy, or gentle touch, or reiki, or ... > >Does anyone have any experience with this type of thing? I have a report >a gal I knew back in Denver did about using EO's and Aromatherapy for >comfort in a hospice situation, but I wanted to put it out here too as I >know over the years some folks here have mentioned they've worked with >terminally ill folks and/or knew about hospice care. > >*Smile* >Chris (list mom) > >http://www.alittleolfactory.com > >Preview The New Site ~ A Work In Progress! >http://www.alittleolfactory.com/main2.htm > >Think left and think right and think low and think high. Oh, the thinks >you can think up if only you try! >- Dr Seuss > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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