Guest guest Posted April 16, 2005 Report Share Posted April 16, 2005 Memes are to culture what genes are to biology. They are fundamental ideas that guide development and decision. Memes may evolve like genes and like genes may serve a useful purpose for a period of time, then become obsolete or dangerous. I have stated before that I think the chinese idea of associating a wide range of illnesses with loss of essence from sexual activity to be a bogus idea. Restraining promiscuity serves numerous social and health purposes, so there is a survival advantage for such an idea regardless of its veracity. To the premodern mind, it seems quite logical. Essence in the form of semen definitely plays a role in conception. The chinese knew this. If essence thus somehow contained the seed of life, then it followed that conserving this essence would lead to a longer life. In the extreme scenario, daoists claimed total conservation and transformation of essence led to immortality. there are probably only a few among us who believe the latter statement, yet quite a few (even most) have blindly adopted the more confucian view that sex is just bad for health and society. Why do we reject the more extreme statement, but not the other? Immortality is not considered possible by most, thus any such claims hold as much water as unicorns and dragons do. Yet in our fundamentalist society, with so many in our field guided by some form of faith based adherence, it may be more wishful thinking than anything else. For just as there is no evidence of dragons, there is also overwhelming evidence that sexual excesses, in the absence of infection or exhaustion, have no measurable adverse effect on health. In fact, all evidence points to the opposite. Celibacy leads to severe health problems, for which masturbation is the recommended medical therapy. It is quite possible and even considered likely by mainstream sexologists that diseases associated with sexual activity in ancient times were actually STDs, not loss of essence, attack by demons or retribution by god. But without a theory or data to support a concept of infection by microorganisms, this would have hardly occurred to the chinese, especially if the infection was low grade and chronic, like syphilis. The confucians were moralists who already opposed sex outside marriage when they latched on to this esoteric idea derived from daoism and tantra. What is the difference between this idea and the one widely held by many modern chinese and fundamentalist christians that AIDs is due to prohibited sexual activity rather than a virus. Chinese Herbs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 17, 2005 Report Share Posted April 17, 2005 , wrote: I have stated before that I think the > chinese idea of associating a wide range of illnesses with loss of > essence from sexual activity to be a bogus idea. Restraining > promiscuity serves numerous social and health purposes, so there is a > survival advantage for such an idea regardless of its veracity. This meme is indeed an interesting one to analyze with an open mind. While this notion is widely accepted both in the Chinese and Western TCM communities, it's veracity is also questioned by many practitioners, both Eastern and Western alike. In many situations, Chinese medicine has a relatively poor distinction between cause and effect. It would have been obvious that older men have decreased ejaculate and decreased sexual performance at the same time as they experience weakening of memory, bones, stamina, etc. The use of correspondence systems such as five-phase theory allows us to link these various symptoms together under the concept of waning kidney essence. It is easy to see how a causal link could be suggested between the obviously reduced quantity of essence (measured by the decrease in ejaculate) and the surrounded features of a general decline in health. In the modern worldview, we know that the testicles are essentially manufacturing a renewable resource. While its efficient production is affected by general health and disease, we know semen to be something that is not stored forever in any finite quantity, but rather something that is manufactured on demand. If it was assumed in ancient times that one has a given quantity of essence and that the decreased semen production seen with aging is a sign that it is running out, it is not hard to see how diminishing semen would be associated with the various other maladies of aging that concurrently present. However, the decreased semen production seen with aging may simply be a symptom of a general waning of vitality, rather than a causative factor that is responsible for the decline. I recently asked Feng Ye about this subject, and he had an interesting response. He mentioned seeing 90 year-old patients in excellent health that claimed that the secret to their longevity was making love every day. Thus, experience sometimes stands in direct conflict with classical theory. Feng Ye mentioned that ancient texts related many diseases to sexual taxation. As the medicine was increasingly developed and acquired a more sophisticated understanding of the etiology of diseases, we find a consistent decrease in the amount of diseases assigned to bedroom taxation. In other words, many diseases that were poorly understood were assigned to bedroom taxation as a default explanation. As the notions of disease causation were refined, there was a drop in the number of conditions associated with excess sex. It is likely that many doctors blamed diseases that they could not figure out on sexual excess, and as they had increasingly better explanations, sexual excess had less prominence as a cause of disease. Another factor that should be taken into consideration is the set and setting of sexual activity. This varies a great deal between individuals, to say nothing of the variance that would have occurred over the course of history. A positive sexual experience that has a reciprocal exchange seems that it would not necessarily result in a net loss of essence per se; maybe an exchange of different types of essence, but not necessarily a loss. I think many men would say that masturbation in very large quantities does tend to make one a bit tired; it certainly reduces the quantity of ejaculate and the strength of the individual orgasms until rest allows the supply to keep up with the demand. But ill-effects from a lot of fantastic sex with a clean partner? I think it is unlikely. One can subjectively experience a feeling of great health after such a thing; if anything, it gets the hormones in gear and causes the body to increase supply to keep up with the demand. At any rate, it is a question that should be reasonably evaluated. brought up some really good points in the prior post. Culture has a huge effect on our perception of sex and what is or is not healthy, desirable, and natural. Eric Brand Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 19, 2005 Report Share Posted April 19, 2005 At 03:41 AM 4/17/2005, you wrote: >At any rate, it is a question that should be reasonably evaluated. >Todd brought up some really good points in the prior post. Culture >has a huge effect on our perception of sex and what is or is not >healthy, desirable, and natural. > >Eric Brand Eric and all - This, to me, is the key statement in this discussion. None of what we do/perceive, etc., can be completely divorced from our cultural background. There is no question but that the moralistic nature of Confucian thought informed the Chinese attitudes towards sex - but this moralistic nature emerged later, more with the neo-confucian re-examination of Confucian thought than with early Confucian thought. All cultures, without exception, have had moral taboos about sex, ranging from abstinence during menstruation to avoiding same sex partners to avoiding sex with close relatives. In China, as in many other cultures, these taboos found their way into the practice of Chinese medicine. Does having sex during menstruation really cause blood stasis? Can masturbation cause blindness? It is precisely this cultural nature of Chinese medicine that makes it so important to study Chinese history and culture in order to understand Chinese medicine. To study Daoism out of the context of Chinese culture creates a very weird fantasy of what Daoist thought is. This is also true of Chinese medicine. And, I might add, I believe to also be true of studying " western " medicine outside of the context of western culture. While it may still " work " it is not as well understand. TO try to understand the Chinese conception of the body requires an understanding of the context within which that body developed - historical, political, cultural, economic etc. This is what Unschuld tried to get across in A History of Ideas. It is simply that the book requires several readings before it all sinks in. >Another factor that should be taken into consideration is the set and >setting of sexual activity. This varies a great deal between >individuals, to say nothing of the variance that would have occurred >over the course of history. A positive sexual experience that has a >reciprocal exchange seems that it would not necessarily result in a >net loss of essence per se; maybe an exchange of different types of >essence, but not necessarily a loss. I think many men would say that >masturbation in very large quantities does tend to make one a bit >tired; it certainly reduces the quantity of ejaculate and the strength >of the individual orgasms until rest allows the supply to keep up with >the demand. But ill-effects from a lot of fantastic sex with a clean >partner? I think it is unlikely. One can subjectively experience a >feeling of great health after such a thing; if anything, it gets the >hormones in gear and causes the body to increase supply to keep up >with the demand. Overall, my feeling is that Chinese medicine holds out the same philosophy about sex as it does about food, exercise, etc., etc.. MODERATION in all things. While it may be unlikely that ill-effects would occur from fantastic sex with a clean partner, for a 45 year old man/woman to have fantastic sex with a clean partner several times a day for many days/weeks would, in the end, create taxation. Maybe not for a 20 year old man/woman, but, as Sun Si Miao pointed out, different levels of sexual activity are appropriate at different ages. We cannot make an exact correlation between his age-groups and sexual activity and present day circumstances, as we are living longer, healthier lives, and so 65 is no longer the cut-off point for having any sex, but, his statements about moderation and appropriate behavior for one's age group are still relevant. As we age, our sp/st is not as capable of producing a surplus of qi/blood, therefor we must change our habits in order to accomodate what our body is capable of. This is true for diet, for sleep, for activity etc. Sex is no different than any other activity we engage in. It is simply that our unique culture places such heavy emphasis on sexual activity and libido as the metaphor for health and vitality. Women go through menopause because the body can no longer produce the surplus blood needed to continue this process. Men do not have as obvious a physical change, but they do need to adjust to the limitations of their body. Their will always be examples of individuals who have lived lives quite different from what this type of thinking - men who father children at age 80, women who carry children at age 60. Individuals who smoked all their lives with perfectly clean lungs etc., but the majority of us have our weakness reflected in our bodies. While sex may not be the cause of disease, overexertion or inappropriate exertion can lead to disease. Marnae > , wrote: > I have stated before that I think the > > chinese idea of associating a wide range of illnesses with loss of > > essence from sexual activity to be a bogus idea. Restraining > > promiscuity serves numerous social and health purposes, so there is a > > survival advantage for such an idea regardless of its veracity. > > >This meme is indeed an interesting one to analyze with an open mind. >While this notion is widely accepted both in the Chinese and Western >TCM communities, it's veracity is also questioned by many >practitioners, both Eastern and Western alike. > >In many situations, Chinese medicine has a relatively poor distinction >between cause and effect. It would have been obvious that older men >have decreased ejaculate and decreased sexual performance at the same >time as they experience weakening of memory, bones, stamina, etc. The >use of correspondence systems such as five-phase theory allows us to >link these various symptoms together under the concept of waning >kidney essence. It is easy to see how a causal link could be >suggested between the obviously reduced quantity of essence (measured >by the decrease in ejaculate) and the surrounded features of a general >decline in health. > >In the modern worldview, we know that the testicles are essentially >manufacturing a renewable resource. While its efficient production is >affected by general health and disease, we know semen to be something >that is not stored forever in any finite quantity, but rather >something that is manufactured on demand. If it was assumed in >ancient times that one has a given quantity of essence and that the >decreased semen production seen with aging is a sign that it is >running out, it is not hard to see how diminishing semen would be >associated with the various other maladies of aging that concurrently >present. However, the decreased semen production seen with aging may >simply be a symptom of a general waning of vitality, rather than a >causative factor that is responsible for the decline. > >I recently asked Feng Ye about this subject, and he had an interesting >response. He mentioned seeing 90 year-old patients in excellent >health that claimed that the secret to their longevity was making love >every day. Thus, experience sometimes stands in direct conflict with >classical theory. Feng Ye mentioned that ancient texts related many >diseases to sexual taxation. As the medicine was increasingly >developed and acquired a more sophisticated understanding of the >etiology of diseases, we find a consistent decrease in the amount of >diseases assigned to bedroom taxation. In other words, many diseases >that were poorly understood were assigned to bedroom taxation as a >default explanation. As the notions of disease causation were >refined, there was a drop in the number of conditions associated with >excess sex. It is likely that many doctors blamed diseases that they >could not figure out on sexual excess, and as they had increasingly >better explanations, sexual excess had less prominence as a cause of >disease. > >Another factor that should be taken into consideration is the set and >setting of sexual activity. This varies a great deal between >individuals, to say nothing of the variance that would have occurred >over the course of history. A positive sexual experience that has a >reciprocal exchange seems that it would not necessarily result in a >net loss of essence per se; maybe an exchange of different types of >essence, but not necessarily a loss. I think many men would say that >masturbation in very large quantities does tend to make one a bit >tired; it certainly reduces the quantity of ejaculate and the strength >of the individual orgasms until rest allows the supply to keep up with >the demand. But ill-effects from a lot of fantastic sex with a clean >partner? I think it is unlikely. One can subjectively experience a >feeling of great health after such a thing; if anything, it gets the >hormones in gear and causes the body to increase supply to keep up >with the demand. > >At any rate, it is a question that should be reasonably evaluated. >Todd brought up some really good points in the prior post. Culture >has a huge effect on our perception of sex and what is or is not >healthy, desirable, and natural. > >Eric Brand > > > > > > >Chinese Herbal Medicine offers various professional services, including >board approved continuing education classes, an annual conference and a >free discussion forum in Chinese Herbal Medicine. > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 20, 2005 Report Share Posted April 20, 2005 , Marnae Ergil <marnae@p...> wrote: > At 03:41 AM 4/17/2005, you wrote: > > Overall, my feeling is that Chinese medicine holds out the same philosophy > about sex as it does about food, exercise, etc., etc.. MODERATION in all > things. > Marnae C. Ergil, M.A, M.S., L.Ac. > Huntington Herbs & Acupuncture > (631) 549-6755 The other thing I would like to throw in the pot is the importance of consciousness in all these normal actvities tend to make them more beneficial to health - one way this happens is that it is harder to not be " moderate " when we aren't avoiding the present moment. My guess is that whatever we do with a complete presence of mind (or as much as we can muster), whether that be really tasting the food we eat rather than shovelling whatever is in front of us down, or feeling our body posture and how we use our muscles as we do our exercise routines instead of thinking about the shopping list, we get more out of that activity on a physical as well as mental level. It is not necessarily about doing something fast or slow, it is just easier to keep presence of mind when moving and acting slower, and with practice we can keep this mindfulness even when going at faster speeds (a good way to understand this is to see how fast a long-time taiji practitioner can move, but do it with an amazingly low level of muscular tension). When it comes to sex, my guess is that presence of mind cannot be maintained unless there is a " real " connection between the partners. Lots of sex with that connection is great and enlivening, lots of sex because you are addicted, bored and/or trying to distract yourself from something else hits hard afterwards on all levels (this is my experience anyway - try having sex with your partner when you are mad at them and aren't telling them and see how you both feel after). -Li Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 20, 2005 Report Share Posted April 20, 2005 Marnae, I think your point is well taken that the healthy frequency of sex is very much dependent on the individual. I had a patient who became impotent at 55 after hooking up with an extremely sexy 35 year-old. They had so much sex that it definitely did tax this man to an unhealthy point. On a personal note, I think you can determine your own optimal frequency for sex with orgasm if you pay attention to your body's feedback. At least I can, and it is definitely different at 60 than at 25, 35, or 45. Interestingly, today I read about some research conducted in Italy posted on another site and supposedly published in JAMA that looking at beautiful female breasts for 10 minutes per day is as healthful as 30 minutes of aerobic exercise for males in terms of lowering blood pressure, etc. The study was conducted and written by a woman. Unfortunately, the article was posted in Abobe Acrobat; so I was not able to copy it. Could this be a hoax, or has anyone else seen reference to such a study? Bob Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 20, 2005 Report Share Posted April 20, 2005 On Apr 20, 2005, at 9:07 AM, Bob Flaws wrote: > Interestingly, today I read about some research conducted in Italy > posted on another site and supposedly published in JAMA that looking > at beautiful female breasts for 10 minutes per day is as healthful as > 30 minutes of aerobic exercise for males in terms of lowering blood > pressure, etc. I have a patient who actually reported to me that viewing erotic art on-line calms his anxiety. The only theory I can come up with to explain this is along the lines of Kidney and Heart not communicating. The eroticism splashes the Kidney Yin upward to calm the Heart. Sort of the visual equivalent of Tian Wang Bu Xin Dan. -- Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 20, 2005 Report Share Posted April 20, 2005 On Apr 20, 2005, at 12:07 PM, Bob Flaws wrote: > Interestingly, today I read about some research conducted in Italy > posted on another site and supposedly published in JAMA that looking > at beautiful female breasts for 10 minutes per day is as healthful as > 30 minutes of aerobic exercise for males in terms of lowering blood > pressure, etc. The study was conducted and written by a woman. > Unfortunately, the article was posted in Abobe Acrobat; so I was not > able to copy it. Could this be a hoax, or has anyone else seen > reference to such a study? > Searching the JAMA site with various string permutations and combinations of " female breast blood pressure exercise Italy " came up empty. --george Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 20, 2005 Report Share Posted April 20, 2005 > > > On Behalf Of Bob Flaws > Wednesday, April 20, 2005 10:07 AM > > Re: memes > > > > Marnae, > > I think your point is well taken that the healthy frequency of sex is > very much dependent on the individual. I had a patient who became > impotent at 55 after hooking up with an extremely sexy 35 year-old. [Jason] I currently have a patient, 28 year old female, which one of her chief complaints is that every time she has an orgasm she is extremely fatigued... I think Marnae points are important, and one can always find exceptions to the rules... BTW - this patient has essence-blood vacuity, ex-drug user... The CM model fits well in her case. Because she is already so depleted she feels the depletion quite easily... I also had a similar awareness in my early 20's when I dealt with some health issues... I ask, how can one deny that sex with orgasm does not have the potential to deplete someone, especially when people report such experiences? IF it can, then it seems clear that over-sex can deplete one's reserves... For me it seems to completely depend on the patient's health, constitution et al...Of course there are people that will have sex 5 times a night and feel great... But in this case sex weakens this person very obviously, and even if the frequency is once every 2 weeks..just some food for thought... - > They had so much sex that it definitely did tax this man to an > unhealthy point. On a personal note, I think you can determine your > own optimal frequency for sex with orgasm if you pay attention to your > body's feedback. At least I can, and it is definitely different at 60 > than at 25, 35, or 45. > > Interestingly, today I read about some research conducted in Italy > posted on another site and supposedly published in JAMA that looking > at beautiful female breasts for 10 minutes per day is as healthful as > 30 minutes of aerobic exercise for males in terms of lowering blood > pressure, etc. The study was conducted and written by a woman. > Unfortunately, the article was posted in Abobe Acrobat; so I was not > able to copy it. Could this be a hoax, or has anyone else seen > reference to such a study? > > Bob Chinese Herbal Medicine offers various professional services, including > board approved continuing education classes, an annual conference and a > free discussion forum in Chinese Herbal Medicine. > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 20, 2005 Report Share Posted April 20, 2005 Conserving the fluid can be bad for you. One fourty year old was conserving his seman during sex with his mistress, so that his wife would not notice a loss of fluid. He told me that he developed prostrate problems because of that. Bob Flaws <pemachophel2001 wrote: Marnae, I think your point is well taken that the healthy frequency of sex is very much dependent on the individual. I had a patient who became impotent at 55 after hooking up with an extremely sexy 35 year-old. They had so much sex that it definitely did tax this man to an unhealthy point. On a personal note, I think you can determine your own optimal frequency for sex with orgasm if you pay attention to your body's feedback. At least I can, and it is definitely different at 60 than at 25, 35, or 45. Interestingly, today I read about some research conducted in Italy posted on another site and supposedly published in JAMA that looking at beautiful female breasts for 10 minutes per day is as healthful as 30 minutes of aerobic exercise for males in terms of lowering blood pressure, etc. The study was conducted and written by a woman. Unfortunately, the article was posted in Abobe Acrobat; so I was not able to copy it. Could this be a hoax, or has anyone else seen reference to such a study? Bob Chinese Herbal Medicine offers various professional services, including board approved continuing education classes, an annual conference and a free discussion forum in Chinese Herbal Medicine. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 20, 2005 Report Share Posted April 20, 2005 I have a patient who is his late 20's who is totally exhausted by sex, and feels like he becomes dried out by it. He has a history of drug use, and didn't start sexual activity until his 20's. He gets very cold after orgasm. On Apr 20, 2005, at 5:38 PM, wrote: > I currently have a patient, 28 year old female, which one of her chief > complaints is that every time she has an orgasm she is extremely > fatigued... > I think Marnae points are important, and one can always find > exceptions to > the rules... BTW - this patient has essence-blood vacuity, ex-drug > user... > The CM model fits well in her case. Because she is already so depleted > she > feels the depletion quite easily... I also had a similar awareness in > my > early 20's when I dealt with some health issues... I ask, how can one > deny > that sex with orgasm does not have the potential to deplete someone, > especially when people report such experiences? IF it can, then it > seems > clear that over-sex can deplete one's reserves... For me it seems to > completely depend on the patient's health, constitution et al...Of > course > there are people that will have sex 5 times a night and feel great... > But in > this case sex weakens this person very obviously, and even if the > frequency > is once every 2 weeks..just some food for thought... > > - Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 21, 2005 Report Share Posted April 21, 2005 Al, Interesting interpretation. However, sexual arousal inflames the lifegate/ministerial fire. So I doubt your explanation is correct. Anxiety typically includes nonconstruction and malnourishment of the heart spirit due to an underlying liver-spleen diahrmony. How about this? Sexual arousal promotes upbearing of the yang with consequent out-thrusting of depression. This disinhibits the qi mechanism. Further, since I assume viewing erotic art gives your patient pleasure, xi or joy/le or happiness also causes relaxation of the qi mechanism. According to many Chinese doctors, joy/happiness is the antidote to all the other affects. By relaxing binding and disinhibiting the qi mechanism, all counterflow and stagnation of the qi is rectified. Thus the viscera and bowel function is regulated and yin and yang are harmonized. Wha' d'ya think? Bob Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 21, 2005 Report Share Posted April 21, 2005 Bob - I like it! More joy to all. Marnae At 11:01 AM 4/21/2005, you wrote: >Al, > >Interesting interpretation. However, sexual arousal inflames the >lifegate/ministerial fire. So I doubt your explanation is correct. >Anxiety typically includes nonconstruction and malnourishment of the >heart spirit due to an underlying liver-spleen diahrmony. How about >this? Sexual arousal promotes upbearing of the yang with consequent >out-thrusting of depression. This disinhibits the qi mechanism. >Further, since I assume viewing erotic art gives your patient >pleasure, xi or joy/le or happiness also causes relaxation of the qi >mechanism. According to many Chinese doctors, joy/happiness is the >antidote to all the other affects. By relaxing binding and >disinhibiting the qi mechanism, all counterflow and stagnation of the >qi is rectified. Thus the viscera and bowel function is regulated and >yin and yang are harmonized. > >Wha' d'ya think? > >Bob > > > > > > >Chinese Herbal Medicine offers various professional services, including >board approved continuing education classes, an annual conference and a >free discussion forum in Chinese Herbal Medicine. > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 24, 2005 Report Share Posted April 24, 2005 This just begs the question: how would his wife notice? Cara > > Conserving the fluid can be bad for you. One fourty year old was conserving > his seman during sex with his mistress, so that his wife would not notice a > loss of fluid. He told me that he developed prostrate problems because of > that. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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