Guest guest Posted February 19, 2008 Report Share Posted February 19, 2008 Strange to have found this e-mail this AM. After a year of one major event after another, I was put on two drugs for depresion. Last weekend I took myself off of them because I found myself suddenly becoming even more depressed, becoming a loner and contemplating suicide. NONE of these are like me. I tend to be very outgoing and have a positive outlook on life. I STRONGLY believe that some meds can and DO create these tendencies in some people. I am going to the Dr. this AM as you are never to stop taking them as I did. However, waking up depressed, hating to hear the phone ring, little events of the day sending me into depression and living a life that is just not me is no way to live. -Helen Mike Adams has done some good reporting on the connection between kids/psychiatric drugs and homicidal tendencies. Good read. http://www.naturalnews.com/022656.html Be well, Marcia Elston Recent Activity 7New Members 2New Files Visit Your Group Meditation and Lovingkindness A Group to share and learn. Health Healthy Aging Improve your quality of life. Curves on A group for women to share & discuss food & weight loss.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 19, 2008 Report Share Posted February 19, 2008 Oh gosh, everyone is different. I, too, have gone through a series of events ... seems to be a lifestyle now ... that certainly did a number on me. While I was continuing to function (in terms of showing up for work), I did little else. Cried a lot. Slept alot. Lexapro certainly made a difference for me. I guess I was lucky, got the right meds for my situation. The causes and such of mental illness/depression/etc. are so vast and varied. They never write news articles on the people thsee meds have worked for. Only the tragic situations. And one does not just quit these drugs, you have to wean off them slowly under a doc's care. This young man had a history of mental illness. He obviously kept his demons well hidden even from his girlfriend who was so very devasted and understandably confused by it all. I think young men in general, say between the ages of 17 to 30, are vulnerable to the angry young man " syndrome " (my words). Hormones wildly fluctuating, hurtful things going on in school (is there anyone in this group who would happily go back and live through their jr. high or high school years?). If they are weaken by some biological, genetic, or home-based, etc. reason and don't somehow make it beyond that, then there's an ever-lasting kink in the armour. I read today that there seems to be an increase in suicide among middle-aged men. The pressures are always there, be it financial, relationship, etc. Unless coping skills are learned and we realize it's OK to be largely imperfect, life can be tough. Dede , " Steven Allensworth " <worth249 wrote: > > Strange to have found this e-mail this AM. After a year of one major event after another, I was put on two drugs for depresion. Last weekend I took myself off of them because I found myself suddenly becoming even more depressed, becoming a loner and contemplating suicide. NONE of these are like me. I tend to be very outgoing and have a positive outlook on life. I STRONGLY believe that some meds can and DO create these tendencies in some people. I am going to the Dr. this AM as you are never to stop taking them as I did. However, waking up depressed, hating to hear the phone ring, little events of the day sending me into depression and living a life that is just not me is no way to live. > -Helen > > > > > Mike Adams has done some good reporting on the connection between > kids/psychiatric drugs and homicidal tendencies. Good read. > http://www.naturalnews.com/022656.html > > Be well, > Marcia Elston > > Recent Activity > 7New Members > 2New Files > Visit Your Group > Meditation and > Lovingkindness > A Group > to share and learn. > Health > Healthy Aging > Improve your > quality of life. > Curves on > A group for women > to share & discuss > food & weight loss.. > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 19, 2008 Report Share Posted February 19, 2008 Helen wrote: <Last weekend I took myself off of them because I found myself suddenly becoming even more depressed, becoming a loner and contemplating suicide. . And: I am going to the Dr. this AM as you are never to stop taking them as I did. PHEW! You scared me for a moment! The poor kid who murdered all those people in Illinois had just quit cold turkey too. Do NOT do that! That warning is the first thing you see on the http://drugawareness.org website. Ien in the Kootenays http://freegreenliving.com (blog) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 20, 2008 Report Share Posted February 20, 2008 Glad to see the responses and such diverse opinions and good advice. Shows to go that so many of us have personal experience in our families with these issues. Sadly, I remember a time when it was the exception, not perhaps the rule. I totally agree that this is only one of the causes for this kind of behavior and we could drive our selves crazy trying to come up with any one definitive answer that fits all circumstances. The thing I think we have to get, however, is that every action or deed has unintended consequences and we perhaps haven't been as in tune with that concept. With the right information, we perhaps can avoid those consequences we might not desire some of the time. Be well, Marcia Elston Samara Botane/Nature Intelligence, est. 1988 http://www.wingedseed.com Online 3/95 http://www.aromaconnection.org Group Blog 2/07 " Historically, the most terrible things - war, genocide and slavery - have resulted from obedience, not disobedience. " Howard Zinn > > > On Behalf Of Ieneke van Houten > Tuesday, February 19, 2008 1:53 PM > > Re: Interesting - Psychiatric Drugs > > Helen wrote: > <Last weekend I took myself off of them because I found > myself suddenly becoming even more depressed, becoming a > loner and contemplating suicide. . > > And: > I am going to the Dr. this AM as you are never to stop > taking them as I did. > > PHEW! You scared me for a moment! The poor kid who murdered > all those people in Illinois had just quit cold turkey too. > Do NOT do that! > That warning is the first thing you see on the > http://drugawareness.org website. > > Ien in the Kootenays > http://freegreenliving.com (blog) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 20, 2008 Report Share Posted February 20, 2008 The hardest part for many of us in the area of this tragedy (I'm within 30 minutes and have friends and relatives as well as neighbors associated with NIU and the Dekalb area) is that there was no way to see it coming and even though he is said to be " off his meds " he planned and strategically enacted a horrific act and at this time there has been no mention as to any reason or association that may have drawn him to his former school to take the lives of innocent people. The community is shaken beyond belief. To top it off we now have that Baptist Church trying to protest the vigils being held for the victims. They can pass new gun laws they can try and legislate mental illness the truth is you can't stop crazy things with band-aid legislation. There is no easy answer. Kathryn Chapman Painted Goat Farm BEWARE OF THE SHEEP! " Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it's time to reform. " Mark Twain Looking for last minute shopping deals? Find them fast with Search. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 21, 2008 Report Share Posted February 21, 2008 Kathryn, " Beware of the Sheep " -- precious! Dede , Kathryn Chapman <paintedgoatfarm wrote: > > The hardest part for many of us in the area of this tragedy (I'm within 30 minutes and have friends and relatives as well as neighbors associated with NIU and the Dekalb area) is that there was no way to see it coming and even though he is said to be " off his meds " he planned and strategically enacted a horrific act and at this time there has been no mention as to any reason or association that may have drawn him to his former school to take the lives of innocent people. The community is shaken beyond belief. To top it off we now have that Baptist Church trying to protest the vigils being held for the victims. They can pass new gun laws they can try and legislate mental illness the truth is you can't stop crazy things with band-aid legislation. There is no easy answer. > > Kathryn Chapman > Painted Goat Farm > > BEWARE OF THE SHEEP! > > " Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it's time to reform. " > Mark Twain > > > > Looking for last minute shopping deals? Find them fast with Search. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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