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HI All,

 

The thread on anorexia nervosa prompts this mail. I am not an expert in

psych cases (I am a vet, not a medic!). However, I know several people with

severe personality disorders and / or addiction problems with self-

destruction tendencies.

 

A search of Medline indicates clearly that anorexia nervosa is a major

personality disorder with a high prevalance of self-injury, attempted suicide

and actual suicide. Some papers rank suicide as the main cause of death in

AN patients and others place suicide as #2 cause of death.

 

I have had bad experiences when trying to help people with suicidal

tendencies. Therefore, I caution those of you not expert in treating such

conditions to stay far away from them, or at least to become involved in

treating them on the strict understanding that the patient receives expert

psychiatric help.

 

Indeed, it is advisable (IMO) that TCM practitioners consult regularly with the

MD & psychiatrist primarily responsible for conventional Tx of the patient.

 

IMO, self-hate (or, rather, the absence of self-love / self-respect / good self-

image) is the fundamental underlying problem in all the cases that I know.

 

To really help these people is a mammoth task. THEY must face up to their

problem and totally reconstruct their self-image and their view of the world.

 

That is VERY difficult because most of these people have been abused

sexually, physically or emotionally in the past by people whom they loved /

trusted. The abuse shattered their self-image and their trust in others.

 

The most recent case that I am trying to help is in her fifties. She has

attempted suicide several times, and cuts herself regularly. Some weeks

ago, she drank a bottle of spirits and an overdose of tranquillisers while

staying in a friend's home about 5 minutes from mine.

 

Her friend found her semicomatose and called several medics, none of

which would go to the scene; they said to call an ambulance! When she did,

she was told that it might take an hour for the ambulance to get there.

Therefore, she called me to give first-aid. I used acupuncture at GV26 to

save the poor woman's life (temporarily) before the ambulance came. Within

minutes of needling GV26 (strongly), the woman became conscious but the

effects of the overdose of alcohol & drugs (slurred and partly incoherent

speech) were present. The ambulance came eventually and took her to the

Psych hospital.

 

The victim's FATHER, an old man who abused his two daughters repeatedly

since childhood, visited her in the hospital after that suicide attempt. She

told

me that he slipped his hand under the sheet and tried to molest her sexually

when the nurse left the room.

 

Despite DECADES of abuse from their father, neither she nor her sister

(also seriously disturbed) will report him to the police. [Friends HAVE told the

police, but the police cannot prosecute the abuser unless the victims request

it; they will not do so]. What can one on the periphery really do for such

tragic cases?

 

My youngest brother (ex-RC priest, now an Anglican priest married to an ex-

RC nun) with a special calling to help crippled spirits. He was chaplain for

many years to a hospital for battered children, where he tried his best to

console the children and counsel their abusive parents. He also has worked

for years with suicidal people (sometimes keeping them in his home during

their perids of crisis). He would be first to admit final failure - he told me

that,

sooner or later, most suicidal people in his personal experience take their

own lives. They simply do not wish to live their realities (or perceived

realities) any longer.

 

Bottom line ... IMO, we are way out of our depth if we think that we can treat

such cases successfully with a few herbs or acupuncture needles.

Unfortunately, loving such people, praying for them and trying to be a good

listener and first-aider are simply not enough.

 

May G_d have Mercy on them and on their friends and families.

 

Best regards,

 

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Phil,

 

A few yrs back I went to an all-weekend seminar

on eating disorders in Seattle. The teaching team

was extremely renowned, a psychologist,

nutritionist and internist with subspecialties in

adolescent medicine and eating disorders. They

did, in fact, quote mortality from AN as 20-25%,

but stately clearly that death from inanation was

probably not more than 5%. Suicides accounted

from the other 15-20%. There is also a lot of

overlap with EDs and other patterns of

self-injury and addiction.

 

Lynn

 

--- < wrote:

 

> HI All,

>

> The thread on anorexia nervosa prompts this

> mail. I am not an expert in psych cases (I am a

vet, not a medic!). However, I know several

people with severe personality disorders and / or

addiction problems with self-destruction

tendencies.

>

> A search of Medline indicates clearly that

> anorexia nervosa is a major personality

disorder with a high prevalance of self-injury,

attempted suicide and actual suicide. Some papers

rank suicide as the main cause of death in AN

patients and others place suicide as #2

> cause of death.

 

~ Doing Better Than I Deserve ~

 

Pain is Normal - Be Weird!

 

Lynn Detamore, MS, L.Ac., Dipl.Ac.

Licensed and Board Certified Acupuncturist

PO Box 14, Sheridan, OR 97378

503.474.8876

lynndetamore

 

 

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after looking in several dictionaries on line I was finally able to

use my Taber's to discover the word below is 'inanition' - not

'inanation'. Any day with a new word is a good day!

Put that in the spelling bee!

 

ann

 

On Dec 7, 2007, at 1:37 AM, J. Lynn Detamore wrote:

 

> Phil,

>

> A few yrs back I went to an all-weekend seminar

> on eating disorders in Seattle. The teaching team

> was extremely renowned, a psychologist,

> nutritionist and internist with subspecialties in

> adolescent medicine and eating disorders. They

> did, in fact, quote mortality from AN as 20-25%,

> but stately clearly that death from inanation was

> probably not more than 5%. Suicides accounted

> from the other 15-20%. There is also a lot of

> overlap with EDs and other patterns of

> self-injury and addiction.

>

> Lynn

>

> --- < wrote:

>

> > HI All,

> >

> > The thread on anorexia nervosa prompts this

> > mail. I am not an expert in psych cases (I am a

> vet, not a medic!). However, I know several

> people with severe personality disorders and / or

> addiction problems with self-destruction

> tendencies.

> >

> > A search of Medline indicates clearly that

> > anorexia nervosa is a major personality

> disorder with a high prevalance of self-injury,

> attempted suicide and actual suicide. Some papers

> rank suicide as the main cause of death in AN

> patients and others place suicide as #2

> > cause of death.

>

> ~ Doing Better Than I Deserve ~

>

> Pain is Normal - Be Weird!

>

> Lynn Detamore, MS, L.Ac., Dipl.Ac.

> Licensed and Board Certified Acupuncturist

> PO Box 14, Sheridan, OR 97378

> 503.474.8876

> lynndetamore

>

> ________

> Be a better friend, newshound, and

> know-it-all with Mobile. Try it now. http://

> mobile./;_ylt=Ahu06i62sR8HDtDypao8Wcj9tAcJ

>

>

>

 

 

 

 

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hey, thank you ann!

 

 

--- A Brameier <snakeoil.works

wrote:

 

> after looking in several dictionaries on line I

> was finally able to

> use my Taber's to discover the word below is

> 'inanition' - not

> 'inanation'. Any day with a new word is a good

> day!

> Put that in the spelling bee!

>

> ann

>

> On Dec 7, 2007, at 1:37 AM, J. Lynn Detamore

> wrote:

>

> > Phil,

> >

> > A few yrs back I went to an all-weekend

> seminar

> > on eating disorders in Seattle. The teaching

> team

> > was extremely renowned, a psychologist,

> > nutritionist and internist with

> subspecialties in

> > adolescent medicine and eating disorders.

> They

> > did, in fact, quote mortality from AN as

> 20-25%,

> > but stately clearly that death from inanation

> was

> > probably not more than 5%. Suicides accounted

> > from the other 15-20%. There is also a lot of

> > overlap with EDs and other patterns of

> > self-injury and addiction.

> >

> > Lynn

> >

> > --- < wrote:

> >

> > > HI All,

> > >

> > > The thread on anorexia nervosa prompts this

> > > mail. I am not an expert in psych cases (I

> am a

> > vet, not a medic!). However, I know several

> > people with severe personality disorders and

> / or

> > addiction problems with self-destruction

> > tendencies.

> > >

> > > A search of Medline indicates clearly that

> > > anorexia nervosa is a major personality

> > disorder with a high prevalance of

> self-injury,

> > attempted suicide and actual suicide. Some

> papers

> > rank suicide as the main cause of death in AN

> > patients and others place suicide as #2

> > > cause of death.

> >

> > ~ Doing Better Than I Deserve ~

> >

> > Pain is Normal - Be Weird!

> >

> > Lynn Detamore, MS, L.Ac., Dipl.Ac.

> > Licensed and Board Certified Acupuncturist

> > PO Box 14, Sheridan, OR 97378

> > 503.474.8876

> > lynndetamore

> >

> >

>

________

> > Be a better friend, newshound, and

> > know-it-all with Mobile. Try it now.

> http://

> >

>

mobile./;_ylt=Ahu06i62sR8HDtDypao8Wcj9tAcJ

> >

> >

> >

>

>

>

> [Non-text portions of this message have been

> removed]

>

>

 

 

~ Doing Better Than I Deserve ~

 

Pain is Normal - Be Weird!

 

Lynn Detamore, MS, L.Ac., Dipl.Ac.

Licensed and Board Certified Acupuncturist

PO Box 14, Sheridan, OR 97378

503.474.8876

lynndetamore

 

 

______________________________\

____

Be a better friend, newshound, and

know-it-all with Mobile. Try it now.

http://mobile./;_ylt=Ahu06i62sR8HDtDypao8Wcj9tAcJ

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no prob. Thank YOU!

 

 

On Dec 7, 2007, at 12:23 PM, J. Lynn Detamore wrote:

 

> hey, thank you ann!

>

> --- A Brameier <snakeoil.works

> wrote:

>

> > after looking in several dictionaries on line I

> > was finally able to

> > use my Taber's to discover the word below is

> > 'inanition' - not

> > 'inanation'. Any day with a new word is a good

> > day!

> > Put that in the spelling bee!

> >

> > ann

> >

> > On Dec 7, 2007, at 1:37 AM, J. Lynn Detamore

> > wrote:

> >

> > > Phil,

> > >

> > > A few yrs back I went to an all-weekend

> > seminar

> > > on eating disorders in Seattle. The teaching

> > team

> > > was extremely renowned, a psychologist,

> > > nutritionist and internist with

> > subspecialties in

> > > adolescent medicine and eating disorders.

> > They

> > > did, in fact, quote mortality from AN as

> > 20-25%,

> > > but stately clearly that death from inanation

> > was

> > > probably not more than 5%. Suicides accounted

> > > from the other 15-20%. There is also a lot of

> > > overlap with EDs and other patterns of

> > > self-injury and addiction.

> > >

> > > Lynn

> > >

> > > --- < wrote:

> > >

> > > > HI All,

> > > >

> > > > The thread on anorexia nervosa prompts this

> > > > mail. I am not an expert in psych cases (I

> > am a

> > > vet, not a medic!). However, I know several

> > > people with severe personality disorders and

> > / or

> > > addiction problems with self-destruction

> > > tendencies.

> > > >

> > > > A search of Medline indicates clearly that

> > > > anorexia nervosa is a major personality

> > > disorder with a high prevalance of

> > self-injury,

> > > attempted suicide and actual suicide. Some

> > papers

> > > rank suicide as the main cause of death in AN

> > > patients and others place suicide as #2

> > > > cause of death.

> > >

> > > ~ Doing Better Than I Deserve ~

> > >

> > > Pain is Normal - Be Weird!

> > >

> > > Lynn Detamore, MS, L.Ac., Dipl.Ac.

> > > Licensed and Board Certified Acupuncturist

> > > PO Box 14, Sheridan, OR 97378

> > > 503.474.8876

> > > lynndetamore

> > >

> > >

> >

> ________

> > > Be a better friend, newshound, and

> > > know-it-all with Mobile. Try it now.

> > http://

> > >

> >

> mobile./;_ylt=Ahu06i62sR8HDtDypao8Wcj9tAcJ

> > >

> > >

> > >

> >

> >

> >

> > [Non-text portions of this message have been

> > removed]

> >

> >

>

> ~ Doing Better Than I Deserve ~

>

> Pain is Normal - Be Weird!

>

> Lynn Detamore, MS, L.Ac., Dipl.Ac.

> Licensed and Board Certified Acupuncturist

> PO Box 14, Sheridan, OR 97378

> 503.474.8876

> lynndetamore

>

> ________

> Be a better friend, newshound, and

> know-it-all with Mobile. Try it now. http://

> mobile./;_ylt=Ahu06i62sR8HDtDypao8Wcj9tAcJ

>

>

>

 

 

 

 

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