Purification/renee

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Wow Georgeann....Thanks! (I'm at work now...no time to write...more

later....) Hugs, Renee

 

 

, Georgeann

Muntin <gmuntin> wrote:

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> Renee

> sounds like you understand the situation that the

> " hummer " does it as s sort of self soothing and is not

> aware she is doing it. If I was the project manager I

> would talk to the woman in a positive light and let

> her know that in a shared office space it is part of

> the office ediquiette to refrain from music or other

> repetitive sounds that impact others. I would get

> permission from her for others to " remind " her when

> she is humming in a kind generous and slightly playful

> way with the expectation that those reminders are a

> clue for her to put effort in being mindfull and to

> not hum. Maybe a substitute for her is that she could

> wear some earphones and listen to music! (but only if

> she didn't sing along! lol)

> Anyway as a manager i tended to be pretty forthright

> with compassion and it generally worked.

> I have some empathy for her as a child I was a

> " singer " especially when I got nervous or afraid and

> it drove my parents crazy, they told me " only addle

> (and oldtime word for crazy) people sing all the time,

> and it REALLY pissed them off when I would do

> something like leave my purse in a restaurant and then

> notice it half way home, meaning they had to turn the

> car around and go back to get it, all the time i am

> singing in the back seat.

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> One thing if it doesnt stop and you want to try and

> make a practice out of it, I have done this practice

> with annoying sound forms for several years is that I

> work on attaching a different set of

> reactions/pictures to the sound form. For example, my

> partner is snoring and it drives me crazy, but i begin

> subsituting all the mind chatter of that " I can't

> stand one more minute " with " that sounds like waves

> crashing in the ocean " it takes awhile, but now i hear

> snoring as waves crashing on the ocean and that sound

> is just fine with me and I can go to sleep. Another

> example when my neighbor left each morning her dogs

> would begin barking. Two of them incessently,

> assaulting the beautiful quiet of the morning. I

> decided to hear the sounds as different instruments in

> an ochestra. This one took awhile but eventually my

> mind just didnt even hear them anymore. I accepted

> them as part of my environment and not as " something

> that shouldn't be that way " and even got to where I

> could make a joke of it. One morning when someone ask

> me when time I wanted to leave, I said " oh about 30

> minutes before barking dogs " with no resentment, just

> as oh they are part of my life. (they always started

> at 7:30 a. Car alarms that go off and then go on and

> on before the owner gets up are another annoying sound

> I have experimented with. Just to see the sounds as

> sound sculputres,.

> Anyway this all flows for me, from some buddhist

> teachings by a favorite monk of mine, when he said if

> something stinks, the stink is in you. lol

> This practice doesnt mean to just be passive and never

> try and be forthright or go to the person and see what

> accomodation can be worked out. It just shows that the

> ultimate resolution can as I know you are very aware

> comes within

> thanks for sharing the problem of the humming it was

> interesting

> georgeann

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> But if your manager is not able or willing to give

> that kind but firm

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> --- reneedots <reneedots> wrote:

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> > ....well.....we've briefly discussed this type of

> > thing before,

> > Chris.....I tend to attract deeply wounded people,

> > as do you, as

> > well. My tendency has been to automatically offer

> > assistance in

> > whatever way I intuit. However, in this case, what I

> > " get " , is that

> > this young woman plays the helpless, 'I need

> > somebody to take care of

> > me, so please feel sorry for me, card' to such a

> > degree that what she

> > is really expecting is for people to enable her. So,

> > any " help " I

> > give, in the way that she expects, will actually be

> > contrary to what

> > her spirit is needing......in other words, I need to

> > Not help.

> > Further enabling will not help her to grow.

> > I ended up talking a bit with the project

> > manager, who has an

> > interest in seeing that I have enough peace and

> > quiet to work. We'll

> > see what he can do next Tuesday when everyone is

> > back to work.

> > You're right that people have been attracted to

> > my energy, and for

> > the most part, they don't seem to know why. Also, I

> > think that they

> > don't quite understand the nature of the attraction,

> > and only realize

> > that for whatever reason, they're attracted to the

> > energy. That puts

> > responsibility on me to create stronger boundaries.

> > The K rushes have come back, to some degree,

> > after the holidays.

> > As long as I remember to direct them up my spine, I

> > stay relatively

> > peaceful. I feel that one of the reasons that

> > Richard and I are

> > there, on the job, is simply to Hold the energy

> > there.....does that

> > make sense? It's like we're an essential part of the

> > grid for that

> > location right now. I know that my time there will

> > be limited.

> > My vision has gone wacky again....traffic lights

> > are not one red

> > light, but one light surrounded by several lights.

> > Things look like

> > they have some sort of an outline or bright haze

> > around them, but it

> > doesn't seem to be very aura-ish to me.

> > I have been really irritated that my cd player

> > in my car will not

> > play my cd's....I've been trying to listen to Tolle,

> > and it skips so

> > bad that I can't. Anyway, this afternoon I took off

> > work and drove

> > all the way into San Diego to a place that

> > specializes in fixing suto

> > cd players, and took the guy for a ride on the Hwy

> > to listen to the

> > cd's that had been skipping....and they wouldn't do

> > it!!!!!! He

> > ended up telling me to burn copies of them and see

> > if my copies

> > played better. What the heck is That all about??!!

> > It's been driving

> > me nuts for Weeks!! Is this related to the K

> > energy??? Am I somehow

> > disrupting the cd player electrical flow?

> > Blessings, Renee

> >

> > \

> > --- In

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> > chrism

> > wrote:

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> > > Perhaps your colleague is an opportunity for you

> > to work with

> > forgiveness and love and service and understanding.

> > Have her hum some

> > tunes that you enjoy! Start humming your self and if

> > your good she

> > will stop and listen to you. If not then she may get

> > the hint in a

> > different way. I see her attracted to your energy

> > Renee, to your

> > Kundalini. This is typical and to be expected.

> > People do not know

> > why, but they feel compelled to be near an activated

> > person, it is

> > common and you may have noticed this outside work as

> > well. -

> > blessings to you Renee and Steve and Sel, - chrism

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