Guest guest Posted March 9, 2006 Report Share Posted March 9, 2006 Anybody have problems with irritability? I used to be so easy-gong, I'd just let people do their thing... then when we started this triadic activation I was unsually irritable for a couple days, but it seemed to pass, and I didn't want to make a big deal about it. But lately it's gotten worse. I told a friend at work that every little thing seemed to realy irk me, and both of us blurted out at the same moment: " It must be male menopause! " But I'm MUCH too young for such a thing! Is it a K side effect? Am I maybe resisting too much? Should I just hope it passes? Or should I follow my impulse and be irascible? (I'm not putting up with ANYTHING these days, but this is very unlike me). John E Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 9, 2006 Report Share Posted March 9, 2006 I went through the irritability stage when I suspended my practice a couple of years ago. Also, at times other people's vibrations and negative emotions tend to rub off on me. If I don't focus on compassion I occasionally relapse into being short-tempered. Generally speaking, mental & emotional hygiene is very important for K folks. Pay attention to your negative feelings. They often ignite cycles of mishaps generating additional irritability etc. If you learn to laugh at things that would usually irritate you, the quality of your life is going to improve tremendously. Sel , " nologo3 " <esposito wrote: > > Anybody have problems with irritability? I used to be so easy-gong, > I'd just let people do their thing... then when we started this > triadic activation I was unsually irritable for a couple days, but it > seemed to pass, and I didn't want to make a big deal about it. But > lately it's gotten worse. I told a friend at work that every little > thing seemed to realy irk me, and both of us blurted out at the same > moment: " It must be male menopause! " > But I'm MUCH too young for such a thing! Is it a K side effect? Am I > maybe resisting too much? Should I just hope it passes? Or should I > follow my impulse and be irascible? (I'm not putting up with ANYTHING > these days, but this is very unlike me). > > John E > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 9, 2006 Report Share Posted March 9, 2006 Aye, but Sel, it seems like this is the opposite thing. It started with the beginning of the practice (or changes in it), and is not a matter of learning to laugh at things that would usually irritate me, but the reverse. I used to " let people walk all over me, " according to some, but now I say " Get off of my toe! " I'd just let people do whatever they wanted (I'm not much of an authority figure, as some would think I should be as a parent and teacher), but now -- well maybe it's the " hygiene " thing, as you said... -- JE , " selena230 " <selena230 wrote: > > I went through the irritability stage when I suspended my practice a > couple of years ago. Also, at times other people's vibrations and > negative emotions tend to rub off on me. If I don't focus on > compassion I occasionally relapse into being short-tempered. > > Generally speaking, mental & emotional hygiene is very important for K > folks. Pay attention to your negative feelings. They often ignite > cycles of mishaps generating additional irritability etc. If you learn > to laugh at things that would usually irritate you, the quality of > your life is going to improve tremendously. > > Sel > > , " nologo3 " > <esposito@> wrote: > > > > Anybody have problems with irritability? I used to be so easy- gong, > > I'd just let people do their thing... then when we started this > > triadic activation I was unsually irritable for a couple days, but it > > seemed to pass, and I didn't want to make a big deal about it. But > > lately it's gotten worse. I told a friend at work that every little > > thing seemed to realy irk me, and both of us blurted out at the same > > moment: " It must be male menopause! " > > But I'm MUCH too young for such a thing! Is it a K side effect? Am I > > maybe resisting too much? Should I just hope it passes? Or should I > > follow my impulse and be irascible? (I'm not putting up with ANYTHING > > these days, but this is very unlike me). > > > > John E > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 9, 2006 Report Share Posted March 9, 2006 Well, yes, being able to speak your mind and stand up to people when needed is a great thing. It's about truthfulness, right? And it's certainly a type of mental hygiene. Just make sure that you also have the ability to forgive and move on. Sel , " nologo3 " <esposito wrote: > > Aye, but Sel, it seems like this is the opposite thing. It started > with the beginning of the practice (or changes in it), and is not a > matter of learning to laugh at things that would usually irritate > me, but the reverse. I used to " let people walk all over me, " > according to some, but now I say " Get off of my toe! " I'd just let > people do whatever they wanted (I'm not much of an authority figure, > as some would think I should be as a parent and teacher), but now -- > well maybe it's the " hygiene " thing, as you said... -- JE > > > , " selena230 " > <selena230@> wrote: > > > > I went through the irritability stage when I suspended my practice > a > > couple of years ago. Also, at times other people's vibrations and > > negative emotions tend to rub off on me. If I don't focus on > > compassion I occasionally relapse into being short-tempered. > > > > Generally speaking, mental & emotional hygiene is very important > for K > > folks. Pay attention to your negative feelings. They often ignite > > cycles of mishaps generating additional irritability etc. If you > learn > > to laugh at things that would usually irritate you, the quality of > > your life is going to improve tremendously. > > > > Sel > > > > , " nologo3 " > > <esposito@> wrote: > > > > > > Anybody have problems with irritability? I used to be so easy- > gong, > > > I'd just let people do their thing... then when we started this > > > triadic activation I was unsually irritable for a couple days, > but it > > > seemed to pass, and I didn't want to make a big deal about it. > But > > > lately it's gotten worse. I told a friend at work that every > little > > > thing seemed to realy irk me, and both of us blurted out at the > same > > > moment: " It must be male menopause! " > > > But I'm MUCH too young for such a thing! Is it a K side effect? > Am I > > > maybe resisting too much? Should I just hope it passes? Or > should I > > > follow my impulse and be irascible? (I'm not putting up with > ANYTHING > > > these days, but this is very unlike me). > > > > > > John E > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 9, 2006 Report Share Posted March 9, 2006 Hi John how are you .........and John R. Nope i had no irritation at all,don't think it was the Triad. Are we all 3 still doing the Triad. Blessings Richard. - nologo3 Thursday, March 09, 2006 9:24 AM irritability (menopause?) Anybody have problems with irritability? I used to be so easy-gong, I'd just let people do their thing... then when we started this triadic activation I was unsually irritable for a couple days, but it seemed to pass, and I didn't want to make a big deal about it. But lately it's gotten worse. I told a friend at work that every little thing seemed to realy irk me, and both of us blurted out at the same moment: " It must be male menopause! " But I'm MUCH too young for such a thing! Is it a K side effect? Am I maybe resisting too much? Should I just hope it passes? Or should I follow my impulse and be irascible? (I'm not putting up with ANYTHING these days, but this is very unlike me). John E Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 9, 2006 Report Share Posted March 9, 2006 Yes John, I too have had a similar experience with the onset of K. It is as if the pendulum swung in the opposite direction in an attempt at balance. I was shocked at how I snapped at the guy at Kinko's when I would have previously ignored, internalized, or absorbed his sarcastic attitude. At first I spent alot of time " telling off " all of the people in my life while I was driving. Then I would put them on a cushion in front of me and let them have it. It was a necessary process in forgiveness. It allowed me to open up to all the Universe has for me, and know deeply in my being that I deserve dignity and respect. When I got underneath the anger, the sadness revealed that I have been treating myself with a lack of dignity and respect. I believed myself to be powerless on some level. The forgiveness was about how I engaged in the agreement with those who have pushed me around because I believed at some deep internal level that I did not have enough power, or that others were more powerful. This was a process of the third chakra opening and balancing for me. It was more about me than anyone else. People show up as the catalyst that helps us see. People are often the externalized function of our own internal process. The players that show up are fragments of our own beliefs about ourself. As Don Miguel Ruiz says, " You will never allow anyone to abuse you more than you abuse yourself. " People will step in and allow you to see those pieces of your psyche that speak to you in certain ways. Then you have a chance to respond to your internal process. Are you encountering irritation at some part of yourself? When you have an opportunity, go into it and ask if this is true. What are you manifesting outwardly that could be happening in the internal landscape? The microcosm always is refelected in the macrocosm. Are you coming into your own power? If this is new for you, your balance will be off kilter for a time. Many times with the kundalini, all things that we once thought should remain the same, will change. We are no longer the same as we once were before, and our world will reflect that. If we continue to hold onto outdated beliefs while our entire self is attempting transformation, we will be at odds with life. Shift happens! Ride the waves, and just notice what you notice. It will all come clear in time. Love and Laughter, Tara Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 9, 2006 Report Share Posted March 9, 2006 Wow Tara, Verrry well put. We can all learn from your astute and very appropriate, and accurate response. Thank you and blessings to you - chrism tara_tuttare <taratuttare wrote: Yes John, I too have had a similar experience with the onset of K. It is as if the pendulum swung in the opposite direction in an attempt at balance. I was shocked at how I snapped at the guy at Kinko's when I would have previously ignored, internalized, or absorbed his sarcastic attitude. At first I spent alot of time " telling off " all of the people in my life while I was driving. Then I would put them on a cushion in front of me and let them have it. It was a necessary process in forgiveness. It allowed me to open up to all the Universe has for me, and know deeply in my being that I deserve dignity and respect. When I got underneath the anger, the sadness revealed that I have been treating myself with a lack of dignity and respect. I believed myself to be powerless on some level. The forgiveness was about how I engaged in the agreement with those who have pushed me around because I believed at some deep internal level that I did not have enough power, or that others were more powerful. This was a process of the third chakra opening and balancing for me. It was more about me than anyone else. People show up as the catalyst that helps us see. People are often the externalized function of our own internal process. The players that show up are fragments of our own beliefs about ourself. As Don Miguel Ruiz says, " You will never allow anyone to abuse you more than you abuse yourself. " People will step in and allow you to see those pieces of your psyche that speak to you in certain ways. Then you have a chance to respond to your internal process. Are you encountering irritation at some part of yourself? When you have an opportunity, go into it and ask if this is true. What are you manifesting outwardly that could be happening in the internal landscape? The microcosm always is refelected in the macrocosm. Are you coming into your own power? If this is new for you, your balance will be off kilter for a time. Many times with the kundalini, all things that we once thought should remain the same, will change. We are no longer the same as we once were before, and our world will reflect that. If we continue to hold onto outdated beliefs while our entire self is attempting transformation, we will be at odds with life. Shift happens! Ride the waves, and just notice what you notice. It will all come clear in time. Love and Laughter, Tara Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 9, 2006 Report Share Posted March 9, 2006 Yea love and laughter Tara. I like that bit. R.................... - tara_tuttare Thursday, March 09, 2006 4:52 PM Re: irritability (menopause?) Yes John, I too have had a similar experience with the onset of K. It is as if the pendulum swung in the opposite direction in an attempt at balance. I was shocked at how I snapped at the guy at Kinko's when I would have previously ignored, internalized, or absorbed his sarcastic attitude. At first I spent alot of time " telling off " all of the people in my life while I was driving. Then I would put them on a cushion in front of me and let them have it. It was a necessary process in forgiveness. It allowed me to open up to all the Universe has for me, and know deeply in my being that I deserve dignity and respect. When I got underneath the anger, the sadness revealed that I have been treating myself with a lack of dignity and respect. I believed myself to be powerless on some level. The forgiveness was about how I engaged in the agreement with those who have pushed me around because I believed at some deep internal level that I did not have enough power, or that others were more powerful. This was a process of the third chakra opening and balancing for me. It was more about me than anyone else. People show up as the catalyst that helps us see. People are often the externalized function of our own internal process. The players that show up are fragments of our own beliefs about ourself. As Don Miguel Ruiz says, " You will never allow anyone to abuse you more than you abuse yourself. " People will step in and allow you to see those pieces of your psyche that speak to you in certain ways. Then you have a chance to respond to your internal process. Are you encountering irritation at some part of yourself? When you have an opportunity, go into it and ask if this is true. What are you manifesting outwardly that could be happening in the internal landscape? The microcosm always is refelected in the macrocosm. Are you coming into your own power? If this is new for you, your balance will be off kilter for a time. Many times with the kundalini, all things that we once thought should remain the same, will change. We are no longer the same as we once were before, and our world will reflect that. If we continue to hold onto outdated beliefs while our entire self is attempting transformation, we will be at odds with life. Shift happens! Ride the waves, and just notice what you notice. It will all come clear in time. Love and Laughter, Tara Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 10, 2006 Report Share Posted March 10, 2006 Thanks Tara this is a great description of a person's inner life and the changes. LoL Richard. - tara_tuttare Thursday, March 09, 2006 4:52 PM Re: irritability (menopause?) Yes John, I too have had a similar experience with the onset of K. It is as if the pendulum swung in the opposite direction in an attempt at balance. I was shocked at how I snapped at the guy at Kinko's when I would have previously ignored, internalized, or absorbed his sarcastic attitude. At first I spent alot of time " telling off " all of the people in my life while I was driving. Then I would put them on a cushion in front of me and let them have it. It was a necessary process in forgiveness. It allowed me to open up to all the Universe has for me, and know deeply in my being that I deserve dignity and respect. When I got underneath the anger, the sadness revealed that I have been treating myself with a lack of dignity and respect. I believed myself to be powerless on some level. The forgiveness was about how I engaged in the agreement with those who have pushed me around because I believed at some deep internal level that I did not have enough power, or that others were more powerful. This was a process of the third chakra opening and balancing for me. It was more about me than anyone else. People show up as the catalyst that helps us see. People are often the externalized function of our own internal process. The players that show up are fragments of our own beliefs about ourself. As Don Miguel Ruiz says, " You will never allow anyone to abuse you more than you abuse yourself. " People will step in and allow you to see those pieces of your psyche that speak to you in certain ways. Then you have a chance to respond to your internal process. Are you encountering irritation at some part of yourself? When you have an opportunity, go into it and ask if this is true. What are you manifesting outwardly that could be happening in the internal landscape? The microcosm always is refelected in the macrocosm. Are you coming into your own power? If this is new for you, your balance will be off kilter for a time. Many times with the kundalini, all things that we once thought should remain the same, will change. We are no longer the same as we once were before, and our world will reflect that. If we continue to hold onto outdated beliefs while our entire self is attempting transformation, we will be at odds with life. Shift happens! Ride the waves, and just notice what you notice. It will all come clear in time. Love and Laughter, Tara Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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