Guest guest Posted June 10, 2006 Report Share Posted June 10, 2006 Yes - I will focus on giving, much as I have already received. I am presently on the Amalfi Coast in Italy (the ancestral birthplace of John E.? many Espositos here). I have formed a close friendship with a very warm- hearted but sad American who is on tour with us. He lost his wife some years ago and is still in bereavement. He has thrown himself into all sorts of Mission work to help himself move on (eg. went to New Orleans to counsel victims) but now wants desperately to communicate with the spirit of his wife. He has heard " messages " - mysterious sounds - that he believes come from his wife wanting to establish contact. I don't think he is having delusions. I suggested that he surround himself with sacred mementos of his wife before retiring at night, and to visualise her as he drifts off to sleep. Can you suggest anything else? Blessings to everyone - John R. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 10, 2006 Report Share Posted June 10, 2006 Yes, John R., it is my ancestral birthplace. In the area of Napoli my last name is like " Smith " ! I can't figure out why Californians can't say it -- they try to make it into a Spanish name, and then they can't say it with a straight face because it means something silly in Spanish. But it means something completely different in Italian -- see if you can figure out what! And say hi to all my gumbas! -- JE , ... wrote: > I am > presently on the Amalfi Coast in Italy (the ancestral birthplace of John E.? > many Espositos here). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 10, 2006 Report Share Posted June 10, 2006 Hello John, Yes he must let her go. It is common to see close friends in the Astral typically during the sleep and dream periods - REM sleep. What you are suggesting is that he seed his subconscious into traveling to her or making a connection with her. This may happen but it is doubtful as there are guidance systems in place to help this not happen at least on conscious levels. This is not getting over her. This could be seen as a way of continuing the relationship. There can be no more last goodbyes. He should be reassured that he will see her soon and that he is in process - as he already knows - of the " letting go " . This can be very very difficult. But it is a teaching of love. She is with him but not for the purpose of resuming the relationship in a quasi - physical way, but more in the way that she is trying to help him through the bereavement process as she does love him and does want him to finish the life he is having with positive memories of him and her. Not to drown himself in sorrow. But to honor her death as much as he honored her life. He is following her suggestions and his love and loss of her is very strong so he of course feels her presence. She also is trying to move forward but his grief is holding her back. If he has definite without doubt movements or a sounds or (more importantly) a smell of her perfume, that is not a product of his grieving heart, then he can rest assured of her presence. Often during high stress times we become much more psychically attuned and so he may be having that type of a response. Lets see how the dreams are teaching him. All healings of this man must be geared towards his feeling and understanding of his love as not a physical expression but an energetic expression and that it is his job now, for her and for him, to release her. To release himself. Helping others is a great way of healing. Death is a very important teaching and I hesitate to intervene energetically or otherwise. Your presence and your compassion and friendship is the strongest healing for him at this time, but not in a way that detracts from why you are there. Others like you that come into his life will help to uplift him, and the inexorable process of time will close the hurt in his heart to manageable levels. - blessings - chrism Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 10, 2006 Report Share Posted June 10, 2006 JE I don't understand I'm in California, southern to be exact and the last name Smith is Smith to me please help me understand? Love T Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 11, 2006 Report Share Posted June 11, 2006 HI T, What I meant was that my last name is very common in places like Naples and New York, but not around here (San Diego area), though actually at the moment " here " for me is south Florida, and tomorrow I'll be returning, flying through a nice little tropical storm (knees shaking). Don't know whether to be exciteed (I love storms) or scared, or worried about cancellations and delays. But now I hear the storm is dissipating. -- How is this relevant? I don't know, maybe a tropical storm/hurricane is kinda like a chakra with its swirling energy! __jOhn , LionessLove76 wrote: > > JE I don't understand I'm in California, southern to be exact and the last > name Smith is Smith to me please help me understand? > > Love > T > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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