Dealing with the death of a beloved

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Thanks Chris - Bitter-Sweet but rings so true - I'll pass on.

 

Quoting chrism <>:

 

> Hello John,

> Yes he must let her go. It is common to see close

> friends in the Astral typically during the sleep and dream periods - REM

> sleep. What you are suggesting is that he seed his subconscious into

> traveling to her or making a connection with her. This may happen but it is

> doubtful as there are guidance systems in place to help this not happen at

> least on conscious levels. This is not getting over her. This could be seen

> as a way of continuing the relationship. There can be no more last goodbyes.

> He should be reassured that he will see her soon and that he is in process -

> as he already knows - of the " letting go " .

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> This can be very very difficult. But it is a teaching of love. She is with

> him but not for the purpose of resuming the relationship in a quasi -

> physical way, but more in the way that she is trying to help him through the

> bereavement process as she does love him and does want him to finish the life

> he is having with positive memories of him and her. Not to drown himself in

> sorrow. But to honor her death as much as he honored her life. He is

> following her suggestions and his love and loss of her is very strong so he

> of course feels her presence. She also is trying to move forward but his

> grief is holding her back.

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> If he has definite without doubt movements or a sounds or (more

> importantly) a smell of her perfume, that is not a product of his grieving

> heart, then he can rest assured of her presence.

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> Often during high stress times we become much more psychically attuned and

> so he may be having that type of a response. Lets see how the dreams are

> teaching him. All healings of this man must be geared towards his feeling

> and understanding of his love as not a physical expression but an energetic

> expression and that it is his job now, for her and for him, to release her.

> To release himself. Helping others is a great way of healing.

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> Death is a very important teaching and I hesitate to intervene

> energetically or otherwise. Your presence and your compassion and friendship

> is the strongest healing for him at this time, but not in a way that detracts

> from why you are there. Others like you that come into his life will help to

> uplift him, and the inexorable process of time will close the hurt in his

> heart to manageable levels.

> - blessings - chrism

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