Re:Weddings

March 15, 2003

> " wee_siofra " <c.macneill

>Hi Laura,

>Sorry to hear about your boyfriend's dad. I've had no problem at

>weddings (and I've been to quite a few recently). At one, I was the

>only vegetarian - let alone vegan!! - and so my friend told me to

>choose what I wanted. I appreciated that!

Thats really cool. Found out that the chef will be told that i am vegan and

will prepare something especially. He will inform the bride beforehand so i

know what to expect. Just hope the chef understands what i will and will

not eat. He should do, its a nice place so i'm guessing the chef will be

well taught.

>If your boyfriend's dad wants to argue with you or to " make you

>realise how foolish you are being " , that's absolutely fair enough (as

>I imagine, you'd agree ). However, I do hope that he keeps it out

>of wedding plans!!! Yeuch! As if organising a wedding couldn't be

>more stressful.

I really hope that he doesn't say anything because i'm not prepared to

discuss anything like that during the wedding. The irritating thing is, it

has made me feel like i'm being a pain for causing trouble, whereas in

reality its people who won't just accept it who are causing the problem.

>I think that you are taking the right course of

>action and I'm sure that your boyfriend's mum will appreciate that!

>(And please pardon me if I seem partronising - I'm aiming for

>reasuring.)

My boyfriends mum seems to understand what i'm doing and why and is very

supportive. Thanks for the reassurance, it wasn't patronising at all!

>Take care

>Siofra

>PS Haven't forgotten about the recipe - it'll be next week and please

>remind me if needs be!

No problem, whenever you have the time is fine by me.

Thanks,

Laura

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