Guest guest Posted May 15, 2001 Report Share Posted May 15, 2001 Lesley Dove, I have listened to a lot of your rants about how bad drugs are for everybody. I've had enough, and I can't sit still and listen to it any more. You don't know what's right for everyone else. First off, how do you even define drugs? In the past couple of years I've found a lot of things in daily life that are drugs but people don't know it. Fast food, that's a drug. It's peddled + pushed, and in America at least a lot of people are hooked and it'll kill them. Television is a drug. It pacifies and numbs, and again, here in the US, people are hooked. After being vegan for one year, then in a time of extreme stress breaking down and eating a whole pint of ice cream, I discovered that ice cream too is a drug. I'm not exaggerating, I was high for a couple of hours and had very strange dreams. Fasting is a drug. It brings about types of awareness and enlightenment. And makes me want more. Sex is certainly a drug. Oh, yes. My point, everything has an effect on your mental state. When you understand this, you realize that it's not so clear what is a 'drug' and what is not. But far more important than this is the simple fact that nothing is inherently good or bad. And don't start thinking of murder, because for goodness sake euthenasia is sometimes the best option. Everything is situation dependent. I have experimented with some drugs in my life. I have found that different people are affected by things in different ways. I cannot stand weed - it makes me too quiet and paranoid. This does not happen to everyone. Some people shouldn't drink alcohol b/c it makes them violent. I do not advocate the use of most drugs by most people, but I do know people who have found a substance that helps them in ways they were unable to do otherwise. I know one person who really did have ADD, and ritilin has made his world over into a comfortable place in which to live, instead of the chaoctic hell he knew before. My mother has found that St. John's wort has turned her life around. After 30 years of deppresion, she is a new woman now. I know several artists and musicians who use drugs to channel their creative energy. It works for them. Therefore, I think the best mindset that children could be raised with is that of respecting and knowing themselves (their own mind + body). Saying " these drugs are bad for you and those are good for you " is disempowering. Everyone must come to know themselves for themselves. Certainly, it is important to help eachother on that path (my friend is allergic to ginko, and had a hard time pinpointing what kept making him so crazy, until I noticed the pattern). But it is no one's place to tell anyone else, even their own children, what is good or bad for them. Information is important to have though, such as the medical documentation of how a drug affects you. Unfortunately, the war on drugs has made this information stigmatised and unavailable for any substances which society deems undesirable. But the most important thing for an individual to have in life is knowledge, in this case that is knowledge both of themselves and of the particular " drug " under debate. I do agree that inflicting drug use upon your young children is bad. This is for the same reason as why it's bad to inflict fear and paranoia of drugs upon your children. That reason is just that you cannot know yourself how it affects them. I'm glad you plan to educate your children about the dangers, but I hope to god you do the same for your cola drinks. Don't you know that stuff is about as bas as cigarettes? It's disgusting what it does to one's body. Not to mention what a 'drug' it is. It hooks me harder than any other drug I've tried - including tobacco and some very addictive illegal ones. And remember, a lot of the dangers of drugs are due to ignorance. That is to say, people hurt themselves with drugs when they lack an understanding of what it is that they are doing to they're body. Or they know, but are addicted (perhaps like you and the cola ;| ). The fear that you have towards drugs would be more suitably directed as a fear of uninformed decisions, and also government support of killers like tobacco, alcohol, and automobiles! Quit the soda, don't let your kids see you drink it, and for god's sake, don't let them touch it, please. Meghan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 15, 2001 Report Share Posted May 15, 2001 > > Lesley Dove, I have listened to a lot of your rants about how bad drugs > are for everybody. I've had enough, and I can't sit still and > listen to it any more. You don't know what's right for everyone > else. > > First off, how do you even define drugs? In the past couple of years I've > found a lot of things in daily life that are drugs but people don't know > it. Fast food, that's a drug. It's peddled + pushed, and in America at > least a lot of people are hooked and it'll kill them. Television is a > drug. It pacifies and numbs, and again, here in the US, people are > hooked. After being vegan for one year, then in a time of extreme stress > breaking down and eating a whole pint of ice cream, I discovered that ice > cream too is a drug. I'm not exaggerating, I was high for a couple of > hours and had very strange dreams. Fasting is a drug. It brings about > types of awareness and enlightenment. And makes me want more. Sex is > certainly a drug. Oh, yes. My point, everything has an effect on > your mental state. When you understand this, you realize that it's not so > clear what is a 'drug' and what is not. > > But far more important than this is the simple fact that nothing is > inherently good or bad. And don't start thinking of murder, because for > goodness sake euthenasia is sometimes the best option. Everything is > situation dependent. I have experimented with some drugs in my life. I > have found that different people are affected by things in different > ways. I cannot stand weed - it makes me too quiet and paranoid. This does > not happen to everyone. Some people shouldn't drink alcohol b/c it makes > them violent. I do not advocate the use of most drugs by most people, but > I do know people who have found a substance that helps them in ways they > were unable to do otherwise. I know one person who really did have ADD, > and ritilin has made his world over into a comfortable place in which to > live, instead of the chaoctic hell he knew before. My mother has found > that St. John's wort has turned her life around. After 30 years of > deppresion, she is a new woman now. I know several artists and musicians > who use drugs to channel their creative energy. It works for them. > > Therefore, I think the best mindset that children could be raised with is > that of respecting and knowing themselves (their own mind + body). Saying > " these drugs are bad for you and those are good for you " is > disempowering. Everyone must come to know themselves for > themselves. Certainly, it is important to help eachother on that path (my > friend is allergic to ginko, and had a hard time pinpointing what kept > making him so crazy, until I noticed the pattern). But it is no one's > place to tell anyone else, even their own children, what is good or bad > for them. Information is important to have though, such as the medical > documentation of how a drug affects you. Unfortunately, the war on drugs > has made this information stigmatised and unavailable for any substances > which society deems undesirable. But the most important thing for an > individual to have in life is knowledge, in this case that is knowledge > both of themselves and of the particular " drug " under debate. > > I do agree that inflicting drug use upon your young children is bad. This > is for the same reason as why it's bad to inflict fear and paranoia of > drugs upon your children. That reason is just that you cannot know > yourself how it affects them. I'm glad you plan to educate your children > about the dangers, but I hope to god you do the same for your cola > drinks. Don't you know that stuff is about as bas as cigarettes? It's > disgusting what it does to one's body. Not to mention what a 'drug' it > is. It hooks me harder than any other drug I've tried - including tobacco > and some very addictive illegal ones. > > And remember, a lot of the dangers of drugs are due to ignorance. That is > to say, people hurt themselves with drugs when they lack an understanding > of what it is that they are doing to they're body. Or they know, but are > addicted (perhaps like you and the cola ;| ). The fear that you have > towards drugs would be more suitably directed as a fear of uninformed > decisions, and also government support of killers like tobacco, alcohol, > and automobiles! > > Quit the soda, don't let your kids see you drink it, and for god's sake, > don't let them touch it, please. > I agree somewhat with you, I know I have some bad habits that need working on changing, I'm not so arrogant as those on this list who have tried illegal drugs and still think it's OK to do that and advocate it to others. I am humble enough to know I have some unhealthy habits and don't need or want any more! I certainly don't tell people, even my kids, that it's good to drink cola drinks, and we do put limits on them, and yet MrBig has strongly advocated trying LSD (some of the things he says on this list are probably tantamount to incitement and might be against the law, so he should be careful), I don't think you can compare my rants to his craziness! Lesley > > Meghan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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