Guest guest Posted June 5, 2001 Report Share Posted June 5, 2001 vegan-network, " Sandra Pehrsson " <sandrapehr@h...> wrote: > Hi there all of you, > > I just want to say that I, even though I'm 100 % vegan and live for my > thoughts about animal rights and veganism, I love clothes and have different > styles & images all the time! Some years ago I was always dressed as a > hippie - & even got caught to be checked if I had any drugs on me ones - me, > who don't even drink or smoke anything..... > Obviously they didn't find anything on me, they checked everything!!! > Well I hope they apologised! I'm very anti-drugs, and for being especially tough on dealers, but I would think that the police should at least need good reason to believe a person is carrying drugs before invading their privacy. People should complain when they behave this way. It sounds quite embarrassing and humiliating. > > I still like the hippie-look, but now I dress & look differently! > Obsessed with clothes as I am, I've got loads of different outfits - if I > feel very girly I dress in short skirts, wear long white socks and plats, if > I feel a bit " casual " I wear jeans or if I feel very feminine I dress smart > with skirts and long dresses! As I am a singer as well, I prefer to have a > sophisticated look at stage which suits the kind of music I'm singing - > jazz, and almost always wear long dresses with high heals! > > I hope you don't judge me for being a " weirdo " for this (maybe I am by the > way!), I'm telling you this because I want you to know that it doesn't make > me less vegan for not dressing like a hippie and really stand out from the > crowd! I guess I do stand out anyway, quite much really when I go out in all > my differant colourful outfits, it does take attention, but I don't think > anyone could guess that I'm a vegan who doesn't drink or smoke and never > have been drunk even though I'm 25! I know what John Allan said to me the > first time I met him; > " You are the most non-vegan vegan I've ever met! " > and he didn't seem to respect & like me less for that! > I don't quite see how any of this makes you a non-vegan vegan. I used to wear a lot of bright colours, especially a lot of bright red, when I was younger, I even had a ra-ra skirt, but I just wore what I wanted to wear and as a result I was treated as a bit of a freak by the vegans I knew in the local AR group. They were mostly quite frighteningly clonish in their behaviour and outlook, and although we were all AR vegan people which should have bonded us together, I was picked on, I think partly because I was not a black- wearing anarchist type. I hated black. I think this was part of the problem, as well as me not toeing their line when it came to sharing their liberal views on drugs and on certain other issues. These things were my downfall and I was never well accepted. I know they laughed at me behind my back. I can look back now and think of them as the " Stepford vegans " ! Their sense of how much you had to conform in order to be accepted fully into the group on a friendship level was weird and scary. I quite liked one guy from the group (he was one of the few who was not a dopehead and didn't smoke), and he knew it, and they all thought it was funny that I liked him. He went along with his friends and their opinion and laughed at me too, so I was made to feel like a misfit and a freak for not fitting into their ways, including dress sense. I have been in other AR/vegan groups where there is more diversity and not the same peer pressure to conform thankfully. I felt more at ease in those other groups. > > Anyway, enough about me and my crazy personality, just wanted you to know! > If you sound crazy, it's crazy in a really nice way! Lesley > > Take care you all! > LOVE > Sandra Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 7, 2001 Report Share Posted June 7, 2001 Hi Lesley, >Well I hope they apologised! I'm very anti-drugs, and for being >especially tough on dealers, but I would think that the police should >at least need good reason to believe a person is carrying drugs >before invading their privacy. People should complain when they >behave this way. >It sounds quite embarrassing and humiliating. Believe it or not, but they didn't apologised at all! They even took in my friend who was walking beside me and was dressed " normal " in jeans and stuff and checked her! Guess they were too proud to admit they had been wrong! It was a bit embarrasing, but I don't let a thing like that get to me, tried to see it as 1-0 to me instead, I surely gave them " a long nose " ! >If you sound crazy, it's crazy in a really nice way! > Thank you, nice of you to say! Take care! LOVE Sandra _______________________ Get Your Private, Free E-mail from MSN Hotmail at http://www.hotmail.com. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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