Guest guest Posted July 11, 2002 Report Share Posted July 11, 2002 I'd prefer a vegan friend I could have a few issues of disagreement with, over an animal eater any day. No-one agrees on everything after all! Lesley vegan-network, EBbrewpunx@c... wrote: > > sounds a little tooo much like " us and them " to me... > they are evil meat eaters!!! > *points finger* > castigate and ride them out of town!! > we are all luving good vegans, who even tho we disagree on everything and anything, are obviously are right about everything and just want to pet kittens all day > *confused smirk* > fraggle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 11, 2002 Report Share Posted July 11, 2002 From reading what you said about living in a vegan community that expressed such disdain toward them, it's not a great leap for me to think you hate your fellow vegans. Did I miss something? - quercusrobur2002 vegan-network Thursday, July 11, 2002 10:01 AM [100% veg*n ] Re: Confessions of a teenage meat eater Well I think you only know me from about 2 days worth of posts on various lists which isn't very well at all is it? vegan-network, kiwi2000 <kiwi2000@o...> wrote: > maybe I misunderstood but it sounds to me like you do. > - > quercusrobur2002 > vegan-network > Thursday, July 11, 2002 9:18 AM > [100% veg*n ] Re: Confessions of a teenage meat eater > > > Who hates vegans here? > > vegan-network, kiwi2000 <kiwi2000@o...> wrote: > > I find it strange that we have vegan hating vegans among us. > > I don't understand that. If you're a vegan and don't like vegans, > where does that leave you but totally alone. > > > > To to the Digest Mode [ recommended ], send an email to: vegan-network-digest > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 11, 2002 Report Share Posted July 11, 2002 How did you know about the skeletons in my closet? Was that you I heard mucking about in there last night? - Gareth Pashley 'vegan-network ' Thursday, July 11, 2002 10:04 AM RE: [100% veg*n ] Re: Confessions of a teenage meat eater like i said it was the " lets try thinking out of the box a bit here " which sounded patronising to me The email wasn't aimed specifically at you but also at what some others seem to be saying re shunning partners/disassociating yourself from the non-vegan community .....we all have to start somewhere as i think the majority of us aren't raised as vegans so we all have our skeletons in the closet....if you will forgive the pun there seems to be some misunderstandings here and i apologise if i have upset you....but don't take everything so personally, read around the wider thread and relate peoples comments to that I would've thought that the situation in London was better than most, what with the cosmopolitan mix of people.....I don't know any vegans personally but Bournemouth is a bit retrograde!! .....but then I don't look to meet vegans specifically, in fact I don't try to meet anyone specifically....I meet who I meet and make many friends take it easy.... g > > irene_lucy [sMTP:irene.lucy] > Thursday, July 11, 2002 2:47 PM > vegan-network > [100% veg*n ] Re: Confessions of a teenage meat eater > > > Whoa, just a minute, I have not completely disassociated from family, > just because I would like some vegans close to my family as > substitute extended family! I was simply expressing what would be MY > ideal situation! Lots of vegans in each area being like family to one > another, what could be wrong with that? I never said you HAD to shun > your non-vegan family, or veggie partner. > In fact I am personally very happy to link up with vegetarians as > well as vegans! > > I don't see why I am considered by you to be patronising, I would > think you would be happy that SOME of us appreciate our fellow vegans > enough to want seriously to be part of a really caring community with > them, helping out with caring for one another's children and helping > elderly vegans too. > > I would rather help and be helped by vegans than just anyone in my > life, and yet vegans are so fragmented and disunified where I live, > that I can't even find a vegan babysitter locally (or a veggie > babysitter for that matter at the moment)! Maybe that's just the way > it is in the London area. > > You don't have to want to be involved in building help and support > between vegans if it's not your priority (but I suspect you probably > are involved in such things), just don't slag off those of us who do > want to put their fellow vegans as a high priority and care about > them. It's not about hating anyone, it's about having the type of > people in your life that you are comfortable with and I am more > comfortable with those who respect life more than with those who do > not! > > I truly have very little in common with my biological family, I know > them, you don't, so don't judge me for saying the truth of my life as > I see it! I have a cousin who is a dairy farmer and my aunt just > married a man who takes his pals to hare coursing events, so how far > removed from me is that? Oh and I have had gay friends and my dad is > a homophobe, so there is another very different attitude I have from > my family! > > I hope I expressed that clearly, I was not attacking you so stop > attacking me. > > Lesley > > To to the Digest Mode [ recommended ], send an email to: vegan-network-digest Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 11, 2002 Report Share Posted July 11, 2002 I like the enema part and the strict rule makes it sound kinky. Was there a special enema nurse in uniform who administered them? We could probably all use a good cleaning out anyway. How about a group enema with many tubes streaming from a giant enema bag? - EBbrewpunx vegan-network Thursday, July 11, 2002 11:22 AM Re: [100% veg*n ] Re: Confessions of a teenage meat eater where did you get that from?? because he didn't want to live with a bunch of uptight folks?? ah crap, now i'm being dragged into this argument it seems, to me, that some folks would just want to be friends with vegans, just they are vegan...people are people, there are asshole vegans as well as really super dooper sweet awesome vegans... i use to know this vegan fellow in orange county....he was big into animal rights, a sorta nice guy..and he was an idiot white power nazi...go figure... " i luv animals, i just think all mexicans, n*ggers and others should just go home " *shakes head* some folks are just messed up... just cuz someone is vegan doesn't make em better...we is all people(well, except me, i'm just a fraggle and exempt..).. but, graham's description didn't sound like a fun place to live.. i once went to commune out in SoCal...you could stay there fer free, eat yummy organic veggies, join in their strange tribal drum circle wotchawhozits..and every sunday you had to have an enema...you had to, it was the rules no thanx..not into those sorta water sports...thanx anyways... now, if they had pleather whips, that would have been different..oh wait..did i say that here..? ignore me..i'm not here.... cheers fraggle kiwi2000 <kiwi2000 wrote: >maybe I misunderstood but it sounds to me like you do. > - > quercusrobur2002 > vegan-network > Thursday, July 11, 2002 9:18 AM > [100% veg*n ] Re: Confessions of a teenage meat eater > > > Who hates vegans here? > >Risk Free! >http://us.click./TPvn8A/PfREAA/Ey.GAA/PVjolB/TM >---~-> > >To to the Digest Mode [ recommended ], send an email to: vegan-network-digest > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 11, 2002 Report Share Posted July 11, 2002 Yes there are good and bad people in all groups but only now are you saying this. Not knowing you and having read what you said earlier, I would think that you did hate vegans as a group. As I said it's not a great leap. If you want to clarify what you said fine but don't put the hate pin on my chest. It was there already in your post. - quercusrobur2002 vegan-network Thursday, July 11, 2002 1:41 PM [100% veg*n ] Re: Confessions of a teenage meat eater > things you said to Brad, I can see why he would think you did not > like vegans as much as you like your non-vegan chums. people are people, like the fragster says, some vegans are aresholes, some non-vegans are excelent, wonderful, inspiring people. sorry if Brad interprets that as 'hatred' of vegans, but I'm afraid that's his problem to take ownership of and deal with, not mine... Cheers Graham :-) To to the Digest Mode [ recommended ], send an email to: vegan-network-digest Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 11, 2002 Report Share Posted July 11, 2002 Could I be your additional vegan husband a la Mormon? I dont' mind sharing. I'll even look after the kids sometimes. Then maybe we'll all be a little less sad and lonely. Brad - irene_lucy vegan-network Thursday, July 11, 2002 1:42 PM [100% veg*n ] Re: Confessions of a teenage meat eater Some parts of London might be OK for vegans supporting one another but Harrow is pretty hopeless. Although I know a few vegans here, they are useless at actually meeting and forming a proper friendly group. My husband and I are pretty useless at getting out to much because we have three young children, but at least I make the effort to invite other veggie and vegan families to meet up, and yet most of my invitations to meet up for simple picnics locally get ignored, even though I don't limit to vegans, but ask lots of vegetarians too. I'm at a loss what to do, I've asked other vegan and veggie families to join with us in forming a babysitting circle and had no takers for that either. I just don't know what these people want! It bugs me that they seem to put meat-eaters above supporting my efforts to make friends with them. Either that or they are purposely sad and lonely and don't want new like-minded friends. Isn't the wonderful Vegan Views magazine based in your town? If it is, then I'm surprised that you haven't got to know the people involved in that (it was/is Harry Mather I believe). Unwillingly Sad and Lonely Lesley vegan-network, Gareth Pashley <gpashley@b...> wrote: > like i said it was the " lets try thinking out of the box a bit here " which > sounded patronising to me > > The email wasn't aimed specifically at you but also at what some others seem > to be saying re shunning partners/disassociating yourself from the non-vegan > community > .....we all have to start somewhere as i think the majority of us aren't+ as vegans so we all have our skeletons in the closet....if you will > forgive the pun > > there seems to be some misunderstandings here and i apologise if i have > upset you....but don't take everything so personally, read around the wider > thread and relate peoples comments to that > > I would've thought that the situation in London was better than most, what > with the cosmopolitan mix of people.....I don't know any vegans personally > but Bournemouth is a bit retrograde!! > .....but then I don't look to meet vegans specifically, in fact I don't try > to meet anyone specifically....I meet who I meet and make many friends > > take it easy.... > g > > > > > > > > > irene_lucy [sMTP:irene.lucy@n...] > > Thursday, July 11, 2002 2:47 PM > > vegan-network > > [100% veg*n ] Re: Confessions of a teenage meat eater > > > > > > Whoa, just a minute, I have not completely disassociated from family, > > just because I would like some vegans close to my family as > > substitute extended family! I was simply expressing what would be MY > > ideal situation! Lots of vegans in each area being like family to one > > another, what could be wrong with that? I never said you HAD to shun > > your non-vegan family, or veggie partner. > > In fact I am personally very happy to link up with vegetarians as > > well as vegans! > > > > I don't see why I am considered by you to be patronising, I would > > think you would be happy that SOME of us appreciate our fellow vegans > > enough to want seriously to be part of a really caring community with > > them, helping out with caring for one another's children and helping > > elderly vegans too. > > > > I would rather help and be helped by vegans than just anyone in my > > life, and yet vegans are so fragmented and disunified where I live, > > that I can't even find a vegan babysitter locally (or a veggie > > babysitter for that matter at the moment)! Maybe that's just the way > > it is in the London area. > > > > You don't have to want to be involved in building help and support > > between vegans if it's not your priority (but I suspect you probably > > are involved in such things), just don't slag off those of us who do > > want to put their fellow vegans as a high priority and care about > > them. It's not about hating anyone, it's about having the type of > > people in your life that you are comfortable with and I am more > > comfortable with those who respect life more than with those who do > > not! > > > > I truly have very little in common with my biological family, I know > > them, you don't, so don't judge me for saying the truth of my life as > > I see it! I have a cousin who is a dairy farmer and my aunt just > > married a man who takes his pals to hare coursing events, so how far > > removed from me is that? Oh and I have had gay friends and my dad is > > a homophobe, so there is another very different attitude I have from > > my family! > > > > I hope I expressed that clearly, I was not attacking you so stop > > attacking me. > > > > Lesley > > > > To to the Digest Mode [ recommended ], send an email to: vegan-network-digest Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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