Guest guest Posted October 18, 2003 Report Share Posted October 18, 2003 Danielle wrote: >His enamel on his teeth never formed properly, so all of his teeth rapidly wore down and decayed. Danielle-- I have a 17 year old son that is in the process of getting caps on all his teeth because of the same thing. They were ALL in bad shape and the dentist blamed me saying I didn't teach him proper care or gave him too many sweets. Then why are our other children's teeth not like that? Came to find out (an answer to my prayer " why?) it is from antibiotic use when he was a baby and very sick. It has nothing to do with flouride (which I think is toxic). A friend of mine has the same condition with her teeth also from antibiotics as an infant. Most docs know nothing about raw eating, co-sleeping, nursing or nutrition. We have 8 children all home birthed, breastfed and slept with me when nursing babies. Don't feel guilty--you did your best, but especially about sleeping with baby because my others have beaUtiful teeth. Yes, I'll pray for you! You pray too... " I cried unto the Lord with my voice and He heard me... " Jenny Silliman ______________ The best thing to hit the internet in years - Juno SpeedBand! Surf the web up to FIVE TIMES FASTER! Only $14.95/ month - visit www.juno.com to sign up today! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 18, 2003 Report Share Posted October 18, 2003 Thank-you so much for your help. I broke down in hysterical crying from the huge release of guilt I was carrying about his whole thing. I felt so badly, I know I may be overly sensitive. But I almost lost all faith in being a good mother. I felt like I did not know anything anymore about how to be his Mother, because I felt I had caused him this huge trauma. It is difficult to be emotionally strong when I felt I had caused my beautiful baby so much pain, before his 3rd birthday, even. Thank-you so much for letting me know I am not completely to blame. I still want to get my hands on any information possible to prevent future problems with him. He had his finger caught in the bathroom door back in January, and the Doctor had given him a prescription of omoycillin to prevent medication. It was the 2nd time in his life being prescribed this strong anti-biotic. He had also been prescribed it when he was around 10mths old. He had a bad allergic reaction from it the 2nd time, with red blotches covering him from head to toe, as well as severe diarreah and throwing up everything he ate, mainly breastmilk. He has always had sever allergies, to seemingly almost everything. He sometimes has a difficult time breathing in his sleep, as it is very difficult for him to breathe through his nose. He sounds like he has phlem in his lungs a lot. His breathing becomes a lot more clear when I visit family in Florida, although I am not sure why. He inherited his allergies from his Father, who lives in Turkey with his parents. His father used to tell me his allergies would become more severe when in the US. I am also wondering if his allergies could be a possible contributing factor. I desire to do everything possible, to make his life more comfortable. I used to give him milk products, but based off of what I am currently learning, it seems that he could be allergic to that as well. Please, if anyone has any knowledge on very young children with wheezing or difficulty breathing at night, or allergies, please give me links or Dr.s names, or anything you can contribute, to help me to help my young son. Thank-you so much everyone for all of your help and support. I feel so much better just being able to talk to people with the knowledge and understanding and love for one another this group has. Reading the posts from this group over the last 11 months has definitely helped my life take a turn for the better, and my son.. Thank-you so very much again for your time Unconditional Love Danielle Angelique Meeks PS Jenny it feels so good to know that someone out there has had a similiar experience. I felt like I was the only Mother in the world that had this kind of experience and I felt very inferior and unworthy of being his Mother because of this The New with improved product search Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 18, 2003 Report Share Posted October 18, 2003 Danielle, In your position, I would find a doctor who knows about diet. Not easy I agree. Then I would get the fullest set of blood tests I could. Then I would follow the counsel within a raw food framework. After a couple of months there should be another blood test to test the key weak points and then at least you will know where you are and what you can expect. It sounds to me as though you have been getting some sloppy treatment but I am mot qualified to pass judgement on any medical doctor. Stay with the babe in hospital. Most important. The Unibomber's mother said that at the age of two the Unibomber went into hospital and he was a different child thereafter. Peter Danielle Meeks [daniellemeeks] 17 October 2003 21:49 rawfood [Raw Food] Michael's teeth Hi everyone, I have another question. My child, Michael, is scheduled for dental surgery on November 10th. He has to be put to sleep at the hospital, and monitored non-stop during the procedure. He might end up having all of his teeth removed, and he is only 2 1/2. It is some rare genetic disorder the dentists do not seem to know too much about. His enamel on his teeth never formed properly, so all of his teeth rapidly wore down and decayed. The dentist says since I never gave him fluoride, it is what made the decay so bad. I never drank fluoridated water while pregant either. I had learned through my studies on fluoride that it was a poison in our tap water. I thought tap water was not safe for human consumption. He also said that my nursing him on demand and at night ( we co-sleep) contributed to the rapid decay of his teeth. I rarely gave him anything with white sugar or flour. We do not really eat candy and junk food at my house. My Mother gave him ice cream and chocolate on occassions, against my advice, saying I was going overboard about his no sugar intake. Anyways, I believe maybe I did not have the right mineral intake during my pregnancy when his teeth were developing. I only took a pre natal vitamin the doctor precribed me, mostly for my low iron. I am usually anemic. I was also wondering about the effects of coffee. The doctor told me a cup or two a day would not hurt the developing fetus inside of me, and would not hurt him while I was breastfeeding. I was always a big coffee drinker, but I cut it down to a cup a day of regular coffee while pregnant. Now I am wondering if that contributed to mineral loss in his teeth? I drank at least a gallon of water a day while pregnannt and the first 4 months of breastfeeding, but it was distilled. I had been anorexic from 15-18, not really bad though. But I was not getting good nutrition most of the time when I would eat. I drank a lot of coffee all the time, to curb my appetite and I used to take energy-weight loss supplents with ephedrine and ma huang, off and on until I became pregnant at around my 20th birth day. I thought at that time, since I was vegetarian, I was really healthy, but now I realize how wrong I was. The dentist and my family and friends tell me not to blame myself, after all i is only genetic, but I am not too sure about that. I am carrying around this huge burden of guilt now, because I believe it could have been prevented. I never imagined my child would have to go through something like this, especially at such a young age. I have very strong teeth, despite my unhealthy lifestyle. I have only had two small cavities at 20, and had them filled while pregnant. I only went to a dentist twice, as I have a lot of fear of dentists and doctors, not sure if they really know what they are doing. Anyways, I need any advice I can get about how to help his second teeth that are developing now, to be strong and healthy with all the nutrients they need, to prevent him from any future problems, if that is possible. Also, I plan on having more children in the near future, so I would like to do everything I can to prevent this from happening again. I am sorry for making this soo long, but I am very concerned, and I can not stop thinking about this. Also, if anyone on here believes in prayer, or any other spiritual practice requiring faith to help my son and I through this, please please send your love and healing energy to us or pray for us. I am believing everything will go well during surgery, but I need all the spiritual strength I can get. Thank-you so much for your time. I have a fear of speaking my feelings and fears and any problems I may be having to anyone, or asking for help. It was very difficult for me to post this, but I have no one educated in these things to talk to. Thank-you once again for your time and help. Thank-you all for this group. It has opened my eyes in so many ways. I love all of you Unconditional Love *hugs* Danielle Angelique Meeks Vegigran <vegigran wrote: <<Leave them another day. The tail should be about as long as the bean is wide before you eat them.>>> Have you ever tried to make raw hummus out of them? If so, how? Thanks, Vegigran Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 19, 2003 Report Share Posted October 19, 2003 rawfood , Danielle Meeks <daniellemeeks> wrote: > Thank-you so much for your help. I broke down in hysterical crying from the huge release of guilt I was carrying about his whole thing. I felt so badly, I know I may be overly sensitive. But I almost lost all faith in being a good mother. I felt like I did not know anything anymore about how to be his Mother, because I felt I had caused him this huge trauma. It is difficult to be emotionally strong when I felt I had caused my beautiful baby so much pain, before his 3rd birthday, even. Thank-you so much for letting me know I am not completely to blame. I still want to get my hands on any information possible to prevent future problems with him. *************************** i may sound a bit hard here. but i honestly blame all mothers for not breast feeding their children for a long long time. this is the natural way of them getting what they need. means you msut eat extremely well, and + in calories and eat mineral and vitamin rich foods IE raw. almost all theething problems come from malnutrition from even being in the womb. i know breastfeeding is frowned upon by our stupid society that has linked breasts with sexual play toys. but honestly, look how long other mamals do it for their young. in nature that is, not domestic. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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