Guest guest Posted August 31, 2005 Report Share Posted August 31, 2005 Thanks, Lynda. You took the words right out of my mouth, though I think you meant to place the word " not " before " use, " otherwise your next sentence wouldn't make sense. There's no question in my mind that midwifery is far safer & more natural than birthing in a hospital. I highly recommend that everyone read John Robbins' book, " Reclaiming Our Health. " Though not limited in scope to this crucial issue alone, it has at least an entire chapter devoted exclusively to the history of the ob/gyn profession with particular focus on the cultural transition from childbirth perrformed via midwifery to the paradigm of childbirth as a disorder to be managed by a hospital under a doctor's care. Robbins' unique writing style does not place blame on anyone, but instead focuses on the context in which such erroneous judgments developed, creating widespread popular misconceptions that run against the grain of optimal natural health. The gist of his book in myunderstanding is that patriarchy has laid the foundations for controlling people's fate by profitting from illness instead of orienting oneself toward bona fide health. Natural childbirth facilitated by a competent, compassionate, well-trained midwife is far more natural (in squatting position) than laying horizontally on a hospital bed, often or routinely given a garden variety of drugs to numb the feelings involved in this natural process, potentially endangering the physical and psychological health of both the mother & her infant. This now begs the question, for example, of whether women suffering post-partum depression, such as Brooke Shields, mightn't have experienced such emotional turmoil if they'd relied on a midwife instead of an MD. I don't know what route Brooke used in her case, but I think it's a critical consideration. When the natural emotional bond between a mother & her newborn offspring is allowed to flow freely from natural childbirth, as in the case of nonhuman animals unadulterated by human interference, I trust that such depression would rarely if ever become a problem, then drugs would become moot and Tom Cruise & his ilk would have no basis for criticism. Midwifery has been trusted for thousands of years, long before ob/gyn was a blink in Hippocrates' eye. Good luck with your decision & childbirth. Namaste, david Namaska7 wrote: >Why use a mid wife. > I can locate one in your area. I know several in the Richmond area >It would be best to avoid the hospital if you can. Or have it arranged for a >natural birth in the hospital. . >Love Lynda > -- " Patriotism means to stand by the country. It does not mean to stand by the president or any other public official save exactly to the degree in which he himself stands by the country. It is patriotic to support him insofar as he efficiently serves the country. It is unpatriotic not to oppose him to the exact extent that by inefficiency or otherwise he fails in his duty to stand by the country. " --Pres. Theodore Roosevelt, 1908 ________________ Switch to Netscape Internet Service. As low as $9.95 a month -- Sign up today at http://isp.netscape.com/register Netscape. Just the Net You Need. New! Netscape Toolbar for Internet Explorer Search from anywhere on the Web and block those annoying pop-ups. Download now at http://channels.netscape.com/ns/search/install.jsp Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 31, 2005 Report Share Posted August 31, 2005 i agree with most of what david said except that i have read that on day 4 after giving birth a woman goes through an exteme shift in hormones, which can trigger depression. anyone who has experienced pms (and i presume that david has not) can relate! i had a completely natural birth, not in a hospital, with a midwife etc etc and on day 4... BOOM! fortunately, it lasted only a couple of days. sometimes emotional states ARE just chemical! namaste, h. satvicvegan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 31, 2005 Report Share Posted August 31, 2005 Thank you, Helena. I trust that you're also absolutely right about the hormonal shift that commonly occurs soon after childbirth. I'm sure it comes with the territory. However, this modern society's tendency to coerce or pressure women into going to a hospital as soon as they're about to go into labor can only exascerbate the stress they experience with which no patriarchal institution could ever begin to empathize. Our Westernized society could learn volumes from our anthropological cousins in other primate species, as well as indigenous women living in African tribal cultures who traditionally rely on midwives. For better & for worse, pregnancy & childbirth invariably put the greatest strain on a woman's personal anatomy and bodily integrity that she's likely to experience, exclusive to women alone, in her entire life. No, of course I've never experienced PMS, at least not in this life, but FYI, I believe in reincarnation & if I ever did endure PMS in a prior life as a woman, I don't remember it now. That's another story/issue for another day. Namaste, David helena <satvicvegan wrote: >i agree with most of what david said except that i have read that on day 4 after giving birth a woman goes through an exteme shift in hormones, which can trigger depression. anyone who has experienced pms (and i presume that david has not) can relate! i had a completely natural birth, not in a hospital, with a midwife etc etc and on day 4... BOOM! fortunately, it lasted only a couple of days. sometimes emotional states ARE just chemical! namaste, h. satvicvegan > -- " Patriotism means to stand by the country. It does not mean to stand by the president or any other public official save exactly to the degree in which he himself stands by the country. It is patriotic to support him insofar as he efficiently serves the country. It is unpatriotic not to oppose him to the exact extent that by inefficiency or otherwise he fails in his duty to stand by the country. " --Pres. Theodore Roosevelt, 1908 ________________ Switch to Netscape Internet Service. As low as $9.95 a month -- Sign up today at http://isp.netscape.com/register Netscape. Just the Net You Need. New! Netscape Toolbar for Internet Explorer Search from anywhere on the Web and block those annoying pop-ups. Download now at http://channels.netscape.com/ns/search/install.jsp Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 2, 2005 Report Share Posted September 2, 2005 I had my son 11 years ago. I had nurse midwives, and had him in a hospital. Long story, but there were complications and it ended up being a 28 hour labor. I had an epidural. Blah, Blah, Blah..... Since then, I have come to a few realizations and, as it seems with everything else in my life, will never be going mainstream again (i.e. hospital childbirth). I caught the end of a talk radio show with one of the most famous nurse midwives in the US. She has a farm somewhere in the south (Kentucky, Virgninia....I don't remember). She has personally helped to deliver well over 2000 babies in her career. Anyway, she was talking about belief systems, and it really resonated with me. Perhaps, as she said, we believe that childbirth is dangerous and needs to be directly supervised by a medical professionaly in a sterile hospital becuase that's what we are told. That is the consciousness of our society. The conscousiousness that most of our peers buy into because they know nothing else. This midwife (I wish I could remember her name) has seen women have ecstatic birthing experiences. Orgasms instead of labor pain. Tears of overwhelming joy instead of excruciating pain. Beautiful, Beautitul, Beautiful births. . I believe it's possible, and for me, it will be reality (if the day should come again that I can bring another angel into the world). My two cents..... Paula When it is dark enough you can see the stars Start your day with - make it your home page Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 2, 2005 Report Share Posted September 2, 2005 thanks for the words of enpowerment. i have a few friends who may benefit from your words. peace, mark Paula Wood <wolfmother1 Sent: Thu, 1 Sep 2005 19:47:22 -0700 (PDT)Re: Midwifery & Childbirth I had my son 11 years ago. I had nurse midwives, and had him in a hospital. Long story, but there were complications and it ended up being a 28 hour labor. I had an epidural. Blah, Blah, Blah..... Since then, I have come to a few realizations and, as it seems with everything else in my life, will never be going mainstream again (i.e. hospital childbirth). I caught the end of a talk radio show with one of the most famous nurse midwives in the US. She has a farm somewhere in the south (Kentucky, Virgninia....I don't remember). She has personally helped to deliver well over 2000 babies in her career. Anyway, she was talking about belief systems, and it really resonated with me. Perhaps, as she said, we believe that childbirth is dangerous and needs to be directly supervised by a medical professionaly in a sterile hospital becuase that's what we are told. That is the consciousness of our society. The conscousiousness that most of our peers buy into because they know nothing else. This midwife (I wish I could remember her name) has seen women have ecstatic birthing experiences. Orgasms instead of labor pain. Tears of overwhelming joy instead of excruciating pain. Beautiful, Beautitul, Beautiful births. . I believe it's possible, and for me, it will be reality (if the day should come again that I can bring another angel into the world). My two cents..... Paula When it is dark enough you can see the stars Start your day with - make it your home page Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 2, 2005 Report Share Posted September 2, 2005 RE: I caught the end of a talk radio show with one of the most famous nurse midwives in the US. She has a farm somewhere in the south (Kentucky, Virgninia....I don't remember). HELENA REPLIES: She's Ina May Gaskin from a community called THE FARM in Summertown, Tennessee. The old hippies (like me) remember her :-) Helenablakenson wrote: thanks for the words of enpowerment. i have a few friends who may benefit from your words. peace, mark Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 2, 2005 Report Share Posted September 2, 2005 I think you may be referring to Ina Mae Gaskin, a midwife at The Farm Community in Tennesse. Either way, her book Spiritual Midwifery has lots of inspirational and joyful stories of childbirth. Another book I am finding useful, I am due the end of October, is Birthing from Within, that suggests birth art as ways to explore feelings and expectations surrounding pregnancy and birth. Thanks for all the sharing in all areas in this group Megan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 4, 2005 Report Share Posted September 4, 2005 Yes, YES!! That is her!! Oh, I am so glad someone knew whom I was speaking of!! lala imanisheba <hopewood wrote: I think you may be referring to Ina Mae Gaskin, a midwife at The Farm Community in Tennesse. Either way, her book Spiritual Midwifery has lots of inspirational and joyful stories of childbirth. Another book I am finding useful, I am due the end of October, is Birthing from Within, that suggests birth art as ways to explore feelings and expectations surrounding pregnancy and birth. Thanks for all the sharing in all areas in this groupMeganWhen it is dark enough you can see the stars Start your day with - make it your home page Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 6, 2005 Report Share Posted September 6, 2005 congrats meagan!!!!!! imanisheba <hopewood Sent: Fri, 02 Sep 2005 20:54:55 -0000 Re: Midwifery & Childbirth I think you may be referring to Ina Mae Gaskin, a midwife at The Farm Community in Tennesse. Either way, her book Spiritual Midwifery has lots of inspirational and joyful stories of childbirth. Another book I am finding useful, I am due the end of October, is Birthing from Within, that suggests birth art as ways to explore feelings and expectations surrounding pregnancy and birth. Thanks for all the sharing in all areas in this group Megan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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