Guest guest Posted July 14, 2002 Report Share Posted July 14, 2002 Time runs out for women Janey .. Don't forget that , Men can always have kids . You need to decide together if you want children . Suppose he decides eventually that he wants them ,and you are 40+ and maybe too old . Would he stay ? You can't bury the problem If He won't bring up children as vegan would you still want children with him.? A friend of mine never commited herself to her boyfriend, didn't live with him for longer than 6 months at a time ( various reasons --elderly parents )During the gaps he sometimes got other girlfriends because she wouldn't decide he was the one etc etc She is now my age and for her it is too late . He is still dating others and has a younger person . He has told me he would like kids !!!!! Do I need to visit you with my bucket and spade ?????? --Believe me - it would be war. I've just turned 30 so I have beenthinking about children a lot. But there's no way right now. So I burythe problem in the sand! Janey x --- Checked by AVG anti-virus system (http://www.grisoft.com). Version: 6.0.370 / Virus Database: 205 - Release 05/06/2002 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 14, 2002 Report Share Posted July 14, 2002 B " H Contrary to popular belief.... 1) women CAN have children after the age of 40. I know a woman, my Mom's age (that's 70) who had her one and only child at 45. I know another woman who had her one and only child in her 40s (though I'm not sure exactly what part of her 40s ;-). I have a friend who I grew up with (she's almost 47) who just had another child (her 7th or 8th - - hard to keep track -- she lost her first husband to cancer when he was 29 and she was 28 and then she lost her daughter from the first husband in a car crash a few years later). The niece of one of my Mom's childhood friends was married for 30 years, tried and tried to have children -- finally, after 30 years of trying, she had twins at the age of 50 -- one boy and one girl.... 2) people can have children that can be raised as theirs without the biological tools to create a new child. Debbie Angie wrote: Time runs out for women Janey .. Don't forget that , Men can always have kids . You need to decide together if you want children . Suppose he decides eventually that he wants them ,and you are 40+ and maybe too old . Would he stay ? You can't bury the problem If He won't bring up children as vegan would you still want children with him.? A friend of mine never commited herself to her boyfriend, didn't live with him for longer than 6 months at a time ( various reasons -- elderly parents )During the gaps he sometimes got other girlfriends because she wouldn't decide he was the one etc etc She is now my age and for her it is too late . He is still dating others and has a younger person . He has told me he would like kids !!!!! Do I need to visit you with my bucket and spade ?????? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 14, 2002 Report Share Posted July 14, 2002 Not all women want to rely on medical intervention, and you don't know when you are going to go thro' the menopause.. I think I was still fertile until recently as I have only just stopped having periods , But never tested it , as I am without a man and don't fancy grabbing someone off the street just to check it out !!!!! It may make a difference if one has used the pill a lot and if one started periods early . There are no guarantees as one gets older .but its nice to hear of success stories ---the 50 year old compugraphd [compugraphd] 14 July 2002 20:50 Subject: RE: Re: Having kidsB"HContrary to popular belief....husband in a car crash a few years later). The niece of one of my Mom's childhood friends was married for 30 years, tried and tried to have children -- finally, after 30 years of trying, she had twins at the age of 50 -- one boy and one girl.... --- Checked by AVG anti-virus system (http://www.grisoft.com). Version: 6.0.370 / Virus Database: 205 - Release 05/06/2002 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 14, 2002 Report Share Posted July 14, 2002 That's your life you're burying! He doesn't sound worth it to me. - Angie Wright Sunday, July 14, 2002 11:45 AM RE: Re: Having kids Time runs out for women Janey .. Don't forget that , Men can always have kids . You need to decide together if you want children . Suppose he decides eventually that he wants them ,and you are 40+ and maybe too old . Would he stay ? You can't bury the problem If He won't bring up children as vegan would you still want children with him.? A friend of mine never commited herself to her boyfriend, didn't live with him for longer than 6 months at a time ( various reasons --elderly parents )During the gaps he sometimes got other girlfriends because she wouldn't decide he was the one etc etc She is now my age and for her it is too late . He is still dating others and has a younger person . He has told me he would like kids !!!!! Do I need to visit you with my bucket and spade ?????? --Believe me - it would be war. I've just turned 30 so I have beenthinking about children a lot. But there's no way right now. So I burythe problem in the sand! Janey x To send an email to - Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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