Guest guest Posted November 1, 2008 Report Share Posted November 1, 2008 Jeff: I always respect and aprreciate your thoughts! Thanks for weighing in I-1000. I am NOT for forcing anyone! Many do NOT understand that their lifestyle impacts their physical health! Most people have the understanding that their genetics matter and little or nothing else! I find it amazing that a group into health is often for I-1000!?! Currently killing yourself is NOT legal. I-1000 makes it legal. Making killing yourself legal only decreases the chance of anyone changing their lifestyle. Again, TWO WRONGS DON'T MAKE A RIGHT! Live strong & long! Jim On Behalf Of Jeff Rogers Saturday, November 01, 2008 10:58 AM Re: Death with Dignity After a couple of very busy days, I'll try to catch up on some of these emails. It's true that many of us recognize that there are consequences to our dietary choices. We also may realize that there will be consequences to our present choices, even if we are eating considerably better than we used to. I recognize clearly, like Nora suggested, that I cannot force others to change their diets. While that may, somehow, be possible, it would not likely invite lifestyle changes. In a forced situation, some may recognize that they feel better, but it would not likely be a calm and friendly interaction. It may cause resentment and a renewed resolve to eat poorly. Here's a thought: If we do not forbid people from consuming toxic " food " , then why would we forbid them from consuming more toxic food (in the form of pills or injections)? I recognize " foods " of my past were toxic; they included toxins or were in forms that were toxic or had toxic effects on my body. I was allowed to consume those popular " foods " and learned from my experiences. Others may not learn from their diet and health experiences in the same way. Perhaps they do learn from those experiences, but choose to ignore the consequences or are addicted to the " foods " (which is a whole other issue - should people intervene addictions?). When they get to the point of severe chronic disease after decades of toxic " foods " and they suffer greatly from the resulting symptoms, do we have the right to intervene and say they cannot consume a more toxic food to end their life and they can only be allowed to continue eating toxic foods and can continue consuming the concentrated toxic foods (medications) that they are currently consuming? We may recognize these health issues may be reversible, but the medical establishment and pharmaceutical industry seem to have no understanding (or wish not to admit it) of diet and nutrition, as well as true health. Patients may be supported in their causing their own disease with a handshake, pat on the back, and a hug (along with a whopping medical bill). They may feel cared for and they are not told they have to stop eating their favorite foods. If my own relatives were in that situation of chronic horrible pain and have received an inevitable death sentence, while I would not likely make that choice for them, after decades of them choosing a toxic lifestyle - with absolutely NO interest in changing - I recognize they are masters of their lives, they make their choices, and they pay any consequences. I choose my battles. I'm not interested in banning alcohol, cooked food, animal products, artificial ingredients, etc., etc., though I do wish to do my part to help educate people. While I do not wish to encourage the behavior of prescribing lethal doses, do I have the right to decide other's choices? It may not be about right vs. wrong, but rather who gets to make that right or wrong choice. If people are suffering and have been diagnosed with expected death within 6 months and want out now, I'd like the option to be this: Remove ALL medications, and give them only pure water (maybe fresh raw organic vegetable juices). They may think that would hasten death, but after water fasting for a while, we may see some interesting changes. Fasting may be overwhelming to some toxic bodies, but it would be more natural than lethal dose. If people want us to limit the choice to consume (via pill or injection, etc.) toxic poison, then perhaps we really should ban toxic " foods " that create disease. If they want limitation, let's give it to them!(?) Jeff Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 1, 2008 Report Share Posted November 1, 2008 > I find it amazing that a > group into health is often for I-1000!?! If you are referring to those in the health field who watch people suffer and die, they may not know any better regarding diet and nutrition and may consider their choice to support the proposition compassionate. (BTW, aren't medical groups who are against I-1000 in a conflict of interest?) If you are referring to groups like raw foodists, I remind you it doesn't mean they choose death. It may mean they choose not to judge and realize they are in absolutely no position to decide for others. I know that I am in absolutely no position to judge those in hospital beds and am in no position to make decisions for them and their families and friends. > Again, TWO WRONGS DON'T MAKE > A RIGHT! I understand your view. I choose to let those people with their families and friends to make that choice. It is not my place to judge them as wrong or right. God is their judge (IMO) and is in a much better position to judge than me. I certainly wouldn't want to be judged for being the vote that, basically, required people's agony and suffering to be prolonged (even if food choices could have prevented or " cured " it). Again... not my place to judge. I realize that if one of my own family was in that position and wanted that option, but could not have it, they (the ones wanting that option) would likely continue taking their poison in small doses and would prolong/continue their suffering. If they had gotten to that point, we likely would have already had conversations about healthful eating and living. Is it wrong for the medical profession to not give their patients the information to reverse their disease? (I believe so.) Is it wrong to require terminally ill patients to continue agony and suffering, against their will? (Perhaps) If so, that would be two wrongs! I appreciate our members sharing their views to help others come to grips with this issue and make a decision. Let's let them make their choice and see what the state decides. Unfortunately, (I suspect) by far, most of the voters are likely unaware of optimal health and nutrition (not that I/we know everything, but we are thinking outside some big boxes!). Jeff Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 1, 2008 Report Share Posted November 1, 2008 Hi Everyone, This is a very touchy subject indeed! From what I am able to gather, Jim, you are a very passionate man who has achieved a level of great health and energy through eating a raw food diet. You stumbled across a 'secret' to a long and healthy life 30 some years ago, and life probably just seems to get better every year. I am sure if you could scream about this great opportunity for health from the roof tops - and have people listen to you - you would in a heart beat! Alas, this great health opportunity seems to be for those of us who have woken up, who are free thinkers, and who are willing to do whatever it takes to be healthy and live a long life. Out of all the people that try the raw food diet, how many are able to keep it up after one year? Two years? I'll tell you, according to one study (probably the only study) it's less than 2%. I was one of those people that made it - actually made it 3.5 years eating 100% raw vegan food. And here is why I will be voting yes on I-1000. (bear with me) In September of 2003, I was diagnosed with Thyroid Cancer. My Naturopathic doctor who diagnosed me delivered the news on the 11th of September, actually. She wanted me in for surgery the next week. I knew that once I had it out, there was no turning back. I would be dependent on medication for the rest of my life. Being a holistic thinking person, I knew that ripping an organ from my body wasn't going to solve the issue at it's deepest level. For the next couple months I cried, and I searched for an alternative, and cried some more. Then a friend of a friend told me about Raw Food. I embarked on my raw food journey January of '04. After my first cleanse, the node on my thyroid could no longer be seen to the naked eye. But it was not gone. I continued eating raw food for the next year and a half and no change in the size. It wasn't getting bigger and it wasn't getting smaller. I had a few readings from different healers and they all said there was huge emotional issues around healing my body. It's not always just about the toxins in our food, sometimes it's the toxic emotions in our body, too. After about a year and a half, I started sharing wine with friends - which was too acidic for my body (DUH!). After a few years of eating raw - life provided a few ... eh hemm ... growth experiences that I didn't react to very well and drinking wine became an almost daily thing. The cancerous node might have gotten a little bigger. So, about a year ago, I started eating cooked food again, and all of a sudden I realized I didn't even want anything raw anymore. I was back to my old SAD diet, back to the heavy weight, and even heavier emotions. Now the node has definitely gotten bigger, you can see a little lump on my throat again. I never in a million years thought I would end up, back in this position. Today, I have been raw again since October 9th, I am doing a cleanse and am back on track with the same stubborn and passionate determination of January '04. I learned from the raw mistakes I've made and am approaching it in a different way this time. I realize that most of us here are glass-half-full kinds of people. We are willing to take risks, go against the grain, question the reality that most of our media, medical and political leaders try to spoon feed us. But, quite frankly, we are few and far between. I feel it is malicious punishment to say, 'you've made your choice, now lie in it' ... lie in agonizing pain, with tubes sticking out of you, praying for death to take over the body. It is a cruel punishment that may scar our souls forever - both dying in such agonizing pain, and watching a loved one go that way. It's been about 10 years since I lost an Aunt to cancer. She was kind of a second mom to me. She left behind two little girls and my uncle. I was just discovering that our emotions played a big role in our health. I remember suggesting to her and my uncle that maybe chemotherapy wasn't the way to go. That we had Bastyr nestled in our backyard and that there were so many naturopathic ways to treat cancer. They said that they trusted their allopathic doctors. It was one of the most disheartening conversations I have ever had. We watched for 5 years as the doctors cut and mutilated her body. The tumor was in her left thigh. The first round of chemo lasted 8 months. My son had just been born and my Mom, sister and I would take him in to visit almost daily when she was in the hospital. She loved babies so much, it really lit up her miserable days. They did radiation after the chemo. Then itumor had shrunk enough they decided to operate. Turns out it was wrapped across the major artery that takes the blood up from your leg. They had to cut it off and solder both ends of the artery so it would no longer work. After a year they had to take her leg, cause it was dying. She was told she was in remission eventually, only to be told a year later the cancer was back. She had two open chest surgeries for some reason I don't recall. On the second they were inspecting her lungs and found too many tumors to count. She was pronounced terminal. She chose not to do any more chemo for the last months of her life. The last time I saw her she had tumors all over her body. I was playing with her hair, and rubbing her shoulders and there were little lumps everywhere. Towards the end I called to say goodbye and heard her in the background screaming in pain. Even with the legal amount of morphine her father (who was a doctor) was administering, her pain was inconsolable. After two weeks of extreme agony she finally slipped into a coma and died. Such a beautiful and strong woman to die in such a cruel way. This is an all too familiar story in today's society. Isn't the statistic that 1 out of every 2 people will be diagnosed with Cancer these days? A few weeks before my cancer diagnoses, my mother was diagnosed with Stage 0 Breast Cancer. She elected to have her left breast removed and actually didn't need any follow-up chemo - thank godd! She was not happy that I chose food to be my medicine, putting more faith in Western Medicine herself. A few months into my raw food journey, my mother and I had a conversation about health and the choices we both made. She screamed to me, with fire and venom dripping off each word, " I will NEVER eat the RAW FOOD diet, even if it would save my life! NEVER! " To say the least, I was quite shocked. I ended the conversation with a smile and a hug, knowing that some day, I would have to watch my mother die. But, it's her choice to go how she wants to and live how she wants to die. And I hope, when that day comes, she doesn't have to suffer. My father has smoked for almost 50 years. He's tried to quit, but just can't for whatever reasons. He is at a huge risk for lung cancer, one of the most painful ways to die. I have to agree, Jim, that it would be a wonderful world if people could at least be offered the choice of Living foods, or Chemotherapy. It's not a pipe dream to think that this might happen someday. But this type of opportunity is not on the table right now ... it's ... " pie in the sky " . The Raw Food Diet is becoming more and more popular as restaurants pop up here and there, books and articles are written, shows like " Ellen " , " Oprah " , and " Bizarre Foods " have segments regarding raw food. And, as people like you Jim, and Nora, and Shari, and Jeff, and all the other people out there leading by example and talking to anyone with ears to hear, eventually we will reach critical mass. Eventually Raw Food won't be that " weird diet for weirdo's " , such as Vegetarianism and Veganism was decades ago. So, for those people - like my mother and my aunt, and Shari's mother-in-law, and the gentleman suffering from Multiple Sclerosis I used to make 3 raw meals a day for and he still chose to eat SAD snacks because it 'was too hard', and the countless other people who won't accept something as simple as alkalizing the body to cure disease, to live an impassioned life full of joy, clear thinking, and true health ... for those people I DO wish them the easy way out, if that is what they choose. It's their choice, not mine. I wish them to close their eyes and pass away with a smile on their face, with dignity. It's just death, after all. Namaste, Paula ________________________________ " health " <health Saturday, November 1, 2008 1:37:13 PM RE: Death with Dignity/Jeff Jeff: I always respect and aprreciate your thoughts! Thanks for weighing in I-1000. I am NOT for forcing anyone! Many do NOT understand that their lifestyle impacts their physical health! Most people have the understanding that their genetics matter and little or nothing else! I find it amazing that a group into health is often for I-1000!?! Currently killing yourself is NOT legal. I-1000 makes it legal. Making killing yourself legal only decreases the chance of anyone changing their lifestyle. Again, TWO WRONGS DON'T MAKE A RIGHT! Live strong & long! Jim []On Behalf Of Jeff Rogers Saturday, November 01, 2008 10:58 AM Re: Death with Dignity After a couple of very busy days, I'll try to catch up on some of these emails. It's true that many of us recognize that there are consequences to our dietary choices. We also may realize that there will be consequences to our present choices, even if we are eating considerably better than we used to. I recognize clearly, like Nora suggested, that I cannot force others to change their diets. While that may, somehow, be possible, it would not likely invite lifestyle changes. In a forced situation, some may recognize that they feel better, but it would not likely be a calm and friendly interaction. It may cause resentment and a renewed resolve to eat poorly. Here's a thought: If we do not forbid people from consuming toxic " food " , then why would we forbid them from consuming more toxic food (in the form of pills or injections)? I recognize " foods " of my past were toxic; they included toxins or were in forms that were toxic or had toxic effects on my body. I was allowed to consume those popular " foods " and learned from my experiences. Others may not learn from their diet and health experiences in the same way. Perhaps they do learn from those experiences, but choose to ignore the consequences or are addicted to the " foods " (which is a whole other issue - should people intervene addictions?) . When they get to the point of severe chronic disease after decades of toxic " foods " and they suffer greatly from the resulting symptoms, do we have the right to intervene and say they cannot consume a more toxic food to end their life and they can only be allowed to continue eating toxic foods and can continue consuming the concentrated toxic foods (medications) that they are currently consuming? We may recognize these health issues may be reversible, but the medical establishment and pharmaceutical industry seem to have no understanding (or wish not to admit it) of diet and nutrition, as well as true health. Patients may be supported in their causing their own disease with a handshake, pat on the back, and a hug (along with a whopping medical bill). They may feel cared for and they are not told they have to stop eating their favorite foods. If my own relatives were in that situation of chronic horrible pain and have received an inevitable death sentence, while I would not likely make that choice for them, after decades of them choosing a toxic lifestyle - with absolutely NO interest in changing - I recognize they are masters of their lives, they make their choices, and they pay any consequences. I choose my battles. I'm not interested in banning alcohol, cooked food, animal products, artificial ingredients, etc., etc., though I do wish to do my part to help educate people. While I do not wish to encourage the behavior of prescribing lethal doses, do I have the right to decide other's choices? It may not be about right vs. wrong, but rather who gets to make that right or wrong choice. If people are suffering and have been diagnosed with expected death within 6 months and want out now, I'd like the option to be this: Remove ALL medications, and give them only pure water (maybe fresh raw organic vegetable juices). They may think that would hasten death, but after water fasting for a while, we may see some interesting changes. Fasting may be overwhelming to some toxic bodies, but it would be more natural than lethal dose. If people want us to limit the choice to consume (via pill or injection, etc.) toxic poison, then perhaps we really should ban toxic " foods " that create disease. If they want limitation, let's give it to them!(?) Jeff Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 1, 2008 Report Share Posted November 1, 2008 Jim isn't listening, anymore than those people whose health is suffering but are not willing to try a raw diet or examine their emotional states. Blanc On Nov 1, 2008, at 8:40 PM, Paula Wood wrote: > Hi Everyone, > > This is a very touchy subject indeed! From what I am able to > gather, Jim, you are a very passionate man who has achieved a level > of great health and energy through eating a raw food diet. > [ . . .etc. . .] > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 2, 2008 Report Share Posted November 2, 2008 Well said, Paula! I must say, that brought tears to my eyes when I read what you said. My parents and relatives don't (and probably won't ever) agree with my lifestyle choice, and I would hope they get a choice to not suffer either. I've been there when my grandma and grandpa each passed away, my grandma had diabetes (though I don't know what exactly killed her) and my grandpa smoked his pipe too much (I think he had lung cancer) and could've live longer than a year without my grandma. I was so young when they passed away. I remember my relatives trying to convince my grandpa to stop, and even the doctors did, but he wouldn't have it. He kept getting admitted to the hospital, pushing to kill himself quickly, and that was the only way he knew to go peacefully. That side of my family are major pork eaters (my grandpa raised pigs, chickens, and rabbits). Even if I knew what I know now, there would have been NO convincing them to change their lifestyle! To this day, my mom still believes pork is ok to eat, and that her family has ate it for so long and that it's healthy. (I laugh and cry to myself at the same time when she talks like that, because it's so funny yet so sad). We can't change others' opinions or lifestyles, so all we can do is wish them the best and hope they don't go painfully. I have yet to convince ANY family members of this better healthier lifestyle change. (I hope once they see me no longer obese, with glowing skin, less acne, and a lot more healthier than before, that maybe then they'll change their minds!) I can convince some of those I meet and talk to online, but not my family. They truely don't seem to see the error in their ways, and are stubborn to change. Yet, I still try, because I figure I only fail if I totally give up on convincing them. ________________________________ Paula Wood <wolfmother1 Saturday, November 1, 2008 8:40:25 PM Re: Death with Dignity/Jeff Hi Everyone, This is a very touchy subject indeed! From what I am able to gather, Jim, you are a very passionate man who has achieved a level of great health and energy through eating a raw food diet. You stumbled across a 'secret' to a long and healthy life 30 some years ago, and life probably just seems to get better every year. I am sure if you could scream about this great opportunity for health from the roof tops - and have people listen to you - you would in a heart beat! Alas, this great health opportunity seems to be for those of us who have woken up, who are free thinkers, and who are willing to do whatever it takes to be healthy and live a long life. Out of all the people that try the raw food diet, how many are able to keep it up after one year? Two years? I'll tell you, according to one study (probably the only study) it's less than 2%. I was one of those people that made it - actually made it 3.5 years eating 100% raw vegan food. And here is why I will be voting yes on I-1000. (bear with me) In September of 2003, I was diagnosed with Thyroid Cancer. My Naturopathic doctor who diagnosed me delivered the news on the 11th of September, actually. She wanted me in for surgery the next week. I knew that once I had it out, there was no turning back. I would be dependent on medication for the rest of my life. Being a holistic thinking person, I knew that ripping an organ from my body wasn't going to solve the issue at it's deepest level. For the next couple months I cried, and I searched for an alternative, and cried some more. Then a friend of a friend told me about Raw Food. I embarked on my raw food journey January of '04. After my first cleanse, the node on my thyroid could no longer be seen to the naked eye. But it was not gone. I continued eating raw food for the next year and a half and no change in the size. It wasn't getting bigger and it wasn't getting smaller. I had a few readings from different healers and they all said there was huge emotional issues around healing my body. It's not always just about the toxins in our food, sometimes it's the toxic emotions in our body, too. After about a year and a half, I started sharing wine with friends - which was too acidic for my body (DUH!). After a few years of eating raw - life provided a few ... eh hemm ... growth experiences that I didn't react to very well and drinking wine became an almost daily thing. The cancerous node might have gotten a little bigger. So, about a year ago, I started eating cooked food again, and all of a sudden I realized I didn't even want anything raw anymore. I was back to my old SAD diet, back to the heavy weight, and even heavier emotions. Now the node has definitely gotten bigger, you can see a little lump on my throat again. I never in a million years thought I would end up, back in this position. Today, I have been raw again since October 9th, I am doing a cleanse and am back on track with the same stubborn and passionate determina tion of January '04. I learned from the raw mistakes I've made and am approaching it in a different way this time. I realize that most of us here are glass-half-full kinds of people. We are willing to take risks, go against the grain, question the reality that most of our media, medical and political leaders try to spoon feed us. But, quite frankly, we are few and far between. I feel it is malicious punishment to say, 'you've made your choice, now lie in it' ... lie in agonizing pain, with tubes sticking out of you, praying for death to take over the body. It is a cruel punishment that may scar our souls forever - both dying in such agonizing pain, and watching a loved one go that way. It's been about 10 years since I lost an Aunt to cancer. She was kind of a second mom to me. She left behind two little girls and my uncle. I was just discovering that our emotions played a big role in our health. I remember suggesting to her and my uncle that maybe chemotherapy wasn't the way to go. That we had Bastyr nestled in our backyard and that there were so many naturopathic ways to treat cancer. They said that they trusted their allopathic doctors. It was one of the most disheartening conversations I have ever had. We watched for 5 years as the doctors cut and mutilated her body. The tumor was in her left thigh. The first round of chemo lasted 8 months. My son had just been born and my Mom, sister and I would take him in to visit almost daily when she was in the hospital. She loved babies so much, it really lit up her miserable days. They did radiation after the chemo. Then itumor had shrunk enough they decided to operate. Turns out it was wrapped across the major artery that takes the blood up from your leg. They had to cut it off and solder both ends of the artery so it would no longer work. After a year they had to take her leg, cause it was dying. She was told she was in remission eventually, only to be told a year later the cancer was back. She had two open chest surgeries for some reason I don't recall. On the second they were inspecting her lungs and found too many tumors to count. She was pronounced terminal. She chose not to do any more chemo for the last months of her life. The last time I saw her she had tumors all over her body. I was playing with her hair, and rubbing her shoulders and there were little lumps everywhere. Towards the end I called to say goodbye and heard her in the background screaming in pain. Even with the legal amount of morphine her father (who was a doctor) was administering, her pain was inconsolable. After two weeks of extreme agony she finally slipped into a coma and died. Such a beautiful and strong woman to die in such a cruel way. This is an all too familiar story in today's society. Isn't the statistic that 1 out of every 2 people will be diagnosed with Cancer these days? A few weeks before my cancer diagnoses, my mother was diagnosed with Stage 0 Breast Cancer. She elected to have her left breast removed and actually didn't need any follow-up chemo - thank godd! She was not happy that I chose food to be my medicine, putting more faith in Western Medicine herself. A few months into my raw food journey, my mother and I had a conversation about health and the choices we both made. She screamed to me, with fire and venom dripping off each word, " I will NEVER eat the RAW FOOD diet, even if it would save my life! NEVER! " To say the least, I was quite shocked. I ended the conversation with a smile and a hug, knowing that some day, I would have to watch my mother die. But, it's her choice to go how she wants to and live how she wants to die. And I hope, when that day comes, she doesn't have to suffer. My father has smoked for almost 50 years. He's tried to quit, but just can't for whatever reasons. He is at a huge risk for lung cancer, one of the most painful ways to die. I have to agree, Jim, that it would be a wonderful world if people could at least be offered the choice of Living foods, or Chemotherapy. It's not a pipe dream to think that this might happen someday. But this type of opportunity is not on the table right now ... it's ... " pie in the sky " . The Raw Food Diet is becoming more and more popular as restaurants pop up here and there, books and articles are written, shows like " Ellen " , " Oprah " , and " Bizarre Foods " have segments regarding raw food. And, as people like you Jim, and Nora, and Shari, and Jeff, and all the other people out there leading by example and talking to anyone with ears to hear, eventually we will reach critical mass. Eventually Raw Food won't be that " weird diet for weirdo's " , such as Vegetarianism and Veganism was decades ago. So, for those people - like my mother and my aunt, and Shari's mother-in-law, and the gentleman suffering from Multiple Sclerosis I used to make 3 raw meals a day for and he still chose to eat SAD snacks because it 'was too hard', and the countless other people who won't accept something as simple as alkalizing the body to cure disease, to live an impassioned life full of joy, clear thinking, and true health ... for those people I DO wish them the easy way out, if that is what they choose. It's their choice, not mine. I wish them to close their eyes and pass away with a smile on their face, with dignity. It's just death, after all. Namaste, Paula ____________ _________ _________ __ " health@casaleconsul ting.com " <health@casaleconsul ting.com> Saturday, November 1, 2008 1:37:13 PM RE: Death with Dignity/Jeff Jeff: I always respect and aprreciate your thoughts! Thanks for weighing in I-1000. I am NOT for forcing anyone! Many do NOT understand that their lifestyle impacts their physical health! Most people have the understanding that their genetics matter and little or nothing else! I find it amazing that a group into health is often for I-1000!?! Currently killing yourself is NOT legal. I-1000 makes it legal. Making killing yourself legal only decreases the chance of anyone changing their lifestyle. Again, TWO WRONGS DON'T MAKE A RIGHT! Live strong & long! Jim Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 2, 2008 Report Share Posted November 2, 2008 Paula that was a very touching letter thanks for sharing your feelings. After reading the initiative entirely from the voters pamhplet I felt that it does cover bases very well requiring two physcians to attest that the patient has 6 mos or less and is of sound mind to make such a decision and there are preliminary waiting periods between requests for assistance and the act itself. My opinion was coming more from feelings of losing my 20 year old friend to suicide than looking at this issue with total open eyes. Now that I have put aside my own stigmas with suicide I realize that it should not be illegal if we chose to end our misery when we are already dying. Suicide seems so unatural but then again so does laying in a bed in agonizing pain for 6 months. I just hope that the commercial where the woman says " they will help me kill myself but they will not give me the drugs to save my life " is not true. Peace during all of your tough decisions Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 4, 2008 Report Share Posted November 4, 2008 Just keep showing by example. I had a cousin come up to me during last summer's family picnic to tell me that she wanted to pick my brain about some raw food recipes. Most of my family is obese - morbidly obese, actually. This particular cousin has been trying to concieve for years and just had to have a hystorectomy because of health issues. I wish she would have come to me sooner. But, hopefully I can help her get healthy anyway. good luck to you and your family! Paula , Sam C <aimcrimsontiger wrote: > > Well said, Paula! I must say, that brought tears to my eyes when I read what you said. My parents and relatives don't (and probably won't ever) agree with my lifestyle choice, and I would hope they get a choice to not suffer either. I've been there when my grandma and grandpa each passed away, my grandma had diabetes (though I don't know what exactly killed her) and my grandpa smoked his pipe too much (I think he had lung cancer) and could've live longer than a year without my grandma. I was so young when they passed away. I remember my relatives trying to convince my grandpa to stop, and even the doctors did, but he wouldn't have it. He kept getting admitted to the hospital, pushing to kill himself quickly, and that was the only way he knew to go peacefully. That side of my family are major pork eaters (my grandpa raised pigs, chickens, and rabbits). Even if I knew what I know now, there would have been NO convincing them to change their lifestyle! To > this day, my mom still believes pork is ok to eat, and that her family has ate it for so long and that it's healthy. (I laugh and cry to myself at the same time when she talks like that, because it's so funny yet so sad). We can't change others' opinions or lifestyles, so all we can do is wish them the best and hope they don't go painfully. > > I have yet to convince ANY family members of this better healthier lifestyle change. (I hope once they see me no longer obese, with glowing skin, less acne, and a lot more healthier than before, that maybe then they'll change their minds!) I can convince some of those I meet and talk to online, but not my family. They truely don't seem to see the error in their ways, and are stubborn to change. Yet, I still try, because I figure I only fail if I totally give up on convincing them. > > > > > ________________________________ > Paula Wood <wolfmother1 > > Saturday, November 1, 2008 8:40:25 PM > Re: Death with Dignity/Jeff > > > Hi Everyone, > > This is a very touchy subject indeed! From what I am able to gather, Jim, you are a very passionate man who has achieved a level of great health and energy through eating a raw food diet. You stumbled across a 'secret' to a long and healthy life 30 some years ago, and life probably just seems to get better every year. I am sure if you could scream about this great opportunity for health from the roof tops - and have people listen to you - you would in a heart beat! Alas, this great health opportunity seems to be for those of us who have woken up, who are free thinkers, and who are willing to do whatever it takes to be healthy and live a long life. Out of all the people that try the raw food diet, how many are able to keep it up after one year? Two years? I'll tell you, according to one study (probably the only study) it's less than 2%. I was one of those people that made it - actually made it 3.5 years eating 100% raw vegan food. And > here is why I will be voting yes on I-1000. (bear with me) > > In September of 2003, I was diagnosed with Thyroid Cancer. My Naturopathic doctor who diagnosed me delivered the news on the 11th of September, actually. She wanted me in for surgery the next week. I knew that once I had it out, there was no turning back. I would be dependent on medication for the rest of my life. Being a holistic thinking person, I knew that ripping an organ from my body wasn't going to solve the issue at it's deepest level. For the next couple months I cried, and I searched for an alternative, and cried some more. Then a friend of a friend told me about Raw Food. I embarked on my raw food journey January of '04. After my first cleanse, the node on my thyroid could no longer be seen to the naked eye. But it was not gone. I continued eating raw food for the next year and a half and no change in the size. It wasn't getting bigger and it wasn't getting smaller. I had a few readings from different healers and they > all said there was huge emotional issues around healing my body. It's not always just about the toxins in our food, sometimes it's the toxic emotions in our body, too. After about a year and a half, I started sharing wine with friends - which was too acidic for my body (DUH!). After a few years of eating raw - life provided a few ... eh hemm ... growth experiences that I didn't react to very well and drinking wine became an almost daily thing. The cancerous node might have gotten a little bigger. So, about a year ago, I started eating cooked food again, and all of a sudden I realized I didn't even want anything raw anymore. I was back to my old SAD diet, back to the heavy weight, and even heavier emotions. Now the node has definitely gotten bigger, you can see a little lump on my throat again. I never in a million years thought I would end up, back in this position. Today, I have been raw again since October 9th, I am doing a > cleanse and am back on track with the same stubborn and passionate determina tion of January '04. I learned from the raw mistakes I've made and am approaching it in a different way this time. > > I realize that most of us here are glass-half-full kinds of people. We are willing to take risks, go against the grain, question the reality that most of our media, medical and political leaders try to spoon feed us. But, quite frankly, we are few and far between. I feel it is malicious punishment to say, 'you've made your choice, now lie in it' ... lie in agonizing pain, with tubes sticking out of you, praying for death to take over the body. It is a cruel punishment that may scar our souls forever - both dying in such agonizing pain, and watching a loved one go that way. > > It's been about 10 years since I lost an Aunt to cancer. She was kind of a second mom to me. She left behind two little girls and my uncle. I was just discovering that our emotions played a big role in our health. I remember suggesting to her and my uncle that maybe chemotherapy wasn't the way to go. That we had Bastyr nestled in our backyard and that there were so many naturopathic ways to treat cancer. They said that they trusted their allopathic doctors. It was one of the most disheartening conversations I have ever had. We watched for 5 years as the doctors cut and mutilated her body. The tumor was in her left thigh. The first round of chemo lasted 8 months. My son had just been born and my Mom, sister and I would take him in to visit almost daily when she was in the hospital. She loved babies so much, it really lit up her miserable days. They did radiation after the chemo. Then itumor had shrunk enough they decided to > operate. Turns out it was wrapped across the major artery that takes the blood up from your leg. They had to cut it off and solder both ends of the artery so it would no longer work. After a year they had to take her leg, cause it was dying. She was told she was in remission eventually, only to be told a year later the cancer was back. She had two open chest surgeries for some reason I don't recall. On the second they were inspecting her lungs and found too many tumors to count. She was pronounced terminal. She chose not to do any more chemo for the last months of her life. The last time I saw her she had tumors all over her body. I was playing with her hair, and rubbing her shoulders and there were little lumps everywhere. Towards the end I called to say goodbye and heard her in the background screaming in pain. Even with the legal amount of morphine her father (who was a doctor) was administering, her pain was > inconsolable. After two weeks of extreme agony she finally slipped into a coma and died. Such a beautiful and strong woman to die in such a cruel way. This is an all too familiar story in today's society. Isn't the statistic that 1 out of every 2 people will be diagnosed with Cancer these days? > > A few weeks before my cancer diagnoses, my mother was diagnosed with Stage 0 Breast Cancer. She elected to have her left breast removed and actually didn't need any follow-up chemo - thank godd! She was not happy that I chose food to be my medicine, putting more faith in Western Medicine herself. A few months into my raw food journey, my mother and I had a conversation about health and the choices we both made. She screamed to me, with fire and venom dripping off each word, " I will NEVER eat the RAW FOOD diet, even if it would save my life! NEVER! " To say the least, I was quite shocked. I ended the conversation with a smile and a hug, knowing that some day, I would have to watch my mother die. But, it's her choice to go how she wants to and live how she wants to die. And I hope, when that day comes, she doesn't have to suffer. My father has smoked for almost 50 years. He's tried to quit, but just can't for whatever reasons. He > is at a huge risk for lung cancer, one of the most painful ways to die. > > I have to agree, Jim, that it would be a wonderful world if people could at least be offered the choice of Living foods, or Chemotherapy. It's not a pipe dream to think that this might happen someday. But this type of opportunity is not on the table right now ... it's ... " pie in the sky " . The Raw Food Diet is becoming more and more popular as restaurants pop up here and there, books and articles are written, shows like " Ellen " , " Oprah " , and " Bizarre Foods " have segments regarding raw food. And, as people like you Jim, and Nora, and Shari, and Jeff, and all the other people out there leading by example and talking to anyone with ears to hear, eventually we will reach critical mass. Eventually Raw Food won't be that " weird diet for weirdo's " , such as Vegetarianism and Veganism was decades ago. > > So, for those people - like my mother and my aunt, and Shari's mother-in-law, and the gentleman suffering from Multiple Sclerosis I used to make 3 raw meals a day for and he still chose to eat SAD snacks because it 'was too hard', and the countless other people who won't accept something as simple as alkalizing the body to cure disease, to live an impassioned life full of joy, clear thinking, and true health ... for those people I DO wish them the easy way out, if that is what they choose. It's their choice, not mine. I wish them to close their eyes and pass away with a smile on their face, with dignity. It's just death, after all. > > Namaste, > Paula > > > > ____________ _________ _________ __ > " health@casaleconsul ting.com " <health@casaleconsul ting.com> > > Saturday, November 1, 2008 1:37:13 PM > RE: Death with Dignity/Jeff > > Jeff: > > I always respect and aprreciate your thoughts! Thanks for weighing in > I-1000. > > I am NOT for forcing anyone! Many do NOT understand that their lifestyle > impacts their physical health! Most people have the understanding that > their genetics matter and little or nothing else! I find it amazing that a > group into health is often for I-1000!?! Currently killing yourself is NOT > legal. I-1000 makes it legal. Making killing yourself legal only decreases > the chance of anyone changing their lifestyle. Again, TWO WRONGS DON'T MAKE > A RIGHT! > > Live strong & long! > > Jim > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 5, 2008 Report Share Posted November 5, 2008 Oh, I will. I don't plan on giving up, because giving up on them would just be like giving up on myself. They may not like what they hear from me, but if they're ever in a life or death situation (which I wouldn't wish on them, but sadly that's when many people decide to change), hopefully they'll see how healthy I am and beg me to show them the way. And I'd help them in a heartbeat! By the way, most of my family is obese, too...more so on my mom's side, though. Well, I hope you can help her! Best of luck to you! I've been trying to concieve, too, but only for almost 2 years (you know when you can't get pregnant within 2 years that it'll be hard, since you see so many people popping out babies in their first year). I think, though, that since my lifestyle change, I may have a better chance. Nothing yet, but then I'm hoping nothing happens until I at least go through a good bit of months cleansing my body from all those toxic cooked foods (I'd hate to be pregnant and be harming my own child with toxins flooding my body during cleansing). Heck, I started a Vegan diet only a few months ago (skipping Vegetarian and going right to Vegan), and just recently started eating mostly a Raw Vegan diet (about 95-99%), so I know I still have a LOT of cleansing left. I just started my time of the month a few days ago, and I think it was so hard on me this time due to so many toxins being pushed out my system with the more raw healthier diet change. I'm just staying positive, though, believing everything will get better once I get through this change. I'm glad I gave this lifestyle a chance, because just the extra energy I get with it is enough for me to stick with it! ________________________________ wolfmother1 <wolfmother1 Tuesday, November 4, 2008 9:27:55 PM Re: Death with Dignity/Jeff Just keep showing by example. I had a cousin come up to me during last summer's family picnic to tell me that she wanted to pick my brain about some raw food recipes. Most of my family is obese - morbidly obese, actually. This particular cousin has been trying to concieve for years and just had to have a hystorectomy because of health issues. I wish she would have come to me sooner. But, hopefully I can help her get healthy anyway. good luck to you and your family! Paula Change settings via the Web ( ID required) Change settings via email: Switch delivery to Daily Digest | Switch format to Traditional Visit Your Group | Terms of Use | Un Recent Activity * 2 New MembersVisit Your Group New web site? Drive traffic now. Get your business on search. Sell Online Start selling with our award-winning e-commerce tools. Health Groups for people over 40 Join people who are staying in shape. .. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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