Guest guest Posted June 6, 2003 Report Share Posted June 6, 2003 What do you do if you're invited to a fancy restaurant by a bunch of non-veggies, and the most vegetarian thing on the menu is chicken? Do you ask them to make you a plain salad with just vegetables? That kind of sucks because if it's an expensive restaurant, you're paying big bucks for something you could make at home in 5 minutes. OR, do you ask the inviting party to consider a different restaurant? Thanks for any insight, Sarah Free online calendar with sync to Outlook. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 6, 2003 Report Share Posted June 6, 2003 I'd call the restaurant and ask what they can prepare for you that will be substantial and without any meat or meat byproducts. Expensive joints will usually substitute items from other dishes to make you the best dinner at the table. If it's close by, I'd do this in person to actually see the menu and maybe talk to the chef/cook. It might be lower in protein than you want, but it will probably be filling. Dave TempestuousTrollop [tempestuoustrollop] Friday, June 06, 2003 10:00 AM Restaurant dining question What do you do if you're invited to a fancy restaurant by a bunch of non-veggies, and the most vegetarian thing on the menu is chicken? Do you ask them to make you a plain salad with just vegetables? That kind of sucks because if it's an expensive restaurant, you're paying big bucks for something you could make at home in 5 minutes. OR, do you ask the inviting party to consider a different restaurant? Thanks for any insight, Sarah Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 6, 2003 Report Share Posted June 6, 2003 , TempestuousTrollop <tempestuoustrollop> wrote: > What do you do if you're invited to a fancy restaurant by a bunch of non-veggies, and the most vegetarian thing on the menu is chicken? > > Do you ask them to make you a plain salad with just vegetables? That kind of sucks because if it's an expensive restaurant, you're paying big bucks for something you could make at home in 5 minutes. > > If you think about it, eating out is expensive in general. You're not only paying for the food, but also the restaurant that offers it, the cook who made it and the server who brings it to you. If you do get a salad, be careful - some will try to drown it in cheese, egg or black olives. Other possibilities are steamed vegetables, pasta or any other dish that you can get them to prepare without meat. Laurie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 6, 2003 Report Share Posted June 6, 2003 > What do you do if you're invited to a fancy restaurant by a bunch of > non-veggies, and the most vegetarian thing on the menu is chicken? > I'd call the restaurant and ask what they can prepare for you that will be > substantial and without any meat or meat byproducts. I'd agree with calling or checking in advance. As an example, Biscuits & Blues in San Francisco has no vegetarian entree listed on the menu, although it does have a few appetizers, like yam fries and such. I ask when I get there since, oddly enough, I have found they normally do have a vegetarian entree, although it is usually something like pasta primavera or some vegetarian fettucine dish. I don't have a clue why they don't put that on the menu. Nevertheless, it does indeed pay to ask. Gary Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 6, 2003 Report Share Posted June 6, 2003 Speak up, speak up!! People will usually make an effort to accommodate your eating habits. I have two non-veggie roommates, and if they invite me out to eat, they make sure there is enough on the menu for me to eat. Eating out is a treat(IMO), and if there's nothing on the menu for you, that means it's not a treat. I aim to make the world a more vegetarian-friendly and vegetarian-conscious everywhere I go. People won't make accommodations for you if you don't speak up. I find that most people that I've just met are interested to hear about me being vegetarian, how I became one, etc., and sometimes it proves to be a good conversation starter. If you have suspicions, ask to see the menu before you sit down. That way, it will be less of a hassle if you leave that restaurant. : ) Just my thoughts. Beatrice , TempestuousTrollop <tempestuoustrollop> wrote: > What do you do if you're invited to a fancy restaurant by a bunch of non-veggies, and the most vegetarian thing on the menu is chicken? > > Do you ask them to make you a plain salad with just vegetables? That kind of sucks because if it's an expensive restaurant, you're paying big bucks for something you could make at home in 5 minutes. > > OR, do you ask the inviting party to consider a different restaurant? > > Thanks for any insight, > Sarah > > > > > Free online calendar with sync to Outlook. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 6, 2003 Report Share Posted June 6, 2003 I would go and ask the waiter/waitress to check on vegetarian options for you. Usually the chef can come up with something and many times they consider it a challenge. I have a vegan friend who won't eat any any restaurant unless she personally speaks with the chef. I was actually able to eat at a Japanese steakhouse by eating just the rice and the salad. They told me they would be able to accomodate me with some stirfry by frying the vegetables first, but they fried the veggies, set them aside, then fried the shrimp, then proceeded to move the veggies and fry them in the shrimp residue. I said " no thank you " after that. If nothing else, that fancy place should have some type of salad or fruit plate. , TempestuousTrollop <tempestuoustrollop> wrote: > What do you do if you're invited to a fancy restaurant by a bunch of non-veggies, and the most vegetarian thing on the menu is chicken? > > Do you ask them to make you a plain salad with just vegetables? That kind of sucks because if it's an expensive restaurant, you're paying big bucks for something you could make at home in 5 minutes. > > OR, do you ask the inviting party to consider a different restaurant? > > Thanks for any insight, > Sarah > > > > > Free online calendar with sync to Outlook. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 6, 2003 Report Share Posted June 6, 2003 can you and your organization please stop sending me emails.....i got home today and there were 51 emails from you...this is a little exccessive wouldnt you think??? thank you very much Sheryl <ssarndt wrote:I would go and ask the waiter/waitress to check on vegetarian options for you. Usually the chef can come up with something and many times they consider it a challenge. I have a vegan friend who won't eat any any restaurant unless she personally speaks with the chef. I was actually able to eat at a Japanese steakhouse by eating just the rice and the salad. They told me they would be able to accomodate me with some stirfry by frying the vegetables first, but they fried the veggies, set them aside, then fried the shrimp, then proceeded to move the veggies and fry them in the shrimp residue. I said " no thank you " after that. If nothing else, that fancy place should have some type of salad or fruit plate. , TempestuousTrollop <tempestuoustrollop> wrote: > What do you do if you're invited to a fancy restaurant by a bunch of non-veggies, and the most vegetarian thing on the menu is chicken? > > Do you ask them to make you a plain salad with just vegetables? That kind of sucks because if it's an expensive restaurant, you're paying big bucks for something you could make at home in 5 minutes. > > OR, do you ask the inviting party to consider a different restaurant? > > Thanks for any insight, > Sarah > > > > > Free online calendar with sync to Outlook. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 7, 2003 Report Share Posted June 7, 2003 In a message dated 6/6/03 11:43:55 PM Eastern Daylight Time, roggieroo writes: > can you and your organization please stop sending me emails.....i got home > today and there were 51 emails from you...this is a little exccessive > wouldnt you think??? thank you very much > It's a busy list with good info and good people. You were the one who joined, did you not check out the amount of messages that are generated before joining? Sorry our organization is too busy for you. I don't think it's excessive. I think it's wonderful! I belong to over 50 lists and get several hundred emails a day. If I read the header and am not interested in the topic I hit delete. I do sometimes miss a good subject because people forget to change the header but for the most part I enjoy the communications. Robin in NC Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 7, 2003 Report Share Posted June 7, 2003 Um, you joined this list, Mr. Roggieroo, I didn't force you to join. What can I say, we are a busy list and if you don't like it unsub yourself or switch your email delivery to digest form. Go here: /mygroups Click 'edit my groups', and take care of your own business. Have a nice day. ~ PT ~ & her organization (?) *lol* Let the past drift away with the water. ~ Japanese saying ~~~*~~~*~~~*~~~*~~~*~~~*~~~*~~~*~~~~~~~~> , jamms mertinez < roggieroo> wrote: > can you and your organization please stop sending me emails.....i got home today and there were 51 emails from you...this is a little exccessive wouldnt you think??? thank you very much Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 7, 2003 Report Share Posted June 7, 2003 hahhah...oh I love it! - ~ P_T ~ Saturday, June 07, 2003 10:34 AM Re: Restaurant dining question Um, you joined this list, Mr. Roggieroo, I didn't force you to join. What can I say, we are a busy list and if you don't like it unsub yourself or switch your email delivery to digest form. Go here: /mygroups Click 'edit my groups', and take care of your own business. Have a nice day. ~ PT ~ & her organization (?) *lol* Let the past drift away with the water. ~ Japanese saying ~~~*~~~*~~~*~~~*~~~*~~~*~~~*~~~*~~~~~~~~> , jamms mertinez < roggieroo> wrote: > can you and your organization please stop sending me emails.....i got home today and there were 51 emails from you...this is a little exccessive wouldnt you think??? thank you very much Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 7, 2003 Report Share Posted June 7, 2003 Yes, Mr. Roggieroo -- learn how to use your email client (if you have one). Eudora has a free version of its latest and greatest which has a really powerful filter system. You can filter out all incoming messages from this list that don't meet the specifications you set (for example, maybe you just want to read about carrots). Take control of your own life and stop being a whiner and complainer. You'll be happier if you do. Phil M. ~ P_T ~ [patchouli_troll] Saturday, June 07, 2003 4:35 AM Re: Restaurant dining question Um, you joined this list, Mr. Roggieroo, I didn't force you to join. What can I say, we are a busy list and if you don't like it unsub yourself or switch your email delivery to digest form. Go here: /mygroups Click 'edit my groups', and take care of your own business. Have a nice day. ~ PT ~ & her organization (?) *lol* Let the past drift away with the water. ~ Japanese saying ~~~*~~~*~~~*~~~*~~~*~~~*~~~*~~~*~~~~~~~~> , jamms mertinez < roggieroo> wrote: > can you and your organization please stop sending me emails.....i got home today and there were 51 emails from you...this is a little exccessive wouldnt you think??? thank you very much Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 7, 2003 Report Share Posted June 7, 2003 switch your message preference to special notices or no email Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 7, 2003 Report Share Posted June 7, 2003 Now, I have to wonder if he has even noticed *any* of these.......since they are all marked " Restaurant dining question " in the subject line. My guess would be, from his post, that he just chose an arbitrary one to respond to, and isn't actually reading all the posts. But, I could be wrong, of course. On 7 Jun 2003 at 20:13, Dave wrote: > switch your message preference to special notices or no email > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 7, 2003 Report Share Posted June 7, 2003 I e mailed him privately and told him to go to and unsub. ~Janice~ Be your own cheerleader! Encourage yourself every step of the way! - Pixx Saturday, June 07, 2003 3:56 PM Re: Re: Restaurant dining question Now, I have to wonder if he has even noticed *any* of these.......since they are all marked " Restaurant dining question " in the subject line. My guess would be, from his post, that he just chose an arbitrary one to respond to, and isn't actually reading all the posts. But, I could be wrong, of course. On 7 Jun 2003 at 20:13, Dave wrote: > switch your message preference to special notices or no email > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 8, 2003 Report Share Posted June 8, 2003 I covered that base by sending him one copy of my onlist message directly to his email as well. He had to have read it, and has since figured out how to unsub himself. *lol* I always get a bit of a larf when blokes act like I have taken them hostage here. ~ PT ~ God never occurs to you in person but always in action. ~Mohandas Karamchand Gandhi (1869-1948) ~~~*~~~*~~~*~~~*~~~*~~~*~~~*~~~*~~~*~~~~~~~~~~~~~~> , " Pixx " <lists@p...> wrote: > Now, I have to wonder if he has even noticed *any* of > these.......since they are all marked " Restaurant dining question " in > the subject line. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 8, 2003 Report Share Posted June 8, 2003 Oh, good! I am glad he was able to do that. Unfortunately, not everyone on a computer knows what they are doing. It does get frustrating to see those kinds of posts, tho. pitiful, really. Pixx On 8 Jun 2003 at 13:24, ~ P_T ~ wrote: > I covered that base by sending him one copy of my > onlist message directly to his email as well. He had > to have read it, and has since figured out how to > unsub himself. *lol* I always get a bit of a larf when > blokes act like I have taken them hostage here. > > ~ PT ~ > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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