Guest guest Posted December 11, 2005 Report Share Posted December 11, 2005 Hello Donna (Lady) and Everyone, I have been having so many problems with MSN that I just couldn't stand it any longer. I went and got high speed internet now, so maybe everything happens for a reason. To respond to your question Donna, of " How are things? " I had typed this to the group earlier yesterday or the day prior but alas, MSN was bouncing. I just learned that term, previously unaware there were definitions other than causing a brightly colored orb to defy gravity. Anyway, It seems that my wife now has not just left me, but she has also left our daughter. She has gone to New York with her new man friend. She says she needs some space and time to " get her head together. " Whatever that means. My question to the group is that I need to hear from anyone who has a child who was fed infant soy formula instead of dairy. I went through a lot of research documentation and I have made the choice to switch her to soy. I am worried however that things aren't always as they appear. Does anyone here have a history with soy formula for their now older child? I worked all day today, then interviewed with nannies for two hours, then made some dinner. I made the macaroni and cheese from the files, Chanda's grandmother's version, but I replaced with the grated Mexican cheese, which is a combination of three cheeses, rennetless of course. I think I read it in here to do so from someone, and it was wonderful. With that I had some corn, carrot broccoli medley that I seasoned with Mrs.. Dash chipoltle seasoning. I am becoming quite the chef wouldn't you say? Now to bathe my daughter, put her down for bed, review some training materials for tomorrow, then to the schnapps. Ron Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 11, 2005 Report Share Posted December 11, 2005 HI Ron, I'm sorry you are going through this. MY Husband was fed soy formula, and he has never had any adverse results. I will also ask my friend who adopted his son, he is vegan, so I'm pretty sure his son was never fed anything but soy formula... what sort of questions do you have? wishing you and your baby all the best, jenni On Dec 11, 2005, at 7:45 PM, Ronald Hess wrote: > Hello Donna (Lady) and Everyone, > I have been having so many problems with MSN that I just couldn't > stand > it any longer. I went and got high speed internet now, so maybe > everything happens for a reason. > To respond to your question Donna, of " How are things? " I had typed > this > to the group earlier yesterday or the day prior but alas, MSN was > bouncing. I just learned that term, previously unaware there were > definitions other than causing a brightly colored orb to defy gravity. > Anyway, It seems that my wife now has not just left me, but she has > also > left our daughter. She has gone to New York with her new man > friend. She > says she needs some space and time to " get her head together. " > Whatever > that means. > > My question to the group is that I need to hear from anyone who has a > child who was fed infant soy formula instead of dairy. I went > through a > lot of research documentation and I have made the choice to switch her > to soy. I am worried however that things aren't always as they appear. > Does anyone here have a history with soy formula for their now older > child? > > I worked all day today, then interviewed with nannies for two hours, > then made some dinner. I made the macaroni and cheese from the files, > Chanda's grandmother's version, but I replaced with the grated Mexican > cheese, which is a combination of three cheeses, rennetless of > course. I > think I read it in here to do so from someone, and it was wonderful. > With that I had some corn, carrot broccoli medley that I seasoned with > Mrs.. Dash chipoltle seasoning. > I am becoming quite the chef wouldn't you say? > Now to bathe my daughter, put her down for bed, review some training > materials for tomorrow, then to the schnapps. > > Ron Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 11, 2005 Report Share Posted December 11, 2005 Wow, I am so sorry! Ronald Hess <ronhess0760 wrote: Hello Donna (Lady) and Everyone, I have been having so many problems with MSN that I just couldn't stand it any longer. I went and got high speed internet now, so maybe everything happens for a reason. To respond to your question Donna, of " How are things? " I had typed this to the group earlier yesterday or the day prior but alas, MSN was bouncing. I just learned that term, previously unaware there were definitions other than causing a brightly colored orb to defy gravity. Anyway, It seems that my wife now has not just left me, but she has also left our daughter. She has gone to New York with her new man friend. She says she needs some space and time to " get her head together. " Whatever that means. My question to the group is that I need to hear from anyone who has a child who was fed infant soy formula instead of dairy. I went through a lot of research documentation and I have made the choice to switch her to soy. I am worried however that things aren't always as they appear. Does anyone here have a history with soy formula for their now older child? I worked all day today, then interviewed with nannies for two hours, then made some dinner. I made the macaroni and cheese from the files, Chanda's grandmother's version, but I replaced with the grated Mexican cheese, which is a combination of three cheeses, rennetless of course. I think I read it in here to do so from someone, and it was wonderful. With that I had some corn, carrot broccoli medley that I seasoned with Mrs.. Dash chipoltle seasoning. I am becoming quite the chef wouldn't you say? Now to bathe my daughter, put her down for bed, review some training materials for tomorrow, then to the schnapps. Ron Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 11, 2005 Report Share Posted December 11, 2005 Thank you Denise (Goddess of the wine) Every door that closes opens up another. Ron On Behalf Of denise rounds Sunday, December 11, 2005 9:20 PM Re: soy formula, and it's good to be back. Wow, I am so sorry! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 11, 2005 Report Share Posted December 11, 2005 Thank you so much for the information Jenni (glowing white wave) Please do get back to me with any other information that you can collect from real life experience. Ron On Behalf Of Jenni Billings Sunday, December 11, 2005 8:04 PM Re: soy formula, and it's good to be back. HI Ron, I'm sorry you are going through this. MY Husband was fed soy formula, and he has never had any adverse results. I will also ask my friend who adopted his son, he is vegan, so I'm pretty sure his son was never fed anything but soy formula... what sort of questions do you have? wishing you and your baby all the best, jenni On Dec 11, 2005, at 7:45 PM, Ronald Hess wrote: > Hello Donna (Lady) and Everyone, > I have been having so many problems with MSN that I just couldn't > stand > it any longer. I went and got high speed internet now, so maybe > everything happens for a reason. > To respond to your question Donna, of " How are things? " I had typed > this > to the group earlier yesterday or the day prior but alas, MSN was > bouncing. I just learned that term, previously unaware there were > definitions other than causing a brightly colored orb to defy gravity. > Anyway, It seems that my wife now has not just left me, but she has > also > left our daughter. She has gone to New York with her new man > friend. She > says she needs some space and time to " get her head together. " > Whatever > that means. > > My question to the group is that I need to hear from anyone who has a > child who was fed infant soy formula instead of dairy. I went > through a > lot of research documentation and I have made the choice to switch her > to soy. I am worried however that things aren't always as they appear. > Does anyone here have a history with soy formula for their now older > child? > > I worked all day today, then interviewed with nannies for two hours, > then made some dinner. I made the macaroni and cheese from the files, > Chanda's grandmother's version, but I replaced with the grated Mexican > cheese, which is a combination of three cheeses, rennetless of > course. I > think I read it in here to do so from someone, and it was wonderful. > With that I had some corn, carrot broccoli medley that I seasoned with > Mrs.. Dash chipoltle seasoning. > I am becoming quite the chef wouldn't you say? > Now to bathe my daughter, put her down for bed, review some training > materials for tomorrow, then to the schnapps. > > Ron Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 11, 2005 Report Share Posted December 11, 2005 I am sorry to hear that your wife left, but probably better that she left the child - if she did this then she is obviously not the best of mothers. I wish the mother of my granddaughter would disappear forever. She just comes and goes when the " motherly " urge strikes and causing a lot of problems with the almost 8 year old. My son is a fantastic dad and devotes his life to you. Be a great dad and your rewards will be more than great. Girl or boy? what age? When my granddaughter was starting on solid food I used to make all kinds of fresh veggies and puree them in the blender. She ate everything, and now a pain to get her to eat anything. She claims to want to be vegetarian but has so many " I don't likes " that it is hard to get proper nutrition into her body. Her mom buys too much fast food junk. Buy organic fruits and veggies when available and organic milk products. Actually they say now that humans do not need milk - that it is only good for baby cows. I don't know anything about the soy formula-sorry. Good luck, and please let us know how things are going. Have you any family close than can help? I feel so lucky to have my son and granddaughter live on our property so I can help. Family is very important. Patricia > > My question to the group is that I need to hear from anyone who has a > child who was fed infant soy formula instead of dairy. I went through a > lot of research documentation and I have made the choice to switch her > to soy. I am worried however that things aren't always as they appear. > Does anyone here have a history with soy formula for their now older > child? > > I worked all day today, then interviewed with nannies for two hours, > then made some dinner. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 12, 2005 Report Share Posted December 12, 2005 welcome back Ron ! I could fill pages but won't, your wife has obviously lost her mind. you and your daughter are in my thoughts and prayers, may you find a wonderful nanny and if you don't already have one a d*mn good divorce lawyer who'll see to it you have sole custody of that precious child and no b*llsh*t alimony payments! She should have to pay you child support!! Oops, there's that soapbox, nudging my feet sayin' climb on up and orate! I better go. Peace and hugs to both of you, Angela who I am is fine, it's just this body that's disabled! middle age = that time of life when we realize yesterday's sex, drugs and rock and roll are todays memories, prescriptions and golden oldies! Shopping Find Great Deals on Holiday Gifts at Shopping Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 12, 2005 Report Share Posted December 12, 2005 Hi Ron I have not been on -line in a while....so very busy, however; I had to respond to your message. I'm sorry for what is happening to you but you have such a wonderful opportunity to raise your daughter! I have fed soy formula to many many children over the last 20 years, none with any ill effects that I know of. My grandson, age 8, included in the many who have had soy formula. The only complaint...I hate the smell! My business for the last 20 yrs has been in childcare. I'm so glad you have found someone you like and trust to care for your daughter. My single advise is....never let your guard down and check often and unexpected on your daughter and nanny. In all my years of business, there are very few providers that I would send " my " child to. I encourage parents to check on me ALL the time at ANY time! Good luck Jane Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 13, 2005 Report Share Posted December 13, 2005 Ron, I am currently pregnant and although I do plan to breastfeed I have been reading a lot of the differences in formula. I've read that soy formula is much better than cow's milk formula. For brands I'm not sure which is best. I read Mothering Magazine, which is focused on natural family living. They might have something on their website or in one of their discussion groups: http://www.mothering.com/discussions/ I am happy to hear that you are with your daughter and that she has not been taken from you. From your past posts it seems she is really the golden light in your life. I'm sure having her will give you the strength to get through the pain. What is her name again? Your dinner sounds wonderful, yes, you've become quite the cook! blessings to you and daughter, Denise , " Ronald Hess " <ronhess0760@c...> wrote: > > Hello Donna (Lady) and Everyone, > I have been having so many problems with MSN that I just couldn't stand > it any longer. I went and got high speed internet now, so maybe > everything happens for a reason. > To respond to your question Donna, of " How are things? " I had typed this > to the group earlier yesterday or the day prior but alas, MSN was > bouncing. I just learned that term, previously unaware there were > definitions other than causing a brightly colored orb to defy gravity. > Anyway, It seems that my wife now has not just left me, but she has also > left our daughter. She has gone to New York with her new man friend. She > says she needs some space and time to " get her head together. " Whatever > that means. > > My question to the group is that I need to hear from anyone who has a > child who was fed infant soy formula instead of dairy. I went through a > lot of research documentation and I have made the choice to switch her > to soy. I am worried however that things aren't always as they appear. > Does anyone here have a history with soy formula for their now older > child? > > I worked all day today, then interviewed with nannies for two hours, > then made some dinner. I made the macaroni and cheese from the files, > Chanda's grandmother's version, but I replaced with the grated Mexican > cheese, which is a combination of three cheeses, rennetless of course. I > think I read it in here to do so from someone, and it was wonderful. > With that I had some corn, carrot broccoli medley that I seasoned with > Mrs.. Dash chipoltle seasoning. > I am becoming quite the chef wouldn't you say? > Now to bathe my daughter, put her down for bed, review some training > materials for tomorrow, then to the schnapps. > > Ron > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 13, 2005 Report Share Posted December 13, 2005 slim chance of getting ear infections (for the baby) if you use soy. Wish someone would have told me that when my kids were babies, but then I guess all the docs would not have made all their money from all the tubes and antibiotics along with doctor visits!! LOL!! I am a nurse and I encourage all parents to feed their babies SOY!! Children have less allergies from use of soy also. There are lots of benefits from the use of soy milk in infants. hth, Julie Ron, I am currently pregnant and although I do plan to breastfeed I have been reading a lot of the differences in formula. I've read that soy formula is much better than cow's milk formula. For brands I'm not sure which is best. I read Mothering Magazine, which is focused on natural family living. They might have something on their website or in one of their discussion groups: http://www.mothering.com/discussions/ I am happy to hear that you are with your daughter and that she has not been taken from you. From your past posts it seems she is really the golden light in your life. I'm sure having her will give you the strength to get through the pain. What is her name again? Your dinner sounds wonderful, yes, you've become quite the cook! blessings to you and daughter, Denise , " Ronald Hess " <ronhess0760@c...> wrote: > > Hello Donna (Lady) and Everyone, > I have been having so many problems with MSN that I just couldn't stand > it any longer. I went and got high speed internet now, so maybe > everything happens for a reason. > To respond to your question Donna, of " How are things? " I had typed this > to the group earlier yesterday or the day prior but alas, MSN was > bouncing. I just learned that term, previously unaware there were > definitions other than causing a brightly colored orb to defy gravity. > Anyway, It seems that my wife now has not just left me, but she has also > left our daughter. She has gone to New York with her new man friend. She > says she needs some space and time to " get her head together. " Whatever > that means. > > My question to the group is that I need to hear from anyone who has a > child who was fed infant soy formula instead of dairy. I went through a > lot of research documentation and I have made the choice to switch her > to soy. I am worried however that things aren't always as they appear. > Does anyone here have a history with soy formula for their now older > child? > > I worked all day today, then interviewed with nannies for two hours, > then made some dinner. I made the macaroni and cheese from the files, > Chanda's grandmother's version, but I replaced with the grated Mexican > cheese, which is a combination of three cheeses, rennetless of course. I > think I read it in here to do so from someone, and it was wonderful. > With that I had some corn, carrot broccoli medley that I seasoned with > Mrs.. Dash chipoltle seasoning. > I am becoming quite the chef wouldn't you say? > Now to bathe my daughter, put her down for bed, review some training > materials for tomorrow, then to the schnapps. > > Ron > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 13, 2005 Report Share Posted December 13, 2005 Ron, I too am very sorry to learn your wife has left you and your daughter. However, better now than when your daughter had been old enough to realize what was going on. I agree about getting a good divorce lawyer and making your wife pay alimony. Having said that, I previously posted that 20 years ago my daughter was put on soy formula as a last ditch desperation. Her skin problems cleared up and she stopped having ear infections, just like Julie says, too. My dd has been pretty healthy most all her life; has had excellent teeth with about one cavity that I can recall, was in Honors classes all thru school and is now in her second year of college on the Dean's List in her major, that of Graphic Arts. So, I say: go for it! Soy formula is great and my dd is the living proof it works. praying for you, Bron On 12/13/05, Julie Braswell <abnjb wrote: > > slim chance of getting ear infections (for the baby) if you use soy. Wish > someone would have told me that when my kids were babies, but then I guess > all the docs would not have made all their money from all the tubes and > antibiotics along with doctor visits!! LOL!! I am a nurse and I encourage > all parents to feed their babies SOY!! Children have less allergies from > use of soy also. There are lots of benefits from the use of soy milk in > infants. > hth, > Julie > > Ron, I am currently pregnant and although I do plan to breastfeed I > have been reading a lot of the differences in formula. I've read that > soy formula is much better than cow's milk formula. For brands I'm not > sure which is best. I read Mothering Magazine, which is focused on > natural family living. They might have something on their website or > in one of their discussion groups: http://www.mothering.com/discussions/ > > I am happy to hear that you are with your daughter and that she has > not been taken from you. From your past posts it seems she is really > the golden light in your life. I'm sure having her will give you the > strength to get through the pain. What is her name again? > > Your dinner sounds wonderful, yes, you've become quite the cook! > > blessings to you and daughter, > Denise > > , " Ronald Hess " > <ronhess0760@c...> wrote: > > > > Hello Donna (Lady) and Everyone, > > I have been having so many problems with MSN that I just couldn't > stand > > it any longer. I went and got high speed internet now, so maybe > > everything happens for a reason. > > To respond to your question Donna, of " How are things? " I had typed > this > > to the group earlier yesterday or the day prior but alas, MSN was > > bouncing. I just learned that term, previously unaware there were > > definitions other than causing a brightly colored orb to defy gravity. > > Anyway, It seems that my wife now has not just left me, but she has > also > > left our daughter. She has gone to New York with her new man friend. > She > > says she needs some space and time to " get her head together. " > Whatever > > that means. > > > > My question to the group is that I need to hear from anyone who has a > > child who was fed infant soy formula instead of dairy. I went through > a > > lot of research documentation and I have made the choice to switch her > > to soy. I am worried however that things aren't always as they appear. > > Does anyone here have a history with soy formula for their now older > > child? > > > > I worked all day today, then interviewed with nannies for two hours, > > then made some dinner. I made the macaroni and cheese from the files, > > Chanda's grandmother's version, but I replaced with the grated Mexican > > cheese, which is a combination of three cheeses, rennetless of course. > I > > think I read it in here to do so from someone, and it was wonderful. > > With that I had some corn, carrot broccoli medley that I seasoned with > > Mrs.. Dash chipoltle seasoning. > > I am becoming quite the chef wouldn't you say? > > Now to bathe my daughter, put her down for bed, review some training > > materials for tomorrow, then to the schnapps. > > > > Ron > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 14, 2005 Report Share Posted December 14, 2005 Thank you Jane (adorer of gracious God), This is the information that I wanted to see, your telling me is much appreciated. Ron On Behalf Of Jane Monday, December 12, 2005 10:54 AM Re: soy formula, and it's good to be back. Hi Ron I have not been on -line in a while....so very busy, however; I had to respond to your message. I'm sorry for what is happening to you but you have such a wonderful opportunity to raise your daughter! I have fed soy formula to many many children over the last 20 years, none with any ill effects that I know of. My grandson, age 8, included in the many who have had soy formula. The only complaint...I hate the smell! My business for the last 20 yrs has been in childcare. I'm so glad you have found someone you like and trust to care for your daughter. My single advise is....never let your guard down and check often and unexpected on your daughter and nanny. In all my years of business, there are very few providers that I would send " my " child to. I encourage parents to check on me ALL the time at ANY time! Good luck Jane [ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 14, 2005 Report Share Posted December 14, 2005 Thank you for your thoughts Angela, (angel) I know I was not home enough, although I presumed she understood that I was working towards a future. I am saddened that she will not be a part of mine, but I am hoping that she comes around to be a part of my daughter's. After hours upon hours of interviews I have hired a nanny, the vegetarian. :laughs: So far so good here. She is here now eight hours per day and will be live-in next Friday. She has already given me a grocery list and it looks very good :laughs: so far so good. She is a pragmatic planner like me, so This could really work out well. Ron On Behalf Of Angela Monday, December 12, 2005 10:39 AM Re: soy formula, and it's good to be back. welcome back Ron ! I could fill pages but won't, your wife has obviously lost her mind. you and your daughter are in my thoughts and prayers, may you find a wonderful nanny and if you don't already have one a d*mn good divorce lawyer who'll see to it you have sole custody of that precious child and no b*llsh*t alimony payments! She should have to pay you child support!! Oops, there's that soapbox, nudging my feet sayin' climb on up and orate! I better go. Peace and hugs to both of you, Angela who I am is fine, it's just this body that's disabled! middle age = that time of life when we realize yesterday's sex, drugs and rock and roll are todays memories, prescriptions and golden oldies! Shopping Find Great Deals on Holiday Gifts at Shopping Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 14, 2005 Report Share Posted December 14, 2005 Hello Patricia, (noble woman) I do intend to do the same and feed her vegetables I puree myself. I don't see many jars in her future. I am happy your son is a good father, and I too will be the best I can be. :smiles: I agree that humans do not need cow's milk, this is why I wanted to switch her, but I wanted to make sure I am acting solely with my head and not just on my opinion. Ron On Behalf Of rmireles34 Monday, December 12, 2005 12:35 AM Re: soy formula, and it's good to be back. I am sorry to hear that your wife left, but probably better that she left the child - if she did this then she is obviously not the best of mothers. I wish the mother of my granddaughter would disappear forever. She just comes and goes when the " motherly " urge strikes and causing a lot of problems with the almost 8 year old. My son is a fantastic dad and devotes his life to you. Be a great dad and your rewards will be more than great. Girl or boy? what age? When my granddaughter was starting on solid food I used to make all kinds of fresh veggies and puree them in the blender. She ate everything, and now a pain to get her to eat anything. She claims to want to be vegetarian but has so many " I don't likes " that it is hard to get proper nutrition into her body. Her mom buys too much fast food junk. Buy organic fruits and veggies when available and organic milk products. Actually they say now that humans do not need milk - that it is only good for baby cows. I don't know anything about the soy formula-sorry. Good luck, and please let us know how things are going. Have you any family close than can help? I feel so lucky to have my son and granddaughter live on our property so I can help. Family is very important. Patricia > > My question to the group is that I need to hear from anyone who has a > child who was fed infant soy formula instead of dairy. I went through a > lot of research documentation and I have made the choice to switch her > to soy. I am worried however that things aren't always as they appear. > Does anyone here have a history with soy formula for their now older > child? > > I worked all day today, then interviewed with nannies for two hours, > then made some dinner. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 15, 2005 Report Share Posted December 15, 2005 > I do intend to do the same and feed her vegetables I puree myself. I > don't see many jars in her future. Ron - do you have a ricer? It looks like a big garlic press, but I hear it makes it easy for parents (I have one but am not a parent)to just puree a bit of the vegetable their having - pull one out & rice it, vs some other method. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 17, 2005 Report Share Posted December 17, 2005 HI Ron: I was just thinking hadn't seen you around in a while.. I am so sorry for your troubles. However think on the bright side you get to spend so much more time with you beautiful daughter. I am sure things will work out for you. Good luck on finding a Nanny. Gayle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 17, 2005 Report Share Posted December 17, 2005 HI Jane: When my son was little I also did in home day care... I told the parents they were welcome any time. Just stop by.. None of them did but they could have. I agree with you.. If you can't just come by and see what is going on you don't want your child there. There should be nothing to hide. Gayle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 17, 2005 Report Share Posted December 17, 2005 Yeah, Gayle, I certainly agree with you on that subject! Jane ----- . HI Jane: When my son was little I also did in home day care... I told the parents they were welcome any time. Just stop by.. None of them did but they could have. I agree with you.. If you can't just come by and see what is going on you don't want your child there. There should be nothing to hide. Gayle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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