Guest guest Posted January 6, 2003 Report Share Posted January 6, 2003 Hi, Laura: My approach to weight loss is to forget about it; turn it over to God, fate, reality, truth, or whatever else controls my weight-- because I do not--I've got 59 years' experience behind that personal conclusion. I've been to Alcoholics Anonymous, where they accept the fact that they cannot control alcohol by drinking just a moderate amount. They accept that they are powerless over alcohol and always drink too much. I feel the same way about sugar. Any amount is too much because it 1) has no nutrition except calories; 2) it causes an insulin response, leading to low blood sugar and resulting irresistable hunger cravings; 3) it stimulates the palate to excesses and bad habits because it tastes sweet. After I eat sweets I don't like vegetables. After I eat sweets I have to have " good-tasting " food, which is always fattening. I think the first requirement for losing weight is to abstain entirely from simple sugar(s). I believe that anyone who believes they can eat a moderate amount of sugar without developing the phenomenon of craving is on a merry-go-round and it is senseless to talk with this person. I see many such people here in the USA. They want to lose weight, but they also want to eat sugar. They are usually fat. I am 5'9 " tall and weigh 175 lbs. I am overweight, but most fat people tell me I don't need to diet. I'm interested in better health and I hope to lose weight in the course of improving my all-around health. It strikes me that it is difficult to evaluate honesty on the internet, but not impossible. The one area where honesty counts is self-honesty. Am I being honest with myself? Who am I kidding, if not myself? If I want to kid myself, why do I need to impress someone else to do that? Ron McClure , " Laura <child_of_the_80s@h...> " <child_of_the_80s@h...> wrote: > Welcome to Pat, Susan, and Allyanne, > thank you for joining the group. > > I guess i should tell you a bit about myself. > Some of you (like Pat) might know me already from other groups. > My name is Laura, i'm 21 and i live in Wales in the UK. > I live with my boyfriend and work as an Occupational Therapist. > I've been a veggie for about 5 months now and have been enjoying > exchanging recipes in various groups to try and eat less convenience > foods and make sure i'm getting all my vitamins and minerals! > Plus i absolutely love cooking! > I've been wanting to lose weight for some time but have found lots > of veggie recipes contain alot of cheese or are heavily based on > carbs (which can then turn to sugar if not used as energy). So i > tried to find a group swapping low fat or diet veggie recipes and > couldn't find one. Thats why i started this group. > Aside from cooking, i like reading, creative writing, watching > movies, and creating things (sewing, painting, etc). I am > interested in yoga, which i really should do more often, and i am > learning reflexology. > > So thats me, i'll be starting to post recipes later, as i have a few > i have already found in magazines. Please write back and tell us a > bit about yourselves, > > take care, > > Laura x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 7, 2003 Report Share Posted January 7, 2003 Thanks for your mail about simple sugars Ron. I agree with you that there is absolutely no need to eat sugar, and that even a tiny amount can affect the way we eat more generally. But then i also think that it is not always harmful to eat a bit of sugar. I really do think it depends on the person. If i have something sugary when i'm eating healthily, it just doesn't appeal to me. Or if it does, i can eat a little bit and leave the rest, without descending into a binge. But then it does take will power, and i don't always have that so i find my ability to stay healthy is largly based on my mood! As you have said of yourself before, i eat to comfort myself. I'm not sure i'm the right person to comment on the american diet as i live in the uk. Over here i think most families eat reasonably healthy food compared to the american diet you mentioned(but this experience is only from my friends and family) but still eat quite large portions, and i think we're a nation of snackers (chocolate bars and the like). I also think that even when i am not watching what i eat, i eat more healthily than most people in the uk. I'm lucky (although i didn't know it at the time) coz my mum would not let me have many sweets or snacks as a child. As a result i don't eat much chocolate and i don't eat other sweets or crisps at all - i just don't like them. I think i've rambled quite a bit so i hope this still makes sense. I guess what i'm trying to say is that i agree with you but i think everyone's situation is different. Laura Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 7, 2003 Report Share Posted January 7, 2003 > I'm lucky (although i didn't know it at the time) coz my > mum would not let me have many sweets or snacks as a child. As a > result i don't eat much chocolate and i don't eat other sweets or > crisps at all - i just don't like them. > I find this interesting - I too dislike them because they are usually far too sweet for my particular taste (and also, because, despite that, I find I want more of this thing that is too sweet for me too enjoy. Go figure. But I was interested that you said you weren't allowed to have many as a child. Rationing in the UK was on when I was a kid, so I had precious little of it too. Cause and effect? Maybe. Anyone else? best, pat -- PAT (In London, Ontario) Email List: townhounds- (townhounds/) Personal Email: SANTBROWN Personal Webpage: http://www.angelfire.com/art/pendragon/ ---------- * " Until he extends the circle of compassion to all living things, man will not himself find peace. " - Albert Schweitzer * " Don't be afraid. Just start the tape. " - Anne Rice * " I don't do pawprints. " -- Snoopy ---------- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 7, 2003 Report Share Posted January 7, 2003 But I was interested that you said you > weren't allowed to have > many as a child. Rationing in the UK was on when I > was a kid, so I had > precious little of it too. Cause and effect? Maybe. > Anyone else? My mother is addicted to sweets. We always had tons of it around the house. I myself am very healthy and keep my sweets down to a once a week treat. I'm 5'9 " and weigh 145. I think that keeping children away from junk and sweets can sometimes have the opposite effect and will spur cravings and rebellions. I don't have any sugar in the house (outside of honey and syrup). My grandparents didn't eat any sweets and my Mother grew up to crave it all the time. But, as in your cases...Its the opposite. I guess it just boils down to individual tastes. Warmly, Allison Mail Plus - Powerful. Affordable. Sign up now. http://mailplus. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 8, 2003 Report Share Posted January 8, 2003 I was given a very processed/junk food/sugar laden diet as a child...we did't drink milk, we drank Pepsi!! I do notice that my children do not crave sweets the way I do, they have them occasionally and usually on a special occasion. I notice the more often they have these things, the more often they want them....any women have advice for " that time of the month " I really have food cravings at this time. BB. Laura H. , Sant & Brown <santbrown@l...> wrote: > > I'm lucky (although i didn't know it at the time) coz my > > mum would not let me have many sweets or snacks as a child. As a > > result i don't eat much chocolate and i don't eat other sweets or > > crisps at all - i just don't like them. > > > I find this interesting - I too dislike them because they are usually > far too sweet for my particular taste (and also, because, despite that, > I find I want more of this thing that is too sweet for me too enjoy. Go > figure. But I was interested that you said you weren't allowed to have > many as a child. Rationing in the UK was on when I was a kid, so I had > precious little of it too. Cause and effect? Maybe. Anyone else? > > best, > pat > > -- > PAT (In London, Ontario) > Email List: townhounds- > (townhounds/) > Personal Email: SANTBROWN@L... > Personal Webpage: http://www.angelfire.com/art/pendragon/ > ---------- > * " Until he extends the circle of compassion to all living things, man > will not himself find peace. " - Albert Schweitzer > * " Don't be afraid. Just start the tape. " - Anne Rice > * " I don't do pawprints. " -- Snoopy > ---------- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 8, 2003 Report Share Posted January 8, 2003 , " whisperwind5 <whisperwind5> " <whisperwind5> wrote: > I was given a very processed/junk food/sugar laden diet as a > child...we did't drink milk, we drank Pepsi!! I do notice that my > children do not crave sweets the way I do, they have them > occasionally and usually on a special occasion. I notice the more > often they have these things, the more often they want them....any > women have advice for " that time of the month " I really have food > cravings at this time. > > BB. Laura H My advice if you really need something sweet is to try eating dried fruit, like dried apricots. They contain fibre and vitamins, and although they're still sweet, they're not half as bad for you. Laura x -failing that, a disney film and a cuddle usually works for me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 8, 2003 Report Share Posted January 8, 2003 any > > women have advice for " that time of the month " I > really have food > > cravings at this time. > > That time of the month is horrible on my diet! I assume it's nature's way of storing fats for conception. Most of my cravings are right after ovulation and before menses (pms). Once the period hits, I'm fine...My body knows I'm not pregnant and doesn't crave for fat storage. Of course, that's just my assumption. I like to drink herbal tea with honey after each meal during that time, it's really sweet and I don't crave desserts. Oh, and supposedly celery keeps the sweet tooth at bay (all forms: stalk, leaves and seeds). Warmly, Allison --- " Laura <child_of_the_80s " <child_of_the_80s wrote: > , > " whisperwind5 > <whisperwind5> " <whisperwind5> wrote: > > I was given a very processed/junk food/sugar laden > diet as a > > child...we did't drink milk, we drank Pepsi!! I > do notice that my > > children do not crave sweets the way I do, they > have them > > occasionally and usually on a special occasion. I > notice the more > > often they have these things, the more often they > want them....> > BB. Laura H > > > My advice if you really need something sweet is to > try eating dried > fruit, like dried apricots. They contain fibre and > vitamins, and > although they're still sweet, they're not half as > bad for you. > > Laura x > -failing that, a disney film and a cuddle usually > works for me > > Mail Plus - Powerful. Affordable. Sign up now. http://mailplus. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 8, 2003 Report Share Posted January 8, 2003 *****Laura x wrote.... >>...if you really need something sweet...try eating dried fruit, like dried apricots. They contain fibre and vitamins...<< Good idea with only one caveat--the sugars are highly concentrated in dried fruits/veggies. For example, 1/2 cup of fresh apricot has 8.6 gm of carbo/sugar. On the other hand, 1/4 cup of dried apricot (about 10 pieces) has 25 grams. To get the same or less sugar, you'd have to eat no more than 3 pieces of the dried fruit. Dave Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 8, 2003 Report Share Posted January 8, 2003 , " daveo " <daveo@m...> wrote: > *****Laura x wrote.... > >>...if you really need something sweet...try eating > dried fruit, like dried apricots. They contain fibre > and vitamins...<< > > Good idea with only one caveat--the sugars are highly concentrated in dried > fruits/veggies. For example, 1/2 cup of fresh apricot has 8.6 gm of > carbo/sugar. > > On the other hand, 1/4 cup of dried apricot (about 10 pieces) has 25 grams. > To get the same or less sugar, you'd have to eat no more than 3 pieces of > the dried fruit. > > Dave Very true, i realise this, but if i have to have sugar i think this is much better than sweets! Laura (uk) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 8, 2003 Report Share Posted January 8, 2003 Definitely a much better choice IMHO. Laura <child_of_the_80s [child_of_the_80s] Wednesday, January 08, 2003 11:14 AM Re: Simple Sugar(s) , " daveo " <daveo@m...> wrote: > *****Laura x wrote.... > >>...if you really need something sweet...try eating > dried fruit, like dried apricots. They contain fibre > and vitamins...<< > > Good idea with only one caveat--the sugars are highly concentrated in dried > fruits/veggies. For example, 1/2 cup of fresh apricot has 8.6 gm of > carbo/sugar. > > On the other hand, 1/4 cup of dried apricot (about 10 pieces) has 25 grams. > To get the same or less sugar, you'd have to eat no more than 3 pieces of > the dried fruit. > > Dave Very true, i realise this, but if i have to have sugar i think this is much better than sweets! Laura (uk) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 9, 2003 Report Share Posted January 9, 2003 I was also! I'm still at home though, I'm 17 years old, but we eat out almost every single night. In the past two weeks I have made one meal at home. ~Sara I was given a very processed/junk food/sugar laden diet as a child...we did't drink milk, we drank Pepsi!! I do notice that my children do not crave sweets the way I do, they have them occasionally and usually on a special occasion. I notice the more often they have these things, the more often they want them....any women have advice for "that time of the month" I really have food cravings at this time. Entertainment-World/ TRL-artists-picsNfun/ TheWB-Chat/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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