Guest guest Posted September 19, 2006 Report Share Posted September 19, 2006 I used Hypnobirthing with my daughter's birth and it was amazing. No epidurals, just 15 minutes of real pushing, and only a tiny tear resulting. My midwife was so impressed that she used it for her labor 6 months later. I made sure to choose a midwife practice that would embrace my choices; they didn't know about Hypnobirthing, but they were interested to learn about it. Also, they respected the birth plan that my husband and I drew up. (They knew we were vegan and suggested we speak to a dietician. But after asking us lots of questions about nutrition, it was clear that we knew as much as the dietician did about our nutritional needs.) Frankly, I was much, much more afraid of that huge needle than the pain people told me to expect. In the end, my daughter's birth was peaceful and joyous...no big noises, no bright lights...and I was up and around soon afterwards. It's so unfortunate when people view birth as a medical procedure. Get on board. You're invited to try the new Mail. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 19, 2006 Report Share Posted September 19, 2006 Very cool, that you got the gentle birth that you pictured and had a great experience. And you inspired the midwife in that way. Hope you have your birth story written down. Just curious, what area are you in? Peace, Laura in MD Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 19, 2006 Report Share Posted September 19, 2006 i'm a student midwife and proponent of homebirth. i planned a homebirth for my first and i'm planning one for this one. i'm well aware that epidurals can be a tremendous blessing for many women. sometimes they can save a woman from a cesarean and that is a worthy cause. but they can also CAUSE cesareans. the woman who wrote in earlier about it helping with her posterior baby -- you are very, very lucky. epidurals are notorious for stopping a baby's descent and rotation, ESPECIALLY with babies who are malpresented. so yes, they can be a blessing, and perhaps nowhere are they a bigger blessing than for women who have cesareans, because they allow them to stay awake. but i will say this. here in utah, we have one of the highest epidural rates in the country (along with one of the highest birth rates). several hospitals here have epidural rates well over 90%. that is insane. something somewhere has gone extremely awry with how women and physicians approach the birthing process when that many women are put into situations where they cannot maintain a normal birth. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 19, 2006 Report Share Posted September 19, 2006 Anyone seen Monty Python's The Meaning of Life? " The Miracle of Birth- Part 1 " comes to my mind right now. It's this lady in the hospital about to have a baby, and they've got her on the stretcher and they smash into every door on the way to the room, and when they get there they set up every machine you could think of, then there are all these doctors and nurses and the hospital director, then there's a whole crowd of " spectators " with cameras. Very funny. Then the baby is born and John Cleese, the doctor, says " Now show it to the mother! " and they hold up the baby for like, one second, then they throw the baby in an incubator and chase everyone out. The mother asks if it's a boy or girl, and John Cleese says, " It's a little bit early to start imposing roles on it, don't you think? " Then he leaves and the poor woman is all alone in the room, confused. A great satire-type show. The funniest part is when the mother asks, " What am I supposed to do? " and Dr. says, " Nothing, dear, you just leave everything to the professionals. " Sounds familiar to me! Kadee Sedtal EM <epteach67 wrote: I used Hypnobirthing with my daughter's birth and it was amazing. No epidurals, just 15 minutes of real pushing, and only a tiny tear resulting. My midwife was so impressed that she used it for her labor 6 months later. I made sure to choose a midwife practice that would embrace my choices; they didn't know about Hypnobirthing, but they were interested to learn about it. Also, they respected the birth plan that my husband and I drew up. (They knew we were vegan and suggested we speak to a dietician. But after asking us lots of questions about nutrition, it was clear that we knew as much as the dietician did about our nutritional needs.) Frankly, I was much, much more afraid of that huge needle than the pain people told me to expect. In the end, my daughter's birth was peaceful and joyous...no big noises, no bright lights...and I was up and around soon afterwards. It's so unfortunate when people view birth as a medical procedure. Get on board. You're invited to try the new Mail. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 19, 2006 Report Share Posted September 19, 2006 Yeah for you!!! I am a lamaze teacher and I love when I hear such success with birth!!! EM <epteach67 wrote: I used Hypnobirthing with my daughter's birth and it was amazing. No epidurals, just 15 minutes of real pushing, and only a tiny tear resulting. My midwife was so impressed that she used it for her labor 6 months later. I made sure to choose a midwife practice that would embrace my choices; they didn't know about Hypnobirthing, but they were interested to learn about it. Also, they respected the birth plan that my husband and I drew up. (They knew we were vegan and suggested we speak to a dietician. But after asking us lots of questions about nutrition, it was clear that we knew as much as the dietician did about our nutritional needs.) Frankly, I was much, much more afraid of that huge needle than the pain people told me to expect. In the end, my daughter's birth was peaceful and joyous...no big noises, no bright lights...and I was up and around soon afterwards. It's so unfortunate when people view birth as a medical procedure. Get on board. You're invited to try the new Mail. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 19, 2006 Report Share Posted September 19, 2006 I used hypnobirthing, too. I didn't make a sound, didn't break a sweat. When I got to the hospital and the midwife saw me, she thought she was going to have to send me home, bc obviously I wasn't far enough along in labor bc I was just lying there. Meanwhile, when she checked, I was 10 cm!!! I really chalk up my success more to having studied meditation than hypnobirthing though...breathing through every sensation, and WOW, what sensations they were! But paralysis...no thank you!!!! I was LITERALLY running down the hospital hall the next day with my newborn when he was having breathing problems...no need to wait for the nurse to arrive. As a side note, my baby was fine...they had to clean his lungs. , EM <epteach67 wrote: > > I used Hypnobirthing with my daughter's birth and it was amazing. No epidurals, just 15 minutes of real pushing, and only a tiny tear resulting. My midwife was so impressed that she used it for her labor 6 months later. > > I made sure to choose a midwife practice that would embrace my choices; they didn't know about Hypnobirthing, but they were interested to learn about it. Also, they respected the birth plan that my husband and I drew up. (They knew we were vegan and suggested we speak to a dietician. But after asking us lots of questions about nutrition, it was clear that we knew as much as the dietician did about our nutritional needs.) > > Frankly, I was much, much more afraid of that huge needle than the pain people told me to expect. In the end, my daughter's birth was peaceful and joyous...no big noises, no bright lights...and I was up and around soon afterwards. It's so unfortunate when people view birth as a medical procedure. > > > > > Get on board. You're invited to try the new Mail. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 19, 2006 Report Share Posted September 19, 2006 yup! that's the same movie with the machine that goes beep, right? get the machine that goes beep! we don't know what it does or how to work it but it will impress people because it's big and expensive and a new technology! henci goer says, the electronic fetal monitor is the machine that goes beep, and after even a cursory glance at the research, one would be inclined to agree. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 20, 2006 Report Share Posted September 20, 2006 No hypnobirthing here. Would certainly be something to look into! I didn't have too rough a time, but it sure would have been nice to have something to think about other than " OW. " I know a lot of these epidurals are given to young mothers, who I guess are easier to convince that they can't handle it. I was 20 when my daughter was born (the day after my birthday!), and they really treated me like I didn't know what I wanted. Two other girls I went to college with had their babies in the couple of months before, and both of them had had epidurals after their doctors told me how safe they were, and both of them, very close to my same weight and build, had c-sections. I said NO THANK YOU!! My doctor had told me how very safe it was, and that it was just a little prick- doesn't even hurt! Still, NO! When I went to the hospital at about 11 that morning, didn't have a single problem. The only thing that really freaked me out was that I had a boy name all picked out, lots of cute boy things at home, and at right after 4 p.m. they informed me that I had a baby girl. I asked, " A baby what?? " Sort of like what I call " drive-thru syndrome " - " You want a WHAT burger? " No epidurals here, I did just fine. Even with my son I got nothing for pain and all I did was get mad at my husband for being so weird and asking why there were so many people in the room. Kadee Sedtal Lisa Veg*n <vegetariankids wrote: I used hypnobirthing, too. I didn't make a sound, didn't break a sweat. When I got to the hospital and the midwife saw me, she thought she was going to have to send me home, bc obviously I wasn't far enough along in labor bc I was just lying there. Meanwhile, when she checked, I was 10 cm!!! I really chalk up my success more to having studied meditation than hypnobirthing though...breathing through every sensation, and WOW, what sensations they were! But paralysis...no thank you!!!! I was LITERALLY running down the hospital hall the next day with my newborn when he was having breathing problems...no need to wait for the nurse to arrive. As a side note, my baby was fine...they had to clean his lungs. , EM <epteach67 wrote: > > I used Hypnobirthing with my daughter's birth and it was amazing. No epidurals, just 15 minutes of real pushing, and only a tiny tear resulting. My midwife was so impressed that she used it for her labor 6 months later. > > I made sure to choose a midwife practice that would embrace my choices; they didn't know about Hypnobirthing, but they were interested to learn about it. Also, they respected the birth plan that my husband and I drew up. (They knew we were vegan and suggested we speak to a dietician. But after asking us lots of questions about nutrition, it was clear that we knew as much as the dietician did about our nutritional needs.) > > Frankly, I was much, much more afraid of that huge needle than the pain people told me to expect. In the end, my daughter's birth was peaceful and joyous...no big noises, no bright lights...and I was up and around soon afterwards. It's so unfortunate when people view birth as a medical procedure. > > > > > Get on board. You're invited to try the new Mail. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 20, 2006 Report Share Posted September 20, 2006 Yes!! That's the one. And the most expensive machine in the hospital- " Don't you feel lucky! " : ) Kadee Sedtal earthmother <earthmother213 wrote: yup! that's the same movie with the machine that goes beep, right? get the machine that goes beep! we don't know what it does or how to work it but it will impress people because it's big and expensive and a new technology! henci goer says, the electronic fetal monitor is the machine that goes beep, and after even a cursory glance at the research, one would be inclined to agree. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 20, 2006 Report Share Posted September 20, 2006 -just curious what is your surgical birth rate? -- In , earthmother <earthmother213 wrote: > > i'm a student midwife and proponent of homebirth. i planned a homebirth for > my first and i'm planning one for this one. i'm well aware that epidurals > can be a tremendous blessing for many women. sometimes they can save a > woman from a cesarean and that is a worthy cause. but they can also CAUSE > cesareans. the woman who wrote in earlier about it helping with her > posterior baby -- you are very, very lucky. epidurals are notorious for > stopping a baby's descent and rotation, ESPECIALLY with babies who are > malpresented. so yes, they can be a blessing, and perhaps nowhere are they > a bigger blessing than for women who have cesareans, because they allow them > to stay awake. but i will say this. here in utah, we have one of the > highest epidural rates in the country (along with one of the highest birth > rates). several hospitals here have epidural rates well over 90%. that is > insane. something somewhere has gone extremely awry with how women and > physicians approach the birthing process when that many women are put into > situations where they cannot maintain a normal birth. > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 20, 2006 Report Share Posted September 20, 2006 >>just curious what is your surgical birth rate? who is this question for? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 20, 2006 Report Share Posted September 20, 2006 sorry-for you earthmother earthmother <earthmother213 wrote: >>just curious what is your surgical birth rate? who is this question for? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 21, 2006 Report Share Posted September 21, 2006 i'm sorry, i guess i'm confused about your question. do you mean the surgical birth rate in utah, where i live? it varies from hospital to hospital, practice to practice. i believe our rate is around 25% overall. the national average right now is about 28%, so we have a somewhat lower rate, which hospitals here attribute to our very healthy population -- the LDS word of wisdom phenomenon. my midwife has a 2-4% transport rate and her cesarean rate doesn't even compute, even with transports. the birth center here has a rate between 5 and 10%, just what the WHO says it should be. the cesarean rate in this country has gone up every year with no appreciable difference in maternal or neonatal health -- in fact, every year we've dropped another slot in the WHO's list of the safest industrialized countries to give birth in. i believe we're #28 now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 21, 2006 Report Share Posted September 21, 2006 Earthmother- thats fine- You were just stating your epidural rates in an earlier post, and they sounded high I just wondered if your rates(in your area) for surgical births were higher than national average. The hospital I teach at has rates just below national average, but I sure would like to see it alot lower. It makes me so sad to think how low we are on the list for safest countries to give birth.I think it has dropped since they production of the video Gentle Birth Choices-I was astounded how low we were when I saw that video Just a side note- I know as a student midwife, you must have many wonderful resources, but I was just looking last night at The Labor Progress book by Penny Simkin and another person and It really is such a great little book to take have handy-at least for me as I am beginning to work for my DONA cert. Thought if you didn't have it ,you would want to check it out. earthmother <earthmother213 wrote: i'm sorry, i guess i'm confused about your question. do you mean the surgical birth rate in utah, where i live? it varies from hospital to hospital, practice to practice. i believe our rate is around 25% overall. the national average right now is about 28%, so we have a somewhat lower rate, which hospitals here attribute to our very healthy population -- the LDS word of wisdom phenomenon. my midwife has a 2-4% transport rate and her cesarean rate doesn't even compute, even with transports. the birth center here has a rate between 5 and 10%, just what the WHO says it should be. the cesarean rate in this country has gone up every year with no appreciable difference in maternal or neonatal health -- in fact, every year we've dropped another slot in the WHO's list of the safest industrialized countries to give birth in. i believe we're #28 now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 21, 2006 Report Share Posted September 21, 2006 oh yes, that book is excellent! our epidural rates here are through the roof. the hospital a few blocks from us has a 95% rate, with a 30% cesarean rate. that is criminal! i think in the GBC video it says we are #22 -- we've dropped several spaces since then. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 21, 2006 Report Share Posted September 21, 2006 My OB " claimed " that my vaginal exam revealed I had GBS and that I would have to be hooked up to antibiotics during my baby's delivery. I refused to have this done because I didn't believe her diagnosis (my previous OB never told me I had GBS when I delivered a previous child with no problems!). Fortunately, my baby came so fast, there was no time to do anything other than lay me down on the delivery table! My baby came out perfectly healthy. - baker Thursday, September 21, 2006 11:41 AM Re: re: epidurals Earthmother- thats fine- You were just stating your epidural rates in an earlier post, and they sounded high I just wondered if your rates(in your area) for surgical births were higher than national average. The hospital I teach at has rates just below national average, but I sure would like to see it alot lower. It makes me so sad to think how low we are on the list for safest countries to give birth.I think it has dropped since they production of the video Gentle Birth Choices-I was astounded how low we were when I saw that video Just a side note- I know as a student midwife, you must have many wonderful resources, but I was just looking last night at The Labor Progress book by Penny Simkin and another person and It really is such a great little book to take have handy-at least for me as I am beginning to work for my DONA cert. Thought if you didn't have it ,you would want to check it out. earthmother <earthmother213 wrote: i'm sorry, i guess i'm confused about your question. do you mean the surgical birth rate in utah, where i live? it varies from hospital to hospital, practice to practice. i believe our rate is around 25% overall. the national average right now is about 28%, so we have a somewhat lower rate, which hospitals here attribute to our very healthy population -- the LDS word of wisdom phenomenon. my midwife has a 2-4% transport rate and her cesarean rate doesn't even compute, even with transports. the birth center here has a rate between 5 and 10%, just what the WHO says it should be. the cesarean rate in this country has gone up every year with no appreciable difference in maternal or neonatal health -- in fact, every year we've dropped another slot in the WHO's list of the safest industrialized countries to give birth in. i believe we're #28 now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 21, 2006 Report Share Posted September 21, 2006 you can indeed colonize GBS between pregnancies, so that's not out of the question. but they cannot tell just from doing a vaginal exam whether or not you are colonized. did they do a test? GBS works like this: about a fifth of the population is colonized at any moment. it's normal intestinal flora -- it's not correct to refer to a positive mom as " infected. " a tiny fraction of moms who are positive will pass it to ther babies. of those babies, a tiny fraction will become sick, and of THOSE babies, a tiny, tiny fraction will become so sick they might die. it is such a small statistic it practically doesn't even compute. almost all babies with GBS+ moms do just fine, and there are several arguments against having a woman on antibiotics in labor. there's a lot of controversy surrounding GBS right now, but the way my midwife handles it is, i choose whether or not to be tested (and i haven't decided), and if i'm positive, we do some things to try to fix that, and if they don't work, then my baby is watched very carefully, and nothing, absolutely nothing, is done to interfere with my labor, since that raises the risks. so when i hear of women who are GBS+ going in and being induced, having their water broken, having an internal monitor and lots of internal exams, i think they're not actually taking that risk very seriously, ya know?! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 22, 2006 Report Share Posted September 22, 2006 A vaginal exam does not reveal GBS status. They do a swab and culture it to determine that. Your GBS status can change from one birth to another. Nice that your baby came fast and healthy. Laura My OB " claimed " that my vaginal exam revealed I had GBS and that I would have to be hooked up to antibiotics during my baby's delivery. I refused to have this done because I didn't believe her diagnosis (my previous OB never told me I had GBS when I delivered a previous child with no problems!). Fortunately, my baby came so fast, there was no time to do anything other than lay me down on the delivery table! My baby came out perfectly healthy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 22, 2006 Report Share Posted September 22, 2006 I never did write down my birth sotry; that's a great idea! I delivered in NYC (Brooklyn). Esa , VAP79 wrote: > > Very cool, that you got the gentle birth that you pictured and had a great > experience. > And you inspired the midwife in that way. Hope you have your birth story > written down. > > Just curious, what area are you in? > Peace, > Laura in MD > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 22, 2006 Report Share Posted September 22, 2006 - earthmother Thursday, September 21, 2006 5:39 PM Re: re: epidurals you can indeed colonize GBS between pregnancies, so that's not out of the question. but they cannot tell just from doing a vaginal exam whether or not you are colonized. did they do a test? GBS works like this: about a fifth of the population is colonized at any moment. it's normal intestinal flora -- it's not correct to refer to a positive mom as " infected. " a tiny fraction of moms who are positive will pass it to ther babies. of those babies, a tiny fraction will become sick, and of THOSE babies, a tiny, tiny fraction will become so sick they might die. it is such a small statistic it practically doesn't even compute. almost all babies with GBS+ moms do just fine, and there are several arguments against having a woman on antibiotics in labor. there's a lot of controversy surrounding GBS right now, but the way my midwife handles it is, i choose whether or not to be tested (and i haven't decided), and if i'm positive, we do some things to try to fix that, and if they don't work, then my baby is watched very carefully, and nothing, absolutely nothing, is done to interfere with my labor, since that raises the risks. so when i hear of women who are GBS+ going in and being induced, having their water broken, having an internal monitor and lots of internal exams, i think they're not actually taking that risk very seriously, ya know?! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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