Guest guest Posted April 18, 2006 Report Share Posted April 18, 2006 What is Neurosis? " Neurosis refers to a variety of psychological problems involving persistent experiences of negative affect including anxiety, sadness or depression, anger, irritability, mental confusion, low sense of self-worth, etc., behavioral symptoms such as phobic avoidance, vigilance, impulsive and compulsive acts, lethargy, etc., cognitive problems such as unpleasant or disturbing thoughts, repetition of thoughts and obsession, habitual fantasizing, negativity and cynicism, etc. " -Dr. C. George Boeree, Shippensburg University The important question to ask ourselves is: Is our desire to eat correctly based upon a desire to love and heal ourselves and the world, or is it a result of a negative sense of self? As an instructor at a Living Foods Institute, I have worked with close to a thousand students about this very question. From my own process and the processes that I have worked through with hundreds and hundreds of students, I can tell you that only the first path of self-love is healthy and ultimately successful. If we are punishing ourselves with raw food for our mistakes of the past or out of a sense of self-loathing of what we have become, we will rock between extreme adhesion to " orthorexic " principles and damaging episodes of binging and other destructive behaviour. Often the most important of transition is learning to really love ourselves and kindly and gently devote ourselves to our healing. If we can remain in that mind state, the choices are no longer as challenging. We begin to instinctively reach for the healthy and loving choice. Does your internal battle with " eating correctly " focus on the negative elements described by Dr. Boeree, or is it a loving process of healing and self-love? Only you can answer that question. If you identify with the negative destructive process, there are things that can be done with a qualified therapist to heal our sense of self and to lovingly participate in the process of healing and recovery of which raw foods can be an excellent part. *********************************************************** Tom Spontelli Instructor Ann Wigmore Natural Health Institute Aguada PR 00602 USA www.AnnWigmore.org Two week Living Foods Lifestyle Certification Program on tropical beach at one of the world's most respected Lifing Foods Institutes. *********************************************************** Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 19, 2006 Report Share Posted April 19, 2006 <snip>The important question to ask ourselves is: Is our desire to eat correctly based upon a desire to love and heal ourselves and the world, or is it a result of a negative sense of self?<snip> *That*, as a disorder, I will buy. What bothered me about the " symptoms " list was that only ONE of them had anything to do with " a negative sense of self " and the rest could easily be anyone. How is planning meals ahead of time reflective of such negativity, for example? How does one feel virtuous AND self-loathing? (Perhaps that's possible, and I just can't comprehend it. That's probably a good sign for ME, then! Tom's definition was much more understandable in that the key element of the disorder is a negative feeling toward the self. Though, I can see how that diagnosis could be aimed at ANYONE with a conscious about what they eat if the person making the diagnosis doesn't " get " veg*nism/raw foodism. (Such as the man I remember appearing on the Today Show to talk about this disorder, who gave the impression that anyone who was concerned with what they ate and therefore limited their diet, and especially non-meat-eaters, were ON.) I think it's an important discussion to have on this list, because public ignorance is powerful. I can't tell you how many thousands of times I've been asked where I get my protein, usually by people who are verging on obese. There are some people who would have been very worried that *I* fall into the ON category had they read that list of symptoms or seen that guy on television talking about it. Suzy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 19, 2006 Report Share Posted April 19, 2006 The one thing I've learned in life is that ANYTHING in excess is never good, no matter what. That includes alcohol, drugs, sex, and yes, even working out or eating healthy. If you are so obsessed with eating that it consumes your every thought, that is a problem as with anything else. Be healthy and wise but also use common sense and don't make yourself miserable. I am a recovered anorexic/bulemic, and my relationship with food has finally reached the point where I am concerned about nutrition, health, and most importantly: balance. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 20, 2006 Report Share Posted April 20, 2006 Well said!! i agree 100% with you! jen julie wilson <shoe_lover26 wrote: The one thing I've learned in life is that ANYTHING in excess is never good, no matter what. That includes alcohol, drugs, sex, and yes, even working out or eating healthy. If you are so obsessed with eating that it consumes your every thought, that is a problem as with anything else. Be healthy and wise but also use common sense and don't make yourself miserable. I am a recovered anorexic/bulemic, and my relationship with food has finally reached the point where I am concerned about nutrition, health, and most importantly: balance. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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