Guest guest Posted March 8, 2008 Report Share Posted March 8, 2008 Hi everyone, I've been lurking for a few weeks and decided it was time to say hello. I became a vegetarian about a year ago, and currently eat a near-vegan diet. My husband followed right behind me and has been very supportive. Even my 13 year-old step-daughter willingly tries all of my new recipes and surprised us by ordering a salad with tofu on it at a restaurant a few weeks back! I've done a lot of reading over the last year and have made many changes to our diet, incorporating more whole grains, fruits and vegetables (in addition to dropping meat and 90% of dairy & eggs). I feel great and wouldn't have things any other way. I have to apologize in advance for the length of this post, but I could really use some feedback about my sister, and I can tell that there are a lot of well-informed and intelligent vegan parents on this list. My younger sister recently became pregnant (barely out of her first trimester) after several years of trying. She's been a lacto-ovo vegetarian for about 15 years because she simply does not like the taste and texture of meat, fish and most egg products. It's only been for the last year or so that we've even lived in the same area again, so I don't know her dietary habits very well, but from the looks of her kitchen cupboards, she and her non-veg husband eat a fair amount of refined and convenience foods. I haven't said anything about her diet because god knows she's already getting pregancy advice from everybody else and I figure babies are born every day to women with diets worse than hers. Yesterday, she sent me an e-mail at work asking if I had a recipe for quiche. She said her doctor was encouraging her to eat more eggs and at least some fish. I've never made a quiche in my life, but when I replied, I said if he wanted her to incorporate more protein into her diet, I had all sorts of recipes that I'd be happy to share so she wouldn't have to resort to eating eggs (which she doesn't like) or fish (mercury & toxins, anyone?). I also added that the idea of combining proteins was a myth, and if she was eating a variety of healthy foods, she'd get all of the amino acids her body needs. Here was her reply: " He was telling me that there are two amino acids -- veylene and lysene, I think -- that were difficult to get from plant sources and are important during pregnancy. He said it's possible to do it on a strict vegetarian diet, but that incorporating some eggs and fish would be a lot easier. He also said that some cholesterol is important, too. He said peanuts were a good source, but that cashews, almonds, etc. didn't have the amino acids. " I'm just not sure I'm buying what her doctor is saying. Especially the part about cholesterol....I've read that our bodies naturally make all of the cholesterol we'll ever need and we don't need to consume it in our food. Of course, I've never been pregnant, so what do I know? Any thoughts? Kristen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 9, 2008 Report Share Posted March 9, 2008 Hi Kristen, You could recommend the Sharon Yntema books - Vegetarian Baby and the New Vegetarian Baby, I think they're called. Really good descriptions of what moms need to eat and what babies need to eat, and how vegetarian sources are great for everything. Maybe she could get a new doc, too. :-) Best of luck, Lorraine On Behalf Of Kristen Saturday, March 08, 2008 2:44 PM New Member / Pregnant Sister Hi everyone, I've been lurking for a few weeks and decided it was time to say hello. I became a vegetarian about a year ago, and currently eat a near-vegan diet. My husband followed right behind me and has been very supportive. Even my 13 year-old step-daughter willingly tries all of my new recipes and surprised us by ordering a salad with tofu on it at a restaurant a few weeks back! I've done a lot of reading over the last year and have made many changes to our diet, incorporating more whole grains, fruits and vegetables (in addition to dropping meat and 90% of dairy & eggs). I feel great and wouldn't have things any other way. I have to apologize in advance for the length of this post, but I could really use some feedback about my sister, and I can tell that there are a lot of well-informed and intelligent vegan parents on this list. My younger sister recently became pregnant (barely out of her first trimester) after several years of trying. She's been a lacto-ovo vegetarian for about 15 years because she simply does not like the taste and texture of meat, fish and most egg products. It's only been for the last year or so that we've even lived in the same area again, so I don't know her dietary habits very well, but from the looks of her kitchen cupboards, she and her non-veg husband eat a fair amount of refined and convenience foods. I haven't said anything about her diet because god knows she's already getting pregancy advice from everybody else and I figure babies are born every day to women with diets worse than hers. Yesterday, she sent me an e-mail at work asking if I had a recipe for quiche. She said her doctor was encouraging her to eat more eggs and at least some fish. I've never made a quiche in my life, but when I replied, I said if he wanted her to incorporate more protein into her diet, I had all sorts of recipes that I'd be happy to share so she wouldn't have to resort to eating eggs (which she doesn't like) or fish (mercury & toxins, anyone?). I also added that the idea of combining proteins was a myth, and if she was eating a variety of healthy foods, she'd get all of the amino acids her body needs. Here was her reply: " He was telling me that there are two amino acids -- veylene and lysene, I think -- that were difficult to get from plant sources and are important during pregnancy. He said it's possible to do it on a strict vegetarian diet, but that incorporating some eggs and fish would be a lot easier. He also said that some cholesterol is important, too. He said peanuts were a good source, but that cashews, almonds, etc. didn't have the amino acids. " I'm just not sure I'm buying what her doctor is saying. Especially the part about cholesterol....I've read that our bodies naturally make all of the cholesterol we'll ever need and we don't need to consume it in our food. Of course, I've never been pregnant, so what do I know? Any thoughts? Kristen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 9, 2008 Report Share Posted March 9, 2008 Yes - we make all the cholesterol we need, pregnant or not. Eating a variety of fruit, veg, legumes, nuts & seeds and whole grains she will get plenty of all the amino acids, including Valine and Lysine. If she eats enough calories from a variety of healthy sources, she will get enough protein. Table 3 at this site shows the amts of Valine (Val) and Lysine (Lys) - even if she only ate limited plant foods in one day- some of which are not usually thought of as high protein sources - like potatoes, corn and rice. http://www.vrg.org/nutrition/protein.htm There are plenty of vegan and veg RD's that can advise her on nutrition during veg pregnancy. Dr's don't always know what they are talking about because they are not trained in nutrition. D >Kristen <Ladybug810 >Mar 8, 2008 3:43 PM > > New Member / Pregnant Sister > >Hi everyone, > >I've been lurking for a few weeks and decided it was time to say >hello. I became a vegetarian about a year ago, and currently eat a >near-vegan diet. My husband followed right behind me and has been >very supportive. Even my 13 year-old step-daughter willingly tries >all of my new recipes and surprised us by ordering a salad with >tofu on it at a restaurant a few weeks back! I've done a lot of >reading over the last year and have made many changes to our diet, >incorporating more whole grains, fruits and vegetables (in addition to >dropping meat and 90% of dairy & eggs). I feel great and wouldn't >have things any other way. > >I have to apologize in advance for the length of this post, but I >could really use some feedback about my sister, and I can tell that >there are a lot of well-informed and intelligent vegan parents on this >list. > >My younger sister recently became pregnant (barely out of her first >trimester) after several years of trying. She's been a lacto-ovo >vegetarian for about 15 years because she simply does not like the >taste and texture of meat, fish and most egg products. It's only been >for the last year or so that we've even lived in the same area again, >so I don't know her dietary habits very well, but from the looks of >her kitchen cupboards, she and her non-veg husband eat a fair amount >of refined and convenience foods. I haven't said anything about her >diet because god knows she's already getting pregancy advice from >everybody else and I figure babies are born every day to women with >diets worse than hers. > >Yesterday, she sent me an e-mail at work asking if I had a recipe for >quiche. She said her doctor was encouraging her to eat more eggs and >at least some fish. I've never made a quiche in my life, but when I >replied, I said if he wanted her to incorporate more protein into her >diet, I had all sorts of recipes that I'd be happy to share so she >wouldn't have to resort to eating eggs (which she doesn't like) or >fish (mercury & toxins, anyone?). I also added that the idea of >combining proteins was a myth, and if she was eating a variety of >healthy foods, she'd get all of the amino acids her body needs. > >Here was her reply: > > " He was telling me that there are two amino acids -- veylene and >lysene, I think -- that were difficult to get from plant sources and >are important during pregnancy. He said it's possible to do it on a >strict vegetarian diet, but that incorporating some eggs and fish >would be a lot easier. He also said that some cholesterol is >important, too. He said peanuts were a good source, but that cashews, >almonds, etc. didn't have the amino acids. " > >I'm just not sure I'm buying what her doctor is saying. Especially >the part about cholesterol....I've read that our bodies naturally make >all of the cholesterol we'll ever need and we don't need to consume it >in our food. Of course, I've never been pregnant, so what do I know? > >Any thoughts? > >Kristen > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 9, 2008 Report Share Posted March 9, 2008 The fats are very important for organ development of the baby. That said, there are plenty of healthy vegan pregnancies. I HATE narrow minded doctors. Kristen <Ladybug810 wrote: Hi everyone, I've been lurking for a few weeks and decided it was time to say hello. I became a vegetarian about a year ago, and currently eat a near-vegan diet. My husband followed right behind me and has been very supportive. Even my 13 year-old step-daughter willingly tries all of my new recipes and surprised us by ordering a salad with tofu on it at a restaurant a few weeks back! I've done a lot of reading over the last year and have made many changes to our diet, incorporating more whole grains, fruits and vegetables (in addition to dropping meat and 90% of dairy & eggs). I feel great and wouldn't have things any other way. I have to apologize in advance for the length of this post, but I could really use some feedback about my sister, and I can tell that there are a lot of well-informed and intelligent vegan parents on this list. My younger sister recently became pregnant (barely out of her first trimester) after several years of trying. She's been a lacto-ovo vegetarian for about 15 years because she simply does not like the taste and texture of meat, fish and most egg products. It's only been for the last year or so that we've even lived in the same area again, so I don't know her dietary habits very well, but from the looks of her kitchen cupboards, she and her non-veg husband eat a fair amount of refined and convenience foods. I haven't said anything about her diet because god knows she's already getting pregancy advice from everybody else and I figure babies are born every day to women with diets worse than hers. Yesterday, she sent me an e-mail at work asking if I had a recipe for quiche. She said her doctor was encouraging her to eat more eggs and at least some fish. I've never made a quiche in my life, but when I replied, I said if he wanted her to incorporate more protein into her diet, I had all sorts of recipes that I'd be happy to share so she wouldn't have to resort to eating eggs (which she doesn't like) or fish (mercury & toxins, anyone?). I also added that the idea of combining proteins was a myth, and if she was eating a variety of healthy foods, she'd get all of the amino acids her body needs. Here was her reply: " He was telling me that there are two amino acids -- veylene and lysene, I think -- that were difficult to get from plant sources and are important during pregnancy. He said it's possible to do it on a strict vegetarian diet, but that incorporating some eggs and fish would be a lot easier. He also said that some cholesterol is important, too. He said peanuts were a good source, but that cashews, almonds, etc. didn't have the amino acids. " I'm just not sure I'm buying what her doctor is saying. Especially the part about cholesterol....I've read that our bodies naturally make all of the cholesterol we'll ever need and we don't need to consume it in our food. Of course, I've never been pregnant, so what do I know? Any thoughts? Kristen Looking for last minute shopping deals? Find them fast with Search. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 9, 2008 Report Share Posted March 9, 2008 hi kristin! your sister may be referring to two essential amino acids, valine and either lycene or leucine. leucine is essential for growth and in addition to animal products is found in sufficient amounts in wheat germ and oats. lycine is high in animal products and also abundantly available from wheat germ, legumes and many fruits and vegetables. as for valine, it's truly bizarre that her doctor would feel this to be a concern because it's available in large quantities in MOST foods, whether of plant or animal origin. a healthy liver makes all the cholesterol a body needs. an unhealthy liver might be a concern but as long as your sister is in reasonably good health there is no reason to believe that she needs to supplement cholesterol in her diet; it's not an " essential " nutrient. also, perhaps, let her know that most medical educations don't require more than the most basic of nutrition courses and if she's truly concerned about her diet in pregnancy, she'd be well-advised to visit a registered nutritionist and NOT take information from what sounds like a very biased doctor. (very possible that he's been infected by WAPF...and really, who hasn't these days? UGH!) the most important thing in pregnancy is to get plenty of protein (which is abundant in a div erse veg diet) and to eat as many whole, clean, fresh, preferably organic and local foods as possible. hope to help! chandelle On Sat, Mar 8, 2008 at 4:43 PM, Kristen <Ladybug810 wrote: > Hi everyone, > > I've been lurking for a few weeks and decided it was time to say > hello. I became a vegetarian about a year ago, and currently eat a > near-vegan diet. My husband followed right behind me and has been > very supportive. Even my 13 year-old step-daughter willingly tries > all of my new recipes and surprised us by ordering a salad with > tofu on it at a restaurant a few weeks back! I've done a lot of > reading over the last year and have made many changes to our diet, > incorporating more whole grains, fruits and vegetables (in addition to > dropping meat and 90% of dairy & eggs). I feel great and wouldn't > have things any other way. > > I have to apologize in advance for the length of this post, but I > could really use some feedback about my sister, and I can tell that > there are a lot of well-informed and intelligent vegan parents on this > list. > > My younger sister recently became pregnant (barely out of her first > trimester) after several years of trying. She's been a lacto-ovo > vegetarian for about 15 years because she simply does not like the > taste and texture of meat, fish and most egg products. It's only been > for the last year or so that we've even lived in the same area again, > so I don't know her dietary habits very well, but from the looks of > her kitchen cupboards, she and her non-veg husband eat a fair amount > of refined and convenience foods. I haven't said anything about her > diet because god knows she's already getting pregancy advice from > everybody else and I figure babies are born every day to women with > diets worse than hers. > > Yesterday, she sent me an e-mail at work asking if I had a recipe for > quiche. She said her doctor was encouraging her to eat more eggs and > at least some fish. I've never made a quiche in my life, but when I > replied, I said if he wanted her to incorporate more protein into her > diet, I had all sorts of recipes that I'd be happy to share so she > wouldn't have to resort to eating eggs (which she doesn't like) or > fish (mercury & toxins, anyone?). I also added that the idea of > combining proteins was a myth, and if she was eating a variety of > healthy foods, she'd get all of the amino acids her body needs. > > Here was her reply: > > " He was telling me that there are two amino acids -- veylene and > lysene, I think -- that were difficult to get from plant sources and > are important during pregnancy. He said it's possible to do it on a > strict vegetarian diet, but that incorporating some eggs and fish > would be a lot easier. He also said that some cholesterol is > important, too. He said peanuts were a good source, but that cashews, > almonds, etc. didn't have the amino acids. " > > I'm just not sure I'm buying what her doctor is saying. Especially > the part about cholesterol....I've read that our bodies naturally make > all of the cholesterol we'll ever need and we don't need to consume it > in our food. Of course, I've never been pregnant, so what do I know? > > Any thoughts? > > Kristen > > > -- " religion is not based on evidence. if it were, it would be called science, and no one would believe in it. " ~stephen colbert Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 10, 2008 Report Share Posted March 10, 2008 yep me too. two vegan pregnancies, two vegan toddlers 2.5 and 4yrs old. i think she could get a more supportive doctor and community, sometimes on-line community is the easiest one! but, then, you gotta let her make her own decisions. passing on recipes and stuff - when asked - is probably the least confrontational. pen On 3/10/08, Jacqueline Bodnar <jb wrote: > > Hi Kristen, > > I went through two vegetarian pregnancies, both of which resulted in > healthy babes! And I did NOT take prenatal vitamins. This was because > when I started taking them they made me feel sick. I had even bought > some at the natural food store and they still made me sick. So upon > talking to my doctor (who knew I was vegetarian and was very supportive > of it) she suggested that I just keep taking the daily multivitamin that > I have always been taking and to take a folic acid supplement each day. > That's it. She had no other worries, never suggested I eat things > outside of a vegetarian diet, etc. Both pregnancies were healthy, both > kids were healthy and are now healthy vegetarians (ages 3.5 and 1.5). > > Jacqueline > > > -- Pen Harvey b 12/03 and Sasha b 08/05 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 10, 2008 Report Share Posted March 10, 2008 i think you're pretty amazing for not getting all over her about her diet; i confess to being pretty bad about it myself even though i ate CRAP during both of my vegetarian pregnancies. i had one vegetarian pregnancy and one vegan pregnancy and they were both hard in different ways; now i realize that a lot of my problem might have been a B-vitamin deficiency (not necessarily because of the veg*nism but because i just ate crappy overall...a lot of prepared foods, a lot of cereal, a lot of sugar, etc....i really struggle eating well in pregnancy because there is so little i can keep down, and most that i can keep down is horrible). both labors were also hard in different ways but i survived both to have unmedicated births, and even had a homebirth with my second; i gave birth standing up in my bedroom and my husband caught her (well...sort of) because she came so fast at the end. the human body is amazingly resilient, but of course it's best to eat as clean, healthy and safe as we possibly can. it's sad that your sister doesn't have more support. in this day and age she can surely find a doctor who's going to support her dietary choices; in both pregnancies i was practically applauded for staying away from animal foods, because they contain the most toxins and often toxins are the biggest risk to a developing fetus. of course i had midwives, who tend to be quite educated in nutrition, but even the pediatricians i've taken my children to have said that my vegan children are the healthiest they've ever seen and they wish other parents were half as conscientious as we are about their kids' diets. such doctors are out there, and they're worth looking for. we parents have enough to fight about with the world at large without having to defend our practices to doctors who should know better. chandelle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 10, 2008 Report Share Posted March 10, 2008 I can't find the original post now, but did the doctor say to eat nuts for cholesterol or did I misread that? Plant foods don't contain cholesterol of course. If he was saying she could eat nuts for good fats and protein that is different. I second what others have said...most doctors know little about nutrition. I was vegan for several years before giving birth to my first and it was a great pregnancy and birth and he is a healthy 8 year old now. He does have a congenital heart defect, but that isn't diet related in fact his doctors (pediatric cardiologist and pediatrician) say his vegan diet is why he hasn't had any symptoms and is so healthy. My younger two (almost 4 years and one 6 months old) are also very healthy and were birthed at unassisted at home with no issues whatsoever. We've never heard anything but good things about their diet and how active and healthy they are. Good luck to your sister! Linda http://triballife.net/ A Marketplace for a Better World ______________________________\ ____ Never miss a thing. Make your home page. http://www./r/hs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 10, 2008 Report Share Posted March 10, 2008 " we parents have enough to fight about with the world at large without having to defend our practices to doctors who should know better. " I want to bring this to my dr. office, as he was questioning my nursing of my 21 m.o.daughter. I truly agree with you, as I was not a veggie when I was pregnant, and ate a half gallon of ice cream every other day! Cassie chandelle' <earthmother213 wrote: i think you're pretty amazing for not getting all over her about her diet; i confess to being pretty bad about it myself even though i ate CRAP during both of my vegetarian pregnancies. i had one vegetarian pregnancy and one vegan pregnancy and they were both hard in different ways; now i realize that a lot of my problem might have been a B-vitamin deficiency (not necessarily because of the veg*nism but because i just ate crappy overall...a lot of prepared foods, a lot of cereal, a lot of sugar, etc....i really struggle eating well in pregnancy because there is so little i can keep down, and most that i can keep down is horrible). both labors were also hard in different ways but i survived both to have unmedicated births, and even had a homebirth with my second; i gave birth standing up in my bedroom and my husband caught her (well...sort of) because she came so fast at the end. the human body is amazingly resilient, but of course it's best to eat as clean, healthy and safe as we possibly can. it's sad that your sister doesn't have more support. in this day and age she can surely find a doctor who's going to support her dietary choices; in both pregnancies i was practically applauded for staying away from animal foods, because they contain the most toxins and often toxins are the biggest risk to a developing fetus. of course i had midwives, who tend to be quite educated in nutrition, but even the pediatricians i've taken my children to have said that my vegan children are the healthiest they've ever seen and they wish other parents were half as conscientious as we are about their kids' diets. such doctors are out there, and they're worth looking for. we parents have enough to fight about with the world at large without having to defend our practices to doctors who should know better. chandelle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 10, 2008 Report Share Posted March 10, 2008 cassie, you should let your doctor know that the major health organizations of the world recommend nursing for at least two years, if not longer. chandelle On Mon, Mar 10, 2008 at 8:57 AM, Cassie Dixon <roxy87cabriolet wrote: > " we parents have > enough to fight about with the world at large without having to defend our > practices to doctors who should know better. " > I want to bring this to my dr. office, as he was questioning my nursing of > my 21 m.o.daughter. > I truly agree with you, as I was not a veggie when I was pregnant, and ate > a half gallon of ice cream every other day! > Cassie > > chandelle' <earthmother213 <earthmother213%40gmail.com>> wrote: > i think you're pretty amazing for not getting all over her about her diet; i > > confess to being pretty bad about it myself even though i ate CRAP during > both of my vegetarian pregnancies. i had one vegetarian pregnancy and one > vegan pregnancy and they were both hard in different ways; now i realize > that a lot of my problem might have been a B-vitamin deficiency (not > necessarily because of the veg*nism but because i just ate crappy > overall...a lot of prepared foods, a lot of cereal, a lot of sugar, > etc....i > really struggle eating well in pregnancy because there is so little i can > keep down, and most that i can keep down is horrible). both labors were > also hard in different ways but i survived both to have unmedicated > births, > and even had a homebirth with my second; i gave birth standing up in my > bedroom and my husband caught her (well...sort of) because she came so > fast > at the end. the human body is amazingly resilient, but of course it's best > to eat as clean, healthy and safe as we possibly can. it's sad that your > sister doesn't have more support. in this day and age she can surely find > a > doctor who's going to support her dietary choices; in both pregnancies i > was > practically applauded for staying away from animal foods, because they > contain the most toxins and often toxins are the biggest risk to a > developing fetus. of course i had midwives, who tend to be quite educated > in nutrition, but even the pediatricians i've taken my children to have > said > that my vegan children are the healthiest they've ever seen and they wish > other parents were half as conscientious as we are about their kids' > diets. > such doctors are out there, and they're worth looking for. we parents have > enough to fight about with the world at large without having to defend our > practices to doctors who should know better. > > chandelle > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 10, 2008 Report Share Posted March 10, 2008 Change doctors; medicine is a consumer good. If you don't like your car mechanic, you don't keep going back. The World Health Association recommends breast feeding for a minimum of two years. Cassie Dixon <roxy87cabriolet wrote: " we parents have enough to fight about with the world at large without having to defend our practices to doctors who should know better. " I want to bring this to my dr. office, as he was questioning my nursing of my 21 m.o.daughter. I truly agree with you, as I was not a veggie when I was pregnant, and ate a half gallon of ice cream every other day! Cassie chandelle' <earthmother213 wrote: i think you're pretty amazing for not getting all over her about her diet; i confess to being pretty bad about it myself even though i ate CRAP during both of my vegetarian pregnancies. i had one vegetarian pregnancy and one vegan pregnancy and they were both hard in different ways; now i realize that a lot of my problem might have been a B-vitamin deficiency (not necessarily because of the veg*nism but because i just ate crappy overall...a lot of prepared foods, a lot of cereal, a lot of sugar, etc....i really struggle eating well in pregnancy because there is so little i can keep down, and most that i can keep down is horrible). both labors were also hard in different ways but i survived both to have unmedicated births, and even had a homebirth with my second; i gave birth standing up in my bedroom and my husband caught her (well...sort of) because she came so fast at the end. the human body is amazingly resilient, but of course it's best to eat as clean, healthy and safe as we possibly can. it's sad that your sister doesn't have more support. in this day and age she can surely find a doctor who's going to support her dietary choices; in both pregnancies i was practically applauded for staying away from animal foods, because they contain the most toxins and often toxins are the biggest risk to a developing fetus. of course i had midwives, who tend to be quite educated in nutrition, but even the pediatricians i've taken my children to have said that my vegan children are the healthiest they've ever seen and they wish other parents were half as conscientious as we are about their kids' diets. such doctors are out there, and they're worth looking for. we parents have enough to fight about with the world at large without having to defend our practices to doctors who should know better. chandelle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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