Guest guest Posted April 24, 2008 Report Share Posted April 24, 2008 Jamie, We do not vaccinate because I believe true to my heart and soul that they are more harm than good. In response to your question about what if there is an outbreak of measles, small pox, etc. Vaccinations do not guarantee that your child will not get the disease. And most vaccinations " wear-off " so to speak, which is why you have to repeatedly get certain vax. It is good that you are doing research because no one can make this decision for you. You have to go with what you think is protecting your child. Have you read the articles and information on www.nvic.org? It is a great resource. What helped us make the decision was also comparing the number of vaccine related injuries and deaths as reported by the CDC to the number of hospitalizations or deaths from the diseases with vax. When we did our comparison, there were only 3 deaths from the actual illnesses (over a 1 year period), and there were over 60,000 reports of injuries, and over 1,000 reports of death from the CDC after vax (over that same one year period). The CDC puts a disclaimer that there is no proof that the death or injury is caused by the vax - there is no " proof, " but they are required to track it. What was the clincher for us was when my son was 6 mos old, DH came home from work and told me that one of his coworkers nephew (also 6 mos) had died 2 days ago and it was within 24 hours of getting the standard 6 mos vaccines. Also, most of the magazines you are reading are completely funded by the advertisers - who are predominately pharmaceutical companies and formula companies (which many formulas are actually created by pharmaceutical companies.) Those magazines would go out of business if they lost the advertising dollars from someone like abbot labs, or merck or any other company that make vax or formula. HTH ~Susan On Apr 23, 2008, at 4:49 PM, lilbludaisy wrote: > Am I making the right decision? What > if their is an outbreak of measles or small pox or whatever else they > got vaccinations for these days? I don't know what to think and it > worries me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 24, 2008 Report Share Posted April 24, 2008 hi jamie, this is such a difficult issue! you're sure to get a wide range of equally valid points, so i'll just share my experiences with you. first of all, you can read about our decision here: http://www.onthespiral.blogspot.com/2007/09/here-is-no-why.html that decision was not easy for us. i examined every piece of evidence i could find on the issue and just ended up more confused. i had a lot of support from my natural parenting group to avoid them if i wished, and even more support to delay or be selective, but that was just a handful of families compared to, you know, the mainstream, which is enormous and deafening. my son received one set of vaxes, at three months. at that time, i was still studying, and trying to figure out what to do, and i was bullied into it by the pediatrician, who actually yelled at me that my son would probably die if i didn't do it. i was a brand-new mother, and i was feeling my way through parenting without having any support or time to research; i was essentially doing attachment parenting without knowing such a thing existed in theory, and being beat up for it right and left. so while now, i would never let such a thing happen, back then i didn't have the confidence to say no. i allowed the ped. to vax my son with three or four different injections, and it was so traumatic, we both left crying. i vowed that i would never make a decision like that under pressure again and that i would never allow someone to treat me that way when it came to my child's care. so i buckled down on studying out the issue, and ultimately, our son never received another set of vaxes. when my daughter came, she was never vaxed either. on this issue i'm not sure if there is a specifically right or wrong decision. i think every child and circumstance needs to be considered individually. when you look at the statistics, it seems that for most of these diseases, the risk of getting the disease closely matches the risk of having an adverse reaction to the vaccine. in both cases, the number is so small as to barely register statistically. for example, when was the last time you heard of an " outbreak " of diphtheria? and do you know anyone in your life who had a child die or become disabled because of a vaccine? both of these conditions are extremely rare. what is not as rare, however, are chronic illness, childhood cancer, and allergies, all of which have been connected to rising vaccine use. i considered the likelihood of one of these problems targeting my children and considered them a greater risk than measles or mumps. also, when i learned the specifics of how vaccinations work, i was very disturbed and decided that i didn't want that sort of effect on my children's immune system. another issue is how afraid you are of your child getting sick. some parents are really petrified of this. these are the parents who use antibacterial everything, not realizing that they are contributing to the problem. i've never been afraid of my kids getting sick. in fact, i think it's very healthy and positive for my kids to get sick. and even in this issue, there are other methods of true prevention that don't involve an injection of something very severe that contains extremely questionable ingredients, such as formaldehyde and human embryonic tissue. here in utah, we have outbreaks of some of these diseases from time to time, and this is primarily because of the polygamist compounds to the north and south that do not vaccinate. this has caused me some cognitive dissonance, wondering if it's really essential that we vaccinate, because of herd immunity, because obviously things don't work out so well in these communities where they don't vaccinate (the amish are another one - didn't one of those communities even have polio recently?). but then i consider the many other issues at stake here with these communities, such as their insularity, questionable hygiene practices, lacking nutrition, inbreeding that makes them more susceptible to disease, and so on, and i don't think many of those apply to us or most of the people we know. however, when these outbreaks occur - almost always pertussis - i don't worry for my own children's safety. my children are extremely healthy due to diet, exercise, hygiene and exposure to illness. they don't spend all day in the company of many other children in a daycare setting, which is probably the most disease-ridden place you can put your child. and if they did come down with a condition like pertussis, it's not a death sentence. almost none of the diseases we vaccinate for cause certain death. polio can be a serious problem, but it's been almost entirely eradicated in the west. it may still come in from immigrants or international visitors, but the risk is statistically insignificant. my kids had rotavirus last summer, which they caught from a friend. a vaccination is available for this disease. it was really hard on my kids, and me. they produced about 25 poopy diapers a day between them and my son also vomited a great deal. my son lost a few pounds and was weak for a few weeks. it took about a month for them to get back to normal. i worked very hard to replenish the fluid loss and to keep them comfortable during that time. they recovered, my son gained the weight back very quickly, and they have been normal ever since. at the time, he was about 2 1/2 and my daughter was 8 months old. they survived and i even feel that it strengthened both of their systems. this experience strengthened my resolve regarding the lack of necessity for vaccinations for healthy children. the only vax we seriously considered was the one for meningitis. ultimately we decided against it. but many parents that i know who abstain almost entirely from vaxes still seriously consider that one. i don't know if this will be helpful for you or not. as to the question of whether you're making the right decision, only you can know that for yourself. you know your children, you know your lifestyle, you can probably assess your risk pretty well. my children are now 3 and almost 18 months and i never worry about them not being vaccinated anymore. almost all of those diseases would primarily be a serious risk in infancy. luckily, most of us keep our infants close to home during the period of strongest risk (not only risk of those diseases, but of colds, RSV, etc.). good luck with your choice. chandelle On Wed, Apr 23, 2008 at 2:49 PM, lilbludaisy <lilbludaisies wrote: > Hi all! > > I don't know if this has been discussed before or not, but I am > SOOOOOO confused about immunizations, vaccinations, etc. I have read > the basis of both views (being immunized or not) and I still do not > know what to believe. Can anyone give me some input on the subject? > I spoke with my chiropractor about it and none of his kids are > immunized. He was telling me about how they are bred and grown as > well as some of the ingredients in them. I was disgusted! Then > there are the views I have been reading from Babytalk, Parenting, > Parents, and Wonder Time (I know, I should be subscribing to > Mothering-Natural Family Living instead, which is on my list of > thyings to do, lol) and they keep reassuring the reader that all this > talk aagainst immunizations is bull. My son is 15 months old and has > not been immunized yet due to the fact that obviously I was leaning > more toward being against it. Am I making the right decision? What > if their is an outbreak of measles or small pox or whatever else they > got vaccinations for these days? I don't know what to think and it > worries me. Thanks for your help! I've learned so much already from > reading all your posts. I appreciate it! > > Jamie > > > -- " religion is not based on evidence. if it were, it would be called science, and no one would believe in it. " ~stephen colbert Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 24, 2008 Report Share Posted April 24, 2008 The whole vaccination question is so difficult. All of our three girls have been vaccinated because it is required by the schools. They have all been fine with really no reactions to them. But still I feel so much guilt over it - not knowing if I'm doing the right thing. My youngest just had her six months shots last week and my middle daughter had her last 4/5 year old shots. I did ask the doctor once about mercury in the shots and he told me that they don't have mercury in them anymore and then gave me a bunch of info on them. He was nice enough, but maybe seemed slightly annoyed. I guess I just don't feel like I have much choice. Maybe it would be different if I were homeschooling the girls. Jill , Susan Williams <virgo.vegan wrote: > > Jamie, > > We do not vaccinate because I believe true to my heart and soul that > they are more harm than good. In response to your question about > what if there is an outbreak of measles, small pox, etc. > Vaccinations do not guarantee that your child will not get the > disease. And most vaccinations " wear-off " so to speak, which is why > you have to repeatedly get certain vax. > > It is good that you are doing research because no one can make this > decision for you. You have to go with what you think is protecting > your child. Have you read the articles and information on > www.nvic.org? It is a great resource. What helped us make the > decision was also comparing the number of vaccine related injuries > and deaths as reported by the CDC to the number of hospitalizations > or deaths from the diseases with vax. When we did our comparison, > there were only 3 deaths from the actual illnesses (over a 1 year > period), and there were over 60,000 reports of injuries, and over > 1,000 reports of death from the CDC after vax (over that same one > year period). The CDC puts a disclaimer that there is no proof that > the death or injury is caused by the vax - there is no " proof, " but > they are required to track it. What was the clincher for us was when > my son was 6 mos old, DH came home from work and told me that one of > his coworkers nephew (also 6 mos) had died 2 days ago and it was > within 24 hours of getting the standard 6 mos vaccines. > > Also, most of the magazines you are reading are completely funded by > the advertisers - who are predominately pharmaceutical companies and > formula companies (which many formulas are actually created by > pharmaceutical companies.) Those magazines would go out of business > if they lost the advertising dollars from someone like abbot labs, or > merck or any other company that make vax or formula. > > HTH > ~Susan > > > On Apr 23, 2008, at 4:49 PM, lilbludaisy wrote: > > > Am I making the right decision? What > > if their is an outbreak of measles or small pox or whatever else they > > got vaccinations for these days? I don't know what to think and it > > worries me. > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 24, 2008 Report Share Posted April 24, 2008 Hi Jamie, I have a 12 year now. Like you, I read everything I could about vaccines and had endless conversations with our family doctors. Based partly on something written by Andrew Weil, we choose to vaccinate. We started late, did one shot at a time, had special ordered (not always covered by insurance) preservative free vaccines, and skipped chicken pox. Fortunately, we have a healthy kid with a normal immune system; if we did not, we may have gone a different route. Now we are going back and forth on Gardasil (the HPV vaccine). Robin lilbludaisy <lilbludaisies wrote: Hi all! I don't know if this has been discussed before or not, but I am SOOOOOO confused about immunizations, vaccinations, etc. I have read the basis of both views (being immunized or not) and I still do not know what to believe. Can anyone give me some input on the subject? I spoke with my chiropractor about it and none of his kids are immunized. He was telling me about how they are bred and grown as well as some of the ingredients in them. I was disgusted! Then there are the views I have been reading from Babytalk, Parenting, Parents, and Wonder Time (I know, I should be subscribing to Mothering-Natural Family Living instead, which is on my list of thyings to do, lol) and they keep reassuring the reader that all this talk aagainst immunizations is bull. My son is 15 months old and has not been immunized yet due to the fact that obviously I was leaning more toward being against it. Am I making the right decision? What if their is an outbreak of measles or small pox or whatever else they got vaccinations for these days? I don't know what to think and it worries me. Thanks for your help! I've learned so much already from reading all your posts. I appreciate it! Jamie Be a better friend, newshound, and know-it-all with Mobile. Try it now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 24, 2008 Report Share Posted April 24, 2008 jill, just so you know, almost every state has exemptions for vaccinations. http://www.nvic.org/state-site/state-exemptions.htm On Thu, Apr 24, 2008 at 9:18 AM, jillben2008 <jillben2008 wrote: > The whole vaccination question is so difficult. All of our three > girls have been vaccinated because it is required by the schools. > They have all been fine with really no reactions to them. But still I > feel so much guilt over it - not knowing if I'm doing the right > thing. My youngest just had her six months shots last week and my > middle daughter had her last 4/5 year old shots. > I did ask the doctor once about mercury in the shots and he told me > that they don't have mercury in them anymore and then gave me a bunch > of info on them. He was nice enough, but maybe seemed slightly > annoyed. > I guess I just don't feel like I have much choice. Maybe it would be > different if I were homeschooling the girls. > > Jill > > <%40>, Susan > Williams <virgo.vegan > wrote: > > > > > Jamie, > > > > We do not vaccinate because I believe true to my heart and soul > that > > they are more harm than good. In response to your question about > > what if there is an outbreak of measles, small pox, etc. > > Vaccinations do not guarantee that your child will not get the > > disease. And most vaccinations " wear-off " so to speak, which is > why > > you have to repeatedly get certain vax. > > > > It is good that you are doing research because no one can make > this > > decision for you. You have to go with what you think is > protecting > > your child. Have you read the articles and information on > > www.nvic.org? It is a great resource. What helped us make the > > decision was also comparing the number of vaccine related injuries > > and deaths as reported by the CDC to the number of > hospitalizations > > or deaths from the diseases with vax. When we did our comparison, > > there were only 3 deaths from the actual illnesses (over a 1 year > > period), and there were over 60,000 reports of injuries, and over > > 1,000 reports of death from the CDC after vax (over that same one > > year period). The CDC puts a disclaimer that there is no proof > that > > the death or injury is caused by the vax - there is no " proof, " > but > > they are required to track it. What was the clincher for us was > when > > my son was 6 mos old, DH came home from work and told me that one > of > > his coworkers nephew (also 6 mos) had died 2 days ago and it was > > within 24 hours of getting the standard 6 mos vaccines. > > > > Also, most of the magazines you are reading are completely funded > by > > the advertisers - who are predominately pharmaceutical companies > and > > formula companies (which many formulas are actually created by > > pharmaceutical companies.) Those magazines would go out of > business > > if they lost the advertising dollars from someone like abbot labs, > or > > merck or any other company that make vax or formula. > > > > HTH > > ~Susan > > > > > > On Apr 23, 2008, at 4:49 PM, lilbludaisy wrote: > > > > > Am I making the right decision? What > > > if their is an outbreak of measles or small pox or whatever else > they > > > got vaccinations for these days? I don't know what to think and it > > > worries me. > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 24, 2008 Report Share Posted April 24, 2008 It depends on what you believe. Some people believe in Pasteur's work - called Germ Theory - that germs are standing right outside your body just waiting for their chance to get in. They'll get us one way or another. Others, myself included, give more credence to Bechamp's work - cellular theory - that the human body is strong and resilient and generally able to fight off or recover from just about everything in nature provided it is already operating at optimal health. We have chosen not to vaccinate for this reason, as well as where vaccines come from and a general distrust of the regulating agencies. My daughter was breastfed for 26 months, never had formula, didn't start solids until after 6 months, eats a whole foods diet, and has not been in a childcare setting. All of these things also factored into our decision.I don't know how much info you want, but you can order a back issue of Mothering that addresses some of our concerns. Many vaccines are fast-tracked for FDA approval, only to be pulled a few years later when trouble is discovered. Check out the link below for more info on Pasteur vs Bechamp. http://www.newtreatments.org/doc.php/WisdomExperience/81 As long as you feel like you are fully informed, there is not a right or wrong answer. Many families choose to wait and /or space vaccines out until the immune system is more mature. In Japan, children do not receive their first immunizations until after age 2. I was born in 1975, and I got 7 shots before the age of 2. Sme were the traditional cocktails - DPT, MMR, etc, but none of the super vaccines they use now. My daughter was born in 2006, and if I had followed the CDC recommendations, she would have had 22 shots by now. I think others (Rotavirus & Hep A) have been added to the mix since she was born. Many of the things a child would be at risk for as far as an outbreak at school - Measles, Mumps, Chickenpox - are normal childhood illnesses that are relatively mild and do not often have complications. Complications are severe, though and can include encephalitis, meningitis, and death. Check out http://www.amazon.com/What-Doctor-About-Childrens-Vaccinations/dp/0446677078 and http://www.amazon.com/Evidence-Harm-Vaccines-Epidemic-Controversy/dp/B00150D6M8/\ ref=pd_sim_b_img_4 and http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0316017507/ref=pd_cp_b_1?pf_rd_p=317711001 & pf_r\ d_s=center-41 & pf_rd_t=201 & pf_rd_i=B00150D6M8 & pf_rd_m=ATVPDKIKX0DER & pf_rd_r=163BD\ KARSW97W5N8AF5Dand http://www.amazon.com/Raise-Healthy-Child-Spite-Doctor/dp/0345342763/ref=pd_sim_\ b_img_4 and of course my favorite, Disease Proof Your Child by Dr. Joel Fuhrman. Good luck! Liz lilbludaisy <lilbludaisies Wednesday, April 23, 2008 1:49:39 PM Vaccinations and Immunizations... Hi all! I don't know if this has been discussed before or not, but I am SOOOOOO confused about immunizations, vaccinations, etc. I have read the basis of both views (being immunized or not) and I still do not know what to believe. Can anyone give me some input on the subject? I spoke with my chiropractor about it and none of his kids are immunized. He was telling me about how they are bred and grown as well as some of the ingredients in them. I was disgusted! Then there are the views I have been reading from Babytalk, Parenting, Parents, and Wonder Time (I know, I should be subscribing to Mothering-Natural Family Living instead, which is on my list of thyings to do, lol) and they keep reassuring the reader that all this talk aagainst immunizations is bull. My son is 15 months old and has not been immunized yet due to the fact that obviously I was leaning more toward being against it. Am I making the right decision? What if their is an outbreak of measles or small pox or whatever else they got vaccinations for these days? I don't know what to think and it worries me. Thanks for your help! I've learned so much already from reading all your posts. I appreciate it! Jamie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 24, 2008 Report Share Posted April 24, 2008 Jill, You do have a choice - every state has some sort of exemption (medical, philosophical or religious). Just check your state requirements. Our son is in a private daycare that honors the state exemptions (public schools have to honor exemptions, but private sector can choose to honor exemptions.) We have a religious exemption - and the state does not have the right to ask for proof of your religion or the tenant that says you should not vax. You may want to check out this site for more information: http:// www.nvic.org/state-site/state-exemptions.htm ~Susan On Apr 24, 2008, at 11:18 AM, jillben2008 wrote: > I guess I just don't feel like I have much choice. Maybe it would be > different if I were homeschooling the girls. > > Jill Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 24, 2008 Report Share Posted April 24, 2008 I don't want to get into this unsolvable debate, but I'll play " devil's advocate " just to be fair since I don't think it's an all or nothing decision- >there were only 3 deaths from the actual illnesses (over a 1 year >period) this is most likely because so many millions are vaccinated and so they do not get or pass on the disease- not because these diseases are not life threatening to babies and young children. Those that are not vaccinated often benefit from the fact that they are usually surrounded by children/society that are vaccinated. >over 60,000 reports of injuries, and over 1,000 reports of death from the CDC after vax Not to dismiss the possibility that real harm has occurred to some children, " injuries " may include relatively benign events that just happen to occur afterwards and may or may not be caused by it, but get recorded none the less. injuries could include headaches, rashes, whelts, fever, vomiting etc. some of which may be totally unrelated - but the timing is suspicious. likewise, it is a tragedy when a baby dies, but sometimes it occurs for other unknown reasons that may or may not be linked to a vacc. But again, the timing is suspicious and it's easy to conclude a link when one has not been definitively made. It is my understanding that the rate of autism has not declined since thimerasol was removed from vacc's, as would have been expected if there was a definite link. Regardless, it's always a good idea to remove mercury from our immediate environment. The age that children are vacc is often for public health reasons, not for individual benefits. Some of the vacc's are for childhood diseases and you may or may not choose any or all for your baby, whether newborn or prior to more social exposure as an older baby. Some parents wait until their children are older and space out immunizations over a longer period of time so as not to overwhelm their immune systems at a young age or in a short time. Hepatitis B is sexually transmitted and for the convenience of the public health prevention efforts they " catch em while you can " when they are babies because most parents/doctors would forget to do it in adolescence/teen years. D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 24, 2008 Report Share Posted April 24, 2008 My grandmother came to live with our family in 1980 when she could no longer take care of herself. She had managed to raise 6 kids without being able to walk. But the older she got the harder it was to manage. She got this horrible disease (polio) as a baby and had to live her life without being able to walk. As a child I got to see my grandmother live with the effects of a disease that there were no vaccinations against in 1907 when she contracted polio. I've always been pro-vaccination. Now I don't think that things like flu shots are neccessary. But for crippling and life-threatening illness I absolutely want my child protected. Renee Jacqueline Bodnar <jb wrote: Hi Jamie, Vaccinations are a confusing topic... I can understand parents going either way with it. I was really on the fence before we had our daughter. When she was born I asked the pediatrician about it. His response was that most people that don't vaccinate have never seen a child die from something that could have been prevented with a vaccine. He said he has seen it happen and said that the benefits far outweigh any risks. So we chose to vaccinate and we have now with both children. I can say that I am still not comfortable with it and sometimes still question whether I should do it. I continue to do it because I feel like if they got something life-threatening that could have been prevented that I would never forgive myself for not vaccinating. But I am very much against how many shots they give kids today and I think that more independent studies need to be done to see if any ingredients are harming the kids. I do vaccinate, but cringe every time and completely understand why some parents do. It's a tough call, we all want what is best for our kids and I don't think there is a right or wrong answer on this topic. It's what you can live with... I live with my decision, but I'm not that comfortable with it. But I don't know how comfortable I'd be with the alternative, especially if they got something... ugh. When it comes down to it I would say I'm more against vaccinations than for them. But I still give them to the kids simply because of what that pediatrician said that sticks in my brain. :-) Jacqueline Be a better friend, newshound, and know-it-all with Mobile. Try it now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 24, 2008 Report Share Posted April 24, 2008 Jamie, I too questioned vaccinations and what they are all about. I started looking after my one-year-old had her first set of shots. There was just something about the idea that did not sit right in my stomach. Then of course I saw Jenny McArthy on Oprah and that reaffirmed that I needed to do some research. There was one book that I read that totally broke everything down and that I recommend reading. It really depends on your belief system whether or not you would like to read this book. The author is a Christian and literally goes back to the way that God created our bodies and shows why we do not need vaccinations. God would not have created a body to only halfway protect us. The author, Michael Dye, is part of a group called Hallelujah Acres and they are extreme vegan. They base their diet on Genesis and how God created us to eat in the garden before sin. The book is called " Vaccinations: Deception and Tragedy. " If you really are feeding your child a vegetarian or vegan diet, they are sooo much healthier than most children and their bodies are functioning without all that crap they put in processed foods and meats and dairy. It basically breaks down to cell formation. The book is amazing and easy to read. You are making the most amazing decision for your children and their health. There is no point is spending all of that time and money in making sure there are no chemicals in your families food and then turning around and injecting them with it at the doctor. A huge percentage of what doctor's make comes from vaccinating, so they are of course going to push you to do that. If you even read the label on the container the vaccines comes in, it states all of the side effects and doctors won't even tell you about it. And there definently are exemptions in all states except two. You would need to look for your personal state. I hope that this helps. It definently is a touchy subject for some people but you are doing the right thing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 24, 2008 Report Share Posted April 24, 2008 Hi, My name is Hannah. Kudos for taking this decision making into your own hands--and for following through with actually trying to make a good one! I have one son who I have not vaccinated (he did actually get a couple shots once, and now I forget what they were, but they were not his complete shots for his age, nor did we ever do the follow-up shots if there were any)...When my sister was almost two years old in the early nineties, and too young for the vaccine, she did nearly die of measles, which has made my mother, a midwife, very in favor of vaccines, and you might think it would make me in favor as well. I am not adamantly opposed to vaccines, I genuinely think that they have significantly contributed to the decline in communicable illnesses in this country--and I'm extremely grateful for their availability. I think that in a sense there is no right or wrong answer on this, and we all must make are own choice. My son is three and at some point I may reconsider getting him vaccinated. But as of right now I feel very comfortable not vaccinating him for the main reason that he still breastfeeds. Honestly, I think that if your child does not breastfeed, you really should get them vaccinated, because the risks for getting a disease are higher, and your means of preventing the disease, comforting and healing your child if they get it, are greatly diminished. Also, my son is with me through most hours of every day, therefore he has fewer opportunities to pick up anything than other kids might--we do on the other hand use public transportation extensively, and thus have more exposure than many kids do. Also with my son I try to not be too germ-phobic--I want him to have as tough of an immune system as possible, and so my motto when it comes to his exposure to germs is practically that if it doesn't kill him, it will make him stronger. So, while we wash our food, and avoid the bathroom as a playroom, I don't freak out about stuff, and I don't wash anything with bleach. I do think that on the plus side vaccines work in harmony with our immune systems (although others would contest this)--which is that if our bodies get a small amount of a disease, they learn how to identify, contain and treat it before it multiplies to overwhelming proportions. I think that in making your decision look at the evidence, as other people have suggested, consider the actually effectiveness of the vaccines, the harm they have done. Consider the evidence as it applies to everyone, and then consider the risks and benefits as they apply to your individual family and lifestyle--which includes things like I said--do you practice extended breastfeeding, do your kids have opportunities to breastfeed throughout the day, or only once per day, do your kids have a lot of opportunities for exposure (although it may just take one person to make your whole family sick), does your family have a history or autism or other sensitivity to vaccines (I mean it's speculation--but maybe people who got autism from the vaccines got it because the mercury or the other ingredients in the vaccine (perhaps the combination of Measles Mumps and Rubella being together is disastrous) triggered a dormant predisposition--also I think boys have more autism related vaccine responses than girls)? Do you travel outside of the country regularly? I think once the decision has been made, one way or the other, it's not necessarily cut and dry. If you choose not to vaccine--there are safer ways to do it than others--like breastfeeding, maximizing exposure to safe germs, having a healthy lifestyle (diet and exercise) and so forth, and reconsidering the decision as your lifestyles change. If you lean towards vaccination, there are safer ways to do it than others--for example you can merely exclude the vaccines that contain the preservative mercury. Not all vaccines contain mercury, as I understand (but then you may want to question what they are using as a preservative instead). You may want to avoid the vaccines that are associated with autism or other risk factors, you can also delay vaccination. Perhaps as kids get older, their bodies can more easily handle the possible side affects (or can handle the diseases better). Aviva Jill Romm has a good book on vaccines. If you do an Amazon.com search you can find other titles. Also a side note--I am vaccinated and have no aversion to getting myself vaccinated because I have a personal history of not responding badly to vaccines. Another thing is that while at three years old my son has had an almost entirely healthy childhood, he did get a cold once, and he even got croup once. I sometimes ask myself if breastfeeding/his natural immunity did not protect from these things, how will they protect him in the face of more danger? I think for one think you should not look at all vaccines a equal--they each have risk factors and benefits--and do not look at all potential vaccine recipients as equal--we each have our unique strengths and vulnerabilities. And then from here you just have to look deep into your heart and dare I say pray that you are making the right decision. I hope this was helpful! -Hannah : jb: Thu, 24 Apr 2008 09:07:08 -0700RE: Vaccinations and Immunizations... Hi Jamie,Vaccinations are a confusing topic... I can understand parents goingeither way with it. I was really on the fence before we had ourdaughter. When she was born I asked the pediatrician about it. Hisresponse was that most people that don't vaccinate have never seen achild die from something that could have been prevented with a vaccine.He said he has seen it happen and said that the benefits far outweighany risks. So we chose to vaccinate and we have now with both children.I can say that I am still not comfortable with it and sometimes stillquestion whether I should do it. I continue to do it because I feel likeif they got something life-threatening that could have been preventedthat I would never forgive myself for not vaccinating. But I am verymuch against how many shots they give kids today and I think that moreindependent studies need to be done to see if any ingredients areharming the kids. I do vaccinate, but cringe every time and completelyunderstand why some parents do. It's a tough call, we all want what isbest for our kids and I don't think there is a right or wrong answer onthis topic. It's what you can live with... I live with my decision, butI'm not that comfortable with it. But I don't know how comfortable I'dbe with the alternative, especially if they got something... ugh. Whenit comes down to it I would say I'm more against vaccinations than forthem. But I still give them to the kids simply because of what thatpediatrician said that sticks in my brain. :-)Jacqueline _______________ Back to work after baby–how do you know when you’re ready? http://lifestyle.msn.com/familyandparenting/articleNW.aspx?cp-documentid=5797498\ & ocid=T067MSN40A0701A Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 24, 2008 Report Share Posted April 24, 2008 Hi there, Not sure which state you live in but here in Va. in order to go to school my girls just had to have an immunization exemption form filled out by me. They only went to school for a little while and then we pulled them out to homeschool but they were completely legal in the system for a while:) Shari On 4/24/08, jillben2008 <jillben2008 wrote: > The whole vaccination question is so difficult. All of our three > girls have been vaccinated because it is required by the schools. > They have all been fine with really no reactions to them. But still I > feel so much guilt over it - not knowing if I'm doing the right > thing. My youngest just had her six months shots last week and my > middle daughter had her last 4/5 year old shots. > I did ask the doctor once about mercury in the shots and he told me > that they don't have mercury in them anymore and then gave me a bunch > of info on them. He was nice enough, but maybe seemed slightly > annoyed. > I guess I just don't feel like I have much choice. Maybe it would be > different if I were homeschooling the girls. > > Jill > > , Susan Williams <virgo.vegan > wrote: > > > > Jamie, > > > > We do not vaccinate because I believe true to my heart and soul > that > > they are more harm than good. In response to your question about > > what if there is an outbreak of measles, small pox, etc. > > Vaccinations do not guarantee that your child will not get the > > disease. And most vaccinations " wear-off " so to speak, which is > why > > you have to repeatedly get certain vax. > > > > It is good that you are doing research because no one can make > this > > decision for you. You have to go with what you think is > protecting > > your child. Have you read the articles and information on > > www.nvic.org? It is a great resource. What helped us make the > > decision was also comparing the number of vaccine related injuries > > and deaths as reported by the CDC to the number of > hospitalizations > > or deaths from the diseases with vax. When we did our comparison, > > there were only 3 deaths from the actual illnesses (over a 1 year > > period), and there were over 60,000 reports of injuries, and over > > 1,000 reports of death from the CDC after vax (over that same one > > year period). The CDC puts a disclaimer that there is no proof > that > > the death or injury is caused by the vax - there is no " proof, " > but > > they are required to track it. What was the clincher for us was > when > > my son was 6 mos old, DH came home from work and told me that one > of > > his coworkers nephew (also 6 mos) had died 2 days ago and it was > > within 24 hours of getting the standard 6 mos vaccines. > > > > Also, most of the magazines you are reading are completely funded > by > > the advertisers - who are predominately pharmaceutical companies > and > > formula companies (which many formulas are actually created by > > pharmaceutical companies.) Those magazines would go out of > business > > if they lost the advertising dollars from someone like abbot labs, > or > > merck or any other company that make vax or formula. > > > > HTH > > ~Susan > > > > > > On Apr 23, 2008, at 4:49 PM, lilbludaisy wrote: > > > > > Am I making the right decision? What > > > if their is an outbreak of measles or small pox or whatever else > they > > > got vaccinations for these days? I don't know what to think and it > > > worries me. > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 24, 2008 Report Share Posted April 24, 2008 Bobby Kennedy jr. is (among other things) and activist on this issue. Here is a link to a great article that he could only get published in Rolling Stone: http://www.rollingstone.com/politics/story/7395411/deadly_immunity/ danitamark wrote: I don't want to get into this unsolvable debate, but I'll play " devil's advocate " just to be fair since I don't think it's an all or nothing decision- >there were only 3 deaths from the actual illnesses (over a 1 year >period) this is most likely because so many millions are vaccinated and so they do not get or pass on the disease- not because these diseases are not life threatening to babies and young children. Those that are not vaccinated often benefit from the fact that they are usually surrounded by children/society that are vaccinated. >over 60,000 reports of injuries, and over 1,000 reports of death from the CDC after vax Not to dismiss the possibility that real harm has occurred to some children, " injuries " may include relatively benign events that just happen to occur afterwards and may or may not be caused by it, but get recorded none the less. injuries could include headaches, rashes, whelts, fever, vomiting etc. some of which may be totally unrelated - but the timing is suspicious. likewise, it is a tragedy when a baby dies, but sometimes it occurs for other unknown reasons that may or may not be linked to a vacc. But again, the timing is suspicious and it's easy to conclude a link when one has not been definitively made. It is my understanding that the rate of autism has not declined since thimerasol was removed from vacc's, as would have been expected if there was a definite link. Regardless, it's always a good idea to remove mercury from our immediate environment. The age that children are vacc is often for public health reasons, not for individual benefits. Some of the vacc's are for childhood diseases and you may or may not choose any or all for your baby, whether newborn or prior to more social exposure as an older baby. Some parents wait until their children are older and space out immunizations over a longer period of time so as not to overwhelm their immune systems at a young age or in a short time. Hepatitis B is sexually transmitted and for the convenience of the public health prevention efforts they " catch em while you can " when they are babies because most parents/doctors would forget to do it in adolescence/teen years. D Be a better friend, newshound, and know-it-all with Mobile. Try it now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 24, 2008 Report Share Posted April 24, 2008 WV and Mississippi even have medical exemptions - they are the only two that do not honor religious exemption. ~Susan On Apr 24, 2008, at 1:32 PM, cdstalling1 wrote: > And there definently are exemptions in all states except two. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 24, 2008 Report Share Posted April 24, 2008 Thanks for sharing this - I had not read it before. But it's not like mercury is the only toxic substance in these vax. If someone told me what was in it and then asked me to swallow it in some medicine syrup, I would gladly decline. Someone also posted that they can't get the ingredients from their doctor. If you do vax, you really should get the insert from the vial being injected into your child. There was a news story recently in my area about doctors still having vax that have thermisol/mercury. The manufacturers don't put it in the new vax, but there are still vax on the shelves and in doctors offices that do have mercury. The mercury vax were never recalled so a doctor has the right to use that vax as long as it is not expired. .. ~Susan On Apr 24, 2008, at 2:50 PM, robin koloms wrote: > Bobby Kennedy jr. is (among other things) and activist on this > issue. Here is a link to a great article that he could only get > published in Rolling Stone:http://www.rollingstone.com/politics/ > story/7395411/deadly_immunity/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 24, 2008 Report Share Posted April 24, 2008 Hi Jamie! This is indeed a touchy subject! I've also been wondering what others on this group do as far as vaccinations, but was afraid of starting an argument! We don't vaccinate either of our girls. We made the decision before our first was born. At the time I thought to wait until she was 2 and then do the delay vaccinations. But the more research I did, the more convinced I was that it was not for me or my girls. But it is a personal decision and it is hard to come to! This site was the clincher for me: http://www.909shot.com/Vaccine%20Excipients%20CDC.pdf I just could not imagine putting those chemicals and toxins into the body of my girls! And I'm not even talking about the mercury, I'm talking about the formmaldehyde, aluminum (linked to Alzheimers....and other neurological diseases), hydrochloric acid, etc... And as a vegan, the thought of them using monkey kidney tissues, chick embryos , chick kidney cells, bovine tissue, etc. to grow the vaccines....well, I couldn't justify that either. Also, I believe as a few others have said that our bodies are very resilient and we have an immune system for a reason! If we keep our kids as healthy as possible by feeding them whole foods, they will have a much better chance at fighting off anything that comes their way. Anyway, that's how I came to my decision. But as others have said it is an entirely personal decision. You just need to read and educate yourself to both sides of the issue and be able to live with whatever decision it is you make. Good Luck! Elizabeth On Wed, Apr 23, 2008 at 3:49 PM, lilbludaisy <lilbludaisies wrote: > Hi all! > > I don't know if this has been discussed before or not, but I am > SOOOOOO confused about immunizations, vaccinations, etc. I have read > the basis of both views (being immunized or not) and I still do not > know what to believe. Can anyone give me some input on the subject? > I spoke with my chiropractor about it and none of his kids are > immunized. He was telling me about how they are bred and grown as > well as some of the ingredients in them. I was disgusted! Then > there are the views I have been reading from Babytalk, Parenting, > Parents, and Wonder Time (I know, I should be subscribing to > Mothering-Natural Family Living instead, which is on my list of > thyings to do, lol) and they keep reassuring the reader that all this > talk aagainst immunizations is bull. My son is 15 months old and has > not been immunized yet due to the fact that obviously I was leaning > more toward being against it. Am I making the right decision? What > if their is an outbreak of measles or small pox or whatever else they > got vaccinations for these days? I don't know what to think and it > worries me. Thanks for your help! I've learned so much already from > reading all your posts. I appreciate it! > > Jamie > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 24, 2008 Report Share Posted April 24, 2008 Renee, I can't imagine having the challenges that your grandmother faced with all those children to raise. I have 2 friends that had polio, both have issues with walking and other things. They both did not vaccinate their children. I have chosen not to vaccinate as well. Each family comes to the decision with our own unique set of thoughts and feelings; and we all make this choice the best we can with our children in mind. Peace, Laura In a message dated 4/24/2008 2:59:59 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time, renecarol25 writes: My grandmother came to live with our family in 1980 when she could no longer take care of herself. She had managed to raise 6 kids without being able to walk. But the older she got the harder it was to manage. She got this horrible disease (polio) as a baby and had to live her life without being able to walk. As a child I got to see my grandmother live with the effects of a disease that there were no vaccinations against in 1907 when she contracted polio. I've always been pro-vaccination. Now I don't think that things like flu shots are neccessary. But for crippling and life-threatening illness I absolutely want my child protected. Renee **************Need a new ride? Check out the largest site for U.S. used car listings at AOL Autos. (http://autos.aol.com/used?NCID=aolcmp00300000002851) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 25, 2008 Report Share Posted April 25, 2008 Never let your child have a shot without reading the insert. One of our friend's kids was about to get an expired vaccine from his ped... Susan Williams <virgo.vegan wrote: Thanks for sharing this - I had not read it before. But it's not like mercury is the only toxic substance in these vax. If someone told me what was in it and then asked me to swallow it in some medicine syrup, I would gladly decline. Someone also posted that they can't get the ingredients from their doctor. If you do vax, you really should get the insert from the vial being injected into your child. There was a news story recently in my area about doctors still having vax that have thermisol/mercury. The manufacturers don't put it in the new vax, but there are still vax on the shelves and in doctors offices that do have mercury. The mercury vax were never recalled so a doctor has the right to use that vax as long as it is not expired. .. ~Susan On Apr 24, 2008, at 2:50 PM, robin koloms wrote: > Bobby Kennedy jr. is (among other things) and activist on this > issue. Here is a link to a great article that he could only get > published in Rolling Stone:http://www.rollingstone.com/politics/ > story/7395411/deadly_immunity/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 25, 2008 Report Share Posted April 25, 2008 Jamie, I think it is a great idea to reach out for information when making such a big decision in your family. I highly recommend the book by Dr. Feder, Childhood Vaccinations. You can find this on her website: http://www.drfeder.com/ My son is not vaccinated, and Dr. Feder, an MD, has not vaccinated her children. However, I do like her approach of identifying the vaccines, pros and cons as well as homeopathic alternatives for interim protection that can be used. I also like that if I change my mind and decide to vaccinate that Dr. Feder does offer thimerosal-free vaccines at her office. She is very committed to the fact that you make yourself aware of the pros and cons, so that your family can make an educated decision on what works best for you. If the decision is to vaccinate she wants to provide an environment where you can have access to the most risk-free vaccines that are available. (She also offers vaccine safety workshops if anyone is in the Southern CA area and is interested, they are posted on her website when available). Best wishes in making your decision. Paige _____ On Behalf Of lilbludaisy Wednesday, April 23, 2008 1:50 PM Vaccinations and Immunizations... Hi all! I don't know if this has been discussed before or not, but I am SOOOOOO confused about immunizations, vaccinations, etc. I have read the basis of both views (being immunized or not) and I still do not know what to believe. Can anyone give me some input on the subject? I spoke with my chiropractor about it and none of his kids are immunized. He was telling me about how they are bred and grown as well as some of the ingredients in them. I was disgusted! Then there are the views I have been reading from Babytalk, Parenting, Parents, and Wonder Time (I know, I should be subscribing to Mothering-Natural Family Living instead, which is on my list of thyings to do, lol) and they keep reassuring the reader that all this talk aagainst immunizations is bull. My son is 15 months old and has not been immunized yet due to the fact that obviously I was leaning more toward being against it. Am I making the right decision? What if their is an outbreak of measles or small pox or whatever else they got vaccinations for these days? I don't know what to think and it worries me. Thanks for your help! I've learned so much already from reading all your posts. I appreciate it! Jamie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 27, 2008 Report Share Posted April 27, 2008 I believe me mother told me about Hallelujah Acres. That's sounds so familiar...my parents are vegan as well...I would have to agree with you on the fact that God did create our bodies with immune systems to fight against those things which harm us. I never thought of it that way before. And, yes, my family does eat as healthy as vegetarians and as organic as we can get, so, yeah, that would boost what we need to fight against germs. I will definitely check that book out of the library. Thank you!! , " cdstalling1 " <cdstalling wrote: > > Jamie, > > I too questioned vaccinations and what they are all about. I started > looking after my one-year-old had her first set of shots. There was > just something about the idea that did not sit right in my stomach. > Then of course I saw Jenny McArthy on Oprah and that reaffirmed that > I needed to do some research. There was one book that I read that > totally broke everything down and that I recommend reading. It > really depends on your belief system whether or not you would like > to read this book. The author is a Christian and literally goes back > to the way that God created our bodies and shows why we do not need > vaccinations. God would not have created a body to only halfway > protect us. The author, Michael Dye, is part of a group called > Hallelujah Acres and they are extreme vegan. They base their diet on > Genesis and how God created us to eat in the garden before sin. The > book is called " Vaccinations: Deception and Tragedy. " If you really > are feeding your child a vegetarian or vegan diet, they are sooo > much healthier than most children and their bodies are functioning > without all that crap they put in processed foods and meats and > dairy. It basically breaks down to cell formation. The book is > amazing and easy to read. You are making the most amazing decision > for your children and their health. There is no point is spending > all of that time and money in making sure there are no chemicals in > your families food and then turning around and injecting them with > it at the doctor. A huge percentage of what doctor's make comes from > vaccinating, so they are of course going to push you to do that. If > you even read the label on the container the vaccines comes in, it > states all of the side effects and doctors won't even tell you about > it. And there definently are exemptions in all states except two. > You would need to look for your personal state. I hope that this > helps. It definently is a touchy subject for some people but you are > doing the right thing. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 27, 2008 Report Share Posted April 27, 2008 I just wanted to say a big THANK YOU to everyone for their input. I never knew I could cause such a buzz, lol...anyways, I'm glad I did. Your opinions and info have helped me greatly. I too think that their is probably no perfect decision as I have read in one of the posts and I breastfeed so that is a plus as well. Plus, eating a whole foods veg diet does give the body a boost, too. I'll be reading all the articles and links you guys put out and looking up those books that have been recommended. Please, if you have any more info or whatever you want to say, keep the posts coming regarding this topic. I wanna know as much as I can. Thanks again! Jamie , " lilbludaisy " <lilbludaisies wrote: > > Hi all! > > I don't know if this has been discussed before or not, but I am > SOOOOOO confused about immunizations, vaccinations, etc. I have read > the basis of both views (being immunized or not) and I still do not > know what to believe. Can anyone give me some input on the subject? > I spoke with my chiropractor about it and none of his kids are > immunized. He was telling me about how they are bred and grown as > well as some of the ingredients in them. I was disgusted! Then > there are the views I have been reading from Babytalk, Parenting, > Parents, and Wonder Time (I know, I should be subscribing to > Mothering-Natural Family Living instead, which is on my list of > thyings to do, lol) and they keep reassuring the reader that all this > talk aagainst immunizations is bull. My son is 15 months old and has > not been immunized yet due to the fact that obviously I was leaning > more toward being against it. Am I making the right decision? What > if their is an outbreak of measles or small pox or whatever else they > got vaccinations for these days? I don't know what to think and it > worries me. Thanks for your help! I've learned so much already from > reading all your posts. I appreciate it! > > Jamie > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 27, 2008 Report Share Posted April 27, 2008 >God did create our bodies with immune systems to >fight against those things which harm us. sorry, but I have to interject some food for thought.... God also created pathogenic organisms that are genetically programmed to reproduce and succeed at the expense of whatever host (human or otherwise) fits it's needs. God created the rabies virus and also dogs and other susceptible animals that bite. God also created those early pioneers who cleverly figured out how to expose healthy people to cow pox scabs from sick people to prevent small pox- a low tech vaccination process using their immune systems. Likewise, God created those minds that figured out the vaccine that can be given (after a bite) to prevent rabies- which is nearly always fatal in humans. vaccines mimic our own natural reaction to pathogens in a less risky way as far as disease transmission- but to benefit the most people, there has to be preservatives added when the vaccines are produced- which adds another set of risks. to my mind, the goal should be not to get rid of all vaccines but to create the safest vaccines as possible for those that choose to utilize certain ones. I strongly believe that a healthy vegan diet is key to a strong immune system but I also know that with air travel, mobile society and widespread antibiotics and pesiticide use, air/water pollution, we are exposed to pathogens and chemicals that are way beyond what our immune systems would " normally " encounter. Peace, Danita Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 30, 2008 Report Share Posted April 30, 2008 , " lilbludaisy " <lilbludaisies wrote: > Please, if you have any more > info or whatever you want to say, keep the posts coming regarding > this topic. I wanna know as much as I can. > > Thanks again! > Jamie > A friend loaned me this book - Murder By Injection—The Story Of The Medical Conspiracy Against America, Eustace Mullins - if you can get a copy, I strongly suggest you read it as part of your research while you try to sort out this issue for your family. The thing that gave me an " Ah Ha! " moment was this: Another practitioner, Dr. W. B. Clarke of Indiana, finds that " Cancer was practically unknown until compulsory vaccination with cowpox vaccine began to be introduced. I have had to deal with at least two hundred cases of cancer, and I never saw a case of cancer in an unvaccinated person. " Just something else to think about... Susan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 30, 2008 Report Share Posted April 30, 2008 The Industrial Revolution brought a drastic increase in airborne pollutants; I would think that this contributed to cancer rates. Susan <virgo.vegan wrote: , " lilbludaisy " <lilbludaisies wrote: > Please, if you have any more > info or whatever you want to say, keep the posts coming regarding > this topic. I wanna know as much as I can. > > Thanks again! > Jamie > A friend loaned me this book - Murder By Injection—The Story Of The Medical Conspiracy Against America, Eustace Mullins - if you can get a copy, I strongly suggest you read it as part of your research while you try to sort out this issue for your family. The thing that gave me an " Ah Ha! " moment was this: Another practitioner, Dr. W. B. Clarke of Indiana, finds that " Cancer was practically unknown until compulsory vaccination with cowpox vaccine began to be introduced. I have had to deal with at least two hundred cases of cancer, and I never saw a case of cancer in an unvaccinated person. " Just something else to think about... Susan Be a better friend, newshound, and know-it-all with Mobile. Try it now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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