selecting spouse OT

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What a neat idea Donna. I really like that.

Judy

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Donnalilacflower

Friday, September 22, 2006 11:40 PM

selecting spouse OT

 

 

I don't think a parent has too much control over

affairs of the heart. I know it's best to try and

talk on the same level, maybe draw their attention to

things you might see as an outsider. Life is a big

lesson and if you demand believe me you will push your

loved one away and they will because very stubborn. I

think it's good to suggest they take a paper and fold

in half, write 15 wonderful things about this person

they want to spend their life with and write 15 things

you truthfully see wrong or find negative. It really

makes you stop and think. I did this 2 years ago with

someone, the paper had 5 positive and 20 negative, It

was goodbye to that one. I sometimes think it's human

nature to pick out the good and tolerate the negative.

Donna

 

--- judgesqueen <sheyen.goble wrote:

 

> LOL, I am a few days behind, our computer crashed

> and hubby finally

> got new stuff today. I am not going to agree with

> parents

> *choosing* your spouse, but see my mother pretty

> much hates my

> husband, and has told him that she could take me

> away from him. So

> there are times when parents are not doing the best

> for their

> children, but what they want. It is sad, but there

> are parents out

> there like that.

> Sheyen

 

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