Guest guest Posted December 29, 2008 Report Share Posted December 29, 2008 It is the worst/MOST DIFFICULT habit to break ! those craving just pop out of no where lol in the morning while having coffee, after dinner with a glass of wine etc. It's still difficult for me esp when you still have a smoker in the family (my daughter's mother in law) She just found out she has to have a biopsy done on New Years Eve cos they found a spot in her Lung. I see her Christmas day...running outside to have a cigarette. I really feel for her, I know she's very worried but I guess the craving just takes over if you don't have the will power...you have want to quit... So happy you did Donna Linda _thelilacflower_ (thelilacflower) writes: Cigarettes! That was the worst habit to break. I don't smoke cigarettes anymore. Yay! I'm not going to ever call myself a non-smoker, I'm a recovered smoker. Who knows what the future holds, those are a day by day struggle. It's been about 10 years and I still crave them. Donna **************One site keeps you connected to all your email: AOL Mail, Gmail, and Mail. Try it now. (http://www.aol.com/?optin=new-dp & icid=aolcom40vanity & ncid=emlcntaolcom00000025) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 29, 2008 Report Share Posted December 29, 2008 Wow 5 packs a day ! I thought I was bad with 2 packs...thank goodness that is behind us now. I cringe when I see people gathered outside of their work smoking together, I think to myself that use to be me ! eeekkkk! LOL " Sugar " is my struggle at the moment...Salty stuff I loved but I had to give it up my fingers get so swollen and Doctor's order. I'm fine now that I given up salt along with Chocolate, my weakness lol I have a very sensitive stomach now. I love rice, I eat it with almost every meal ( may be my problem) being Japanese it's something you don't even leave out in any meal LOL I just can't get the hang of brown rice. Linda Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 29, 2008 Report Share Posted December 29, 2008 Hang it there girl ! We can do it ! It took too much for me to finally quit and I really don't want to go through it again ! Man ! did it take a toll on my personality LOL they called me the " monster " I was a grumpy old fart LOL We should have a support group for ex smokers LOL j/k Ok...recipes please Linda lol _thelilacflower_ (thelilacflower) writes: I do feel I quit for good this time but you never know. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 29, 2008 Report Share Posted December 29, 2008 Well I did quit for 10 years and started back for 4 years and now it's 10 years off them again. I do feel I quit for good this time but you never know. I know the benefits of not smoking and I just have to talk to myself about it. Now sugar is another thing...LOL I do have that in control. That's another life long struggle. Oh and potato chips. Donna --- On Mon, 12/29/08, zeni11 <zeni11 wrote: zeni11 <zeni11 Re: Linda cigarettes Monday, December 29, 2008, 10:22 AM It is the worst/MOST DIFFICULT habit to break ! those craving just pop out of no where lol in the morning while having coffee, after dinner with a glass of wine etc. It's still difficult for me esp when you still have a smoker in the family (my daughter's mother in law) She just found out she has to have a biopsy done on New Years Eve cos they found a spot in her Lung. I see her Christmas day...running outside to have a cigarette. I really feel for her, I know she's very worried but I guess the craving just takes over if you don't have the will power...you have want to quit... So happy you did Donna Linda _thelilacflower@ _ (thelilacflower@ ) writes: Cigarettes! That was the worst habit to break. I don't smoke cigarettes anymore. Yay! I'm not going to ever call myself a non-smoker, I'm a recovered smoker. Who knows what the future holds, those are a day by day struggle. It's been about 10 years and I still crave them. Donna ************ **One site keeps you connected to all your email: AOL Mail, Gmail, and Mail. Try it now. (http://www.aol. com/?optin= new-dp & icid= aolcom40vanity & ncid=emlcntaolco m00000025) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 29, 2008 Report Share Posted December 29, 2008 I stopped smoking in 98 and haven't even wanted one since and can be around smokers with no problem. I smoked 5 packs per day and quit cold turkey. You are right, Donna. Sugar is another thing, but all my vitals are like a 20 year old, so I am not changing the sugar part. I do consume 5 pounds per month. I gave up salty things like chips after my accident. I just don't love them anymore. I will have some occasionally, but not often. Now, rice!!! That is my downfall!!! I love rice for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. I am about to make soup using brown rice I cooked yesterday and a bunch of vegetables and vegetable stock and then I will get into my spice cabinet!!! M On 12/29/08, Donnalilacflower <thelilacflower wrote: > > Well I did quit for 10 years and started back for 4 years and now it's 10 > years off them again. I do feel I quit for good this time but you never > know. > I know the benefits of not smoking and I just have to talk to myself about > it. > Now sugar is another thing...LOL I do have that in control. That's > another life long struggle. Oh and potato chips. > Donna > > --- On Mon, 12/29/08, zeni11 <zeni11 wrote: > > > zeni11 <zeni11 > Re: Linda cigarettes > > Monday, December 29, 2008, 10:22 AM > It is the worst/MOST DIFFICULT habit to break ! those craving just pop out > of no where lol in the morning while having coffee, after dinner with a > glass > of wine etc. It's still difficult for me esp when you still have a smoker > in the family (my daughter's mother in law) She just found out she has to > have a biopsy done on New Years Eve cos they found a spot in her Lung. I > see > her Christmas day...running outside to have a cigarette. I really feel for > her, I know she's very worried but I guess the craving just takes over if > you > don't have the will power...you have want to quit... > So happy you did Donna > Linda > > _thelilacflower@ _ (thelilacflower@ ) writes: > > Cigarettes! That was the worst habit to break. I don't smoke cigarettes > anymore. Yay! I'm not going to ever call myself a non-smoker, I'm a > recovered > smoker. Who knows what the future holds, those are a day by day struggle. > It's been about 10 years and I still crave them. > Donna > > ************ **One site keeps you connected to all your email: AOL Mail, > Gmail, and Mail. Try it now. > (http://www.aol. com/?optin= new-dp & icid= aolcom40vanity & ncid=emlcntaolco > m00000025) > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 29, 2008 Report Share Posted December 29, 2008 Hi Linda...... I am so glad for you and for your family that you made that very hard decision to give up tobacco. While I have never smoked, I lost my mother, father, and a very favorite aunt and uncle to lung cancer. My mom was only 58 and my Uncle Lewis was only 62. When I was in classes to become an Emergency Medical Technician-Intermediate level, we discused drugs and their usage many times. One of the things I learned is that nicotine is MORE addictive than heroin......that is worth repeating........NICOTINE IS MORE ADDICTIVE THAN HEROIN. Most smokers don't know that.....and they don't usually know it for sure before they smoke that first cigarette. My parents were both life-long smokers. My mom started smoking at 18 (that was a cool thing to do in 1944) and my dad at EIGHT years of age (who on earth knows why...he couldn't even remember why). My mother tried and tried to quit....for years and years. I saw her struggle with it. She was diligent about having check-ups. She had a full check up in October of 1983.....nothing was spotted on her lungs. She started coughing a lot by late December of 1983 and made another appointment with her doctor. A small dime size spot was found no the upper lobe of her right lung. The doctor recommended waiting for a month or two. She waited one month and went back....the spot was still there and the doctor wanted to wait another month. She didn't wait.....she found another doctor immediately. Then the new lung specialist did a biopsy of the center lymph nodes in her chest and they were postive. She was diagnosed with inoperable lung cancer in March of 1984.....and she never smoked another cigarette but by then, of course, it was just too late. (I hate all tobacco products.) She underwent chemo and radiation almost up to her death on September 18th. The cancer metastsized to her brain causing three brain tumors. Her oncologist at Baylor Medical Center in Dallas told me that the dime size tumor, that started it all, had probably been on her lung for at least 10 years but was so small it did not show up until something triggered it's growth in November or December. My sweet, precious mom lived 5 months and 22 days after the cancer diagnoses. I held my mom in my arms as she took her last breaths. Trust me....dying is not like they show in the movies. Until December 5th when my 21 year old granddaughter was killed in car accident, holding and watching my Mom die, while I could do nothing to help her (I wanted so badly to give her the very breath from my body) were the worst minutes of my entire life. After we buried my Mom......it was all I could do, for years and years, not to pull every package of cigarettes off of every store shelf I entered and stomp them until nothing was left but the smashed bits that were too tiny to hurt anyone. It was truly a struggle not to do that but I knew that I would just be arrested for destruction of property so I just cried instead. The good thing is that when you quit smoking on November 11th, 2006.....my daughter, Catherine's birthday, by the way..... your lungs started to heal from the nicotine. By now your lungs are so looking much better. I am so very proud of you. None of your loved ones will, I pray, ever have to go through what I went through because of tobacco. I absolutely would wipe every tabacco plant out of existance if I had the power to do that. Congratulations for 2 years of being in charge of your body and not letting tabacco run you. What a wonderful feeling you must have bursting out of your very soul for your triumph over nicotine. You go, girl!! Nancy C. East Texas Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 29, 2008 Report Share Posted December 29, 2008 What type of trouble are you having with brown rice? Maybe I can help?? M On 12/29/08, zeni11 <zeni11 wrote: > > Wow 5 packs a day ! I thought I was bad with 2 packs...thank goodness > that > is behind us now. I cringe when I see people gathered outside of their > work > smoking together, I think to myself that use to be me ! eeekkkk! LOL > " Sugar " is my struggle at the moment...Salty stuff I loved but I had to > give it up my fingers get so swollen and Doctor's order. I'm fine now > that I > given up salt along with Chocolate, my weakness lol I have a very > sensitive > stomach now. > I love rice, I eat it with almost every meal ( may be my problem) being > Japanese it's something you don't even leave out in any meal LOL I just > can't > get the hang of brown rice. > Linda > > > > --- > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 29, 2008 Report Share Posted December 29, 2008 A electrician I met randomly that came to do a repair told me with tears in his eyes that he had quit smoking after 28 years with a treatments of electronic accupressure on the ears. Don't laugh! He had tried to quit repeatedly, with patches, gum, cold turkey, etc. and failed until he went to a man in LA who treated him twice, and completely cured him. The electrician told me he never in a million years believed it would work, and went for the treatment out of sheer desperation. He told me the first time the cravings were gone for only a week, so he went back for a second treatment. That one did the trick. He claimed he'd had no cravings for a year, and found it completely unbelievable that he'd finally quit. I went to see the man myself, not for smoking but for chronic pain. He told me he learned the treatment because a friend of his had it done in St. Louis and had quit smoking after 30 years. He is actually a retired dentist, also wealthy from real estate, but became fascinated, and actually does it to help people, not to make money. He discovered the treatment had been developed by a French doctor at UCLA, and went to the source to learn how to do it. So far, they've had the greatest success with smoking. Not so much other addictions, although they are treating alcoholics, heroin addicts, etc. to see if the same pressure points can effect all kinds of cravings. If anyone in the area is interested, email me and I'll send the info. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 29, 2008 Report Share Posted December 29, 2008 My grandfather was a POW during the Korean War...killed the guard who was assigned to execute him and escaped, the whole nine yards. Bravest man I ever met. Yet he could not break the hold that cigarettes had on him. Watching him sneak outside to " get some air " (aka smoke) after triple bypass was enough deter me from ever picking up a cigarette as a teenager!! -Jacki in FL , zeni11 wrote: > > > It is the worst/MOST DIFFICULT habit to break ! those craving just pop out > of no where lol in the morning while having coffee, after dinner with a glass > of wine etc. It's still difficult for me esp when you still have a smoker > in the family (my daughter's mother in law) She just found out she has to > have a biopsy done on New Years Eve cos they found a spot in her Lung. I see > her Christmas day...running outside to have a cigarette. I really feel for > her, I know she's very worried but I guess the craving just takes over if you > don't have the will power...you have want to quit... > So happy you did Donna > Linda > > _thelilacflower_ (thelilacflower) writes: > > > > > Cigarettes! That was the worst habit to break. I don't smoke cigarettes > anymore. Yay! I'm not going to ever call myself a non-smoker, I'm a recovered > smoker. Who knows what the future holds, those are a day by day struggle. > It's been about 10 years and I still crave them. > Donna > > > > > > **************One site keeps you connected to all your email: AOL Mail, > Gmail, and Mail. Try it now. > (http://www.aol.com/?optin=new- dp & icid=aolcom40vanity & ncid=emlcntaolcom00000025) > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 3, 2009 Report Share Posted January 3, 2009 Now, don't jump on me but when I had my parrot, I fed him brown rice along with vegies, fruits etc...then I also feed my dogs brown rice along with carrots and chicken etc...I think I got to the point in my mind It's food for animals LOL sorry !!!!! I have tried it. Maybe if I made it like Fried rice it may help... hugs Linda _mcdaub_ (mcdaub) writes: What type of trouble are you having with brown rice? Maybe I can help?? M On 12/29/08, _zeni11_ (zeni11) <_zeni11_ (zeni11) > wrote: > > Wow 5 packs a day ! I thought I was bad with 2 packs...thank goodness > that > is behind us now. I cringe when I see people gathered outside of their > work > smoking together, I think to myself that use to be me ! eeekkkk! LOL > " Sugar " is my struggle at the moment...Salty stuff I loved but I had to > give it up my fingers get so swollen and Doctor's order. I'm fine now > that I > given up salt along with Chocolate, my weakness lol I have a very > sensitive > stomach now. > I love rice, I eat it with almost every meal ( may be my problem) being > Japanese it's something you don't even leave out in any meal LOL I just > can't > get the hang of brown rice. > Linda > > > > ------------ ---- ---- - > > Groups Links > > > > -- Marilyn Daub _mcdaub_ (mcdaub) My Cats Knead Me!!! Vanceburg, KY [Non-text portions of this message have been removed] **************New year...new news. Be the first to know what is making headlines. (http://www.aol.com/?ncid=emlcntaolcom00000026) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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