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Yesterday was sad. In vet school, there are daily reminders of how

horribly our society treats animals. I can generally cope with that

stress, but it keeps me right at my breaking point. Yesterday my

class was taught that, because cows have two functional digits per

limb, if one is infected, it can be sawed off. Okay. But this is

done while the cow is awake, in many cases. This is said without any

horror or emotion on the part of the prof, and the class just nods as

if this were a perfectly acceptable procedure.

My husband and I are basically friendless since going vegan. We try

to make friends, and be understanding of people and their " choices "

(do the animals they eat get a choice?), but ultimately, we just can't

form deep friendships with people who have such fundamentally

different views on the world. Our housemate said we were being snobs

for limiting ourselves to vegan friends.

At any rate, your conversations on this group cheer me up immensely.

~Faith

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two functional digits per limb?

well..wait and see if someone in your class ever gets an infected hangnail, and then chase em around with a hacksaw babbling "come on, you got 4 more digits!!! off it comes..gimmee gimmee gimmee!!"

Faith Jan 9, 2008 4:34 AM vegan friendships

 

 

 

Yesterday was sad. In vet school, there are daily reminders of howhorribly our society treats animals. I can generally cope with thatstress, but it keeps me right at my breaking point. Yesterday myclass was taught that, because cows have two functional digits perlimb, if one is infected, it can be sawed off. Okay. But this isdone while the cow is awake, in many cases. This is said without anyhorror or emotion on the part of the prof, and the class just nods asif this were a perfectly acceptable procedure. My husband and I are basically friendless since going vegan. We tryto make friends, and be understanding of people and their "choices"(do the animals they eat get a choice?), but ultimately, we just can'tform deep friendships with people who have such fundamentallydifferent views on the world. Our housemate said we were being snobsfor limiting ourselves to vegan friends. At any rate, your conversations on this group cheer me up immensely.~Faith

 

 

 

 

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Hi Faith:

 

Sorry to hear you're down. I'd think it's going to be tough being a

vegan vet, unless you are able to totally devote your practice to

companion animals. I grew up on a so called " gentleman's farm " where

my dad raised pigs and steer for slaughter for family use on a

non-subsistence basis, so many of the vets we saw were for these poor

animals. I also heard a news report recently that there is a shortage

of vets for so called " food animals "

(http://media.www.thenews.org/media/storage/paper651/news/2004/10/08/News/Veteri\

narian.Shortage.National.Issue-746306.shtml).

good!

 

Regarding friends: I had the unfortunate experience of being verbally

attacked by my sister in law this Christmas because my wife and I (her

sister) are vegan. She is a card carrying member of the Weston Price

Foundation. Look them up if you don't know who they are. She literally

said she couldn't be friends with us (her own sister!) because " we're

killing ourselves and will kill our children " with our dietary/ethical

choices. Her attitude was no different than that of a cult member, and

the rest of the family could see it. My point? I think a lot of the

opposition/misunderstanding about the vegan lifestyle will indeed

prevent others from engendered friendships towards us; the challenge,

for you, and for us, is to not let than myopic hatred infect us as a

reaction. Nobody likes a know it all, a proselytizer, or a doomsayer,

which I think it's easy to become as a vegan or ardent carnivore. My

sister in law is an extreme example of a self-styled carnivore; most

omnis are not as vigilant, and believe me, in this day and age our

type of lifestyle is becoming more acceptable every day, which

hopefully will lead to more friendships, more vegans, and more peace

on earth. Good luck!

 

Regards,

 

Blake Wilson

 

 

 

, " Faith " <tigerpainter wrote:

>

> Yesterday was sad. In vet school, there are daily reminders of how

> horribly our society treats animals. I can generally cope with that

> stress, but it keeps me right at my breaking point. Yesterday my

> class was taught that, because cows have two functional digits per

> limb, if one is infected, it can be sawed off. Okay. But this is

> done while the cow is awake, in many cases. This is said without any

> horror or emotion on the part of the prof, and the class just nods as

> if this were a perfectly acceptable procedure.

> My husband and I are basically friendless since going vegan. We try

> to make friends, and be understanding of people and their " choices "

> (do the animals they eat get a choice?), but ultimately, we just can't

> form deep friendships with people who have such fundamentally

> different views on the world. Our housemate said we were being snobs

> for limiting ourselves to vegan friends.

> At any rate, your conversations on this group cheer me up immensely.

> ~Faith

>

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Hi Blake,

I'm feeling much better today. Being a vegan vet will

be a little hard, but not as hard as just getting

through the schooling. There are a growing number of

vets for animal rights including the group AVAR.

 

My husband and I are going to do shelter/livestock

rescue medicine mixed with public education, so that

part of our lives will be rewarding. We'd like to do

something like this group:

www.animalplace.org

They are amazing.

 

Regarding friends, I'm learning patience with people

where ever they are in their process of learning

kindness for all species. It is the people who are

not interested in that process that I have very little

tolerance for. I'm learning. Thank you for the

support/advise.

 

Have a lovely day.

~Faith

 

> Hi Faith:

 

>Sorry to hear you're down. I'd think it's going to be

>tough being a

>vegan vet, unless you are able to totally devote your

>practice to

>companion animals. I grew up on a so called

> " gentleman's farm " where

>my dad raised pigs and steer for slaughter for family

>use on a

>non-subsistence basis, so many of the vets we saw

were >for these poor

>animals. I also heard a news report recently that

>there is a shortage

>of vets for so called " food animals "

>(http://media. www.thenews. org/media/

>storage/paper651 /news/2004/ 10/08/News/

Veterinarian. >Shortage. National. Issue-746306.

shtml).

>good!

>...hopefully will lead to more friendships, more

>vegans, and more peace

>on earth. Good luck!

>Regards,

>Blake Wilson

 

" Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the

world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has. " ~Margaret Mead

 

 

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