Guest guest Posted October 29, 2008 Report Share Posted October 29, 2008 Hi - I'm new to this group and to Vegan living (it's been about a month now) I love being Vegan. It was the easiest thing I ever did and I feel so much better on the inside and outside ... I feel more at peace. There are still a lot of things I need to address in my life regarding the products I use. When I buy new items I am looking at the labels and replacing items with animal friendly products. I have a closet full of items that have leather and wool. I am unsure how to approach this. I can't afford to replace everything at once. And I am afraid if I take everything and give it away - hubby will be upset. (example; he bought a very expensive leather jacket for me last xmas. I never wore it and now I won't ever wear it) I was thinking I would just not wear the clothes and gradually donate them. This would give hubby time to adjust to my new attitude. I want him to accept this change and not feel threatened or offended. Many of my shoes have leather too. I think I will put the ones that are non essential in the goodwill box and the ones I just can't afford to replace right now I will wear for now. This all is going to take some time. Is this how things are usually done? Does anyone have some tips on the transition? thanks! Nina Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 29, 2008 Report Share Posted October 29, 2008 Things which are easy and/or cheap to replace, I replace. Things which aren't I continue to use until they wear out and can be replaced. None of my winter coats are vegan, and more than half of my coats contain leather. I definitely don't have the money to replace them, and the money's already been spent. A few of them were obtained from second-hand shops. I figure from here on end, nothing non-vegan if I can help it. I take meds which aren't, and those are really my exceptions. I make an impact wherever I can, and shop for beauty products at Lush, Aveda, and Sephora where they sell Urban Decay cosmetics. On Wed, Oct 29, 2008 at 9:08 AM, pixelpoint <pixelpest wrote: Hi - I'm new to this group and to Vegan living (it's been about amonth now) I love being Vegan. It was the easiest thing I ever did and I feel so much better on the inside and outside ... I feel more at peace.There are still a lot of things I need to address in my life regardingthe products I use. When I buy new items I am looking at the labels and replacing items with animal friendly products.I have a closet full of items that have leather and wool. I am unsurehow to approach this. I can't afford to replace everything at once.And I am afraid if I take everything and give it away - hubby will be upset. (example; he bought a very expensive leather jacket for me lastxmas. I never wore it and now I won't ever wear it)I was thinking I would just not wear the clothes and gradually donatethem. This would give hubby time to adjust to my new attitude. I want him to accept this change and not feel threatened or offended.Many of my shoes have leather too. I think I will put the ones thatare non essential in the goodwill box and the ones I just can't affordto replace right now I will wear for now. This all is going to take some time.Is this how things are usually done?Does anyone have some tips on the transition?thanks!Nina---To send an email to -! Groups Links <*> /<*> Your email settings: Individual Email | Traditional <*> To change settings online go to: /join ( ID required)<*> To change settings via email: -digest -fullfeatured <*> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 29, 2008 Report Share Posted October 29, 2008 hello and welcome nina well, the basic answer, how do you feel about it? many folks who go vegan keep their non-veggie goods and use them until theywear out or the like. when you can give them to a homeless shelter or the like, and replace them gradually. again, a lot depends on how you feel, what your budget can stand, and how you will react to still using animal products. go slow, take your time, and learn as ya go cheers fraggle pixelpoint Oct 29, 2008 6:08 AM New Vegan .... some advice on replacing things Hi - I'm new to this group and to Vegan living (it's been about amonth now) I love being Vegan. It was the easiest thing I ever did andI feel so much better on the inside and outside ... I feel more at peace. There are still a lot of things I need to address in my life regardingthe products I use. When I buy new items I am looking at the labelsand replacing items with animal friendly products.I have a closet full of items that have leather and wool. I am unsurehow to approach this. I can't afford to replace everything at once.And I am afraid if I take everything and give it away - hubby will beupset. (example; he bought a very expensive leather jacket for me lastxmas. I never wore it and now I won't ever wear it)I was thinking I would just not wear the clothes and gradually donatethem. This would give hubby time to adjust to my new attitude. I wanthim to accept this change and not feel threatened or offended.Many of my shoes have leather too. I think I will put the ones thatare non essential in the goodwill box and the ones I just can't affordto replace right now I will wear for now. This all is going to takesome time.Is this how things are usually done?Does anyone have some tips on the transition?thanks!Nina For in a Republic, who is “the country� Is it the Government which is for the moment in the saddle? Why, the Government is merely a servant—merely a temporary servant; it cannot be its prerogative to determine what is right and what is wrong, and decide who is a patriot and who isn’t. Its function is to obey orders, not originate them. Mark Twain Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 29, 2008 Report Share Posted October 29, 2008 Hi Nina, Everyone has their own opinion on this. Personally, now that you are a vegan, then you wont be buying any more non vegan items, and so not contributing to animal suffering. You have two options: 1. donate to the needy/charity etc, or wear them until they either wear out, or you can afford to replace them. To just trash them would be such a sad waste. Peter vv pixelpoint <pixelpest Sent: Wednesday, 29 October, 2008 1:08:30 PM New Vegan .... some advice on replacing things Hi - I'm new to this group and to Vegan living (it's been about amonth now) I love being Vegan. It was the easiest thing I ever did andI feel so much better on the inside and outside ... I feel more at peace. There are still a lot of things I need to address in my life regardingthe products I use. When I buy new items I am looking at the labelsand replacing items with animal friendly products.I have a closet full of items that have leather and wool. I am unsurehow to approach this. I can't afford to replace everything at once.And I am afraid if I take everything and give it away - hubby will beupset. (example; he bought a very expensive leather jacket for me lastxmas. I never wore it and now I won't ever wear it)I was thinking I would just not wear the clothes and gradually donatethem. This would give hubby time to adjust to my new attitude. I wanthim to accept this change and not feel threatened or offended.Many of my shoes have leather too. I think I will put the ones thatare non essential in the goodwill box and the ones I just can't affordto replace right now I will wear for now. This all is going to takesome time.Is this how things are usually done?Does anyone have some tips on the transition?thanks!Nina Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 29, 2008 Report Share Posted October 29, 2008 i still have my old leather jacket. i don't wear it, but i still have it. it was a handme down when it was given to me, egads, about 25 -30 years ago.. wish i could find a good non-leather replacement that is strong, vaguely weather-proof, doesn't fall apart when you look at it, and doesn't make my wallet cry. sad also that my vegan boots never last as long as my old docs did. Blue Rose Oct 29, 2008 8:47 AM Re: New Vegan .... some advice on replacing things Things which are easy and/or cheap to replace, I replace. Things which aren't I continue to use until they wear out and can be replaced. None of my winter coats are vegan, and more than half of my coats contain leather. I definitely don't have the money to replace them, and the money's already been spent. A few of them were obtained from second-hand shops. I figure from here on end, nothing non-vegan if I can help it. I take meds which aren't, and those are really my exceptions. I make an impact wherever I can, and shop for beauty products at Lush, Aveda, and Sephora where they sell Urban Decay cosmetics. On Wed, Oct 29, 2008 at 9:08 AM, pixelpoint <pixelpest > wrote: Hi - I'm new to this group and to Vegan living (it's been about amonth now) I love being Vegan. It was the easiest thing I ever did andI feel so much better on the inside and outside ... I feel more at peace.There are still a lot of things I need to address in my life regardingthe products I use. When I buy new items I am looking at the labelsand replacing items with animal friendly products.I have a closet full of items that have leather and wool. I am unsurehow to approach this. I can't afford to replace everything at once.And I am afraid if I take everything and give it away - hubby will beupset. (example; he bought a very expensive leather jacket for me lastxmas. I never wore it and now I won't ever wear it)I was thinking I would just not wear the clothes and gradually donatethem. This would give hubby time to adjust to my new attitude. I wanthim to accept this change and not feel threatened or offended.Many of my shoes have leather too. I think I will put the ones thatare non essential in the goodwill box and the ones I just can't affordto replace right now I will wear for now. This all is going to takesome time.Is this how things are usually done?Does anyone have some tips on the transition?thanks!Nina---To send an email to - Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 29, 2008 Report Share Posted October 29, 2008 I still have an old suede jacket that cost my wife loads , gathering dust, hasnt seen the light of day for many years. But she struggled to afford that, so I feel guilty as hell, and still hang on to it. I know what you mean about vegan boots , they are rubbish at taking abuse - extreme weather....and the jackets are no better, the fake ;leather ones scratch easy........ Peter vv fraggle <EBbrewpunx Sent: Wednesday, 29 October, 2008 3:57:30 PMRe: New Vegan .... some advice on replacing things i still have my old leather jacket. i don't wear it, but i still have it. it was a handme down when it was given to me, egads, about 25 -30 years ago.. wish i could find a good non-leather replacement that is strong, vaguely weather-proof, doesn't fall apart when you look at it, and doesn't make my wallet cry. sad also that my vegan boots never last as long as my old docs did. Blue Rose Oct 29, 2008 8:47 AM @gro ups.com Re: New Vegan .... some advice on replacing things Things which are easy and/or cheap to replace, I replace. Things which aren't I continue to use until they wear out and can be replaced. None of my winter coats are vegan, and more than half of my coats contain leather. I definitely don't have the money to replace them, and the money's already been spent. A few of them were obtained from second-hand shops. I figure from here on end, nothing non-vegan if I can help it. I take meds which aren't, and those are really my exceptions. I make an impact wherever I can, and shop for beauty products at Lush, Aveda, and Sephora where they sell Urban Decay cosmetics. On Wed, Oct 29, 2008 at 9:08 AM, pixelpoint <pixelpest (AT) gmail (DOT) com> wrote: Hi - I'm new to this group and to Vegan living (it's been about amonth now) I love being Vegan. It was the easiest thing I ever did andI feel so much better on the inside and outside ... I feel more at peace.There are still a lot of things I need to address in my life regardingthe products I use. When I buy new items I am looking at the labelsand replacing items with animal friendly products.I have a closet full of items that have leather and wool. I am unsurehow to approach this. I can't afford to replace everything at once.And I am afraid if I take everything and give it away - hubby will beupset. (example; he bought a very expensive leather jacket for me lastxmas. I never wore it and now I won't ever wear it)I was thinking I would just not wear the clothes and gradually donatethem. This would give hubby time to adjust to my new attitude. I wanthim to accept this change and not feel threatened or offended.Many of my shoes have leather too. I think I will put the ones thatare non essential in the goodwill box and the ones I just can't affordto replace right now I will wear for now. This all is going to takesome time.Is this how things are usually done?Does anyone have some tips on the transition?thanks!Nina------------ --------- --------- ------To send an email to -unsubscr ibe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 29, 2008 Report Share Posted October 29, 2008 Interestingly my best pair of winter boots are vegan! Just worked out that way. On Wed, Oct 29, 2008 at 11:57 AM, fraggle <EBbrewpunx wrote: i still have my old leather jacket. i don't wear it, but i still have it. it was a handme down when it was given to me, egads, about 25 -30 years ago.. wish i could find a good non-leather replacement that is strong, vaguely weather-proof, doesn't fall apart when you look at it, and doesn't make my wallet cry. sad also that my vegan boots never last as long as my old docs did. Blue Rose Oct 29, 2008 8:47 AM Re: New Vegan .... some advice on replacing things Things which are easy and/or cheap to replace, I replace. Things which aren't I continue to use until they wear out and can be replaced. None of my winter coats are vegan, and more than half of my coats contain leather. I definitely don't have the money to replace them, and the money's already been spent. A few of them were obtained from second-hand shops. I figure from here on end, nothing non-vegan if I can help it. I take meds which aren't, and those are really my exceptions. I make an impact wherever I can, and shop for beauty products at Lush, Aveda, and Sephora where they sell Urban Decay cosmetics. On Wed, Oct 29, 2008 at 9:08 AM, pixelpoint <pixelpest wrote: Hi - I'm new to this group and to Vegan living (it's been about amonth now) I love being Vegan. It was the easiest thing I ever did andI feel so much better on the inside and outside ... I feel more at peace. There are still a lot of things I need to address in my life regardingthe products I use. When I buy new items I am looking at the labelsand replacing items with animal friendly products.I have a closet full of items that have leather and wool. I am unsure how to approach this. I can't afford to replace everything at once.And I am afraid if I take everything and give it away - hubby will beupset. (example; he bought a very expensive leather jacket for me last xmas. I never wore it and now I won't ever wear it)I was thinking I would just not wear the clothes and gradually donatethem. This would give hubby time to adjust to my new attitude. I wanthim to accept this change and not feel threatened or offended. Many of my shoes have leather too. I think I will put the ones thatare non essential in the goodwill box and the ones I just can't affordto replace right now I will wear for now. This all is going to take some time.Is this how things are usually done?Does anyone have some tips on the transition?thanks!Nina--- To send an email to -! Groups Links<*> / <*> Your email settings: Individual Email | Traditional <*> To change settings online go to: /join ( ID required) <*> To change settings via email: -digest -fullfeatured <*> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 29, 2008 Report Share Posted October 29, 2008 lucky! what brand are they/where did you get them? until 2 1/2 yrs ago, i held onto my original docs, which were given to me back in the early 80's. i prolly stopped wearing them in the early 90's, but still had em vegan boots seem to last me now two years bleh Blue Rose Oct 29, 2008 9:03 AM Re: New Vegan .... some advice on replacing things Interestingly my best pair of winter boots are vegan! Just worked out that way. On Wed, Oct 29, 2008 at 11:57 AM, fraggle <EBbrewpunx (AT) earthlink (DOT) net> wrote: i still have my old leather jacket. i don't wear it, but i still have it. it was a handme down when it was given to me, egads, about 25 -30 years ago.. wish i could find a good non-leather replacement that is strong, vaguely weather-proof, doesn't fall apart when you look at it, and doesn't make my wallet cry. sad also that my vegan boots never last as long as my old docs did. Blue Rose Oct 29, 2008 8:47 AM Re: New Vegan .... some advice on replacing things Things which are easy and/or cheap to replace, I replace. Things which aren't I continue to use until they wear out and can be replaced. None of my winter coats are vegan, and more than half of my coats contain leather. I definitely don't have the money to replace them, and the money's already been spent. A few of them were obtained from second-hand shops. I figure from here on end, nothing non-vegan if I can help it. I take meds which aren't, and those are really my exceptions. I make an impact wherever I can, and shop for beauty products at Lush, Aveda, and Sephora where they sell Urban Decay cosmetics. On Wed, Oct 29, 2008 at 9:08 AM, pixelpoint <pixelpest > wrote: Hi - I'm new to this group and to Vegan living (it's been about amonth now) I love being Vegan. It was the easiest thing I ever did andI feel so much better on the inside and outside ... I feel more at peace.There are still a lot of things I need to address in my life regardingthe products I use. When I buy new items I am looking at the labelsand replacing items with animal friendly products.I have a closet full of items that have leather and wool. I am unsurehow to approach this. I can't afford to replace everything at once.And I am afraid if I take everything and give it away - hubby will beupset. (example; he bought a very expensive leather jacket for me lastxmas. I never wore it and now I won't ever wear it)I was thinking I would just not wear the clothes and gradually donatethem. This would give hubby time to adjust to my new attitude. I wanthim to accept this change and not feel threatened or offended.Many of my shoes have leather too. I think I will put the ones thatare non essential in the goodwill box and the ones I just can't affordto replace right now I will wear for now. This all is going to takesome time.Is this how things are usually done?Does anyone have some tips on the transition?thanks!Nina--- To send an email to - Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 29, 2008 Report Share Posted October 29, 2008 Yellow Box. You can find them on ebay. All manmade material, and my first pair lasted me about 5-6 years through heavy snow and horrible New England weather. They're also very waterproof. They look pretty cool--like goth combat boots. They lace up the front and zip down the sides. So they're stylish too! On Wed, Oct 29, 2008 at 12:06 PM, fraggle <EBbrewpunx wrote: lucky! what brand are they/where did you get them? until 2 1/2 yrs ago, i held onto my original docs, which were given to me back in the early 80's. i prolly stopped wearing them in the early 90's, but still had em vegan boots seem to last me now two years bleh Blue Rose Oct 29, 2008 9:03 AM Re: New Vegan .... some advice on replacing things Interestingly my best pair of winter boots are vegan! Just worked out that way. On Wed, Oct 29, 2008 at 11:57 AM, fraggle <EBbrewpunx wrote: i still have my old leather jacket. i don't wear it, but i still have it. it was a handme down when it was given to me, egads, about 25 -30 years ago.. wish i could find a good non-leather replacement that is strong, vaguely weather-proof, doesn't fall apart when you look at it, and doesn't make my wallet cry. sad also that my vegan boots never last as long as my old docs did. Blue Rose Oct 29, 2008 8:47 AM Re: New Vegan .... some advice on replacing things Things which are easy and/or cheap to replace, I replace. Things which aren't I continue to use until they wear out and can be replaced. None of my winter coats are vegan, and more than half of my coats contain leather. I definitely don't have the money to replace them, and the money's already been spent. A few of them were obtained from second-hand shops. I figure from here on end, nothing non-vegan if I can help it. I take meds which aren't, and those are really my exceptions. I make an impact wherever I can, and shop for beauty products at Lush, Aveda, and Sephora where they sell Urban Decay cosmetics. On Wed, Oct 29, 2008 at 9:08 AM, pixelpoint <pixelpest wrote: Hi - I'm new to this group and to Vegan living (it's been about amonth now) I love being Vegan. It was the easiest thing I ever did andI feel so much better on the inside and outside ... I feel more at peace. There are still a lot of things I need to address in my life regardingthe products I use. When I buy new items I am looking at the labelsand replacing items with animal friendly products.I have a closet full of items that have leather and wool. I am unsure how to approach this. I can't afford to replace everything at once.And I am afraid if I take everything and give it away - hubby will beupset. (example; he bought a very expensive leather jacket for me last xmas. I never wore it and now I won't ever wear it)I was thinking I would just not wear the clothes and gradually donatethem. This would give hubby time to adjust to my new attitude. I wanthim to accept this change and not feel threatened or offended. Many of my shoes have leather too. I think I will put the ones thatare non essential in the goodwill box and the ones I just can't affordto replace right now I will wear for now. This all is going to take some time.Is this how things are usually done?Does anyone have some tips on the transition?thanks!Nina--- To send an email to -! Groups Links<*> / <*> Your email settings: Individual Email | Traditional <*> To change settings online go to: /join ( ID required)<*> To change settings via email: -digest -fullfeatured <*> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 29, 2008 Report Share Posted October 29, 2008 hmmm..interestin http://cgi.ebay.com/Yellow-Box-Wedge-Heel-Combat-Faux-Leather-Boot-9-5_W0QQitemZ170094741030QQcmdZViewItem?_trksid=p3286.m20.l1116 i got my first pair of veggie docs about 1990...they lasted about a year..quickly replaced by some sort of blue boot that i got at some store....they were horrible..turned my socks and feet blue, and i pulled more of the heel off within a year.. ugh my vegetarian shoes boots are almost two years old now, and ready for a new pair ,alas...sole is coming out, can see where the steel toe is eventually going to tear thru. Blue Rose Oct 29, 2008 9:08 AM Re: New Vegan .... some advice on replacing things Yellow Box. You can find them on ebay. All manmade material, and my first pair lasted me about 5-6 years through heavy snow and horrible New England weather. They're also very waterproof. They look pretty cool--like goth combat boots. They lace up the front and zip down the sides. So they're stylish too! On Wed, Oct 29, 2008 at 12:06 PM, fraggle <EBbrewpunx (AT) earthlink (DOT) net> wrote: lucky! what brand are they/where did you get them? until 2 1/2 yrs ago, i held onto my original docs, which were given to me back in the early 80's. i prolly stopped wearing them in the early 90's, but still had em vegan boots seem to last me now two years bleh Blue Rose Oct 29, 2008 9:03 AM Re: New Vegan .... some advice on replacing things Interestingly my best pair of winter boots are vegan! Just worked out that way. On Wed, Oct 29, 2008 at 11:57 AM, fraggle <EBbrewpunx (AT) earthlink (DOT) net> wrote: i still have my old leather jacket. i don't wear it, but i still have it. it was a handme down when it was given to me, egads, about 25 -30 years ago.. wish i could find a good non-leather replacement that is strong, vaguely weather-proof, doesn't fall apart when you look at it, and doesn't make my wallet cry. sad also that my vegan boots never last as long as my old docs did. Blue Rose Oct 29, 2008 8:47 AM Re: New Vegan .... some advice on replacing things Things which are easy and/or cheap to replace, I replace. Things which aren't I continue to use until they wear out and can be replaced. None of my winter coats are vegan, and more than half of my coats contain leather. I definitely don't have the money to replace them, and the money's already been spent. A few of them were obtained from second-hand shops. I figure from here on end, nothing non-vegan if I can help it. I take meds which aren't, and those are really my exceptions. I make an impact wherever I can, and shop for beauty products at Lush, Aveda, and Sephora where they sell Urban Decay cosmetics. On Wed, Oct 29, 2008 at 9:08 AM, pixelpoint <pixelpest > wrote: Hi - I'm new to this group and to Vegan living (it's been about amonth now) I love being Vegan. It was the easiest thing I ever did andI feel so much better on the inside and outside ... I feel more at peace.There are still a lot of things I need to address in my life regardingthe products I use. When I buy new items I am looking at the labelsand replacing items with animal friendly products.I have a closet full of items that have leather and wool. I am unsurehow to approach this. I can't afford to replace everything at once.And I am afraid if I take everything and give it away - hubby will beupset. (example; he bought a very expensive leather jacket for me lastxmas. I never wore it and now I won't ever wear it)I was thinking I would just not wear the clothes and gradually donatethem. This would give hubby time to adjust to my new attitude. I wanthim to accept this change and not feel threatened or offended.Many of my shoes have leather too. I think I will put the ones thatare non essential in the goodwill box and the ones I just can't affordto replace right now I will wear for now. This all is going to takesome time.Is this how things are usually done?Does anyone have some tips on the transition?thanks!Nina--- To send an email to - Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 29, 2008 Report Share Posted October 29, 2008 Yup, those are them! They are VERY durable and I love them. On Wed, Oct 29, 2008 at 12:37 PM, fraggle <EBbrewpunx wrote: hmmm..interestin http://cgi.ebay.com/Yellow-Box-Wedge-Heel-Combat-Faux-Leather-Boot-9-5_W0QQitemZ170094741030QQcmdZViewItem?_trksid=p3286.m20.l1116 i got my first pair of veggie docs about 1990...they lasted about a year..quickly replaced by some sort of blue boot that i got at some store....they were horrible..turned my socks and feet blue, and i pulled more of the heel off within a year.. ugh my vegetarian shoes boots are almost two years old now, and ready for a new pair ,alas...sole is coming out, can see where the steel toe is eventually going to tear thru. Blue Rose Oct 29, 2008 9:08 AM Re: New Vegan .... some advice on replacing things Yellow Box. You can find them on ebay. All manmade material, and my first pair lasted me about 5-6 years through heavy snow and horrible New England weather. They're also very waterproof. They look pretty cool--like goth combat boots. They lace up the front and zip down the sides. So they're stylish too! On Wed, Oct 29, 2008 at 12:06 PM, fraggle <EBbrewpunx wrote: lucky! what brand are they/where did you get them? until 2 1/2 yrs ago, i held onto my original docs, which were given to me back in the early 80's. i prolly stopped wearing them in the early 90's, but still had em vegan boots seem to last me now two years bleh Blue Rose Oct 29, 2008 9:03 AM Re: New Vegan .... some advice on replacing things Interestingly my best pair of winter boots are vegan! Just worked out that way. On Wed, Oct 29, 2008 at 11:57 AM, fraggle <EBbrewpunx wrote: i still have my old leather jacket. i don't wear it, but i still have it. it was a handme down when it was given to me, egads, about 25 -30 years ago.. wish i could find a good non-leather replacement that is strong, vaguely weather-proof, doesn't fall apart when you look at it, and doesn't make my wallet cry. sad also that my vegan boots never last as long as my old docs did. Blue Rose Oct 29, 2008 8:47 AM Re: New Vegan .... some advice on replacing things Things which are easy and/or cheap to replace, I replace. Things which aren't I continue to use until they wear out and can be replaced. None of my winter coats are vegan, and more than half of my coats contain leather. I definitely don't have the money to replace them, and the money's already been spent. A few of them were obtained from second-hand shops. I figure from here on end, nothing non-vegan if I can help it. I take meds which aren't, and those are really my exceptions. I make an impact wherever I can, and shop for beauty products at Lush, Aveda, and Sephora where they sell Urban Decay cosmetics. On Wed, Oct 29, 2008 at 9:08 AM, pixelpoint <pixelpest wrote: Hi - I'm new to this group and to Vegan living (it's been about amonth now) I love being Vegan. It was the easiest thing I ever did andI feel so much better on the inside and outside ... I feel more at peace. There are still a lot of things I need to address in my life regardingthe products I use. When I buy new items I am looking at the labelsand replacing items with animal friendly products.I have a closet full of items that have leather and wool. I am unsure how to approach this. I can't afford to replace everything at once.And I am afraid if I take everything and give it away - hubby will beupset. (example; he bought a very expensive leather jacket for me last xmas. I never wore it and now I won't ever wear it)I was thinking I would just not wear the clothes and gradually donatethem. This would give hubby time to adjust to my new attitude. I wanthim to accept this change and not feel threatened or offended. Many of my shoes have leather too. I think I will put the ones thatare non essential in the goodwill box and the ones I just can't affordto replace right now I will wear for now. This all is going to take some time.Is this how things are usually done?Does anyone have some tips on the transition?thanks!Nina--- To send an email to -! Groups Links<*> / <*> Your email settings: Individual Email | Traditional <*> To change settings online go to: /join ( ID required)<*> To change settings via email: -digest -fullfeatured <*> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 29, 2008 Report Share Posted October 29, 2008 At 1:08 PM +0000 10/29/08, pixelpoint wrote: >And I am afraid if I take everything and give it away - hubby will be >upset. (example; he bought a very expensive leather jacket for me last >xmas. I never wore it and now I won't ever wear it) > Maybe you can donate to a charity that hubby supports and that has fundraising auctions? (Or, as others have said, hold onto it...) I still have a collection of thrift-shop and rummage-sale cashmere that I once thought I could make into a blanket or something. I even wear a couple sweaters when it gets really cold. (Oops, do I have to give back my vegan card?) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 30, 2008 Report Share Posted October 30, 2008 Hi Welcome to Vegan Chat. My opinion is that it would be extremely silly (for your own personal finances, and for the environment) to throw away any items that are not worn out. It is best to use them until they are worn out, and then replace them. Jo , " pixelpoint " <pixelpest wrote: > > Hi - I'm new to this group and to Vegan living (it's been about a > month now) I love being Vegan. It was the easiest thing I ever did and > I feel so much better on the inside and outside ... I feel more at peace. > > There are still a lot of things I need to address in my life regarding > the products I use. When I buy new items I am looking at the labels > and replacing items with animal friendly products. > > I have a closet full of items that have leather and wool. I am unsure > how to approach this. I can't afford to replace everything at once. > And I am afraid if I take everything and give it away - hubby will be > upset. (example; he bought a very expensive leather jacket for me last > xmas. I never wore it and now I won't ever wear it) > > I was thinking I would just not wear the clothes and gradually donate > them. This would give hubby time to adjust to my new attitude. I want > him to accept this change and not feel threatened or offended. > > Many of my shoes have leather too. I think I will put the ones that > are non essential in the goodwill box and the ones I just can't afford > to replace right now I will wear for now. This all is going to take > some time. > > Is this how things are usually done? > Does anyone have some tips on the transition? > thanks! > Nina > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 30, 2008 Report Share Posted October 30, 2008 yes, please afix a stamp to your card and drop it in the nearest mailbox and please unlearn the vegan handshake. thank you yarrow Oct 29, 2008 2:55 PM Re: New Vegan .... some advice on replacing things At 1:08 PM +0000 10/29/08, pixelpoint wrote:>And I am afraid if I take everything and give it away - hubby will be>upset. (example; he bought a very expensive leather jacket for me last>xmas. I never wore it and now I won't ever wear it)>Maybe you can donate to a charity that hubby supports and that has fundraising auctions? (Or, as others have said, hold onto it...)I still have a collection of thrift-shop and rummage-sale cashmere that I once thought I could make into a blanket or something. I even wear a couple sweaters when it gets really cold. (Oops, do I have to give back my vegan card?) For in a Republic, who is “the country� Is it the Government which is for the moment in the saddle? Why, the Government is merely a servant—merely a temporary servant; it cannot be its prerogative to determine what is right and what is wrong, and decide who is a patriot and who isn’t. Its function is to obey orders, not originate them. Mark Twain Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 31, 2008 Report Share Posted October 31, 2008 What is the Vegan handshake? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 31, 2008 Report Share Posted October 31, 2008 you won't find out until you reach the 13th level, i'm sorry i was joking natenjade Oct 31, 2008 9:27 AM Re: New Vegan .... some advice on replacing things What is the Vegan handshake? For in a Republic, who is “the country� Is it the Government which is for the moment in the saddle? Why, the Government is merely a servant—merely a temporary servant; it cannot be its prerogative to determine what is right and what is wrong, and decide who is a patriot and who isn’t. Its function is to obey orders, not originate them. Mark Twain Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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