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Dear Margarita,

 

Thank you very much for your insights about my chart. May I ask a question

to the western members of the list who use the Krushna system?

 

According to your experience, what is the nature of the subperiod you get

through the marriage worksheet? Is it:

 

* The subperiod in which the partners meet themselves for the first time?

* The subperiod in which the partners have the first sexual intercourse?

* The subperiod in which the partners begin to live in the same flat?

* The subperiod in which the partners marry (civil or religious ceremony)?

 

In the western way of life, some of the events may be some months or years

apart. My brother met his wife when he was a student. As he was studying in

a very far place, his wife and himself lived in the same flat three years

later, when his studies were completed.

 

So, it seems to me important to understand what we are looking for! Thanks

for your opinion.

 

Denis

 

 

 

" Marguerite " <dmlettens

Re: Digest Number 329

 

Hello Denis,

Normally Rahu works accoding to his placement. In your chart it is

Mars(scorpio) and Saturn (Anuradha).

Saturn is natural samdharmi to Venus. As there are strong cultural

differences between India and the West, I don't know if a relationship like

yours (living in different flats) can be considered along the same lines as

a traditional indian marriage !!. Perhaps you could check some rules Krushna

gave about " friendship " between 2 charts. These worked fine for my chart .

According to " the rules " for marriage I should have a miserable marriage,

but our charts fit well for " friendship " , so everything still workes fines

even after many years. So don't take the rules for marriage to strictly.

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Hello Denis,

I think nowbody in the west has much experience with this system but using some common sense we can easily adapt the rules.

I'm only studying this system since a year but I tend to check most charts when I have correct dates for certain events.

Different aspects are to be considered in a relationship. There is of course the 5th house for friendship and "falling in love". Ususally this happens in times of subs of planets having good points for the 5th.

Sexual intercourse is especially seen through the 12th house, the traditional house of "bedcomforts". I often see planets strong for the 12th and the 7th and/or 5th at the moment of marriage (even in the west). But I have not tested enough charts for that.

I suppose the 7th house retains his value as house of marriage(religious or civil ceremony), even in our countries. Marriage is a "partnership", an agreement to go through life together. This cannot be said of people who just live with someone and then switch to somebody else. There is no formal arrangement made, no intention or effort involved.

Living together could again be seen through another house, for example the 3th could indicate a definite move from the former home. I think here each case has to be studied according to the special arrangements taken, all depending on what is involved.

Now for relationship in the West rules for friendship are important and I know these work fine. In the charts of people who get along well these rules apply definitely.

I have also seen that a marriage in a period where a planet has less points for the 7th house survives when the rules for friendship are respected.

As to the Krushna ayanamsha, I use it because it's part of the system, so I stick to it and don't question it.

A last note about your chart : Venus is the strongest planet in the worksheet : she acts for Rahu who is Saturn and Mars (Venus and Saturn are natural samdharmi but also functional samdharmi in your chart)

-

 

DENIS LABOURE

Monday, August 27, 2001 2:09 PM

Mariage

Dear Margarita,Thank you very much for your insights about my chart. May I ask a questionto the western members of the list who use the Krushna system?According to your experience, what is the nature of the subperiod you getthrough the marriage worksheet? Is it:* The subperiod in which the partners meet themselves for the first time?* The subperiod in which the partners have the first sexual intercourse?* The subperiod in which the partners begin to live in the same flat?* The subperiod in which the partners marry (civil or religious ceremony)?In the western way of life, some of the events may be some months or yearsapart. My brother met his wife when he was a student. As he was studying ina very far place, his wife and himself lived in the same flat three yearslater, when his studies were completed.So, it seems to me important to understand what we are looking for! Thanksfor your opinion.Denis "Marguerite" <dmlettensRe: Digest Number 329Hello Denis,Normally Rahu works accoding to his placement. In your chart it isMars(scorpio) and Saturn (Anuradha).Saturn is natural samdharmi to Venus. As there are strong culturaldifferences between India and the West, I don't know if a relationship likeyours (living in different flats) can be considered along the same lines asa traditional indian marriage !!. Perhaps you could check some rules Krushnagave about "friendship" between 2 charts. These worked fine for my chart .According to "the rules" for marriage I should have a miserable marriage,but our charts fit well for "friendship", so everything still workes fineseven after many years. So don't take the rules for marriage to strictly.

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Dear Dennis, Margarita, and all list members,

I was unable to get connected to internet from 24th due to some

fault in Modem. To day I have purchased a new modem. I will read the

mails the mean period, and will come back to the group.

krushna

 

 

, " DENIS LABOURE " <Laboure@W...>

wrote:

> Dear Margarita,

>

> Thank you very much for your insights about my chart. May I ask a

question

> to the western members of the list who use the Krushna system?

>

> According to your experience, what is the nature of the subperiod

you get

> through the marriage worksheet? Is it:

>

> * The subperiod in which the partners meet themselves for the first

time?

> * The subperiod in which the partners have the first sexual

intercourse?

> * The subperiod in which the partners begin to live in the same

flat?

> * The subperiod in which the partners marry (civil or religious

ceremony)?

>

> In the western way of life, some of the events may be some months

or years

> apart. My brother met his wife when he was a student. As he was

studying in

> a very far place, his wife and himself lived in the same flat three

years

> later, when his studies were completed.

>

> So, it seems to me important to understand what we are looking for!

Thanks

> for your opinion.

>

> Denis

>

>

>

> " Marguerite " <dmlettens@s...>

> Re: Digest Number 329

>

> Hello Denis,

> Normally Rahu works accoding to his placement. In your chart it is

> Mars(scorpio) and Saturn (Anuradha).

> Saturn is natural samdharmi to Venus. As there are strong cultural

> differences between India and the West, I don't know if a

relationship like

> yours (living in different flats) can be considered along the same

lines as

> a traditional indian marriage !!. Perhaps you could check some

rules Krushna

> gave about " friendship " between 2 charts. These worked fine for my

chart .

> According to " the rules " for marriage I should have a miserable

marriage,

> but our charts fit well for " friendship " , so everything still

workes fines

> even after many years. So don't take the rules for marriage to

strictly.

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Dear Denis,

Your other questions have been answered in a very nice way by

Margarita and Prakash. I must thank them.

I would like to make some modifiation in the calculations for

7th house, given by Prakash. It is next step. Lord of D is Saturn and

lord of E is Mars. Both are with 4 points. If such lords are situated

in 10th place from any planets then we add the points of those

planets as per Row 3. So the Total points for Saturn becames 17, and

for Venus becames 18. ( this thing is already covered in lessons and

I think in Work sheet also it is given in notes by Mr Sanjay)

Now as per Indian culture, and so the vedic astrology is based

on Indian culture Marriage is having different types.

Generally marriage is considered as a partnership ( 7th house)

along with other relations. As soon as two persons get married, they

became partener in the property of the spouse. In case if any of them

is expired other becames the whole owner of the proerty of the

spouse,until and unless it is specified. No body is allowed to have

any extra sexual relations with any other person. Both the person

should treat with each other with due respect.

There is also one type of marriage, which may not be registered,

The persons select their partner, but it is not recognised by the

socity, So no body can claim on the property of the other. This may

be treated as unauthorised relations, until and unless it gets some

registration with the socity. This may be called as Gandharva Vivah.

We are concerned with these two type of marriages here. In the

first case 7th house is main. and in second case 7th house along with

5th and 12th house works.

 

So for the period, when two persons meet each other can be from

5th house. When there is sexual relations with each other, with

mutual acceptance then 12th house.

When Two persons have deep attraction with each other then it

can be 7th house again.

Refering your case, the Saturn is lord of House D and having

it's sight on 7th house, so it self or it's samdharmi can come

forward to give the result. Rahu as per your chart represents Saturn,

So it can give the result. But it also represents Mars, ( 6th lord )

and situated in 4th house with 5 points, it can not convert the

relation in partnership.

The Venus which is more then 43 degree apart from Sun, and

having sight of Saturn, reduces the marrital relations, here we

should take partnership.

There is a vast difference in marriage and sexual partner. Your

relationship can be called as need of each other only. When there is

deep attachment with each other, person require other person to be

with him, for more and more time. So when both partners starts living

in same house (flat) then it should be seen from 7th house.

 

Marriage may be treated as legal status to the relations, If in

your country, if the other person gets partnership in the wealth of

the spouse then 7th house.

Living to gether but no legal aspects, then 5th and 12th house

should be refered.

For legal marriage all 2,7, 11 and 4th and 12th house works at

a time.

krushna

 

 

 

, " DENIS LABOURE " <Laboure@W...>

wrote:

> Dear Margarita,

>

> Thank you very much for your insights about my chart. May I ask a

question

> to the western members of the list who use the Krushna system?

>

> According to your experience, what is the nature of the subperiod

you get

> through the marriage worksheet? Is it:

>

> * The subperiod in which the partners meet themselves for the first

time?

> * The subperiod in which the partners have the first sexual

intercourse?

> * The subperiod in which the partners begin to live in the same

flat?

> * The subperiod in which the partners marry (civil or religious

ceremony)?

>

> In the western way of life, some of the events may be some months

or years

> apart. My brother met his wife when he was a student. As he was

studying in

> a very far place, his wife and himself lived in the same flat three

years

> later, when his studies were completed.

>

> So, it seems to me important to understand what we are looking for!

Thanks

> for your opinion.

>

> Denis

>

>

>

> " Marguerite " <dmlettens@s...>

> Re: Digest Number 329

>

> Hello Denis,

> Normally Rahu works accoding to his placement. In your chart it is

> Mars(scorpio) and Saturn (Anuradha).

> Saturn is natural samdharmi to Venus. As there are strong cultural

> differences between India and the West, I don't know if a

relationship like

> yours (living in different flats) can be considered along the same

lines as

> a traditional indian marriage !!. Perhaps you could check some

rules Krushna

> gave about " friendship " between 2 charts. These worked fine for my

chart .

> According to " the rules " for marriage I should have a miserable

marriage,

> but our charts fit well for " friendship " , so everything still

workes fines

> even after many years. So don't take the rules for marriage to

strictly.

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Hello Denis. I am a Western Astrologist learning Vedic Astrology.

You asked for comment by Western Astrologists. I can see " relationship "

in a chart by using progressions and transits/. Using Western Ast. I have

focussed on relationships for a long time and I believe that I have a good

understanding of the natives feelings and intentions in relationship. I

can see love relationship as opposed to sexual relationship and different

again from formal marriage contract.

I hope that I will be able to learn Vedic. I am starting to think that

each of the systems has something to offer that the other does not have. I

am continueing to study. Best wishes. Lily

-

<krushanain

 

Tuesday, August 28, 2001 4:51 AM

Re: Mariage

 

 

> Dear Denis,

> Your other questions have been answered in a very nice way by

> Margarita and Prakash. I must thank them.

> I would like to make some modifiation in the calculations for

> 7th house, given by Prakash. It is next step. Lord of D is Saturn and

> lord of E is Mars. Both are with 4 points. If such lords are situated

> in 10th place from any planets then we add the points of those

> planets as per Row 3. So the Total points for Saturn becames 17, and

> for Venus becames 18. ( this thing is already covered in lessons and

> I think in Work sheet also it is given in notes by Mr Sanjay)

> Now as per Indian culture, and so the vedic astrology is based

> on Indian culture Marriage is having different types.

> Generally marriage is considered as a partnership ( 7th house)

> along with other relations. As soon as two persons get married, they

> became partener in the property of the spouse. In case if any of them

> is expired other becames the whole owner of the proerty of the

> spouse,until and unless it is specified. No body is allowed to have

> any extra sexual relations with any other person. Both the person

> should treat with each other with due respect.

> There is also one type of marriage, which may not be registered,

> The persons select their partner, but it is not recognised by the

> socity, So no body can claim on the property of the other. This may

> be treated as unauthorised relations, until and unless it gets some

> registration with the socity. This may be called as Gandharva Vivah.

> We are concerned with these two type of marriages here. In the

> first case 7th house is main. and in second case 7th house along with

> 5th and 12th house works.

>

> So for the period, when two persons meet each other can be from

> 5th house. When there is sexual relations with each other, with

> mutual acceptance then 12th house.

> When Two persons have deep attraction with each other then it

> can be 7th house again.

> Refering your case, the Saturn is lord of House D and having

> it's sight on 7th house, so it self or it's samdharmi can come

> forward to give the result. Rahu as per your chart represents Saturn,

> So it can give the result. But it also represents Mars, ( 6th lord )

> and situated in 4th house with 5 points, it can not convert the

> relation in partnership.

> The Venus which is more then 43 degree apart from Sun, and

> having sight of Saturn, reduces the marrital relations, here we

> should take partnership.

> There is a vast difference in marriage and sexual partner. Your

> relationship can be called as need of each other only. When there is

> deep attachment with each other, person require other person to be

> with him, for more and more time. So when both partners starts living

> in same house (flat) then it should be seen from 7th house.

>

> Marriage may be treated as legal status to the relations, If in

> your country, if the other person gets partnership in the wealth of

> the spouse then 7th house.

> Living to gether but no legal aspects, then 5th and 12th house

> should be refered.

> For legal marriage all 2,7, 11 and 4th and 12th house works at

> a time.

> krushna

>

>

>

> , " DENIS LABOURE " <Laboure@W...>

> wrote:

> > Dear Margarita,

> >

> > Thank you very much for your insights about my chart. May I ask a

> question

> > to the western members of the list who use the Krushna system?

> >

> > According to your experience, what is the nature of the subperiod

> you get

> > through the marriage worksheet? Is it:

> >

> > * The subperiod in which the partners meet themselves for the first

> time?

> > * The subperiod in which the partners have the first sexual

> intercourse?

> > * The subperiod in which the partners begin to live in the same

> flat?

> > * The subperiod in which the partners marry (civil or religious

> ceremony)?

> >

> > In the western way of life, some of the events may be some months

> or years

> > apart. My brother met his wife when he was a student. As he was

> studying in

> > a very far place, his wife and himself lived in the same flat three

> years

> > later, when his studies were completed.

> >

> > So, it seems to me important to understand what we are looking for!

> Thanks

> > for your opinion.

> >

> > Denis

> >

> >

> >

> > " Marguerite " <dmlettens@s...>

> > Re: Digest Number 329

> >

> > Hello Denis,

> > Normally Rahu works accoding to his placement. In your chart it is

> > Mars(scorpio) and Saturn (Anuradha).

> > Saturn is natural samdharmi to Venus. As there are strong cultural

> > differences between India and the West, I don't know if a

> relationship like

> > yours (living in different flats) can be considered along the same

> lines as

> > a traditional indian marriage !!. Perhaps you could check some

> rules Krushna

> > gave about " friendship " between 2 charts. These worked fine for my

> chart .

> > According to " the rules " for marriage I should have a miserable

> marriage,

> > but our charts fit well for " friendship " , so everything still

> workes fines

> > even after many years. So don't take the rules for marriage to

> strictly.

>

>

>

>

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My computer cant spell. My thoughts rush ahead, its a worry. Lily

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chaddenvi <chadden

 

Tuesday, August 28, 2001 9:40 PM

Re: Re: Mariage

 

 

> Hello Denis. I am a Western Astrologist learning Vedic Astrology.

> You asked for comment by Western Astrologists. I can see " relationship

"

> in a chart by using progressions and transits/. Using Western Ast. I

have

> focussed on relationships for a long time and I believe that I have a good

> understanding of the natives feelings and intentions in relationship. I

> can see love relationship as opposed to sexual relationship and different

> again from formal marriage contract.

> I hope that I will be able to learn Vedic. I am starting to think that

> each of the systems has something to offer that the other does not have.

I

> am continueing to study. Best wishes. Lily

> -

> <krushanain

>

> Tuesday, August 28, 2001 4:51 AM

> Re: Mariage

>

>

> > Dear Denis,

> > Your other questions have been answered in a very nice way by

> > Margarita and Prakash. I must thank them.

> > I would like to make some modifiation in the calculations for

> > 7th house, given by Prakash. It is next step. Lord of D is Saturn and

> > lord of E is Mars. Both are with 4 points. If such lords are situated

> > in 10th place from any planets then we add the points of those

> > planets as per Row 3. So the Total points for Saturn becames 17, and

> > for Venus becames 18. ( this thing is already covered in lessons and

> > I think in Work sheet also it is given in notes by Mr Sanjay)

> > Now as per Indian culture, and so the vedic astrology is based

> > on Indian culture Marriage is having different types.

> > Generally marriage is considered as a partnership ( 7th house)

> > along with other relations. As soon as two persons get married, they

> > became partener in the property of the spouse. In case if any of them

> > is expired other becames the whole owner of the proerty of the

> > spouse,until and unless it is specified. No body is allowed to have

> > any extra sexual relations with any other person. Both the person

> > should treat with each other with due respect.

> > There is also one type of marriage, which may not be registered,

> > The persons select their partner, but it is not recognised by the

> > socity, So no body can claim on the property of the other. This may

> > be treated as unauthorised relations, until and unless it gets some

> > registration with the socity. This may be called as Gandharva Vivah.

> > We are concerned with these two type of marriages here. In the

> > first case 7th house is main. and in second case 7th house along with

> > 5th and 12th house works.

> >

> > So for the period, when two persons meet each other can be from

> > 5th house. When there is sexual relations with each other, with

> > mutual acceptance then 12th house.

> > When Two persons have deep attraction with each other then it

> > can be 7th house again.

> > Refering your case, the Saturn is lord of House D and having

> > it's sight on 7th house, so it self or it's samdharmi can come

> > forward to give the result. Rahu as per your chart represents Saturn,

> > So it can give the result. But it also represents Mars, ( 6th lord )

> > and situated in 4th house with 5 points, it can not convert the

> > relation in partnership.

> > The Venus which is more then 43 degree apart from Sun, and

> > having sight of Saturn, reduces the marrital relations, here we

> > should take partnership.

> > There is a vast difference in marriage and sexual partner. Your

> > relationship can be called as need of each other only. When there is

> > deep attachment with each other, person require other person to be

> > with him, for more and more time. So when both partners starts living

> > in same house (flat) then it should be seen from 7th house.

> >

> > Marriage may be treated as legal status to the relations, If in

> > your country, if the other person gets partnership in the wealth of

> > the spouse then 7th house.

> > Living to gether but no legal aspects, then 5th and 12th house

> > should be refered.

> > For legal marriage all 2,7, 11 and 4th and 12th house works at

> > a time.

> > krushna

> >

> >

> >

> > , " DENIS LABOURE " <Laboure@W...>

> > wrote:

> > > Dear Margarita,

> > >

> > > Thank you very much for your insights about my chart. May I ask a

> > question

> > > to the western members of the list who use the Krushna system?

> > >

> > > According to your experience, what is the nature of the subperiod

> > you get

> > > through the marriage worksheet? Is it:

> > >

> > > * The subperiod in which the partners meet themselves for the first

> > time?

> > > * The subperiod in which the partners have the first sexual

> > intercourse?

> > > * The subperiod in which the partners begin to live in the same

> > flat?

> > > * The subperiod in which the partners marry (civil or religious

> > ceremony)?

> > >

> > > In the western way of life, some of the events may be some months

> > or years

> > > apart. My brother met his wife when he was a student. As he was

> > studying in

> > > a very far place, his wife and himself lived in the same flat three

> > years

> > > later, when his studies were completed.

> > >

> > > So, it seems to me important to understand what we are looking for!

> > Thanks

> > > for your opinion.

> > >

> > > Denis

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > " Marguerite " <dmlettens@s...>

> > > Re: Digest Number 329

> > >

> > > Hello Denis,

> > > Normally Rahu works accoding to his placement. In your chart it is

> > > Mars(scorpio) and Saturn (Anuradha).

> > > Saturn is natural samdharmi to Venus. As there are strong cultural

> > > differences between India and the West, I don't know if a

> > relationship like

> > > yours (living in different flats) can be considered along the same

> > lines as

> > > a traditional indian marriage !!. Perhaps you could check some

> > rules Krushna

> > > gave about " friendship " between 2 charts. These worked fine for my

> > chart .

> > > According to " the rules " for marriage I should have a miserable

> > marriage,

> > > but our charts fit well for " friendship " , so everything still

> > workes fines

> > > even after many years. So don't take the rules for marriage to

> > strictly.

> >

> >

> >

> >

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