please help me analyse the unfortunate events of my life

[Guest guest]

I was born November 7, 1968 17:25 Hoshiarpur, Punjab India 31n32,

75e54

My ex-wife born February 05, 1970, time 04:40 PM, Chandigarh, India

marriage arranged, by maternal uncles.

 

Have experienced circumstantially forced marriage (debt from maternal

uncles, immigration related issues), a divorce, a son from marriage

(faced problems with access), had unbelievable car accidents (car

sunk in the water while i was in it, during a flashflood), faced

extreme agony humiliation from ex-spouse & in-laws. Without a stable

job or career for most of the past 12 years despite higher education

( i have not had a job for the last 3 and a half years, since i quit

one in US to come and live in Canada, to be near my son). For the

last 3 years, lived in secluded environment, spend time reading books

on spirituality, ayurveda, autobiographies etc.My identity is obscure

socially. Have lived in Canada/US for the last 15 years. Parents in

Delhi. For the last 2 years took interest in spirituality such as

yoga, pranayam, meditation raw diets, juicing, ayurveda, aromatherapy

etc. but had troubles with health due to smoking (smoke one or two

cigarettes a day, quit it for 4 months on a trip to india, but took

it back when i returned to Canada). Find extreme laziness in my body,

no motivation or enthusiasm or zest of life (well, i do not call it

non-attachment, just disinterested so far).

I am deciding to leave everything in Canada and live with my parents.

Although, i have problems living and adjusting to society and values

(or rather absence of values) in India. But for my parents and my

welfare, i found it to be a solution to live near them (that would

keep my away from my son, though)

My particular question regarding my career is: what should i be doing

whether a job or my own business. And where should i be living , ie

my birth country. Whenever, I look at my birth chart and find 6

planets in houses 6, 8 and 12, besides debilitated sun in 7th, i

wonder what life had in store for me, when i was born. Currently i am

wearing a Topaz gold ring in my index finger right hand for the last

3 months.

My son was born july 28, 1997, 4:37 AM Toronto Ontario Canada 43n39,

79w23

 

I am usually concerned about his well-being, his future character and

his place in society. Since boys without much fatherly presence and a

stable family have problems settling in later life.

Please comment on my charts and let me know, what are the fixed

prarabdhas in my chart so that i do not try too much to change them

(i have a tendency to be stubborn and go any length to change the

results)

I came to canada 15 years ago, and my life's misery started from day

one. I came to study here for MBA and my uncle #2 gave me money for

studies, and he also strongly suggested that i focus on my studies

and not worry about making money by working part-time (which almost

all students do).

Fine, no problem with that, but I started to accumulate `DEBT'. But

my uncles started interfering in my life at the core level. Such as

they want my academic results, and so forth. They decide among

themselves that i need to marry (i was 21 years) inorder to live in

Canada. Which was total misguided, misinformed, ignorant statement.

Although, my youngest uncle worked for department of immigration and

employment(very shocking).

They would never listen to me or my feelings, but play the role of

HITLER (my way or high-way), they would keep on saying.

Once i had borrowed money, the youngest uncle would go to india on a

trip and tell my parents about the money borrowed and how it will be

returned. Next story: my parents feel down, and tell me that i have

to pay the loans, as soon as possible.

NOW, the loans can be paid by working and saving money, not

by " MARRYING " is my statement.

 

Next story: i cannot go back home at the end of my studies because my

father insists on my " MARRYING someone " for immigration purposes. My

story: by marrying at the young age of 22 or 23, you cannot find

someone suitable in Canada (average age of marrying in Indian

community is not that young, usually girls at least 24 years old).

Next, what has marriage to do with paying debts.

Another game: my uncles would tell me that marriage is good for me,

because then, I would get immigration and I can sponsor my parents to

Canada to live here.

My parents would insist that marriage is the answer for me because

then only I can earn money and repay the loans.

My uncle #2 would not say about paying the loans back, (as he always

said), but his younger brother would make a fuss about it to my

parents.

This is chakravyuh.

If your head is confused, i can understand that. Because i went

through the agony and mental harrasement.

After finishing studies, one is allowed to work in Canada for a

year. HELL, no, not by my uncles, because they are GOD, and if they

say so, then it does not happpen. So they will tell me, that

immigration will send me back home and etc etc.

BY THE way: i am Canadian Immigration Consultant, today. The truth is

that any body seeking Canadian Immigration, who has education , can

get it. But I would not support from anyone for that, and everybody

would tell me that it does not happen without marrying. (BASICALLY

TREAT ME LIKE A SECOND CLASS CITIZEN, if you get the idea).

One thing leads to another, i return about $5,000 of the 20,000

borrowed by 1993 early.

Because of the remaining balance, i marry one girl, in 1993. The girl

does not like me. she feels used for immigration purposes.

I repay the loans by 1996.

My son is born in 1997.

In 1999, i and my wife are separated.

I am working in USA, but my wife and her parents do not want her to

live there. They tell me to live and work near their house in Ottawa,

besides, my father in law demanding $150,000 as a advance/security

etc etc. (unbelievable). He has the guts to say that I am impotent,

that my wife has boyfriends, that she would continue bringing guys

home, even if I give him the money to save my marriage. (I could not

believe my fate or karma for that). Before marriage, I did not have

a single girl in my life, and this is what I get from life.

Even today, my son lives with my ex-wife in Ottawa. I have been

living here for the past 3 years, hoping that I would find a suitable

job and be at least close to my son. But unfortunately I could not

find one. And as for my own business, where other people make tons of

money, I was not able to do it successfully because of lack of my

personality such as extreme laziness, no motivation, lack of time

management, depression, etc.

I get into frequent arguments with my in-laws due to getting my son

every two weeks for a day.

Sometimes, they would call my uncles and my uncles would ask for

explanation. Now the surprising part is that when I have problems,

and I talk to my uncles, they totally ignore it.

Currently, I am on the verge of getting into debt again, if I do not

find a job or kick-start my business. Basically, I find myself

totally alone, all the time. With no one helping or assisting me, in

any way.

Basically, I would equate my situation to `Chakravyuh " from

Mahabharat about abhimanyu.

Therefore, my parents are asking me to come to India and live and

work there.

The question is: what should be the strategy for my life, from now

onwards.

 

Rajesh

[Guest guest]

Dear Rajesh,

I had some spare time so I casted both charts of you and your ex-

wife.

 

Lets take your ex-wifes chart first.

 

1) Guru is in libra.

2) Venus to Sun distance is less than 3deg20 AND they are in the same

Navamsa.

3) Guru is 6th lord and in 4th house with 6 bindus so it will devoid

results of 10th, 8th and 12th house in your wifes chart during its

antra.

4) 7th lord has gone into 10th house and is with low bindus i.e 2

bindus thereby opposing 7th house (House B) and LoD.

5) LoE is in 6th house with 5 bindus.

6) 6th house SAV points are only 26.

 

Lets take your chart now.

 

1) 2 zero points in the SAV given to 2nd house by Mars and in 9th

house by Shani. 2nd house is for Family and also karak sthan for

marriage. 9th is for future generation. 5th from 5th house. Also

for father, luck etc.

2) 6th lord is in 7th house.

3) Sun is also in 7th house.

4) 12th lord from 8th house is in 8th house.

5) NK and FK is Venus and its in Jayesha AND this venus is not

aspected beneficially by Guru. (Please refer to lesson in file

section).

6) DEBT - 12th SAV points are higher than 11th. 30 points in 12th

house V/s 29 points in 11th house.

 

So its very clear why you are in debt and are having problems in

Maritial relation. All your answers are given clearly in lessons

which you can download from file section.

 

Sorry, I do not have time to go into further details. You can check

what each of the points that I have listed for both you and your wife

in your charts mean.

 

Also if you married in 1993 then that would take it to Venus antra.

If you cast the worksheet you will see that marriage happened in the

lowest signficator for marriage. You have also said you seperated

in 1999. That falls in Guru/Guru MD/AD. Guru has highest points for

7th house. So the laws given by Krushnaji in the lessons fit

perfectly.

 

Yet again we come across a chart with Guru in libra and Venus to sun

distance < 3 deg 20 and such a venus is aspected by Shani and Shani

aspecting both luminiaries and in male chart Venus in Jayeshta.

 

This chart is good for list members to study.

 

Cheers !!!

Ash

 

 

 

, " rajesh "

<rrgupta97> wrote:

> I was born November 7, 1968 17:25 Hoshiarpur, Punjab India 31n32,

> 75e54

> My ex-wife born February 05, 1970, time 04:40 PM, Chandigarh, India

> marriage arranged, by maternal uncles.

>

> Have experienced circumstantially forced marriage (debt from

maternal

> uncles, immigration related issues), a divorce, a son from marriage

> (faced problems with access), had unbelievable car accidents (car

> sunk in the water while i was in it, during a flashflood), faced

> extreme agony humiliation from ex-spouse & in-laws. Without a

stable

> job or career for most of the past 12 years despite higher

education

> ( i have not had a job for the last 3 and a half years, since i

quit

> one in US to come and live in Canada, to be near my son). For the

> last 3 years, lived in secluded environment, spend time reading

books

> on spirituality, ayurveda, autobiographies etc.My identity is

obscure

> socially. Have lived in Canada/US for the last 15 years. Parents in

> Delhi. For the last 2 years took interest in spirituality such as

> yoga, pranayam, meditation raw diets, juicing, ayurveda,

aromatherapy

> etc. but had troubles with health due to smoking (smoke one or two

> cigarettes a day, quit it for 4 months on a trip to india, but took

> it back when i returned to Canada). Find extreme laziness in my

body,

> no motivation or enthusiasm or zest of life (well, i do not call it

> non-attachment, just disinterested so far).

> I am deciding to leave everything in Canada and live with my

parents.

> Although, i have problems living and adjusting to society and

values

> (or rather absence of values) in India. But for my parents and my

> welfare, i found it to be a solution to live near them (that would

> keep my away from my son, though)

> My particular question regarding my career is: what should i be

doing

> whether a job or my own business. And where should i be living , ie

> my birth country. Whenever, I look at my birth chart and find 6

> planets in houses 6, 8 and 12, besides debilitated sun in 7th, i

> wonder what life had in store for me, when i was born. Currently i

am

> wearing a Topaz gold ring in my index finger right hand for the

last

> 3 months.

> My son was born july 28, 1997, 4:37 AM Toronto Ontario Canada

43n39,

> 79w23

>

> I am usually concerned about his well-being, his future character

and

> his place in society. Since boys without much fatherly presence and

a

> stable family have problems settling in later life.

> Please comment on my charts and let me know, what are the fixed

> prarabdhas in my chart so that i do not try too much to change them

> (i have a tendency to be stubborn and go any length to change the

> results)

> I came to canada 15 years ago, and my life's misery started from

day

> one. I came to study here for MBA and my uncle #2 gave me money for

> studies, and he also strongly suggested that i focus on my studies

> and not worry about making money by working part-time (which almost

> all students do).

> Fine, no problem with that, but I started to accumulate `DEBT'. But

> my uncles started interfering in my life at the core level. Such as

> they want my academic results, and so forth. They decide among

> themselves that i need to marry (i was 21 years) inorder to live in

> Canada. Which was total misguided, misinformed, ignorant

statement.

> Although, my youngest uncle worked for department of immigration

and

> employment(very shocking).

> They would never listen to me or my feelings, but play the role of

> HITLER (my way or high-way), they would keep on saying.

> Once i had borrowed money, the youngest uncle would go to india on

a

> trip and tell my parents about the money borrowed and how it will

be

> returned. Next story: my parents feel down, and tell me that i

have

> to pay the loans, as soon as possible.

> NOW, the loans can be paid by working and saving money, not

> by " MARRYING " is my statement.

>

> Next story: i cannot go back home at the end of my studies because

my

> father insists on my " MARRYING someone " for immigration purposes.

My

> story: by marrying at the young age of 22 or 23, you cannot find

> someone suitable in Canada (average age of marrying in Indian

> community is not that young, usually girls at least 24 years old).

> Next, what has marriage to do with paying debts.

> Another game: my uncles would tell me that marriage is good for me,

> because then, I would get immigration and I can sponsor my parents

to

> Canada to live here.

> My parents would insist that marriage is the answer for me because

> then only I can earn money and repay the loans.

> My uncle #2 would not say about paying the loans back, (as he

always

> said), but his younger brother would make a fuss about it to my

> parents.

> This is chakravyuh.

> If your head is confused, i can understand that. Because i went

> through the agony and mental harrasement.

> After finishing studies, one is allowed to work in Canada for a

> year. HELL, no, not by my uncles, because they are GOD, and if

they

> say so, then it does not happpen. So they will tell me, that

> immigration will send me back home and etc etc.

> BY THE way: i am Canadian Immigration Consultant, today. The truth

is

> that any body seeking Canadian Immigration, who has education , can

> get it. But I would not support from anyone for that, and everybody

> would tell me that it does not happen without marrying. (BASICALLY

> TREAT ME LIKE A SECOND CLASS CITIZEN, if you get the idea).

> One thing leads to another, i return about $5,000 of the 20,000

> borrowed by 1993 early.

> Because of the remaining balance, i marry one girl, in 1993. The

girl

> does not like me. she feels used for immigration purposes.

> I repay the loans by 1996.

> My son is born in 1997.

> In 1999, i and my wife are separated.

> I am working in USA, but my wife and her parents do not want her to

> live there. They tell me to live and work near their house in

Ottawa,

> besides, my father in law demanding $150,000 as a advance/security

> etc etc. (unbelievable). He has the guts to say that I am impotent,

> that my wife has boyfriends, that she would continue bringing guys

> home, even if I give him the money to save my marriage. (I could

not

> believe my fate or karma for that). Before marriage, I did not

have

> a single girl in my life, and this is what I get from life.

> Even today, my son lives with my ex-wife in Ottawa. I have been

> living here for the past 3 years, hoping that I would find a

suitable

> job and be at least close to my son. But unfortunately I could not

> find one. And as for my own business, where other people make tons

of

> money, I was not able to do it successfully because of lack of my

> personality such as extreme laziness, no motivation, lack of time

> management, depression, etc.

> I get into frequent arguments with my in-laws due to getting my son

> every two weeks for a day.

> Sometimes, they would call my uncles and my uncles would ask for

> explanation. Now the surprising part is that when I have problems,

> and I talk to my uncles, they totally ignore it.

> Currently, I am on the verge of getting into debt again, if I do

not

> find a job or kick-start my business. Basically, I find myself

> totally alone, all the time. With no one helping or assisting me,

in

> any way.

> Basically, I would equate my situation to `Chakravyuh " from

> Mahabharat about abhimanyu.

> Therefore, my parents are asking me to come to India and live and

> work there.

> The question is: what should be the strategy for my life, from now

> onwards.

>

> Rajesh