serious problem, please help me

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sir,

 

my name is nisha and i was born on 21st november 1980 at adoor(93km

north of trivandrum) and my husband was born on 20th december 1978 at

kottayam(south of cochin) both in kerala. we got married on 2nd june

2005. our relationship is not very happy. according to our horoscopes

he has ezhara sani and i have kandaka sani. before marriage all the

astrologers whom my parents contacted had predicted that i'll be

having a good life after marriage. though there's only medium match

b/w our horoscopes, no astrologer told that our life will go through

so much tensions and friction. my husband has a habit of drinking at

times and coming home breaking things and abusing me though he has

not done any physical harm so far. but i'm scared whether he'll start

hurting me since he doesn't express his emotions in normal senses and

appear to be pleasant. but once he's drunk, whatever is his problem

i'm the target of all his anger. he had caused damage to many costly

things at home. i tried to take him to counselling but he won't

listen saying that he doesn't take anyone's advice. he has a very

high ego level and refuse to have open conversation. last friday he

abused me infron of his friend which was unbearable for me. he didn't

feel guilty abt it and didn't talk to me for 2 days after that so i

left for my home leaving a note for him. i thought atleast then he'll

realise that he hurt me badly n will call me n agree for an open

talk. but now he doesn't attend my calls or doesn't respond to my

messages saying that i ran away from him. this is getting towards a

worse situation. his parents are also not very supportive n they also

cause mental tensions for me in many ways but i neglect that. now my

husband's problem is that i don't gel with my in-laws but instead of

taking any initiative to solve it he abuses me and makes our life

hell. i was staying in gurgaon(haryana) with him and my in-laws are

in new delhi. they have not even called me to know what's the problem

saying that i didn't inform anyone n eloped from there. but none asks

me or listens to me to understand the whole thing was started by my

husband. my parents are asking me to leave that guy n get married to

someone else who can treat me well but if things work out am ready to

go back to my husband. can u please tell me what's the future of my

relationship with this guy. will it end up in divorce? please

consider it as a major issue and advise me what to do

 

thanks,

 

nisha.