serious problem, with birth details,please help me

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sir,

my name is nisha and i was born on 21st november 1980 at adoor(93km north of

trivandrum) at 6.58am and my husband was born on 20th december 1978 at

kottayam(south of cochin) at 10pm both in kerala. we got married on 2nd june

2005. our relationship is not very happy. according to our horoscopes he has

ezhara sani and i have kandaka sani. before marriage all the astrologers whom my

parents contacted had predicted that i'll be having a good life after marriage.

though there's only medium match b/w our horoscopes, no astrologer told that our

life will go through so much tensions and friction. my husband has a habit of

drinking at times and coming home breaking things and abusing me though he has

not done any physical harm so far. but i'm scared whether he'll start hurting me

since he doesn't express his emotions in normal senses and appear to be

pleasant. but once he's drunk, whatever is his problem i'm the target of all his

anger. he had caused damage to many costly things

at home. i tried to take him to counselling but he won't listen saying that he

doesn't take anyone's advice. he has a very high ego level and refuse to have

open conversation. last friday he abused me infron of his friend which was

unbearable for me. he didn't feel guilty abt it and didn't talk to me for 2 days

after that so i left for my home leaving a note for him. i thought atleast then

he'll realise that he hurt me badly n will call me n agree for an open talk. but

now he doesn't attend my calls or doesn't respond to my messages saying that i

ran away from him. this is getting towards a worse situation. his parents are

also not very supportive n they also cause mental tensions for me in many ways

but i neglect that. now my husband's problem is that i don't gel with my in-laws

but instead of taking any initiative to solve it he abuses me and makes our life

hell. i was staying in gurgaon(haryana) with him and my in-laws are in new

delhi. they have not even called me to

know what's the problem saying that i didn't inform anyone n eloped from there.

but none asks me or listens to me to understand the whole thing was started by

my husband. my parents are asking me to leave that guy n get married to someone

else who can treat me well but if things work out am ready to go back to my

husband.we consulted an astrologer who told there's no use continuing this as

according to astro my husband's character can only become worse and he has some

physical and psychological disorders as well, which i think is correct.he tells

even if he calls me back, which i don't expect, i should not go back. can u

please tell me what's the future of my relationship with this guy. will it end

up in divorce? please consider it as a major issue and advise me what to do

thanks,

nisha.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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[Guest guest]

Dear Nisha,

 

You have posted the birth time but again instead of giving specific

events with definite dates, you have described your problem. This is

not going to help.

 

Furnish the following details along with the chart

 

1) Complete birth data.

2) Education level of the native.

3) Means of earning a living, and when the job began. Any change in

jobs, date of pay raise, etc.

4) If married then give the date of marriage. Please also mention if

it is a pre-arranged marriage or a love marriage. Also, give the

chart of the life partner.

5) If there are problems in the marital life, please specify with

date.

6) If there are children, then give their dates of birth.

7) Specify whether parents are still living. If not, give their

dates of passing.

8) Any accident, or similar event with date.

 

Regards

Gita

 

 

, nisha V

<mewati80 wrote:

>

> sir,

> my name is nisha and i was born on 21st november 1980 at adoor

(93km north of trivandrum) at 6.58am and my husband was born on 20th

december 1978 at kottayam(south of cochin) at 10pm both in kerala.

we got married on 2nd june 2005. our relationship is not very happy.

according to our horoscopes he has ezhara sani and i have kandaka

sani. before marriage all the astrologers whom my parents contacted

had predicted that i'll be having a good life after marriage. though

there's only medium match b/w our horoscopes, no astrologer told

that our life will go through so much tensions and friction. my

husband has a habit of drinking at times and coming home breaking

things and abusing me though he has not done any physical harm so

far. but i'm scared whether he'll start hurting me since he doesn't

express his emotions in normal senses and appear to be pleasant. but

once he's drunk, whatever is his problem i'm the target of all his

anger. he had caused damage to many costly things

> at home. i tried to take him to counselling but he won't listen

saying that he doesn't take anyone's advice. he has a very high ego

level and refuse to have open conversation. last friday he abused me

infron of his friend which was unbearable for me. he didn't feel

guilty abt it and didn't talk to me for 2 days after that so i left

for my home leaving a note for him. i thought atleast then he'll

realise that he hurt me badly n will call me n agree for an open

talk. but now he doesn't attend my calls or doesn't respond to my

messages saying that i ran away from him. this is getting towards a

worse situation. his parents are also not very supportive n they

also cause mental tensions for me in many ways but i neglect that.

now my husband's problem is that i don't gel with my in-laws but

instead of taking any initiative to solve it he abuses me and makes

our life hell. i was staying in gurgaon(haryana) with him and my in-

laws are in new delhi. they have not even called me to

> know what's the problem saying that i didn't inform anyone n

eloped from there. but none asks me or listens to me to understand

the whole thing was started by my husband. my parents are asking me

to leave that guy n get married to someone else who can treat me

well but if things work out am ready to go back to my husband.we

consulted an astrologer who told there's no use continuing this as

according to astro my husband's character can only become worse and

he has some physical and psychological disorders as well, which i

think is correct.he tells even if he calls me back, which i don't

expect, i should not go back. can u please tell me what's the future

of my relationship with this guy. will it end up in divorce? please

consider it as a major issue and advise me what to do

> thanks,

> nisha.

>

 

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