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husband : sreejesh divakaran

date of birth : 20-dec-1978

time 10 pm

place : kottayam near cochin, kerala state, India

education : B Com from delhi university,

occupation : working as asst manager operations in a BPO in gurgaon

wife : nisha v

date of birth : 21-nov-1980

time 6.58 am

place adoor near trivandrum(thiruvananthapuram), kerala state, India

education : MCA from anna university

occupation : was working as trainee in a logistics company in gurgaon but left

last week due to domestic problems. talented in singing and learning hindustani

music.

 

marriage was arranged marriage, on 2nd june 2005. No children. first fight

started on 28th june 2005(within one month after marraige). worst fight happened

on 19th september 2005. he broke tv, music systems, other electronic devices,

lamps, show pieces, cassettes, cds, tore my dresses, crockery etc abusing me.

reason was that my dad gave me some pocket money when my parents visited us. but

the same egoistic guy had asked me to ask my parents to sell my gold and send

money to buy car and other expenses. my parents sold some gold and then sent 2

lakhs.

he picked up fights again but it was not worse like the previous one. but

abuse is his main item when ever he fights.

last fight happened on 7th july 2006 when he abused me infront of his friend.

reason was that he started his irritating talk insulting me in his friend's

presence but i told him i don't want to talk when he's drunk. for the next 2

days ignored me completely.

i ran away from there(gurgaon, haryana) to my home in trivandrum, kerala.

now he refuses to talk to me or to my father since i ran away from there. his

parents have not called me too.

yesterday(14th july 2006) i consulted an astrologer here in trivandrum and

checked our horoscopes with birth details but he told they don't match at all.

the astro whom we consulted before marriage had done a mistake. and there's no

point in continuing this relationship since sreejesh's character according to

his horoscope is not good and it will only get worse than this. he told i should

get a divorce n wait till i become 26 and then search for a good proposal. he

told since i have talent in music i can take it as a career later on. now i

should get a job and take my mind off my husband.

 

is it enough for you to arrive at a conclusion? please help me as i'm going

through a very bad time.

 

regards,

nisha

 

 

 

 

 

kaslearner <kaslearner wrote:

Dear Nisha,

 

You have posted the birth time but again instead of giving specific

events with definite dates, you have described your problem. This is

not going to help.

 

Furnish the following details along with the chart

 

1) Complete birth data.

2) Education level of the native.

3) Means of earning a living, and when the job began. Any change in

jobs, date of pay raise, etc.

4) If married then give the date of marriage. Please also mention if

it is a pre-arranged marriage or a love marriage. Also, give the

chart of the life partner.

5) If there are problems in the marital life, please specify with

date.

6) If there are children, then give their dates of birth.

7) Specify whether parents are still living. If not, give their

dates of passing.

8) Any accident, or similar event with date.

 

Regards

Gita

 

, nisha V

<mewati80 wrote:

>

> sir,

> my name is nisha and i was born on 21st november 1980 at adoor

(93km north of trivandrum) at 6.58am and my husband was born on 20th

december 1978 at kottayam(south of cochin) at 10pm both in kerala.

we got married on 2nd june 2005. our relationship is not very happy.

according to our horoscopes he has ezhara sani and i have kandaka

sani. before marriage all the astrologers whom my parents contacted

had predicted that i'll be having a good life after marriage. though

there's only medium match b/w our horoscopes, no astrologer told

that our life will go through so much tensions and friction. my

husband has a habit of drinking at times and coming home breaking

things and abusing me though he has not done any physical harm so

far. but i'm scared whether he'll start hurting me since he doesn't

express his emotions in normal senses and appear to be pleasant. but

once he's drunk, whatever is his problem i'm the target of all his

anger. he had caused damage to many costly things

> at home. i tried to take him to counselling but he won't listen

saying that he doesn't take anyone's advice. he has a very high ego

level and refuse to have open conversation. last friday he abused me

infron of his friend which was unbearable for me. he didn't feel

guilty abt it and didn't talk to me for 2 days after that so i left

for my home leaving a note for him. i thought atleast then he'll

realise that he hurt me badly n will call me n agree for an open

talk. but now he doesn't attend my calls or doesn't respond to my

messages saying that i ran away from him. this is getting towards a

worse situation. his parents are also not very supportive n they

also cause mental tensions for me in many ways but i neglect that.

now my husband's problem is that i don't gel with my in-laws but

instead of taking any initiative to solve it he abuses me and makes

our life hell. i was staying in gurgaon(haryana) with him and my in-

laws are in new delhi. they have not even called me to

> know what's the problem saying that i didn't inform anyone n

eloped from there. but none asks me or listens to me to understand

the whole thing was started by my husband. my parents are asking me

to leave that guy n get married to someone else who can treat me

well but if things work out am ready to go back to my husband.we

consulted an astrologer who told there's no use continuing this as

according to astro my husband's character can only become worse and

he has some physical and psychological disorders as well, which i

think is correct.he tells even if he calls me back, which i don't

expect, i should not go back. can u please tell me what's the future

of my relationship with this guy. will it end up in divorce? please

consider it as a major issue and advise me what to do

> thanks,

> nisha.

>

 

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