Guest guest Posted July 16, 2006 Report Share Posted July 16, 2006 Date of Birth: 21 Nov 1980 Time: 6:58 am Place: Adoor, Kerala Female Native Timing Marriage: A – Saggi; LoA – Jupiter B – Taurus; LoB – Venus C - Virgo; LoC - Mercury D – Aquarius; LoD – Saturn E – Libra; LoE – Venus There is a full delay due to Jupiter. 1st and 9th Lord (Mars and Moon) are in 5:9 indicating father's blessings. Marriage happened in the third sector of Mercury Antra after delay ended. Mercury has 12 points for 7th house and MF of 1.2. Also Mercury is SD to Venus (LoE for 7th house). Ketu antra which immediately followed marriage gave problems and fights. Ketu is SD to Saturn and Moon (more like Moon). Moon has only 11 points for 7th house and is placed in the 6th house. 6th house is the house of disputes and enemies. Also 6th house is 12th from 7th. So it can be considered debilitated or devoid of strength for marriage related issues. Current Antra running is that of Venus. Venus has low points for almost all 12 houses indicating a generally difficult time over all. In this antra you may also experience less income compared to your expenditure. Your Venus antra will run until Oct 20 2007. So this state will prevail till then. Venus is in the nakshatra and navamsa of Mars (Chitra). Also Mars is in the navamsa of Venus. You probably have very attractive looks. Mars is 6th Lord. 6th Lord is in 2th affecting house of Karaka. Also LoA, LoB, LoD and LoE are all SD to 6th Lord. LoC (Me) is placed along with Ve (which is again SD to 6th Lord). Upachaya Lords are all associated with 6th Lord is in someway clearly indicative of troubles in married life. The separation has already started and the rest is legal procedure. Indications of divorce are seen in your husband's chart. Lord of 1: Lord of 7 from lagna, sun and moon are all in 3:11 relationship indicating your adjustable attitude towards marriage. It would be helpful if you follow your father's advice in any situation. Date of birth: 20 Dec 1978 Time 10 pm Place: Kottayam, Kerala Male Native The lagna is at the border. There is a full delay in marriage due to Saturn. Moon antra following the delay period gave marriage. Moon has 16 points for the 7th house. Mars antra gave separation. However, Sun-Venus distance is greater than 43 degrees. Saturn aspects Ve and Moon (luminary). Moon is also afflicted by Rahu causing eccentric behavior. Jupiter is in lagna with high points. Jupiter is also 6th Lord. All these are strongly indications of divorce. I hope this has given you some insight. Good luck! Regards Gita , nisha V <mewati80 wrote: > > details: > husband : sreejesh divakaran > date of birth : 20-dec-1978 > time 10 pm > place : kottayam near cochin, kerala state, India > education : B Com from delhi university, > occupation : working as asst manager operations in a BPO in gurgaon > wife : nisha v > date of birth : 21-nov-1980 > time 6.58 am > place adoor near trivandrum(thiruvananthapuram), kerala state, India > education : MCA from anna university > occupation : was working as trainee in a logistics company in gurgaon but left last week due to domestic problems. talented in singing and learning hindustani music. > > marriage was arranged marriage, on 2nd june 2005. No children. first fight started on 28th june 2005(within one month after marraige). worst fight happened on 19th september 2005. he broke tv, music systems, other electronic devices, lamps, show pieces, cassettes, cds, tore my dresses, crockery etc abusing me. reason was that my dad gave me some pocket money when my parents visited us. but the same egoistic guy had asked me to ask my parents to sell my gold and send money to buy car and other expenses. my parents sold some gold and then sent 2 lakhs. > he picked up fights again but it was not worse like the previous one. but abuse is his main item when ever he fights. > last fight happened on 7th july 2006 when he abused me infront of his friend. reason was that he started his irritating talk insulting me in his friend's presence but i told him i don't want to talk when he's drunk. for the next 2 days ignored me completely. > i ran away from there(gurgaon, haryana) to my home in trivandrum, kerala. > now he refuses to talk to me or to my father since i ran away from there. his parents have not called me too. > yesterday(14th july 2006) i consulted an astrologer here in trivandrum and checked our horoscopes with birth details but he told they don't match at all. the astro whom we consulted before marriage had done a mistake. and there's no point in continuing this relationship since sreejesh's character according to his horoscope is not good and it will only get worse than this. he told i should get a divorce n wait till i become 26 and then search for a good proposal. he told since i have talent in music i can take it as a career later on. now i should get a job and take my mind off my husband. > > is it enough for you to arrive at a conclusion? please help me as i'm going through a very bad time. > > regards, > nisha > > > > > > kaslearner <kaslearner wrote: > Dear Nisha, > > You have posted the birth time but again instead of giving specific > events with definite dates, you have described your problem. This is > not going to help. > > Furnish the following details along with the chart > > 1) Complete birth data. > 2) Education level of the native. > 3) Means of earning a living, and when the job began. Any change in > jobs, date of pay raise, etc. > 4) If married then give the date of marriage. Please also mention if > it is a pre-arranged marriage or a love marriage. Also, give the > chart of the life partner. > 5) If there are problems in the marital life, please specify with > date. > 6) If there are children, then give their dates of birth. > 7) Specify whether parents are still living. If not, give their > dates of passing. > 8) Any accident, or similar event with date. > > Regards > Gita > > , nisha V > <mewati80@> wrote: > > > > sir, > > my name is nisha and i was born on 21st november 1980 at adoor > (93km north of trivandrum) at 6.58am and my husband was born on 20th > december 1978 at kottayam(south of cochin) at 10pm both in kerala. > we got married on 2nd june 2005. our relationship is not very happy. > according to our horoscopes he has ezhara sani and i have kandaka > sani. before marriage all the astrologers whom my parents contacted > had predicted that i'll be having a good life after marriage. though > there's only medium match b/w our horoscopes, no astrologer told > that our life will go through so much tensions and friction. my > husband has a habit of drinking at times and coming home breaking > things and abusing me though he has not done any physical harm so > far. but i'm scared whether he'll start hurting me since he doesn't > express his emotions in normal senses and appear to be pleasant. but > once he's drunk, whatever is his problem i'm the target of all his > anger. he had caused damage to many costly things > > at home. i tried to take him to counselling but he won't listen > saying that he doesn't take anyone's advice. he has a very high ego > level and refuse to have open conversation. last friday he abused me > infron of his friend which was unbearable for me. he didn't feel > guilty abt it and didn't talk to me for 2 days after that so i left > for my home leaving a note for him. i thought atleast then he'll > realise that he hurt me badly n will call me n agree for an open > talk. but now he doesn't attend my calls or doesn't respond to my > messages saying that i ran away from him. this is getting towards a > worse situation. his parents are also not very supportive n they > also cause mental tensions for me in many ways but i neglect that. > now my husband's problem is that i don't gel with my in-laws but > instead of taking any initiative to solve it he abuses me and makes > our life hell. i was staying in gurgaon(haryana) with him and my in- > laws are in new delhi. they have not even called me to > > know what's the problem saying that i didn't inform anyone n > eloped from there. but none asks me or listens to me to understand > the whole thing was started by my husband. my parents are asking me > to leave that guy n get married to someone else who can treat me > well but if things work out am ready to go back to my husband.we > consulted an astrologer who told there's no use continuing this as > according to astro my husband's character can only become worse and > he has some physical and psychological disorders as well, which i > think is correct.he tells even if he calls me back, which i don't > expect, i should not go back. can u please tell me what's the future > of my relationship with this guy. will it end up in divorce? please > consider it as a major issue and advise me what to do > > thanks, > > nisha. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Music Unlimited - Access over 1 million songs.Try it free. > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 17, 2006 Report Share Posted July 17, 2006 Hello Gita, Will this native not get divorce in Ve antara. Ve is LoE for 2nd, occupying in the house of loss with malefic bindu and SD to Me LoD. Ve is NSD to Sa who is in house D with 6 bindus and conjunct with Ju LoB.All these combinations aggrevating the divorce.I think the native may get divorce soon. What do you say ? Thanks and warm regards. Ramesh Mishra kaslearner <kaslearner wrote: Date of Birth: 21 Nov 1980 Time: 6:58 am Place: Adoor, Kerala Female Native Timing Marriage: A – Saggi; LoA – Jupiter B – Taurus; LoB – Venus C - Virgo; LoC - Mercury D – Aquarius; LoD – Saturn E – Libra; LoE – Venus There is a full delay due to Jupiter. 1st and 9th Lord (Mars and Moon) are in 5:9 indicating father's blessings. Marriage happened in the third sector of Mercury Antra after delay ended. Mercury has 12 points for 7th house and MF of 1.2. Also Mercury is SD to Venus (LoE for 7th house). Ketu antra which immediately followed marriage gave problems and fights. Ketu is SD to Saturn and Moon (more like Moon). Moon has only 11 points for 7th house and is placed in the 6th house. 6th house is the house of disputes and enemies. Also 6th house is 12th from 7th. So it can be considered debilitated or devoid of strength for marriage related issues. Current Antra running is that of Venus. Venus has low points for almost all 12 houses indicating a generally difficult time over all. In this antra you may also experience less income compared to your expenditure. Your Venus antra will run until Oct 20 2007. So this state will prevail till then. Venus is in the nakshatra and navamsa of Mars (Chitra). Also Mars is in the navamsa of Venus. You probably have very attractive looks. Mars is 6th Lord. 6th Lord is in 2th affecting house of Karaka. Also LoA, LoB, LoD and LoE are all SD to 6th Lord. LoC (Me) is placed along with Ve (which is again SD to 6th Lord). Upachaya Lords are all associated with 6th Lord is in someway clearly indicative of troubles in married life. The separation has already started and the rest is legal procedure. Indications of divorce are seen in your husband's chart. Lord of 1: Lord of 7 from lagna, sun and moon are all in 3:11 relationship indicating your adjustable attitude towards marriage. It would be helpful if you follow your father's advice in any situation. Date of birth: 20 Dec 1978 Time 10 pm Place: Kottayam, Kerala Male Native The lagna is at the border. There is a full delay in marriage due to Saturn. Moon antra following the delay period gave marriage. Moon has 16 points for the 7th house. Mars antra gave separation. However, Sun-Venus distance is greater than 43 degrees. Saturn aspects Ve and Moon (luminary). Moon is also afflicted by Rahu causing eccentric behavior. Jupiter is in lagna with high points. Jupiter is also 6th Lord. All these are strongly indications of divorce. I hope this has given you some insight. Good luck! Regards Gita , nisha V <mewati80 wrote: > > details: > husband : sreejesh divakaran > date of birth : 20-dec-1978 > time 10 pm > place : kottayam near cochin, kerala state, India > education : B Com from delhi university, > occupation : working as asst manager operations in a BPO in gurgaon > wife : nisha v > date of birth : 21-nov-1980 > time 6.58 am > place adoor near trivandrum(thiruvananthapuram), kerala state, India > education : MCA from anna university > occupation : was working as trainee in a logistics company in gurgaon but left last week due to domestic problems. talented in singing and learning hindustani music. > > marriage was arranged marriage, on 2nd june 2005. No children. first fight started on 28th june 2005(within one month after marraige). worst fight happened on 19th september 2005. he broke tv, music systems, other electronic devices, lamps, show pieces, cassettes, cds, tore my dresses, crockery etc abusing me. reason was that my dad gave me some pocket money when my parents visited us. but the same egoistic guy had asked me to ask my parents to sell my gold and send money to buy car and other expenses. my parents sold some gold and then sent 2 lakhs. > he picked up fights again but it was not worse like the previous one. but abuse is his main item when ever he fights. > last fight happened on 7th july 2006 when he abused me infront of his friend. reason was that he started his irritating talk insulting me in his friend's presence but i told him i don't want to talk when he's drunk. for the next 2 days ignored me completely. > i ran away from there(gurgaon, haryana) to my home in trivandrum, kerala. > now he refuses to talk to me or to my father since i ran away from there. his parents have not called me too. > yesterday(14th july 2006) i consulted an astrologer here in trivandrum and checked our horoscopes with birth details but he told they don't match at all. the astro whom we consulted before marriage had done a mistake. and there's no point in continuing this relationship since sreejesh's character according to his horoscope is not good and it will only get worse than this. he told i should get a divorce n wait till i become 26 and then search for a good proposal. he told since i have talent in music i can take it as a career later on. now i should get a job and take my mind off my husband. > > is it enough for you to arrive at a conclusion? please help me as i'm going through a very bad time. > > regards, > nisha > > > > > > kaslearner <kaslearner wrote: > Dear Nisha, > > You have posted the birth time but again instead of giving specific > events with definite dates, you have described your problem. This is > not going to help. > > Furnish the following details along with the chart > > 1) Complete birth data. > 2) Education level of the native. > 3) Means of earning a living, and when the job began. Any change in > jobs, date of pay raise, etc. > 4) If married then give the date of marriage. Please also mention if > it is a pre-arranged marriage or a love marriage. Also, give the > chart of the life partner. > 5) If there are problems in the marital life, please specify with > date. > 6) If there are children, then give their dates of birth. > 7) Specify whether parents are still living. If not, give their > dates of passing. > 8) Any accident, or similar event with date. > > Regards > Gita > > , nisha V > <mewati80@> wrote: > > > > sir, > > my name is nisha and i was born on 21st november 1980 at adoor > (93km north of trivandrum) at 6.58am and my husband was born on 20th > december 1978 at kottayam(south of cochin) at 10pm both in kerala. > we got married on 2nd june 2005. our relationship is not very happy. > according to our horoscopes he has ezhara sani and i have kandaka > sani. before marriage all the astrologers whom my parents contacted > had predicted that i'll be having a good life after marriage. though > there's only medium match b/w our horoscopes, no astrologer told > that our life will go through so much tensions and friction. my > husband has a habit of drinking at times and coming home breaking > things and abusing me though he has not done any physical harm so > far. but i'm scared whether he'll start hurting me since he doesn't > express his emotions in normal senses and appear to be pleasant. but > once he's drunk, whatever is his problem i'm the target of all his > anger. he had caused damage to many costly things > > at home. i tried to take him to counselling but he won't listen > saying that he doesn't take anyone's advice. he has a very high ego > level and refuse to have open conversation. last friday he abused me > infron of his friend which was unbearable for me. he didn't feel > guilty abt it and didn't talk to me for 2 days after that so i left > for my home leaving a note for him. i thought atleast then he'll > realise that he hurt me badly n will call me n agree for an open > talk. but now he doesn't attend my calls or doesn't respond to my > messages saying that i ran away from him. this is getting towards a > worse situation. his parents are also not very supportive n they > also cause mental tensions for me in many ways but i neglect that. > now my husband's problem is that i don't gel with my in-laws but > instead of taking any initiative to solve it he abuses me and makes > our life hell. i was staying in gurgaon(haryana) with him and my in- > laws are in new delhi. they have not even called me to > > know what's the problem saying that i didn't inform anyone n > eloped from there. but none asks me or listens to me to understand > the whole thing was started by my husband. my parents are asking me > to leave that guy n get married to someone else who can treat me > well but if things work out am ready to go back to my husband.we > consulted an astrologer who told there's no use continuing this as > according to astro my husband's character can only become worse and > he has some physical and psychological disorders as well, which i > think is correct.he tells even if he calls me back, which i don't > expect, i should not go back. can u please tell me what's the future > of my relationship with this guy. will it end up in divorce? please > consider it as a major issue and advise me what to do > > thanks, > > nisha. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Music Unlimited - Access over 1 million songs.Try it free. > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 17, 2006 Report Share Posted July 17, 2006 Dear Ramesh and Group, End of marriage and Legal Separation are 2 different things. End of marriage has happened already in Venus Antra. Legal procedures are matters of 6th house. I am not sure how to time divorce. Ash, any thoughts?? Thanks Gita , ramesh mishra <aarceemastro2002 wrote: > > Hello Gita, > Will this native not get divorce in Ve antara. Ve is LoE for 2nd, occupying in the house of loss with malefic bindu and SD to Me LoD. Ve is NSD to Sa who is in house D with 6 bindus and conjunct with Ju LoB.All these combinations aggrevating the divorce.I think the native may get divorce soon. What do you say ? > Thanks and warm regards. > Ramesh Mishra > > kaslearner <kaslearner wrote: > Date of Birth: 21 Nov 1980 > Time: 6:58 am > Place: Adoor, Kerala > Female Native > > Timing Marriage: > > A – Saggi; LoA – Jupiter > B – Taurus; LoB – Venus > C - Virgo; LoC - Mercury > D – Aquarius; LoD – Saturn > E – Libra; LoE – Venus > > There is a full delay due to Jupiter. 1st and 9th Lord (Mars and > Moon) are in 5:9 indicating father's blessings. Marriage happened in > the third sector of Mercury Antra after delay ended. Mercury has 12 > points for 7th house and MF of 1.2. Also Mercury is SD to Venus (LoE > for 7th house). > > Ketu antra which immediately followed marriage gave problems and > fights. Ketu is SD to Saturn and Moon (more like Moon). Moon has > only 11 points for 7th house and is placed in the 6th house. 6th > house is the house of disputes and enemies. Also 6th house is 12th > from 7th. So it can be considered debilitated or devoid of strength > for marriage related issues. > > Current Antra running is that of Venus. Venus has low points for > almost all 12 houses indicating a generally difficult time over all. > In this antra you may also experience less income compared to your > expenditure. Your Venus antra will run until Oct 20 2007. So this > state will prevail till then. > > Venus is in the nakshatra and navamsa of Mars (Chitra). Also Mars is > in the navamsa of Venus. You probably have very attractive looks. > > Mars is 6th Lord. 6th Lord is in 2th affecting house of Karaka. Also > LoA, LoB, LoD and LoE are all SD to 6th Lord. LoC (Me) is placed > along with Ve (which is again SD to 6th Lord). Upachaya Lords are > all associated with 6th Lord is in someway clearly indicative of > troubles in married life. > > The separation has already started and the rest is legal procedure. > Indications of divorce are seen in your husband's chart. > > Lord of 1: Lord of 7 from lagna, sun and moon are all in 3:11 > relationship indicating your adjustable attitude towards marriage. > > It would be helpful if you follow your father's advice in any > situation. > > Date of birth: 20 Dec 1978 > Time 10 pm > Place: Kottayam, Kerala > Male Native > > The lagna is at the border. There is a full delay in marriage due to > Saturn. Moon antra following the delay period gave marriage. Moon > has 16 points for the 7th house. Mars antra gave separation. > > However, Sun-Venus distance is greater than 43 degrees. Saturn > aspects Ve and Moon (luminary). Moon is also afflicted by Rahu > causing eccentric behavior. Jupiter is in lagna with high points. > Jupiter is also 6th Lord. All these are strongly indications of > divorce. > > I hope this has given you some insight. > > Good luck! > > Regards > Gita > > , nisha V > <mewati80@> wrote: > > > > details: > > husband : sreejesh divakaran > > date of birth : 20-dec-1978 > > time 10 pm > > place : kottayam near cochin, kerala state, India > > education : B Com from delhi university, > > occupation : working as asst manager operations in a BPO in > gurgaon > > wife : nisha v > > date of birth : 21-nov-1980 > > time 6.58 am > > place adoor near trivandrum(thiruvananthapuram), kerala state, > India > > education : MCA from anna university > > occupation : was working as trainee in a logistics company in > gurgaon but left last week due to domestic problems. talented in > singing and learning hindustani music. > > > > marriage was arranged marriage, on 2nd june 2005. No children. > first fight started on 28th june 2005(within one month after > marraige). worst fight happened on 19th september 2005. he broke tv, > music systems, other electronic devices, lamps, show pieces, > cassettes, cds, tore my dresses, crockery etc abusing me. reason was > that my dad gave me some pocket money when my parents visited us. > but the same egoistic guy had asked me to ask my parents to sell my > gold and send money to buy car and other expenses. my parents sold > some gold and then sent 2 lakhs. > > he picked up fights again but it was not worse like the previous > one. but abuse is his main item when ever he fights. > > last fight happened on 7th july 2006 when he abused me infront > of his friend. reason was that he started his irritating talk > insulting me in his friend's presence but i told him i don't want to > talk when he's drunk. for the next 2 days ignored me completely. > > i ran away from there(gurgaon, haryana) to my home in > trivandrum, kerala. > > now he refuses to talk to me or to my father since i ran away > from there. his parents have not called me too. > > yesterday(14th july 2006) i consulted an astrologer here in > trivandrum and checked our horoscopes with birth details but he told > they don't match at all. the astro whom we consulted before marriage > had done a mistake. and there's no point in continuing this > relationship since sreejesh's character according to his horoscope > is not good and it will only get worse than this. he told i should > get a divorce n wait till i become 26 and then search for a good > proposal. he told since i have talent in music i can take it as a > career later on. now i should get a job and take my mind off my > husband. > > > > is it enough for you to arrive at a conclusion? please help me > as i'm going through a very bad time. > > > > regards, > > nisha > > > > > > > > > > > > kaslearner <kaslearner@> wrote: > > Dear Nisha, > > > > You have posted the birth time but again instead of giving > specific > > events with definite dates, you have described your problem. This > is > > not going to help. > > > > Furnish the following details along with the chart > > > > 1) Complete birth data. > > 2) Education level of the native. > > 3) Means of earning a living, and when the job began. Any change > in > > jobs, date of pay raise, etc. > > 4) If married then give the date of marriage. Please also mention > if > > it is a pre-arranged marriage or a love marriage. Also, give the > > chart of the life partner. > > 5) If there are problems in the marital life, please specify with > > date. > > 6) If there are children, then give their dates of birth. > > 7) Specify whether parents are still living. If not, give their > > dates of passing. > > 8) Any accident, or similar event with date. > > > > Regards > > Gita > > > > , nisha V > > <mewati80@> wrote: > > > > > > sir, > > > my name is nisha and i was born on 21st november 1980 at adoor > > (93km north of trivandrum) at 6.58am and my husband was born on > 20th > > december 1978 at kottayam(south of cochin) at 10pm both in kerala. > > we got married on 2nd june 2005. our relationship is not very > happy. > > according to our horoscopes he has ezhara sani and i have kandaka > > sani. before marriage all the astrologers whom my parents > contacted > > had predicted that i'll be having a good life after marriage. > though > > there's only medium match b/w our horoscopes, no astrologer told > > that our life will go through so much tensions and friction. my > > husband has a habit of drinking at times and coming home breaking > > things and abusing me though he has not done any physical harm so > > far. but i'm scared whether he'll start hurting me since he > doesn't > > express his emotions in normal senses and appear to be pleasant. > but > > once he's drunk, whatever is his problem i'm the target of all his > > anger. he had caused damage to many costly things > > > at home. i tried to take him to counselling but he won't listen > > saying that he doesn't take anyone's advice. he has a very high > ego > > level and refuse to have open conversation. last friday he abused > me > > infron of his friend which was unbearable for me. he didn't feel > > guilty abt it and didn't talk to me for 2 days after that so i > left > > for my home leaving a note for him. i thought atleast then he'll > > realise that he hurt me badly n will call me n agree for an open > > talk. but now he doesn't attend my calls or doesn't respond to my > > messages saying that i ran away from him. this is getting towards > a > > worse situation. his parents are also not very supportive n they > > also cause mental tensions for me in many ways but i neglect that. > > now my husband's problem is that i don't gel with my in-laws but > > instead of taking any initiative to solve it he abuses me and > makes > > our life hell. i was staying in gurgaon(haryana) with him and my > in- > > laws are in new delhi. they have not even called me to > > > know what's the problem saying that i didn't inform anyone n > > eloped from there. but none asks me or listens to me to understand > > the whole thing was started by my husband. my parents are asking > me > > to leave that guy n get married to someone else who can treat me > > well but if things work out am ready to go back to my husband.we > > consulted an astrologer who told there's no use continuing this as > > according to astro my husband's character can only become worse > and > > he has some physical and psychological disorders as well, which i > > think is correct.he tells even if he calls me back, which i don't > > expect, i should not go back. can u please tell me what's the > future > > of my relationship with this guy. will it end up in divorce? > please > > consider it as a major issue and advise me what to do > > > thanks, > > > nisha. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Music Unlimited - Access over 1 million songs.Try it > free. > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 17, 2006 Report Share Posted July 17, 2006 Dear Gita, You are on the right track. For Legal issues, 6th house is B. Procedure is similar as per lessons. Yes, also closely observe Sa and Ju, daily points etc when going into detail. Other than that, you are on the right track. Yes, one thing, I wanted to note and it may not be applicable in this case, would be to study about the culture and relegious norms. It also would be prudent to study the chart based on the back ground. Say for example, you come across a chart of a native in who's relegion Divorse can't be there, then in such cases one must use their undertanding of the background of the culture and relegion. Yes, when points are low or there are signfications as both yourself and Ramesh have pointed out, about maritial problems then in that case, interpret things based also on your understanding of the native. I guess we call that desh, kaal and paatra. This is a very important factor. I hope this helps, Cheers !!! Ash , " kaslearner " <kaslearner wrote: > > Dear Ramesh and Group, > > End of marriage and Legal Separation are 2 different things. End of > marriage has happened already in Venus Antra. Legal procedures are > matters of 6th house. I am not sure how to time divorce. > > Ash, any thoughts?? > > Thanks > Gita > > , ramesh mishra > <aarceemastro2002@> wrote: > > > > Hello Gita, > > Will this native not get divorce in Ve antara. Ve is LoE for > 2nd, occupying in the house of loss with malefic bindu and SD to Me > LoD. Ve is NSD to Sa who is in house D with 6 bindus and conjunct > with Ju LoB.All these combinations aggrevating the divorce.I think > the native may get divorce soon. What do you say ? > > Thanks and warm regards. > > Ramesh Mishra > > > > kaslearner <kaslearner@> wrote: > > Date of Birth: 21 Nov 1980 > > Time: 6:58 am > > Place: Adoor, Kerala > > Female Native > > > > Timing Marriage: > > > > A – Saggi; LoA – Jupiter > > B – Taurus; LoB – Venus > > C - Virgo; LoC - Mercury > > D – Aquarius; LoD – Saturn > > E – Libra; LoE – Venus > > > > There is a full delay due to Jupiter. 1st and 9th Lord (Mars and > > Moon) are in 5:9 indicating father's blessings. Marriage happened > in > > the third sector of Mercury Antra after delay ended. Mercury has > 12 > > points for 7th house and MF of 1.2. Also Mercury is SD to Venus > (LoE > > for 7th house). > > > > Ketu antra which immediately followed marriage gave problems and > > fights. Ketu is SD to Saturn and Moon (more like Moon). Moon has > > only 11 points for 7th house and is placed in the 6th house. 6th > > house is the house of disputes and enemies. Also 6th house is 12th > > from 7th. So it can be considered debilitated or devoid of > strength > > for marriage related issues. > > > > Current Antra running is that of Venus. Venus has low points for > > almost all 12 houses indicating a generally difficult time over > all. > > In this antra you may also experience less income compared to your > > expenditure. Your Venus antra will run until Oct 20 2007. So this > > state will prevail till then. > > > > Venus is in the nakshatra and navamsa of Mars (Chitra). Also Mars > is > > in the navamsa of Venus. You probably have very attractive looks. > > > > Mars is 6th Lord. 6th Lord is in 2th affecting house of Karaka. > Also > > LoA, LoB, LoD and LoE are all SD to 6th Lord. LoC (Me) is placed > > along with Ve (which is again SD to 6th Lord). Upachaya Lords are > > all associated with 6th Lord is in someway clearly indicative of > > troubles in married life. > > > > The separation has already started and the rest is legal > procedure. > > Indications of divorce are seen in your husband's chart. > > > > Lord of 1: Lord of 7 from lagna, sun and moon are all in 3:11 > > relationship indicating your adjustable attitude towards marriage. > > > > It would be helpful if you follow your father's advice in any > > situation. > > > > Date of birth: 20 Dec 1978 > > Time 10 pm > > Place: Kottayam, Kerala > > Male Native > > > > The lagna is at the border. There is a full delay in marriage due > to > > Saturn. Moon antra following the delay period gave marriage. Moon > > has 16 points for the 7th house. Mars antra gave separation. > > > > However, Sun-Venus distance is greater than 43 degrees. Saturn > > aspects Ve and Moon (luminary). Moon is also afflicted by Rahu > > causing eccentric behavior. Jupiter is in lagna with high points. > > Jupiter is also 6th Lord. All these are strongly indications of > > divorce. > > > > I hope this has given you some insight. > > > > Good luck! > > > > Regards > > Gita > > > > , nisha V > > <mewati80@> wrote: > > > > > > details: > > > husband : sreejesh divakaran > > > date of birth : 20-dec-1978 > > > time 10 pm > > > place : kottayam near cochin, kerala state, India > > > education : B Com from delhi university, > > > occupation : working as asst manager operations in a BPO in > > gurgaon > > > wife : nisha v > > > date of birth : 21-nov-1980 > > > time 6.58 am > > > place adoor near trivandrum(thiruvananthapuram), kerala state, > > India > > > education : MCA from anna university > > > occupation : was working as trainee in a logistics company in > > gurgaon but left last week due to domestic problems. talented in > > singing and learning hindustani music. > > > > > > marriage was arranged marriage, on 2nd june 2005. No children. > > first fight started on 28th june 2005(within one month after > > marraige). worst fight happened on 19th september 2005. he broke > tv, > > music systems, other electronic devices, lamps, show pieces, > > cassettes, cds, tore my dresses, crockery etc abusing me. reason > was > > that my dad gave me some pocket money when my parents visited us. > > but the same egoistic guy had asked me to ask my parents to sell > my > > gold and send money to buy car and other expenses. my parents sold > > some gold and then sent 2 lakhs. > > > he picked up fights again but it was not worse like the previous > > one. but abuse is his main item when ever he fights. > > > last fight happened on 7th july 2006 when he abused me infront > > of his friend. reason was that he started his irritating talk > > insulting me in his friend's presence but i told him i don't want > to > > talk when he's drunk. for the next 2 days ignored me completely. > > > i ran away from there(gurgaon, haryana) to my home in > > trivandrum, kerala. > > > now he refuses to talk to me or to my father since i ran away > > from there. his parents have not called me too. > > > yesterday(14th july 2006) i consulted an astrologer here in > > trivandrum and checked our horoscopes with birth details but he > told > > they don't match at all. the astro whom we consulted before > marriage > > had done a mistake. and there's no point in continuing this > > relationship since sreejesh's character according to his horoscope > > is not good and it will only get worse than this. he told i should > > get a divorce n wait till i become 26 and then search for a good > > proposal. he told since i have talent in music i can take it as a > > career later on. now i should get a job and take my mind off my > > husband. > > > > > > is it enough for you to arrive at a conclusion? please help me > > as i'm going through a very bad time. > > > > > > regards, > > > nisha > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > kaslearner <kaslearner@> wrote: > > > Dear Nisha, > > > > > > You have posted the birth time but again instead of giving > > specific > > > events with definite dates, you have described your problem. > This > > is > > > not going to help. > > > > > > Furnish the following details along with the chart > > > > > > 1) Complete birth data. > > > 2) Education level of the native. > > > 3) Means of earning a living, and when the job began. Any change > > in > > > jobs, date of pay raise, etc. > > > 4) If married then give the date of marriage. Please also > mention > > if > > > it is a pre-arranged marriage or a love marriage. Also, give the > > > chart of the life partner. > > > 5) If there are problems in the marital life, please specify > with > > > date. > > > 6) If there are children, then give their dates of birth. > > > 7) Specify whether parents are still living. If not, give their > > > dates of passing. > > > 8) Any accident, or similar event with date. > > > > > > Regards > > > Gita > > > > > > , nisha V > > > <mewati80@> wrote: > > > > > > > > sir, > > > > my name is nisha and i was born on 21st november 1980 at adoor > > > (93km north of trivandrum) at 6.58am and my husband was born on > > 20th > > > december 1978 at kottayam(south of cochin) at 10pm both in > kerala. > > > we got married on 2nd june 2005. our relationship is not very > > happy. > > > according to our horoscopes he has ezhara sani and i have > kandaka > > > sani. before marriage all the astrologers whom my parents > > contacted > > > had predicted that i'll be having a good life after marriage. > > though > > > there's only medium match b/w our horoscopes, no astrologer told > > > that our life will go through so much tensions and friction. my > > > husband has a habit of drinking at times and coming home > breaking > > > things and abusing me though he has not done any physical harm > so > > > far. but i'm scared whether he'll start hurting me since he > > doesn't > > > express his emotions in normal senses and appear to be pleasant. > > but > > > once he's drunk, whatever is his problem i'm the target of all > his > > > anger. he had caused damage to many costly things > > > > at home. i tried to take him to counselling but he won't > listen > > > saying that he doesn't take anyone's advice. he has a very high > > ego > > > level and refuse to have open conversation. last friday he > abused > > me > > > infron of his friend which was unbearable for me. he didn't feel > > > guilty abt it and didn't talk to me for 2 days after that so i > > left > > > for my home leaving a note for him. i thought atleast then he'll > > > realise that he hurt me badly n will call me n agree for an open > > > talk. but now he doesn't attend my calls or doesn't respond to > my > > > messages saying that i ran away from him. this is getting > towards > > a > > > worse situation. his parents are also not very supportive n they > > > also cause mental tensions for me in many ways but i neglect > that. > > > now my husband's problem is that i don't gel with my in-laws but > > > instead of taking any initiative to solve it he abuses me and > > makes > > > our life hell. i was staying in gurgaon(haryana) with him and my > > in- > > > laws are in new delhi. they have not even called me to > > > > know what's the problem saying that i didn't inform anyone n > > > eloped from there. but none asks me or listens to me to > understand > > > the whole thing was started by my husband. my parents are asking > > me > > > to leave that guy n get married to someone else who can treat me > > > well but if things work out am ready to go back to my husband.we > > > consulted an astrologer who told there's no use continuing this > as > > > according to astro my husband's character can only become worse > > and > > > he has some physical and psychological disorders as well, which > i > > > think is correct.he tells even if he calls me back, which i > don't > > > expect, i should not go back. can u please tell me what's the > > future > > > of my relationship with this guy. will it end up in divorce? > > please > > > consider it as a major issue and advise me what to do > > > > thanks, > > > > nisha. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Music Unlimited - Access over 1 million songs.Try it > > free. > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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