whats been goin on 4 me~Elektra

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Hi Elektra,

 

I thank you for your honesty, as I have been having similar feelings

to detach myself from my boyfriend. I've read from someone, and it

makes sense to me, that the Godself doesn't want to be distracted.

And certainly relationships can be a distraction, especially in the

past when I tried to do what I thought was best for them, instead of

what is best for me. I've been thinking about this a lot lately. To

me, true love isn't about needing someone. Love then becames a trade;

i'll give you this, if you give me that. If I need a person to give

me something to help me feel complete, and then perhaps at some point

they are no longer able to give it to me, then I'm back to where I

started. I believe Love is more like friendship, and when you forget

the song of your own heart, they can sing it back to you. I think your

question *When I'm complete do I need a man any longer?* is a good

one. I am 19 and have never been married, yet I have an idea and

would say that no, when I am complete, I won't have the feeling of

NEEDING a man, or anyone for that matter. That isn't to say that I

won't WANT human interaction, we are social creatures, but I think

it's important that we find wholeness within ourselves so that we can

better serve our fellow travelers. (I put want and need in caps

because to me, they are two very different ideas.) Anyways, just some

thougthts! I hope I didn't muddy the water too much!

 

Peace, Love, and Light

~Jessica

> Hi Sam,

>

> you know the honest truth is I'm a bit confused right

> now, I have been wanting to seperate from my husband,

> an urge has come over me to be alone.

> And whats more, I have felt myself desire other more

> aggressive masculine's,

> when I married my husband I wasn't whole in some

> respects, now I'm becoming whole I am changing and

> don't know where that leaves us?

> He's my best friend but I don't know if I desire him

> in a sexual way...

> We talk about this openly with one another, so then I

> get more confused as what more can a woman want than

> honesty?

> Sexual passion?

> I have to do alot of surrendering right now as my life

> is in a tizz.

> I hope to fall in love with my husband all over again

> but at the moment I just want to be free.....

> I will just have to keep centered and " feel " what is

> right for me as I grow.

>

> A little personal stuff for you there but it's good to

> talk about it as it's part of the kundalini

> processing.

>

> When I'm complete do I need a man any longer?

>

> Any coments appriciated....

>

> Much love elektra x x x

>

> Bless u too Sam, hope you are feeling better.

>

>

> --- Sam <dallyup52 wrote:

>

> > Ah, those teenage years. Enjoy it. Fall in love

> > with your husband,

> > again. Reach out. What a great and adventureous

> > time.

> >

> > Great to hear from you, as always, Elektra.

> >

> > BlessU

> > Sam

> >

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Elektra, I think you will know what you need to do, and I know that you will figure it out when the time is right! It is okay to want to be alone, to be one. Whenever things change, whether or not we want it, it alters all things to some degree! Give yourself time to grow spiritually and allow the process of the K to happen and then it may lead you to a renewed relationship with your husband. Maybe like Sam said, I think it was Sam, anyway, fall back in love with your husband! Take the time you need to be alone for personal growth, you will know what needs to be done. As for a male companion, apparently you have a very good relationship with your husband. If you can talk openly about him not being sexually attractive to you and he stays and listens and responds in a positive manner, then he loves you unconditionally, and respects you and will respect you for what you feel you will need to do in the end and he will probably support you!

You have someone who you can open up to and that is what is so special about having a companion. Someone to share you ups, your downs, your growths, etc. with. I think it is important to have someone you can count on, while at the same time having your space to be alone. I will have you in my thoughts and prayers! God be with you today and every day! Much Love and Peace for All Eternity...KatherineJessica <jdehne88 wrote: Hi Elektra,I thank you for your honesty, as I have been having similar

feelingsto detach myself from my boyfriend. I've read from someone, and itmakes sense to me, that the Godself doesn't want to be distracted. And certainly relationships can be a distraction, especially in thepast when I tried to do what I thought was best for them, instead ofwhat is best for me. I've been thinking about this a lot lately. Tome, true love isn't about needing someone. Love then becames a trade;i'll give you this, if you give me that. If I need a person to giveme something to help me feel complete, and then perhaps at some pointthey are no longer able to give it to me, then I'm back to where Istarted. I believe Love is more like friendship, and when you forgetthe song of your own heart, they can sing it back to you. I think yourquestion *When I'm complete do I need a man any longer?* is a goodone. I am 19 and have never been married, yet I have an idea andwould say that no, when I am complete, I won't

have the feeling ofNEEDING a man, or anyone for that matter. That isn't to say that Iwon't WANT human interaction, we are social creatures, but I thinkit's important that we find wholeness within ourselves so that we canbetter serve our fellow travelers. (I put want and need in capsbecause to me, they are two very different ideas.) Anyways, just somethougthts! I hope I didn't muddy the water too much! Peace, Love, and Light~Jessica > Hi Sam,> > you know the honest truth is I'm a bit confused right> now, I have been wanting to seperate from my husband,> an urge has come over me to be alone.> And whats more, I have felt myself desire other more> aggressive masculine's, > when I married my husband I wasn't whole in some> respects, now I'm becoming whole I am changing and> don't know where that leaves us?> He's my best friend but I don't know if I desire him>

in a sexual way...> We talk about this openly with one another, so then I> get more confused as what more can a woman want than> honesty?> Sexual passion?> I have to do alot of surrendering right now as my life> is in a tizz.> I hope to fall in love with my husband all over again> but at the moment I just want to be free.....> I will just have to keep centered and "feel" what is> right for me as I grow.> > A little personal stuff for you there but it's good to> talk about it as it's part of the kundalini> processing.> > When I'm complete do I need a man any longer?> > Any coments appriciated....> > Much love elektra x x x> > Bless u too Sam, hope you are feeling better.> > > --- Sam <dallyup52 wrote:> > > Ah, those teenage years. Enjoy it. Fall in love>

> with your husband,> > again. Reach out. What a great and adventureous> > time. > > > > Great to hear from you, as always, Elektra.> > > > BlessU> > Sam> > > > > > > > > ________ > All new Mail "The new Interface is stunning in its simplicityand ease of use." - PC Magazine > http://uk.docs./nowyoucan.html>Love and Peace for Eternity,Katherine

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When I met my husband I had no sex drive or passion,

as my chakras had closed down, I have never felt

desire for him.

We wondered if when my chakras opened I would...

so far I've only felt it for other men, not him.

It doesnt mean I won't.

But , I've got urges rising and things may begin to

open up for me.... And so, when I see my husband

hopefully a chemistry will develope physichally, if

not where does that leave us after 10 years in a

sexless relationship?

How can I want to leave the guy that has been my

doctor in so many ways (his name means the doctor or

judge)

But, he is my best firend, and unconditional love has

been our lesson for sure.

I'm not going to force anything, just remain honest,

open and flowing.

thats the best anyone can do I guess.

 

Love to you Katherine and Jessica, and thankyou,

Elektra x x x

 

 

--- Katherine Miller <katsam19 wrote:

 

> Elektra,

>

> I think you will know what you need to do, and I

> know that you will figure it out when the time is

> right! It is okay to want to be alone, to be one.

> Whenever things change, whether or not we want it,

> it alters all things to some degree! Give yourself

> time to grow spiritually and allow the process of

> the K to happen and then it may lead you to a

> renewed relationship with your husband. Maybe like

> Sam said, I think it was Sam, anyway, fall back in

> love with your husband! Take the time you need to be

> alone for personal growth, you will know what needs

> to be done. As for a male companion, apparently you

> have a very good relationship with your husband. If

> you can talk openly about him not being sexually

> attractive to you and he stays and listens and

> responds in a positive manner, then he loves you

> unconditionally, and respects you and will respect

> you for what you feel you will need to do in the end

> and he will probably support you! You have someone

> who you can open up to and

> that is what is so special about having a

> companion. Someone to share you ups, your downs,

> your growths, etc. with. I think it is important to

> have someone you can count on, while at the same

> time having your space to be alone. I will have you

> in my thoughts and prayers! God be with you today

> and every day! Much Love and Peace for All

> Eternity...Katherine

>

> Jessica <jdehne88 wrote:

> Hi Elektra,

>

> I thank you for your honesty, as I have been having

> similar feelings

> to detach myself from my boyfriend. I've read from

> someone, and it

> makes sense to me, that the Godself doesn't want to

> be distracted.

> And certainly relationships can be a distraction,

> especially in the

> past when I tried to do what I thought was best for

> them, instead of

> what is best for me. I've been thinking about this a

> lot lately. To

> me, true love isn't about needing someone. Love then

> becames a trade;

> i'll give you this, if you give me that. If I need a

> person to give

> me something to help me feel complete, and then

> perhaps at some point

> they are no longer able to give it to me, then I'm

> back to where I

> started. I believe Love is more like friendship, and

> when you forget

> the song of your own heart, they can sing it back to

> you. I think your

> question *When I'm complete do I need a man any

> longer?* is a good

> one. I am 19 and have never been married, yet I have

> an idea and

> would say that no, when I am complete, I won't have

> the feeling of

> NEEDING a man, or anyone for that matter. That isn't

> to say that I

> won't WANT human interaction, we are social

> creatures, but I think

> it's important that we find wholeness within

> ourselves so that we can

> better serve our fellow travelers. (I put want and

> need in caps

> because to me, they are two very different ideas.)

> Anyways, just some

> thougthts! I hope I didn't muddy the water too much!

>

>

> Peace, Love, and Light

> ~Jessica

> > Hi Sam,

> >

> > you know the honest truth is I'm a bit confused

> right

> > now, I have been wanting to seperate from my

> husband,

> > an urge has come over me to be alone.

> > And whats more, I have felt myself desire other

> more

> > aggressive masculine's,

> > when I married my husband I wasn't whole in some

> > respects, now I'm becoming whole I am changing and

> > don't know where that leaves us?

> > He's my best friend but I don't know if I desire

> him

> > in a sexual way...

> > We talk about this openly with one another, so

> then I

> > get more confused as what more can a woman want

> than

> > honesty?

> > Sexual passion?

> > I have to do alot of surrendering right now as my

> life

> > is in a tizz.

> > I hope to fall in love with my husband all over

> again

> > but at the moment I just want to be free.....

> > I will just have to keep centered and " feel " what

> is

> > right for me as I grow.

> >

> > A little personal stuff for you there but it's

> good to

> > talk about it as it's part of the kundalini

> > processing.

> >

> > When I'm complete do I need a man any longer?

> >

> > Any coments appriciated....

> >

> > Much love elektra x x x

> >

> > Bless u too Sam, hope you are feeling better.

> >

> >

> > --- Sam <dallyup52 wrote:

> >

> > > Ah, those teenage years. Enjoy it. Fall in love

> > > with your husband,

> > > again. Reach out. What a great and adventureous

> > > time.

> > >

> > > Great to hear from you, as always, Elektra.

> > >

> > > BlessU

> > > Sam

> > >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

>

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> Katherine

>

>

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