Guest guest Posted January 4, 2007 Report Share Posted January 4, 2007 Hmm...I wonder if this is partly the reason why my relationship has been so tumultuous lately!! I have been rather outbursty, almost manic at times. I can't seem to decide upon anything, and a lot of the time I'm just plain old crabby. Time for lots of baths and soothing music!! > " chrism " <> > > > Emotional Outbreaks! >Fri, 05 Jan 2007 01:08:11 -0000 > > A friend of mine who is K active, called me today. Asking about the >emotional dangers of Kundalini inside a relationship. I thought this >might be a good time to go into it here. > >Many emotional spasms with the Kundalini in regards to a >relationship are attachment based. Being attached to outcomes or >living inside the " fear of loss and want of gain " equation. Being >attached to " being right " or being " in control " . These attachments >can be damaging to a relationship where one partner is K active and >the other isn't. > >As you continue on your path into the Kundalini, no matter where you >are in it, try and nurture a diminished level of attachment. Allow >yourself the freedom of simply not amplifying your ego existence pre- >Kundalini. Kundalini will amplify the ego traits so watch for this. >Being right, being in control, being vindicated, being the winner, >or the loser, being the leader, or the follower, etc. > >Try just being. > >Go outside the societal induced fantasy of social expectation. Be as >you are right now, this moment and feel the joy of complete >unattached freedom. This can have a positive benefit to a >relationship. This is not to say you do not honor the emotions that >will come to the fore in the life you are living. It is the " not >making a decision to respond " in a way that is an outpouring of the >emotion on the partner. Or the self as in self loathing. > >Take a step back from the emotion and decide if you are really >attached to its expression. And if so then how. Sometimes it needs >immediate and abrupt release sometimes not, rarely is it not engaged >in some form of attachment so keep that inner eye fixed on yourself >and what may have its hooks into you from an emotional vantage. - >some thoughts- chrism > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > _______________ Discover Live.ca, the search engine by the creators of Windows Live Messenger http://www.live.com/?mkt=en-ca Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 4, 2007 Report Share Posted January 4, 2007 Here's something to consider. In ancient India and Tibet China and Arabia there were here's something to consider. In ancient India and Tibet China and Arabia there were monasteries and hermitages set aside to train the Kundalini intended on the necessary steps involved in maintaining balance inside a Kundalini activation/Awakening. These guys and gals would go through the needed steps lead by those who had walked the path before them. They developed stages and gradients of information these students would then, when they were ready as deemed by their teachers, would put practice. They rarely left the school in many traditions. The students were forced to meditate and pray and perform service. They were forced to eat only certain foods, meditate in certain ways and perform the tasks given to them by their Masters (teachers). They were schooled in sometimes thousands of years old traditions of metaphysical knowledge. Not so here, now. In the West there are many, many distractions that can confuse and mislead those who come into this experience. There is a medical community that treats this condition with heaviest of drugs. There are micro waves and radio waves and television waves. Long waves and short waves and all manner of frequency generation. There is audible noise. There is visual noise. Foods that are mal- nutritious and water that has been altered by poisonous gases. Air that has been altered by poisonous gases, etc. It is now a very different world for the Kundalini to rise and yet she does rise. All this to say that when dealing with strong emotional K induced phenomena one needs to be very specially focused on what is occurring and how to organize, as best as possible, our ego response when the phenomena threatens to overwhelm. If you experience the loss of a loved one as I have and Katherine has recently it can be very hard on the newly Kundalini Awakened. A person can go into severe emotional trauma. But take a step back from the intensity of the experience and internal step back and allow the grieving process to occur with out becoming so attached to it that it begins to do you instead of you doing it. The Old ways would only allow a certain degree of a grief period and then " It's a new day! " The Tibetans would basically get the time to do the " Prayer for the dead " and then it was business as usual as their knowledge of the afterlife allowed them to know some things for certain. So do your best to not become overwhelmed. Remember the amplification that will occur. Let us here know what is happening with you. Monastaries and hermitages set aside to train the Kundalini intended on the necessary steps involved in maintaining balance inside a Kundalini activation/Awakening. These guys and gals would go through the needed steps lead by those who had walked the path before them. They developed stages and gradients of information these students would then, when they were ready as deemed by their teachers, would put practice. They rarely left the school in many traditions. The students were forced to meditate and pray and perform service. They were forced to eat only certain foods, meditate in certain ways and perform the tasks given to them by their Masters (teachers). They were schooled in sometimes thousands of years old traditions of metaphysical knowledge. Not so here, now. In the West there are many, many distractions that can confuse and mislead those who come into this experience. There is a medical community that treats this condition with heaviest of drugs. There are micro waves and radio waves and television waves. Long waves and short waves and all manner of frequency generation. There is audible noise. There is visual noise. Foods that are mal- nutritious and water that has been altered by poisonous gases. Air that has been altered by poisonous gases, etc. It is now a very different world for the Kundalini to rise and yet she does rise. All this to say that when dealing with strong emotional K induced phenomena one needs to be very specially focused on what is occurring and how to organize, as best as possible, our ego response when the phenomena threatens to overwhelm. If you experience the loss of a loved one as I have and Katherine has recently it can be very hard on the newly Kundalini Awakened. A person can go into severe emotional trauma. But take a step back from the intensity of the experience and internal step back and allow the grieving process to occur with out becoming so attached to it that it begins to do you instead of you doing it. The Old ways would only allow a certain degree of a grief period and then " It's a new day! " The Tibetans would basically get the time to do the " Prayer for the dead " and then it was business as usual as their knowledge of the afterlife allowed them to know some things for certain. So do your best to not become overwhelmed. Remember the amplification that will occur. Let us here know what is happening with you. Stay with us and communicate. - Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 4, 2007 Report Share Posted January 4, 2007 Sorry folks my computer functions are going on and off by themselves and repeating and well this is a Kundalini thing aswell - c chrism <> wrote: Here's something to consider. In ancient India and Tibet China and Arabia there were here's something to consider. In ancient India and Tibet China and Arabia there were monasteries and hermitages set aside to train the Kundalini intended on the necessary steps involved in maintaining balance inside a Kundalini activation/Awakening. These guys and gals would go through the needed steps lead by those who had walked the path before them. They developed stages and gradients of information these students would then, when they were ready as deemed by their teachers, would put practice. They rarely left the school in many traditions. The students were forced to meditate and pray and perform service. They were forced to eat only certain foods, meditate in certain ways and perform the tasks given to them by their Masters (teachers). They were schooled in sometimes thousands of years old traditions of metaphysical knowledge. Not so here, now. In the West there are many, many distractions that can confuse and mislead those who come into this experience. There is a medical community that treats this condition with heaviest of drugs. There are micro waves and radio waves and television waves. Long waves and short waves and all manner of frequency generation. There is audible noise. There is visual noise. Foods that are mal- nutritious and water that has been altered by poisonous gases. Air that has been altered by poisonous gases, etc. It is now a very different world for the Kundalini to rise and yet she does rise. All this to say that when dealing with strong emotional K induced phenomena one needs to be very specially focused on what is occurring and how to organize, as best as possible, our ego response when the phenomena threatens to overwhelm. If you experience the loss of a loved one as I have and Katherine has recently it can be very hard on the newly Kundalini Awakened. A person can go into severe emotional trauma. But take a step back from the intensity of the experience and internal step back and allow the grieving process to occur with out becoming so attached to it that it begins to do you instead of you doing it. The Old ways would only allow a certain degree of a grief period and then " It's a new day! " The Tibetans would basically get the time to do the " Prayer for the dead " and then it was business as usual as their knowledge of the afterlife allowed them to know some things for certain. So do your best to not become overwhelmed. Remember the amplification that will occur. Let us here know what is happening with you. Monastaries and hermitages set aside to train the Kundalini intended on the necessary steps involved in maintaining balance inside a Kundalini activation/Awakening. These guys and gals would go through the needed steps lead by those who had walked the path before them. They developed stages and gradients of information these students would then, when they were ready as deemed by their teachers, would put practice. They rarely left the school in many traditions. The students were forced to meditate and pray and perform service. They were forced to eat only certain foods, meditate in certain ways and perform the tasks given to them by their Masters (teachers). They were schooled in sometimes thousands of years old traditions of metaphysical knowledge. Not so here, now. In the West there are many, many distractions that can confuse and mislead those who come into this experience. There is a medical community that treats this condition with heaviest of drugs. There are micro waves and radio waves and television waves. Long waves and short waves and all manner of frequency generation. There is audible noise. There is visual noise. Foods that are mal- nutritious and water that has been altered by poisonous gases. Air that has been altered by poisonous gases, etc. It is now a very different world for the Kundalini to rise and yet she does rise. All this to say that when dealing with strong emotional K induced phenomena one needs to be very specially focused on what is occurring and how to organize, as best as possible, our ego response when the phenomena threatens to overwhelm. If you experience the loss of a loved one as I have and Katherine has recently it can be very hard on the newly Kundalini Awakened. A person can go into severe emotional trauma. But take a step back from the intensity of the experience and internal step back and allow the grieving process to occur with out becoming so attached to it that it begins to do you instead of you doing it. The Old ways would only allow a certain degree of a grief period and then " It's a new day! " The Tibetans would basically get the time to do the " Prayer for the dead " and then it was business as usual as their knowledge of the afterlife allowed them to know some things for certain. So do your best to not become overwhelmed. Remember the amplification that will occur. Let us here know what is happening with you. Stay with us and communicate. - Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 5, 2007 Report Share Posted January 5, 2007 you can say that again! love, -steve f Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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