Emotional Outbreaks!

[Guest guest]

A friend of mine who is K active, called me today. Asking about the

emotional dangers of Kundalini inside a relationship. I thought this

might be a good time to go into it here.

 

Many emotional spasms with the Kundalini in regards to a

relationship are attachment based. Being attached to outcomes or

living inside the " fear of loss and want of gain " equation. Being

attached to " being right " or being " in control " . These attachments

can be damaging to a relationship where one partner is K active and

the other isn't.

 

As you continue on your path into the Kundalini, no matter where you

are in it, try and nurture a diminished level of attachment. Allow

yourself the freedom of simply not amplifying your ego existence pre-

Kundalini. Kundalini will amplify the ego traits so watch for this.

Being right, being in control, being vindicated, being the winner,

or the loser, being the leader, or the follower, etc.

 

Try just being.

 

Go outside the societal induced fantasy of social expectation. Be as

you are right now, this moment and feel the joy of complete

unattached freedom. This can have a positive benefit to a

relationship. This is not to say you do not honor the emotions that

will come to the fore in the life you are living. It is the " not

making a decision to respond " in a way that is an outpouring of the

emotion on the partner. Or the self as in self loathing.

 

Take a step back from the emotion and decide if you are really

attached to its expression. And if so then how. Sometimes it needs

immediate and abrupt release sometimes not, rarely is it not engaged

in some form of attachment so keep that inner eye fixed on yourself

and what may have its hooks into you from an emotional vantage. -

some thoughts- chrism