Guest guest Posted March 9, 2007 Report Share Posted March 9, 2007 Hi Rauri, I feel for your situation and I know only too well that when emotions are strong it is hard to find a way out of the cycle, even if people give wonderful advice it's not that easy as we feel so much. If I was in your situation I would focus on loving the friend unconditionally anytime I think of them, just to say I love you. Even if you have parted ways, it doesn't mean that you can't still love her, you don't have to feel awkward then. After a while ( and it usually takes a long while) it will get better. She just can't understand something and she is fearful. She is not a bad person, she is just reacting. Nothing personal towards you as a being. Spend time with other friends, or alone. You attract like minded individuals, sometimes old friends have to go to make way for new, like minded people to come in. Then, if the old friends vibration begins to resonate with yours again they will naturally return. It's all about the vibes. I hope you find peace again, I wish you blessings. Elektra x x x The all-new Mail goes wherever you go - free your email address from your Internet provider. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 9, 2007 Report Share Posted March 9, 2007 Rauri, I am truly sorry to read that you are going through a difficult situation and only wish that I could help in some way to relieve the anxieties your are suffering. I think that Elektra has offered some very good advise and I fully agree with her in having unconditional love for your friend regardless of whether or not you are talking to her. Consciously tell her how much you care about her and that you do have unconditional love for her when ever she comes to your mind and feel at peace when you do. Like Elektra said it will take time for it to get better for you. As Elektra said she isn't a bad person, she is just fearful and although most people are more open to those who have special gifts, it is easier to accept at a far distance than it is to be close. It isn't you, it is her being able to accept your gifts out of fear. Like Elektra said sometimes you have to separate from those you are close to when change occurs to make room for others. Listen to what Elektra tells you because she is right in my opinion. Bless you Rauri, stay on your path and grow! You are a wonderful person with extraordinary gifts. Peace be with you my friend. Love, Katherine Elektra Fire <elektra.fire wrote: Hi Rauri, I feel for your situation and I know only too well that when emotions are strong it is hard to find a way out of the cycle, even if people give wonderful advice it's not that easy as we feel so much. If I was in your situation I would focus on loving the friend unconditionally anytime I think of them, just to say I love you. Even if you have parted ways, it doesn't mean that you can't still love her, you don't have to feel awkward then. After a while ( and it usually takes a long while) it will get better. She just can't understand something and she is fearful. She is not a bad person, she is just reacting. Nothing personal towards you as a being. Spend time with other friends, or alone. You attract like minded individuals, sometimes old friends have to go to make way for new, like minded people to come in. Then, if the old friends vibration begins to resonate with yours again they will naturally return. It's all about the vibes. I hope you find peace again, I wish you blessings. Elektra x x x The all-new Mail goes wherever you go - free your email address from your Internet provider. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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