Forgiveness rauri

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Thank you Elektra,

 

As ever I feel warmed by your blessings and your thoughts are very

helpful for me. Because I have such a fluid sense of self and reality

sometimes, I do find it very helpful for me to get other people's

inputs on situations sometimes as it helps me to see more clearly. May

be I have been slipping into a perspective where I was holding on too

tightly to this situation and the need for it to be resolved. And

actually I am starting to see that I cannot resolve this situation,

all I can do is resolve to hold myself in right attitude towards it

and her and try to let go of my hopes and expectations.

 

I think I will try that when I think of her I remind myself that open

acceptance is what I can feel for her, regardless of whether or not

she feels that too. I remember reading somewhere once that Love given

with hope or expectation of return, is no true Love at all....

 

peace and blessings,

Ruari

xx

 

, Elektra Fire

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> Hi Rauri,

> I feel for your situation and I know only too well that when

emotions are strong it is hard to find a way out of the cycle, even if

people give wonderful advice it's not that easy as we feel so much.

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> If I was in your situation I would focus on loving the friend

unconditionally anytime I think of them, just to say I love you. Even

if you have parted ways, it doesn't mean that you can't still love

her, you don't have to feel awkward then. After a while ( and it

usually takes a long while) it will get better. She just can't

understand something and she is fearful. She is not a bad person, she

is just reacting. Nothing personal towards you as a being.

> Spend time with other friends, or alone. You attract like minded

individuals, sometimes old friends have to go to make way for new,

like minded people to come in. Then, if the old friends vibration

begins to resonate with yours again they will naturally return. It's

all about the vibes.

> I hope you find peace again, I wish you blessings.

> Elektra x x x

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