Guest guest Posted April 17, 2007 Report Share Posted April 17, 2007 Hello, Like Valarie, I guess I have the same problem with a husband who will not accept any of this and I know I can't change him, probably because he is not ready, neither my family will be supportive, I think that new ideas scares some people and prompt them to reject new ways of seeing things and you simply can't blame anyone if he is not ready. I didn't think that it is important to tell the spouse about what is going on or what might happen in case of a bloquage in the K's path, I am keeping everything to myself and going through it all in like a private way, but couldn't hide the headache after the last week of the scaterfield, it was so intense I was bed ridden for three days, no medication helped (not talking about aleve or advil but the heavy kind of meds), and what scared my husband is that my head was boiling, I felt like Claudia said that I was going to burst into flames. I have no problem with the safeties, they are a part of my day to day life, especially the forgivness part, I don't put too much focus on any harm doing, I just let things flow, I have learned that it brings more peace with oneself, neither have problems with the hydration and have decreased my coffee intake, plus doing the tibetans and the nostril breathing, that is about it I guess, " peace of cake " !!! @@ Kundalini isn't typically soft and fuzzy. Yes it can be very joyous and blissful and wondrous and beautiful. It can also be painful, if the blocks are not cleared and the forgiveness' not done or any of a number of scenarios that can arise to make the journey more challenging. Kundalini can whip your body around like you are a rag doll. Really. @@ It so scares me when I read this, and assure myself that I am practicing my safeties, so no harms will be done, I can tolerate pain very well, but the headache is a calvary for me, for I was a migraine sufferer for 25 looong years, even though the migraine pain is different from the K headache but it is still a headache..... " BTW havent had a headache since you pulled away the scaterfield 17 days ago " this is the only point where I question myself about my readiness knowing that I am so excited to be on that path and happy to be experiencing many of the K traits, like the dots of light wich I am used to see long before my knowing of the K I used to call them " midday stars " , the heat sensation and the tingling especially in my head, the dark object in the periferal vision, weird dreams, ringing in the ears etc.... On second thought, is it my ignorance that scares me when I read that.. @@Kundalini can whip your body around like you are a rag doll. Really. @@ Your opinion and advices are most valued, thanks for your time and help and most of all for your unconditional love. Have a blessed day, Marie LLama Gratis a cualquier PC del Mundo. Llamadas a fijos y móviles desde 1 céntimo por minuto. http://es.voice. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 17, 2007 Report Share Posted April 17, 2007 Hi, I am new to this web group. Here I am agonizing about courage to say " no I am unavailable " to traveling with a work team in the end of June knowing I would be sharing a room. LOL The person I am sleeping with or in a room with definitely notices something is happening. (if you move near them, if you move into some pose while in bed near them, if you stop moving for a very long time while in bed near them, if you stop moving in some pose while you are not asleep- and are in bed near them- your spouse will notice that. If you vocalize anything while in bed with them. Suddenly they may think you have interesting dream or move & talk in your sleep and have become a very restless sleeper.) When you wrote: 'I didn't think it was important to tell the spouse what is going on " well anyone around you will notice movements. Like sitting up in bed or sleepingwith your arms out in the air or jerking in your sleep or movements. Totally a 'restless sleeper " all of a sudden. Hm. hotflashing? too. Explainations get limited. Timing is everything. In the beginning of this process I had wanted to get closer to my husband so had just purchased a new, expensive SMALLER b ed. I would suggest if you don't want to share at this time sleeping in the largest possible sized bed so your restlessness won't bother your spouse. As if either of you had chronic health problems or pain where you'd want to not jostle them. One question: does this thing spread? After this time, now my spouse can feel energy with his hands. He can feel the distance out my energy is from me. And he can feel energy moving at other times we are together now. I talked out many things and issues that came up as energy or blockages happen- fresh emotional processing =with my spouse. So we shared emotionally instead of being further apart. Love abound & surround you - R cielito <cielitolindo29566 wrote: Hello, Like Valarie, I guess I have the same problem with a husband who will not accept any of this and I know I can't change him, probably because he is not ready, neither my family will be supportive, I think that new ideas scares some people and prompt them to reject new ways of seeing things and you simply can't blame anyone if he is not ready. I didn't think that it is important to tell the spouse about what is going on or what might happen in case of a bloquage in the K's path, I am keeping everything to myself and going through it all in like a private way, but couldn't hide the headache after the last week of the scaterfield, it was so intense I was bed ridden for three days, no medication helped (not talking about aleve or advil but the heavy kind of meds), and what scared my husband is that my head was boiling, I felt like Claudia said that I was going to burst into flames. I have no problem with the safeties, they are a part of my day to day life, especially the forgivness part, I don't put too much focus on any harm doing, I just let things flow, I have learned that it brings more peace with oneself, neither have problems with the hydration and have decreased my coffee intake, plus doing the tibetans and the nostril breathing, that is about it I guess, " peace of cake " !!! @@ Kundalini isn't typically soft and fuzzy. Yes it can be very joyous and blissful and wondrous and beautiful. It can also be painful, if the blocks are not cleared and the forgiveness' not done or any of a number of scenarios that can arise to make the journey more challenging. Kundalini can whip your body around like you are a rag doll. Really. @@ It so scares me when I read this, and assure myself that I am practicing my safeties, so no harms will be done, I can tolerate pain very well, but the headache is a calvary for me, for I was a migraine sufferer for 25 looong years, even though the migraine pain is different from the K headache but it is still a headache..... " BTW havent had a headache since you pulled away the scaterfield 17 days ago " this is the only point where I question myself about my readiness knowing that I am so excited to be on that path and happy to be experiencing many of the K traits, like the dots of light wich I am used to see long before my knowing of the K I used to call them " midday stars " , the heat sensation and the tingling especially in my head, the dark object in the periferal vision, weird dreams, ringing in the ears etc.... On second thought, is it my ignorance that scares me when I read that.. @@Kundalini can whip your body around like you are a rag doll. Really. @@ Your opinion and advices are most valued, thanks for your time and help and most of all for your unconditional love. Have a blessed day, Marie LLama Gratis a cualquier PC del Mundo. Llamadas a fijos y móviles desde 1 céntimo por minuto. http://es.voice. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 18, 2007 Report Share Posted April 18, 2007 Hello Marie, Yes it can be difficult to keep to yourself as the symptoms can at times be very expressive. Not impossible though. Even though you cannot put the " Genie back in the bottle " you can give your spouse information that can allow a certain degree of acceptance. Tell him you may in the near future be experiencing a series of symptoms and then give him some Kundalini symptoms. If he cannot have or hold the concept of Kundalini then call it a life change event or some other condition with similar symptoms. Do your best to be as truthful as you can be with in the constraints of what you feel is appropriate to the situation. You do not need to mention the word " Kundalini " . This may give you the freedom to have this expression with in you and allow your spouse to be comforted in believing it is a " known " condition and therefore not something to fear. But do not let him suggest drugs for control. Tell him it is a natural process that takes time. - just my take on this - chrism , cielito <cielitolindo29566 wrote: > > Hello, > Like Valarie, I guess I have the same problem with a husband who will not accept any of this and I know I can't change him, probably because he is not ready, neither my family will be supportive, I think that new ideas scares some people and prompt them to reject new ways of seeing things and you simply can't blame anyone if he is not ready. > I didn't think that it is important to tell the spouse about what is going on or what might happen in case of a bloquage in the K's path, I am keeping everything to myself and going through it all in like a private way, but couldn't hide the headache after the last week of the scaterfield, it was so intense I was bed ridden for three days, no medication helped (not talking about aleve or advil but the heavy kind of meds), and what scared my husband is that my head was boiling, I felt like Claudia said that I was going to burst into flames. > I have no problem with the safeties, they are a part of my day to day life, especially the forgivness part, I don't put too much focus on any harm doing, I just let things flow, I have learned that it brings more peace with oneself, neither have problems with the hydration and have decreased my coffee intake, plus doing the tibetans and the nostril breathing, that is about it I guess, " peace of cake " !!! > > @@ Kundalini isn't typically soft and fuzzy. Yes it can be very joyous > and blissful and wondrous and beautiful. It can also be painful, if > the blocks are not cleared and the forgiveness' not done or any of a > number of scenarios that can arise to make the journey more > challenging. > Kundalini can whip your body around like you are a rag doll. Really. @@ > > It so scares me when I read this, and assure myself that I am practicing my safeties, so no harms will be done, I can tolerate pain very well, but the headache is a calvary for me, for I was a migraine sufferer for 25 looong years, even though the migraine pain is different from the K headache but it is still a headache..... " BTW havent had a headache since you pulled away the scaterfield 17 days ago " this is the only point where I question myself about my readiness knowing that I am so excited to be on that path and happy to be experiencing many of the K traits, like the dots of light wich I am used to see long before my knowing of the K I used to call them " midday stars " , the heat sensation and the tingling especially in my head, the dark object in the periferal vision, weird dreams, ringing in the ears etc.... > On second thought, is it my ignorance that scares me when I read that.. @@Kundalini can whip your body around like you are a rag doll. Really. @@ > > > Your opinion and advices are most valued, thanks for your time and help and most of all for your unconditional love. > > Have a blessed day, > Marie > > > > > > LLama Gratis a cualquier PC del Mundo. > Llamadas a fijos y móviles desde 1 céntimo por minuto. > http://es.voice. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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