My Challenge - could use opinions/Sarita

[Guest guest]

I think you will rebuild back into love after she's settled in her

new home. Things were manifested to release. And with some distance

between you again, there will be a new relationship and new

boundaries will have been set. You have been gracious and I'm so glad

there is light at the end of the tunnel now. Soon you can take a deep

breath and let the healing begin. I really got a lot out of Droxine's

comments. I think there was a alot there to use in your situation and

I certainly got a lot out of it as well.

 

Blessings, Sarita. Good things will come.

Valarie

 

, " Sarita "

<sarita1969 wrote:

>

> I could never ask her to leave, which was part of the problem. But

I

> did start praying for the best possible outcome for all of us and

> within a few weeks she sold her house AND found a house to buy! I

am

> grateful for the good things that have happened, it is just so hard

> for me to feel this way about my mother. I am hoping we can

rebuild

> after she moves.

>

> Sarita

>

> , Elektra Fire

> <elektra.fire@> wrote:

> >

> > You poor thing, I really sympathise with you.

> > I was going to say ask her to leave but thank god for

> > small mercies she's leaving soon anyway!!

> > That would drive me INSANE.

> > When our parents do things like that it's sad because

> > we want to love and respect and honour them but we do

> > need the same in return.

> > So, you just hang in there, be patient, take some deep

> > breathes,

> > and remember the good mojo!!!

> > love and hugs Elektra x x x

>

[Guest guest]

Thanks Valarie! I guess without challenges, there would be no reward

in expansion, we would have no reason to reach higher. I just have to

keep saying that to myself when my mother is doing her thing! LOL

 

Sarita

 

, " vjvousden "

<vjvousden wrote:

>

> I think you will rebuild back into love after she's settled in her

> new home.