My Challenge - could use opinions-Sarita

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Hi, Sarita,

 

I believe you have done very well with difficult

circumstances. I understand how it would be hard for

you to ask your mother to leave, and that may not have

been the 'right' thing to do. Instead, you turned it

over to God and look at the results: the best possible

outcome for all of you. Just wait, once your mother

is happily ensconced in her new home, you will move

past the negative feelings that developed and I

believe the atmosphere will be just perfect for a

mending and rebuilding of your relationship with her.

 

You handled the challenge in a spiritual way, and I

commend you, dear Sarita!

 

Claudia

 

--- Sarita <sarita1969 wrote:

 

> I could never ask her to leave, which was part of

> the problem. But I

> did start praying for the best possible outcome for

> all of us and

> within a few weeks she sold her house AND found a

> house to buy! I am

> grateful for the good things that have happened, it

> is just so hard

> for me to feel this way about my mother. I am

> hoping we can rebuild

> after she moves.

>

> Sarita

>

> --- In

> ,

> Elektra Fire

> <elektra.fire wrote:

> >

> > You poor thing, I really sympathise with you.

> > I was going to say ask her to leave but thank god

> for

> > small mercies she's leaving soon anyway!!

> > That would drive me INSANE.

> > When our parents do things like that it's sad

> because

> > we want to love and respect and honour them but we

> do

> > need the same in return.

> > So, you just hang in there, be patient, take some

> deep

> > breathes,

> > and remember the good mojo!!!

> > love and hugs Elektra x x x

>

>

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