update on my Uncle Dennis-to Claudia

[Guest guest]

Thanks so much, Claudia,

Thanks for all of your comforting words. They [he & his wife & kids]

say that they can feel all the prayers. Everyone here is so wonderful for the

prayers and energy they've been sending. It's giving the family a peaceful

feeling.

I keep thinking like this - what will I do and how will I live, knowing that he

is not here, in the physical? What will it be like? Will it be like he's just

lost..just gone? Can I still communicate with him through even when he's in the

non-physical form? What if I have another out-of-body-experience like the one

where I found myself in the spirit world and saw the spirits gliding, and walked

through them?...Will I recognize him? If I call to him, will he know who I am?

These are all the questions running through my mind right now, as I feel like my

awareness is being turned and turned to the non-physical reality through him. I

think I ought to be sharing my experiences with him - being as though I've been

on that other side, and seen how wonderful it is..that I ought to be his peace.

He already has peace though, and I'm the one who's a wreck. I'll be able to

transfer my awareness and pull myself together. They don't want any visitors, I

think because he feels so

weak, so I will most likely never see him again. I have his photo in one of my

files on the computer, from last year when he performed the marriage ceremony

for my mother's second wedding. I might try to use the picture as a focal point,

and try to go out-of-body to see him . I know that if I just meditate, I'll be

able to transfer my awareness and pull myself together. Thanks for all the

encouragement. It means a lot.

Love and blessings,

Tara

xoxo

 

Claudia Lambright <newtfoodbowl wrote:

Hello, Tara,

 

I know this is sad for you, but know that your uncle

knows it is his time to go.

 

It's interesting how people, when their time is near,

have an inner 'knowing' of that and accept it with

peace and clarity. My father in law was like that.

He had pulmonary fibrosis during the last 4 years of

his long life. The doctor had given him months to

live. My husband went home to help his mother through

his father's demise and death. Then, he had a sort of

remission! Although he was on oxygen, for three

years, he was feeling good, able to get around the

house and go out on his front porch and sit in his

rocker, which was one of his favorite things to do.

It was such a wonderful time for his family to have

that 'last hurrah' with him! Then, just as abruptly,

he began to decine. He was having panic spells in

which he was extremely short of breath, and he had to

be talked through them, be instructed to relax and

focus on breathing and not panic. This went on for

about 4 months and was extremely draining on my mother

in law. By this time, my husband and I had moved to

Brunswick, where his parents live, and were living

next door to them. Then, one day, I went next door to

visit my in laws and my mother in law told me that my

father in law had asked to be taken to the hospice.

She was so stressed out and surprised by his request

that she actually asked me what she should do! We

called my husband, who came home from work, and we

took Ed, my father in law, to the hospice.

 

He was there for exactly one week. One week later, he

passed quietly and gently from this world.

 

I believe that the day that Ed asked to be taken to

the hospice, he knew that it was his time was just

around the corner. He also recognized the toll that

his declining condition was taking on his wife. The

week he spent at the hospice was painless and

peaceful. As the American Indians would say about a

passing like this one, it was a good death.

 

Tara, your uncle knows that you love him. Pray for

his gentle passage and know that he is in peace. An

anticipated and nonviolent death is a blessing, and is

actually celebrated on the spiritual plane, as those

who have passed celebrate the impending arrival of

another soul. A wonderful continuation of life on the

spiritual plane is awating your uncle.

 

I posted this book reference to the OBE Newsletter

group once, and I'll share it with my friends here,

too. There is a wonderful book, A Psychic in the

Heartland, by Bettilu Stein Faulkner, about a psychic

osteopath, the author's uncle. In one chapter,

Faulkner relays the psychic's description of the

passing of his aunt. As a psychic, he was able to see

the non-physical body hovering over the physical body

as the latter died, and the passing of life energy

from the phys body into the spirit body through the

silver cord. Reading that chapter gave me chills and

brought tears of joy to my eyes. The entire book is

just wonderful, and I highly recommend it, and

especially chapter 5.

 

I have been praying for your uncle, Tara, and I will

continue to do so. I will pray for his peaceful

passing and for God's blessings on you and your

family.

 

Blessings & much love,

Claudia

 

--- tara jacoby <tjmassage7777 wrote:

 

> Hi everyone,

> Well, I received an email from my cousin

> tonight, and it really made me cry.

> She said that my uncle [her dad] has become

> extremely weak, and rarely gets out of bed anymore.

> She said that he still enjoys holding conversations,

> and is very clear-minded and sharp, but that the

> body is giving up. She said she and her mother and

> siblings have decided to bring hospice into their

> home at this point. They are asking family and

> friends to refrain from calling the house, because

> they are trying to adjust to this 'new environment',

> and would like to give him as smooth a transition

> as possible.

> I thought about how distraught I've been over it,

> and how seemingly cool, calm and collected they have

> become. Though all my tears, I was able to

> understand how they must deal with this. They said

> they can feel all the prayers throughout the house,

> and are very thankful, and feel so very blessed to

> have them.

> Thank you.

> Love and blessings,

> Tara

>

>

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[Guest guest]

Hey Tara,

 

There are lots of great informative books out there now on past lives

and the state between lives. More than enough to convince myself and

many others of the 'reality' of this. Take comfort in them.

 

For me, I am sure your Uncle can feel your love for him. And I am sure

you will be with him again in one form or another soon enough. The

illusion of the years until that moment is but a blink of an eye.

Myself and others are sending him love and light (and you) to assist in

his transition. I hope you can relax and be at peace. It will likely

help him.

 

My grandmother went over recently, I just took comfort in knowing her

pain was over. I look forward to seeing her again and believe very

strongly she is with me whenever I think of her. The more you can start

to believe it and let go, the easier it will become. More of my

relatives may pass fairly soon too, but I just know that it's okay. It

is not the end. We are much more than these physical bodies.

 

I know you know all these things and more. Yet I hope it helped that I

said them. Lol, maybe it helped me more!

 

Be at peace,

 

bradly

 

 

They don't want any visitors, I think because he feels so

> weak, so I will most likely never see him again. I have his photo in

one of my files on the computer, from last year when he performed the

marriage ceremony for my mother's second wedding. I might try to use

the picture as a focal point, and try to go out-of-body to see him . I

know that if I just meditate, I'll be able to transfer my awareness and

pull myself together. Thanks for all the encouragement. It means a lot.

> Love and blessings,

> Tara

> xoxo

>

[Guest guest]

Tara, maybe you could just send him one of your poems or letters,

since you cannot go for a visit. Make him a beautiful cratfed card.

 

CC

 

, " curball2002 "

<curball2002 wrote:

>

> Hey Tara,

>

> There are lots of great informative books out there now on past

lives

> and the state between lives. More than enough to convince myself

and

> many others of the 'reality' of this. Take comfort in them.

>

> For me, I am sure your Uncle can feel your love for him. And I am

sure

> you will be with him again in one form or another soon enough. The

> illusion of the years until that moment is but a blink of an eye.

> Myself and others are sending him love and light (and you) to

assist in

> his transition. I hope you can relax and be at peace. It will

likely

> help him.

>

> My grandmother went over recently, I just took comfort in knowing

her

> pain was over. I look forward to seeing her again and believe very

> strongly she is with me whenever I think of her. The more you can

start

> to believe it and let go, the easier it will become. More of my

> relatives may pass fairly soon too, but I just know that it's okay.

It

> is not the end. We are much more than these physical bodies.

>

> I know you know all these things and more. Yet I hope it helped

that I

> said them. Lol, maybe it helped me more!

>

> Be at peace,

>

> bradly

>

>

> They don't want any visitors, I think because he feels so

> > weak, so I will most likely never see him again. I have his

photo in

> one of my files on the computer, from last year when he performed

the

> marriage ceremony for my mother's second wedding. I might try to

use

> the picture as a focal point, and try to go out-of-body to see

him . I

> know that if I just meditate, I'll be able to transfer my awareness

and

> pull myself together. Thanks for all the encouragement. It means a

lot.

> > Love and blessings,

> > Tara

> > xoxo

> >

>