Guest guest Posted May 28, 2007 Report Share Posted May 28, 2007 Yes Rodney I hear you. It isn't as easy as the distance one has when forgiving long time ago memories. Or of recent slights when it hits so close to home in such egregious manner. So take it slow and let that one alone for a time. That is not a mountain that is ready to be climbed at this time so do the forgiving that you can do " now " and be complete and comfortable with it. This is why I stipulate that it isn't a one day deal. It takes practice and honesty and diligence. And strength. It's not an easy proposition but the fact that you are even going there and trying should send you the message that this will be done eventually. Make no mistake about it. It is very important to do these actions. And it is an action. Just as you put your car into drive or open a door to your home it is an action that takes a premeditated course of reason to accomplish. So do these forgiveness's. One other thing to note here. There is justice. In our lives the actions that are taken in the hurting or helping of another is paid for and rewarded for no matter your involvement in the meting out of such justice. That isn't our job. Our job is to be able to forgive and move forward, accept and move forward, with grace and the gifts that come with grace. You are well on your way Rodney! - no worries. - Kundalini-Awakening-Systems- 1 , " rodneyderbyshire " <rodneyderbyshire wrote: > > Hi group > I am struggling with forgiving,I have gone back through my life > and forgiven everything that needs forgiving. > My problem is that I can forgive now this minute and really mean > it.Tomorrow I will think of one particular incident, and I will get > angry and want revenge or justice.Briefly,my wife was run down by two > car thieves as they were getting away.These things happen aqnd I can > forgive them.What I struggle with is, the owner of the car was on his > car phone when they dragged him out,and his boss taped their > conversation as they drove away.The thief who was driving laughingly > admitted to his partner that he ran her down on purpose.This is > difficult to forgive.I ask myself what will my reactions be if I EVER > FIND OUT WHO THEY ARE.I would like to think that I would tell them > that we forgive them,genuinly. > When I see her limping,I think bad thoughts. > > Love > Rod > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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